Anyone here discouraged from even trying to get a girlfriend?

>>37913403
HTF do you end up like this? Not to be Chad but HTF do you manage to not have confidence in that situation?

How incel are you really?

Maybe I'm just optimistic but I've had some success in the past and I know with more effort I could get a gf again (pls no bully). I'm nothing close to your success. Short and only a bit richer than average.

If I get a gf, assuming such a thing is possible, it wouldn't end well. I'm too emotionally starved and I'm a clingy fucker and I'd probably be cheated on or something. Idk, it's not really worth it. I don't see it going well at all.

>>37913512
It's quite circumstantial. I was working in the Bay Area tech scene. There are many like me, not enough women to go around and the ones there think they're 9s when they're actually 6s.

>>37913560
I feel the same way. It gets deeper though. A rejection from one girl might as well be a rejection from the entire female gender. Without other girls to like you, how will any girl know you are desirable? This may be generalizing too much but women do seem to have this hive mind and collectively know which men are of breeding stock and which are not.

>>37913403
>The sexual market mirrors this hidden truth, that there are many incels largely ignored by society, and effectively all women.
Yeah, I think it's more common than most people believe. Being a virgin is highly stigmatized and embarrassing for men. Most men would not admit it.

>>37913403
I had girls interested in me in high school and college but I imagined asking them it and there were so many things doubts that I just went home and fapped and played games. As you say porn and vidya are just too powerful for introverts

>>37913996
Oh god that post is a mess. Don't do drugs, kids

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I've been down the path of having a girlfriend, and it was not a good one

>meet girl, she seems to like me
>spends time doing things with me
>things like eating, drinking, dancing, shopping, touring museums (all on my dime)
>she, in turn, provides me the ability to touch her without screaming for the police
>girl continuously expects me to do better and better, while providing nothing in return
>by the end of it, I had spent close to 2k on jewelry for her, which she usually did not wear when I saw her
>she leaves me for a new man, claims that he "understands her", and deletes all Facebook photos of me and her
>he rapes her, she drops out of college and quits her job so she can move in with her mother and cry about it
>she didn't remove the pictures of him and her on Facebook, still has him added as a friend

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>>37913403
Go for the fatties, Ask all fat ladies out. Eventually, you'll get laid.

>>37915801
Fat girls also want Chad, not their male equivalent.

>>37915801
I'm disguisingtly ugly and have a small dick and even fat girls treat me like shit on their shoe

>>37914850
fuck that bitch. It'd hard to move on after a bad relationship. It took me a year after my last one and I lost all motivation to even try again. I just got into a relationship though and im pretty optimistic about it. Don't give up, anon.

I have no option but to give up. Once you're out of college there is literally no way to meet girls, at least in my situation. I work with 95% men, I have no friends or social circle, I do not have anyone to go out with (and even if I did, I still can't talk to women). I tried tinder, 0 matches. I also live in a shitty small town where any girl over 22 that still lives here already has kids or is fat as fuck or is a pill/heroin addict. What choice do I even have?

I met with my friends, 3 couples really, and they laughed at our other friend who actually lost his virginity to his to be wife at 22. I wonder if they know I'm a wizard.

As white collar I also hate the amount of taxes it goes to support whores, it's such an offensive idea that I have to pay for their birth control.