>little cousin wets bed >he's 12 >didn't kill

Don't feel bad for bailing. I bail on my 92 year old grandmother because of anxiety too.

But you could always make it up to him by making a party/something special for just you two.

I failed this year when I offered to tutor my baby cousins with their highschool math/science. Never helped once. I'm the oldest cousin. They're 2 of 4 girls from my aunt who's a single mom.. I try to be there for all of them but shit it's hard to get teenagers attention and have them actually listen