How to make friends as an adult??

>goodlooking
>intelligent
>good paying job
>ok socially

Do I really have to say it?

GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE

>>37784427
Can't you make friends at work?

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>>37784529
I'm just coming here for help. I know people here struggle socially also.

>>37784563
Everyone at my work is 20 years older than me with kids and spouses. Also they are kind of strange.

>>37784648
>ok socially
>struggling socially

Make up your goddamn mind you turd

>>37784427

>friends as an adult

lmao

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>>37784697
I've been ok socially in the past.
In high school and college I had a lot of friends, but now nothing.

I don't know how to gain a social group from nothing.

>>37784427
go fuck yourself. gtfo and stay off my board

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>>37784760
>>37784760
why? What's the problem? I just want help

You're posting sad cats

>>37784427
Join a club or any activities, like sports
Meet friends online
Go to bars with friends

That's all I can think of, I do suggest that you join something you enjoy
Other than that there's not many other places to find people. Normies have dictated that it's not socially acceptable to just approach people so you gotta play by their rules in order to get something as basic as companionship

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>>37784824
>Join a club or any activities, like sports

Anything specific? I dunno what the fuck I'd join. If I was in college it'd be simpler but I'm just a random dude now.

>Meet friends online

How?

>Go to bars with friends

Horse before the carriage

>>37784815
yes I am.

>>37784860
Well cut it out.

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>>37784884
But I like this meem

>>37784860
You're fucked unless you join a gym or something. You could play D&D at your local gamestore and meet autists there. Alternatively, just play an MMO, join a guild, get in their discord, and make e-friends.

>>37784427
fuck normie shit i hope you get cancer and die in a ditch somewhere.

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>>37784903
I go to the gym all the time. I've been fit for years. I never talk to anyone there at all. It's a weird place to speak with people.

>>37784907
I'm a normie but it's a waste because I'm friendless anyways.

>>37784427

It took me years to learn how to do it when I moved to a new city, but I have successfully knitted together a small but tight social circle in my new home

There are 3 main ways to meet new people outside of your job:

>meetup.com events and professional networking events
>join a club and participate in a sport or hobby you enjoy
>take classes

The first step is the only step you can't control, it's random chance. You have to meet at least two people you like at the one event. If the 3 of you chat for a little while and hit it off then get them on normiebook and the next week open a group chat and invite the two of them for after work drinks.

From here it is easy to add new people one at a time. Also as the 3 of you start dating that will add to the pool.

For the group to stay together somebody (probably you) has to take the lead and regularly organise group events

>>37785142

find a bar that is convenient for all of you and has a good menu and try to get a weekly after work drinks going. If you can sustain it weekly for a few months then you will have some pretty firm friendship bonds and you can start going a little longer without seeing each other if you have to.

Also if all of you are dating at the same time then triple dates are amazing for group bonding.

>>37784427
If you're in Colorado I'd be your friend OP. I'm kind of an autist sometimes but I'd be down to get a drink and just shoot the shit once in a while