>girl has had inexplicable crush on me since we were 14
>when we stopped spending time together, she became friends with my sister to get closer to me
>fast forward to college
>hadn't spoken in several years
>she starts interning with my mom
>asks me out
>i turn her down
>99.9% sure she would still go if I asked
Should I go for it? She doesn't have the prettiest face or body, and she's a little bit trashy, which is why I never acted on it, which is why I never dated her or anything before. She was always really nice to me, though, and was kind of my only friend when I first went to highschool; I'm also really lonely
>>37856099
if she will be good to you then be good to her.
have a nice life OP.
>>37856158
it isn't that simple though, right? she'd probably stop being interested in me if i finally reciprocated, wouldn't she
>in love with a man for at least four years
>he calls YOU trashy
>rejects you
>only considers you because he lacks options
You don't deserve love and hopefully she'll see that.
>>37856543
Well she's a borderline alcholic that was known back in the day for getting trashed and puking in other people's beds and her nudes were sent around a lot, and that bothers me because my mom is a bit of an alcoholic. Also, when I asked her out twice when we were 14 she kept giving me a rain check so I moved on. (Later she told me it's because she was nervous but it hurt pretty badly at the time)
I don't know if any of that changes your view of the situation or whatever
>>37856099
it sounds like you don't really want to.
but just do whatever you feel like. why ask some strangers to choose for you?
>>37856714
I don't know. I'm very confused about it all, I guess
>>37856805
would you rather be with a man instead?
>>37857226
i feel like you're meming me but in case you wanted a real answer no i would not
>>37856643
Fucking run, no amount of desperation can lead you to fuck a roastie
>>37856260
Are you retarded? Go for it. Worst case scenario you lose someone you weren't super attached to, best case you get someone amazing in your life.
>>37857275
>>37857283
oh jeez this is conflicting
>>37857302
>Probably sleeps around
>>>>Goes to parties
Take heed anon, she's not worth your time
>>37856099
GO FOR IT YOU FUCKING MORON
>>37857336
Yeah you have a point. She probably hasn't had too much piv sex because she was weird about the whole "penetration is a sin but not really anything else lmao" but i'd bet she sucked a bunch of benis