Don't fall in love...

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>>37887465
>he fell for the meme love

>>37887511
>implying we can control it

I feel like I have the opposite problem. I got a gf finally. She loves me and everything but I honestly can't feel like I love her. I just tell her I love her to avoid drama/it feels like the correct thing to say because it happens on tv.

Same with my pets and family. They all just exist. I noticed it when the older people in my life started dying. I didn't feel anything when they died.

I think its aspergers (diagnosed) I just can't feel that emotionally attached.

>>37887549
Take a drive and clear your head.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-DP3dwP4OZ0

>>37887465
No fucking shit
Only people who have an exuse to know this are young/ experienced

>>37887638
I think it's more than aspergers lol

>>37887465
>be in love with the same girl since 2011

end me, please

>>37887824
What do you think it is?

>inb4 :^) sociopath/some other edgy meme brain problem

I'm not an asshole I just don't have strong emotions.

>>37888203
I think that you should stop by >>>/adv/ :) because they can help.

>>37888203
You probably have some childhood trauma, severe depression, or literal sociopath tendencies.

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>>37887465
>tfw was fucked up at least ten times
What is wrong with me?

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>>37887465
I'll note it, thanks.

>>37887549
You stupid fuck dick sucking maggot. You have the power to love someone or stop loving someone. Falling in love is bullshit and irresponsible. Control yourself you bitch.

>>37888381
t. bitter Chad that never loved someone

>>37887638
You are literally Meursault. Have you read L'Etranger, by Albert Camus ?

>>37888381
If you really believe that, you have never fallen in love.

>>37888462
Camus-senpai, best waifu.

>>37887511
>have a female friend
>she is visiting me at my apartment
>feel this sensation which I think people call falling in love.
>after she leaves I just say to myself that she would never love me and the sensation was gone
later I tried to kiss her but got friendzoned hard. now I feel really sad and want to neck myself

>>37888505
When you fall in love, you feel intense care for a woman and when she casts you out, it feels like being abandoned by your own mother. Not to sound Oedipal.

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I want a friend I'm so lonely, how do I find a friend? I just want to have a buddy to play vidya with in my 3 months off.

>>37888462
I have not read it. Its good to know some humans are just like this. For the longest time I thought everyone was like me and we were all pretending to care about each other.

>>37888381
>this is what people on this board actually believe

You never felt actual love buddy. You might think you loved someone, but if you honestly believe what you said, then you didnt truly fall in love.
You cannot control that stuff no matter what you do or try. It happens. Its no ones fault. We dont choose who we fall in love with.

As gay and cliche all this sounds, its actually true.

t. robot who fell in love with a girl and she made him feel shit he didnt know existed and now they are dating and she loves him back its the best feeling in the world

>>37888799
>robot
>with a gf
get the fuck out normie

>>37887465
How about not basing your whole relationship off of getting sex? And maybe try to keep it platonic as long as you possibly can?

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>>37888888
Holy shit! I actually got it!

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>>37888888
This makes no fucking sense. Love is more than sex, and even if it is platonic for a very long time, you will still suffer because you need to hold yourself back.

There's a cute girl at work that I think is flirting with me. She keeps smiling at me and calling me by my full name. Yesterday when I was walking besides her, she put her hand around my hip and I got the warmest, happiest feeling I've felt in so long.
Going to attempt to flirt back and make physical contact tomorrow. Wish me luck robots.

>>37888950
I said don't make the whole point of your relationship to get sex and in order to find love, you simply keep it platonic so you focus on each other. And holding back isn't always suffering. There is a great relief when releasing.

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>>37888888
>post number
>6 in a row

>>37888986
You will get hurt and cucked either way.

>>37889070
With that attitude and outlook on things, I wouldn't be surprised if you did. But you'll never know if you don't try will you?

P.S. Just because something happens once doesn't mean it is guaranteed to happen again or everytime.

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>>37887465

I saw a girl at work today and she made something happen inside me, I've never seen her until now but I just know I'm going to ask her out.

She smiled at me sweetly and I've thought of nothing else since. Many girls are flirty with me as I've been lifting for many years and am well spoken ... what's different about her I don't understand.

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Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all, or so they say

>>37889101
I've tried three times already. You're one of those idiots that never learn.

>>37888888
I'm a KHV. I felt genuine love and care for this woman. Even now after she abandoned me. Shit's intolerable and agonizing.

Been there, done that. Fuck you, OP.

>>37889131
yeah those people that say that are retarded VIRGINS

>>37889131
Lol, no. The pleasure doesn't make up for the agonizing pain of being abandoned.

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>fell in love with girl I met one the internet
>knew nothing would ever happen but tried anyway
>prayed that I would at least get to be her friend
>she found a chad then ghosted me

>>37887638

im 100% same i think mosg ppl r they just fake for conformity