In terms of raising you, where exactly did your parents fuck up?

Wasnt aborted during pregnancy

When they decided I could have unsupervised internet access from a very young age.

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>>37885446
Never had a father figure other than my grandpa. Grandpa is now in his mid 80's, meaning that he was 63 when I was born. He grew up during WWII and joined military at 20, so he's passed those values to me. Other than that, mom is mid 40s going on 8. Has been weird growing up with 2 sisters and a mom and having the sisters depend on me as a father figure.

I think it was the part where I got thrown against the walls and shit but I don't remember it very well

Barely any restrictions. Let me play video games all day, no exercise, didn't force me to go outside.
Didn't teach me basic stuff like doing laundry and preparing food despite promising me they will (I only know how to make smoked sausages, which is a no-brainer).
Now I'm forcing myself to learn various recipes and how to make food. Trying to exercise more, too.

>>37885446
They knew the PSP had internet access but they did nothing about it

they had a mocking attitude towards any eccentricities and my mum was really screamy and angry all the time

Too sick to be able to raise me much. Had to raise myself. They tried their hardest, though.

>>37885466
Definitely this for me too!

Their model relationship was loveless and ended in divorce, providing no realistic social or romantic guidance, especially when it comes to physical touch, the type of contact that is most strongly associated with love. Had to figure all that shit out myself, and I still struggle with it. Sometimes when I'm drunk it becomes easier, but a lot of times I really do feel like a robit.

Underage niggers talking about psp Internet access

Lul, common boys, couldn't have been that bad

>>37885446
Mother taught me to drink and wipe me ass.
Any other time she was gone and I never knew my father.
So no I didn't have parents

>>37885476
This, being skilled in a profession is easy. It's the everyday basics of human living priorities such as keeping a clean room, washing dishes properly, keeping excellent hygiene and fitness, and having good sense of fashion and most important of all having good social skills and emotional intelligence. that's hard as fuck and that shit is supposed to be the basics. Sure, my parents did well to provide a roof over my head and food in my stomach, but when it comes down to taking care of those basic priorities, I am struggling because they didn't focus on those areas of raising me, and it's a good thing I'm young enough to recognize it. I'm 20 years old and I'm praying i have this basic shit down by the time I'm 22.

>>37885446
Giving me Klinefelter's

By being fucked up human beings. Dad was an emotionally unstable, passive aggressive, abusive weakling with social anxiety. Mom was a normal traditional housewife but getting emotionally and physically abused by dad, and then being divorced by him (taboo in our culture) did a number on her. Went from a gentle mother to a poisonous women who puts me down whenever she has a bad day.

Sometimes I think about killing them, especially my dad. He's in his 50s now and has absolutely no remorse or sense of responsibility for his actions. The fact that he's an unemployed piece of shit that expects me to take care of him too is the cherry on top.

>>37885555
Nice quads, crank.

Sounds like you either don't have any friends or you're a faggot piece of shit.

>Being INSANELY over protective
Had no chance to socially develop during middle and highschool cause I was never allowed anywhere

>Dad was there but not really
He's more like a big bro then a dad, doesn't really do anything and certain things he says almost implies he's proud of that

>>37885553

The PSP came out in like '05 dude, I had one in 8th grade and I'm 24, don't be dumb.

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>>37885446
Telling me what I wanted to hear, instead of giving me the hard truths.

Telling me I was smart when I am actually quite dumb.

Telling me that people are naturally kind but get confused and "angry".

Telling me to turn the cheek instead of fighting back.

Just telling me lot's of white lies/feel-good bullshit in general..

>>37885638

What did you do on the Web that affected you so negatively? You can tell how it progressed over time if you want.

>>37885710

Oh I'm not >>37885485

I'm just saying it was possible to own one as an underage and still be an adult now

>>37885446
when they made me reclude myself

>>37885716
8th grade is pretty normie time to start being unsupervised on the Web if you ask me.

So I'm guessing he was already fucked by his parents before he got free reign over the internet

I was a really good kid, so I think they assumed I'd grow into a good adult without any trouble. It turns out I was just good at being a kid.

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>>37885446
Easy.
By not loving me enough and always putting me down and breaking my trust.

>very few social restrictions, could have sleepovers all the time etc
>very few chores, mom would get impatient when I struggled to learn anything and just wouldn't let me try
>extreme emotional restriction; I was never allowed to be angry or sad or frustrated. If I displayed too much outwardly happiness I was told to 'stop acting like a fool'
>high performance standards; whenever I did something good I got a 'good job anon', when I did not live up to expectations a nuclear apocalypse happened
>frequently told me she was jealous of other parents because she didn't have anything to be proud of me for

As a result I've excelled academically up to about two years ago when I just kinda broke down and stopped giving a shit. I'm also an emotionally stunted virgin with no deeper relationships than a few acquaintances. I cannot loosen up. Even when drunk I am painfully restricted in social interaction. The only meaningful conversations I have are online, with people I don't and won't ever know or genuinely care about. The people I used to be friends with often joked about how cold I was, and they were absolutely right. I want to talk to people and get to know them and make myself care about their lives and they mine, but I have no idea how. I'm 26 years old.

>>37885446
Raised me in the middle of fucking nowhere and never allowed me to go one village over

Fuck you

Stop blaming your parents for your mistakes.

>>37886070
>Dude just disobey your parents at an early age brah

>>37886083
How about you man up a d fucking take responsibility?

Letting me near a computer/letting me build one

>>37885446
Honestly, they couldn't have done anything.
They had me in high school and kept me out of what I call spite. My dad has several mental problems and my mom has a pretty big ego. Abortion would have been better than living, my parents keeping it in their pants would have been even better.

>>37886110
So how do i cure 10 years of isolation myself?

Tell me in curious

It was probably telling me never to have any emotion that wasn't positive or the that until age 9 i was regularly hit by my father until i snapped and hit him back. And then also my complete social isolation which they caused by fucking me up which pushed me further down the rabbit hole but thats more my actions than theirs.

>>37886173
Walk out the fucking door, you absolute spanners, go get a Subway or something.

>>37886183
Good idea

That will make me better at relationships and social interaction in general

Cocksucker

>>37886198
You know what, go fuck yourself. Go back to blaming your parents for everything, what did they do to deserve you as their son?

>>37886208
So no productive advice then?
Could have said that sooner

>>37886208
>Wht did your parents do to deserve you?

Read:
>>37886051

>>37885446
you sound like a bitch along with everyone else you are blaming your own problems on your parents lol fucking kids

>>37886219
No, even if I shared any, you would just ignored it. It never works on you fucking failures, you always find an excuse why it'll never work.

>>37886235
>Go outside
Would be step 1. If you were honest about your offer you would have an idea about what to do next. You are talking with antisocial spergs after all.

Apparently you do not have any idea what to do. Thats why you are so riled up about it aint it?

>>37885446
My parents had their problems severe drinkers and child hood was rough but you all need to quit circle jerking and grow the fuck up I'm 33 now and retired at 30 with a senpai of my own and we don't have any problems like mine

Never enforced hygienic habits. Ended up with me taking a shower 2-3 times a week, rarely brushing teeth more than every other day and washing my hair once or twice a week. Doing my best to get out of those shit habits at the moment.

>>37886255
Try going to Subway and talking to anyone there. There is step two. Bamboo improved social skills.

>>37885446
they were overprotective and kinda strict. But I don't think they are to blame for my shitty life.

>>37886280
Obvious.

Any advice on how to interact with strangers peoperly?

>>37886277
lol subhuman you would be better off living in Africa you filthy fuck

>>37886298
Give them a lethal dose of morphine. Bailey's.

>>37885446
Being extremely poor but having a kid anyway.
Ibwas raised in a dense populatrd city on the west coast too, lots of shit goes wrong if you are white and poor around here.

>>37886283
did your dad at least give you a large penis?

>>37886318
actuaIly, yes

>>37886318
Dif robro here but my Dad the one good thing he did for me was genetics my dick is pretty thick and long

>>37886298
Speak to them about normal things you fucking retard.

>>37886334
its strange to think looking at your own dickmeat is prob what your dads look like too, also what ever weird fetish you have you got them from your parents most likely they are into weird shit as well

They didn't spot the signs.

https://youtu.be/5DTIzzf6ncg

>>37886300
Of all the people bitching about their complete social inadequacy, this is the worst thing on the thread?
Kek, with your intelligence, you probably DO live in Africa

>>37886083

Funny thing about this is my dad actually got pissed that I never did this.

Like what the actual fuck? If I defied them I woulda got my ass beat.

>>37885476
Honestly my parents tried to get me to go outside and banned my computer time but that only fetishized it more for me.

They used to discuss about how my mom thought my dad had an affair with another woman for years and I never knew if that was real.
They were literally hoarers and still are and our house is always unclean any messy. When they finish eating, they always leave the plates in the table, not even on the sink!
They're fucking lazy and fat asses to the point that my father became extremely sick and got a heart attack, but he's alive
They're always spouting stuff about politics with no argument whatsoever and gets irritating. And they have no hobbies or anything, so they always talk about how awful their job is, how awful is that person in our town, how much they hate politicians

They never taught me how to do the laundry, clean or anything, I actually began to learn all of these stuff by myself because I am afraid of being like them. Same with foods, I've been cooking for myself so I don't eat the same shit as them.

As a kid and as a teen I was always the bullied kids and they didn't bother to help me, it was always a "oh? They punched you and called you fat? Oh you poor thiiiiing. Come, take this doughnut and go watch cartoons while I watch my soap operas. Fine?"

Spent more time working 14 hour shifts or two jobs even though they didn't need the money so I ended up spending most of my time after school or in the summer at daycare or home completely alone

>>37886350
Just going up to them and talk about normal shit?

I want to be normal, not a creep

It was their Laissez-faire attitude mostly. I wasn't fucked up in any serious way other than being so afraid of criticism that the only way I open myself up to it is by posting on a Kazakhi marionette fabrication notice board. I have not once in my life got a job without a family member/friend handing it to me.

>>37885466
THIS!

So much this, but mom was a Catholic who had to get as many kids as God gave her...

>>37885446
Mother was the breadwinner, father just a leech. Every decision they've made for me concerning my education was...pretty bad. Then they felt guilt about spending money on my little brother so decided to send me to a nice, private college which I don't know how the fuck I got into. We don't really receive any significant financial aid due to being in that weird middle class bracket in America. I personally wanted to just try out some classes at a community college to save my parents money because I knew they were feeling guilty, but they strong arm'd me out of it.
After trying to make my dreams and ambitions fit into some weird amalgamation of their dreams for me, I asked for some time off to get a second to breathe and figure out what I wanted to do instead of trudging through college, wasting my parents money, and just being a complete fucking waste of life. I was at the point where I was ready to an hero and I even told my parents, hoping that maybe we could finally talk about everything, but they just said walk it off. I have some a few friends and 4chan to thank for not going an hero. I was confronted with the fact that I was gonna need an extra year to finish uni since I hopped around on 3 majors and just failed some classes due to bouts of depression and stupidly destructive self pitying. It became worse and worse after I ended my relationship and failed to help my friend overcome his depression. I just tried to be help cheer him up and be friend and failed while my brother is back home in a bigger and better city than where I currently am. They got him a new BMW this year, he attends community college classes because despite all those years of private schools, he wasn't able to make the cut to any passable schools. I'm still trying to struggle with the question of why I have to suffer through this shit due to some guilt that my parents have about my spoiled brother. It's not making anyone happier and they don't seem to understand that.
/blogeroo

>>37885446
Not letting me socialize when I was younger. Keeping me inside my entire life and letting my views on life be warped by porn, internet and 4chan. With the only form of interaction was through movies and games.

Probably snowballed and created the self loathing, insecure piece of shit I am today. Funny part is they are trying to get me to get married soon lol

>>37886233
If I beat my dog all day, would you blame the dog for biting you when you try to pet if, or do you blame the owner who abused it since birth?

>>37886343
you cant be a robot if you have a big dick

>>37885446
My father and mother split, so I grew up with a single mother and went through two step fathers who treated me like shit. Also had step-brothers who were for the most part garbage to me as well.

I think they were, and still are too relaxed. Both busy with jobs in different states so that we could have a better life, but this caused me to literally develop some strain of autism on my own. Their salaries kept increasing, our house got bigger,then there were houses, then farmhouses.But what didn't change was the fact that I was left to my own devices , with no one to look over my progress in life. All I got was "Son you need to study hard" at the start of every school year, then I got a reward at the end of the year. It was like I'm, not their child but a pavlovian experiment. Every year, I scored A, and I got whatever I wanted. I still have the electric guitar, gameboy,PS2, graphic tablet, casio synth keyboard , and the laptop I got as gifts, but not a single memory with them, or a single thing my dad taught me about life.
Driving license ? Dad got it made for me , I didn't need to do anything.
Bank account ? Dad made it for me.
I wasn't given a single chance to do anything myself, and I know they only wanted the best for me but it clearly backfired, because now I'm 21, just threw away the job of a lifetime because I couldn't handle the social interactions and office environment. Worst part ? My parents don't care, they keep telling me I can live at one of the houses they own, and they don't mind me being a NEET.
Sometimes I wonder if they're the best parents one could ask for