Why are Normies so cruel?

>>37812237
I'm a normie and I ain't gonna be a dick to you. If these people don't respect you or ignore you just ignore them back, it's not like you have to shut em down with some super-righteous diatribe.

kill em hehe

>>37812313
That's the problem though, these people are my coworkers and family. I can't just ignore them and I have to talk to them. I've got some social issues and I don't know what to say when they make fun of me.

>>37812237
I am facing the same problem OP, my friends are really abusive but I can't just leave them or I'll have no friends. I'm really apologetic and dormatish and I don't know what to do.

>>37812237
Rule number 1 of Society, let people take advantage of you and they will.

Your lack of assertion and submission screams "Take advantage of me, and I won't object". It's not cruelty, it's the nature of things. If someone gives you an opportunity, you don't have time to mule over the ethics, you take it. Unless of course, it is ruled as illegal.

>>37812313
>thinks is normalfag
>Calls self normalfag
>Post on r9k
>You are a robot

>>37812368
Well, in the case of family it would probably suffice to just show them that certain comments cross the line by not laughing along and unless you have some really screwy family they should have enough empathy to feel bad. As for coworkers, I think the best thing is just to try and joke back. Make fun of something that they do, and they'll either laugh right with you or realize that they're being a jerk and stop making fun of you at work

>>37812418
I'm looking for help on how to be more assertive and have that confident feel. I know I'm not on the right place for that sort of thing but I've always shared the trait of being alienated.

>>37812444
I'm a cyborg at worst, I just started browsing r9k because /pol/ and /b/ suck now. Also nice trips

>>37812465
The key is to be more selfish and more aware of yourself. Think less about the needs of others and more about the needs of yourself and you'll become miles more assertive. Put yourself before others and pay more attention to your mental,emotional, and physical state instead of the other person's

>>37812406
Having no friends is better. But then the loneliness makes you suicidal so

I take shit from people all the time. Then one fine day, when they are least expecting me to act, I roast them. I mock every move they make, everything they say, in front of everybody. Which makes them think about 10 times before talking shit. Just one " what did you say?" look from me and they eat their own words. You just have to be patient that's it. Also you have got to fight for yourself.

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misery is the river of the world, everybody row. - Remembering Never
also, misery is a business model. - Ronald Bernard
suffer: the more you see, the more you do, the television's feeding you with what you want to hear, anger and fear, because you suffer. the hate you feel won't go away because you're all programmed to feel this way. - Aaron Lewis, Staind

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5pXKrWj9ZuE

how many more instances of these quotes do you need to see before you will start agreeing?

>>37812237
>looser
Why do people do this?

>>37812237
Don't spend time with couples and cut off people who talk behind your back for one.

Join a BJJ gym. Let the humility and art sort out what's wrong with how you compose yourself.