How do I convince my only friend not to kill himself without being selfish?
>>37776483
Join him.
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>>37776483
I might actually, but I wont tell him im gonna do it too because I don't wanna guilt him into life. I really wanna make him wanna live again but theres nothing I can do hes on the other side of the fucking world and hes given me 8 days
>>37776483
It's cliche, but things can get better.
He has to consider if there is any possibility he might be able to improve his situation and live a happy or at least contented life.
Very rarely would it be completely impossible - he's clearly not totally alien since he's managed to befriend someone.
unless he's crippled or insane tell him to move somewhere else and start again
one way or another you've got to let this mother fucker go
>>37776851
>things can get better
doesn't mean they will
you can win the lottery
you can also get cancer
lots of things can happen
>>37776930
Again, I'm not saying it's a durr things can always get better don't ever kill yourself thing.
It's just you need to try and objectively assess your situation and how likely it is that you can escape it.
>>37776851
that's the thing tho, he has friends irl. and If it wasent for really fucked up things in his past that I wont get into detail about he would be normie. im the one with no friends and weve only ever spoken on Skype but hes all I got
>>37776905
I cant let him him go I don't wanna be alone again
>>37776633
have he given you 8 days for you to find him a reason live? What a fucking douche, he wants you to feel guilty for the rest of yout life if he ends himself? But it can also be a call for help, talk with him. Just talk, about everything, good, the bad, what he find peaceful, whats beautiful in life etc..
to tell the truth, i wish i had someone irl to talk with. Things like that.. Im rock bottom, feel like shit.. think about an hero alot past month.. even so, i still see things that are beautiful in life, such as my animal or walking in the nature..
>>37776958
I have hes pretty dead set on doing it, and I blew up on him and got mad because i didn't want him to die, now he went offline
>>37777039
you fucking retard if you didn't talk with him in real life. On the otherhand, if he's an online friend, its difference. Give him time, next time, don't meantion it maybe? Talk about something fun.. something to make him feel better..
>>37777088
but once again, its hard, i dont know how he feels, maybe he needs and wants to talk?
>>37777088
what if he dosent come back online again? now i don't even have an opportunity to be there in his last moment im such a fucking colossal faggot, i swear to god ive told him a million times id help him. even offered to send him money and he didn't want it. i think hes really gonna do it
>>37776945
Tell him how much you mean to him anon, seriously.
>>37777172
sent this a while back but only just came through, ignore it.
Fucking net reeeeeeeeeeeeeee
>>37777161
Good luck anon, I hope he doesn't go through with it at least until you've had a chance to talk.
>>37777161
That may happen, to be mentally prepared for it.. even if will kill you. I wish to help, but i don't know how really..
>>37777192
thanks anon
>>37777282
ive tried everything, offer money even pay for a plane ticket to come and live with me and hes just tired of life and wants to go
>>37777545
Then go visit him!
Stay with him a few days and do things, or don't do things! Idk your relation ship, maybe you should force him to have fun, maybe you shouldnt. But visit him, talk talk talk! or don't talk, just be there for him. You need to read the air, of what he wants. Lifes fucking hard, idk even what i want, even if i would end myself. once your thought are black, its hard to change it..
>>37777282
this guy was truly special to me, ive never even made a friend on an mmo before
>>37777624
theres nowhere to stay hes getting icked out of his apartment, and hes dosent want me spending money on him whatsoever so no hotel. hes just giving up
>>37777864
if thats enought for you to stop him? Fuck his opinion, book a plan, a hotel for you and him. Pick him up, do what you need to do, don't be a fucking pussy if you truly care about him, this isnt the time to be a fucking robot, is it? do what you need to do.
>>37776483
>>37776633
>>37776945
>>37777545
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>>37777864
Did you name all those stupid image macros for the purpose of this thread?
>>37777934
but still, you need a lot of courage to do that, idk if i would have it in me. I do understand you on that part.
>>37777864
Go save your fucking friend already, Goddammit.
>>37777934
i don't know what part of newzealand hes in or his real name, and if he dosent come back online i don't know if i can fin this shit out
>>37777939
fucking normie
>>37777989
im trying goddamit
>>37776483
it's selfish of him to tell you that he wants to kill himself
>>37778035
i think he just wanted to let me know why he wouldn't be messaging me anymore, i probably would have thought he just didn't like me anymore so my feeling wouldn't be hurt
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKyb_3gBmj4