Question. Have any of you dated a girl who was molested/raped

Barking up the wrong tree, pal

>>37760829
She was like a piece of wood. Completely stiff and unmoving. Scared and anxious, wanted it to be over as soon as possible

>>37761241
Jesus, that sounds awful. Was she your gf?

She is into super kinky shit. I don't know if the rape caused it, but I'd imagine it has something to do with it.

>>37761279
Yes. My first and only gf. She often put her head under a pillow to hide her face during sex. She had a lot of bad memories attached to sex and would get "triggered" during it so we stopped having sex as much.

>>37761329
That's really sweet of you to stand by her like that, it isn't something most guys would do these days

Dated a girl who said she'd been raped. Brought it up as often as possible. Eventually learned that alcohol was involved and decided it was just regret rape / attention-seeking. Broke up for other reasons.

>>37760829
no but ive fucked my cousin (girl) that was molested by my other chad cousin. it was great. i would just go into her room when everyone was asleep and just climb in her bed and slide my dick in and leave like nothing happened. she was my fuck toy. it all started when my became close to my chad cousin and he pretty much told her to suck my dick in front of him, as a "joke" and I pretty much "joked" around with her, wrestling and shit till i started rubbing my hard dick on her ass through our clothes and she didn't say anything.

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>>37761493
sounds comfy desu orginalll

>>37760829
Dated two of them and they had a bipolar attitude towards sex and our relationship in general. It was either the best thing that ever happened or horribly intrusive.
Almost dated an american girl who didn't even want to talk about sex at all.
All of them had been molested as children, which fucks you up so much more than adult rape.

Got molested as a kid too and honestly I wouldn't date me either.

>>37760829
Yes, she didnt seem to hold anything against me for it

She liked to be dominated until she connected the dots and then it got real vanilla. Then she started associating certain sex acts to bad experiences. That cut us down even further.

>nothing even close to her ass
>no 69 or anything other than passive receiving when it came to oral sex on her
>no heavy tongue when kissing (almost killed me, big turn-on on my side)

>>37761395
Same here and you just know based on who she is otherwise
Her twitter @monalisasaperst

>>37761625
Yeah. Rape victims typically become hypersexual until they address the trauma, at which point they understand none of what they did was healthy for them. Then they need to re-learn healthy sex, pretty much.
Hypersexuality in a rape victim is a form of self-harm. Don't take the super kinky raped ones unless you're really sure they're actually healthily kinky and not just trying to cope however they can.

>>37760829
>Question. Have any of you dated a girl who was molested/raped in her past?
Yes.
>How was the sex?
It didn't happen.
We only tried once and she panicked.

>>37760829
>sex
Female i think
In highschool this qt.31415 fish just told me she was molested by her uncle or something, didnt even know anything about her except her name, i adjusted my weight and in turn kind of leaned torwards her face (ona bus) and she freaked out, she turned out to be a roastie instead of an autist, so rip

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No. I never had any sex at all and most likely never will.

>>37761946
Hey I was molested as a child and raped as a teen (first time) and again as a young adult. I was hypersexual like this but even after I got therapy and started actually saying what happened I stayed hypersexual, if anything it might of increased because I finally became interested in reenacting what happened. But I have NOT tried this yet. Just think about it and fap to it a lot. Is it a coping mechanism to fap to the memories? Because a female friend of mine who has had startling similar abuse told me that the worse thing you can do for your psychological health is masturbate to the abuse (memories or videos that remind you of it etc).

Does anyone have any advice on any of this?

When I say hypersexual I mean mostly my kinks. I have a kink that I haven't done recently but it's where I pretend to be asleep. That's when most of what happened to me would happen. I was asleep and it would wake me up but I kept pretending to be asleep. I was a young child it was done to me by a much older man. But I have thousands of other kinks and watch porn constantly. Another kink that I do at least daily is having people look at my vagina. I know I got it from the young child molestation experiences because I remember vividly when he looked at my pussy and commented on it, I was so embarrassed and ashamed having someone look at and spread it. I post pictures of it on the internet a lot and it really turns me on when I get comments similar to what was said to me as a child like about how tight, tiny, pink it is. I happen to have an innie so a lot of people make comments like this and that fuels my masturbation extremely.

>>37762223
>Another kink that I do at least daily is having people look at my vagina. I know I got it from the young child molestation experiences because I remember vividly when he looked at my pussy and commented on it, I was so embarrassed and ashamed having someone look at and spread it. I post pictures of it on the internet a lot and it really turns me on when I get comments similar to what was said to me as a child like about how tight, tiny, pink it is. I happen to have an innie so a lot of people make comments like this and that fuels my masturbation extremely.

I actually got extremely turned on even admitting that because I've never admitted that before. I've told people I was an exhibitionist of course but never where I thought it came from.

>>37762250
Be my slutty lewd gf pls

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>>37760829
femanon here
why don't you ask me if i dated a boy who was raped in the past? because, yes. it happens to guys as much too you know! hell, sometimes I think even more.

>>37762365
First off I am fat and ugly I just happen to have a nice looking pussy, and secondly I try not to tell guys I'm interested in what happened... I thought it would be a huge turn off for them to know.

When I was raped as a teen it was much more traumatic. The guy kept telling me that I was used goods now and no one would ever want me.

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>>37762223
This gave me a boner desu, please take responsibility molested onee-chan.

>>37762409
Get out roastie, you cunts are ruining /r9k

>>37761946

It was a long frustrating road to get her back towards enjoyable sex. It wasn't enjoyable for me as much, though. The majority of times ended with "its gone, I'm done." then she blames herself and I feel like shit for both problems. It wasn't worth it.

>>37762588
You lost me with the last part. I smell bullshit.

>>37762716
Have you had sex with a regular girl? Also what was her abuse like?

>>37762739
Point is, Id never want to have sex with someone who thought that my trauma was hot.

>>37762588
Post your used up pussy at least.

Almost every girl I've slept with had been sexually asssulted by their dad or stepdad in their youth. This pattern has confirmed that girls with daddy issues are by far the easiest.

>>37762741

The one before her was a fat slutbag trying to get off the dick carousel, so... indeterminate.

She was homeless-ish and living at a druggie friend's place. One of the junkies held her down and raped her.

>>37760829
Yeah more than a few actually. I keep being attracted to, or attracting cutters or sex abuse victims.

Anyways the ones that were raped/molested were actually much more sexually engaging than the normie girls I was with. Really the opposite of what one would expect.

One was diddled by a 25 year old who was a friend of a friend when she was 14 and she was made to suck his dick and eventually he fucked her and it was pretty much rape.

The other girl was a druggy who wanted to buy from a pack of nignogs and then they wouldn't let her leave the apartment until they all had a turn with her.


They were legit nymphos. They wanted to fuck literally all the time, even if we had just like 5 minutes to spare. That's not really a complaint but it was nearly impossible to be in a relationship with them.

>>37762929
Knowing that she was raped would you lose your boner during?

>>37760829

It was my first and last time having sex. Before I fucked her she pretty much laid out her entire sexual history.

>raped on a field trip when she was 11 by one of the older boys, didn't say anything to anyone
>rode cock carousel for 8 more years before I met her
>was fucking her neighbor who was married
>was fucking some guy at work
>was fucking some guy from NMU with tats and was artistic
>was fucking a couple other random guys
>wasn't interested in fucking me despite several offers to meet up and just hang out(really, just hang out, not do anything sexual because I wanted to cuddle'n stuff.)
>admit I was a virgin, suddenly she's interested and wants to meet that friday
>watch a couple movies, share some jokes, some laughs, eventually it comes to do the deed
>fumble like a retard with her pants because she's got one of those meme belts with ten thousand doodads, probably a test to see if I actually was a virgin because i couldn't get it off
>carry her to my bed, she lays there, lets me do what I want, no reaction until i stick my penis in vagoo
>starts moaning, leglocks me, digs her nails into the back of my neck and hair
>last maybe 15 minutes tops, pull out and blow it all over her face and tits and let her clean it off with one of my shirts

Could have been worse, but I still felt empty and hollow inside like I did every day before that, losing my v-card did nothing for me. If anything it turned me off of girls because after she left I was like:

>oh god I just fucked a huge(but really cute) slut without a condom

>>37761307
I obviously don't mean that all girls do this, but I know where we are and how people are going to generalize it anyway.

In my shitty backwards town a girl was raped and stabbed multiple times, she almost died.
The rapist got caught, sentenced to 24 years in prison.
4 years into his sentence, the girl asked the judge to pardon him, and they got married a year later.
Her dad could never handle that and he killed himself

>>37762981
During sex I mean of course. Also, how else did you feel about it?

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>>37763013
>Her dad could never handle that and he killed himself

>>37762940
>The other girl was a druggy who wanted to buy from a pack of nignogs and then they wouldn't let her leave the apartment until they all had a turn with her.

God damn I wish I could gang rape a girl like that. Niggers get all the fun.

>>37761351
I sense a normie in here

my gf was heavily pressured into doing sexual favors she didn't want to do when she was 13-14, dunno if that counts
it does affect her dreams, she told me she pretty often had nightmares of being raped/witnessing people being raped
doesn't seem to affect her in bed though lol

>>37762981
It wasn't a thought in my head during sex. All brainpower diverted to receiving every sensation. That, and the one thing guaranteed to make you lose your boner.

>fuck I hope I don't lose my boner


I thought it was an awful terrible thing and wanted to do everything I could to make her feel good and not bad. I loved her. I still love her.

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I havnt, but one of my best friends wws raped by her boyfriend early last year, and the guy kept coming after her until he was aressted last month.

She was lesbian after that and then the guy sexually assulted her girlfriend.

Shes pretty unstable now and i try my best to make sure she doesnt kill herself.

She said she was molested by the groundskeeper at her pre-school. Though she was one of those Cluster B types who liked making up stories. She was still in tough with various exes/friends she claimed abused her too. Had a Geocities shrine to a dead guy-friend who either raped her or was the best friend she'd ever had, depending on the day/mood.

She was pretty good in bed. Gave great head and did various kinky maneuvers. Actually could do dirty talk/pillow talk that didn't annoy me unlike all the girls I've been with since.

>>37762250
You should be a stripper. Get paid and get off. I had a guy say my vagina looked like a 7 year old's. You get a lot of those type of comments. It doesn't get me off but you would like it.

>>37762223

Show me your pussy so I can comment on how tight it is. Imagine all the strange men on this board masturbating to you.

>>37763234
>I had a guy say my vagina looked like a 7 year old's
I do get those type of comments too already. I'd love to be a stripper but my self esteem is super low and I don't like the rest of my body at all.

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>>37763253
Okay but I'm not showing any other part of my body cos I don't really like any other part.

>>37763356
I've found it improves self esteem. You recieve positive attention and make a good income.

I've worked with all sorts of size and shapes of girls with a range of looks. I hope some day you can give an amateur night a whirl.

Good luck to you

>>37763445
I will try but I really hate my body, I find some parts of my body really hard to show. Also I have some pretty bad scars from cutting when I was a teen. I don't do it anymore. Did you ever work with girls like that?

>>37763013
I hate women now

>>37763005
>lose virginity to someone who means nothing to you

you overvalued sex and yet undervalued the connection during sex. what a fucking blunder.

thank you for sharing. I hope you've earned something

>>37763013
Kind of makes me wonder if the father did stuff to her too. You know she had some daddy issues.

>>37763403
>inb4 post feet

Jokes on you, fags, I am a sexually abused woman and I have vaginismus.

Haha, ha...ha...help.

>go to gynaecologist (male)
>help my broken cunt
>"of course! You'll want to have babies I expect!"
>no you retard i wanna use tampons and hit my g spot
>he asks me if i was gangraped
>well i mean i was abused but it wasn't penetrative and it was one dude
>"are you sure it wasn't gangrape?"
>what
>"what it filmed?"
>what
>" are you a transvestite?"
>WHAT

>>37763470
Ah well most of us have those scars :-/

And we all have stuff we don't like. Some more than others. I think you realize, in that environment, no one gives a shit.

It is nice, comforting, being around so many girls that have all gone through pretty much the same shit.

>>37763403
I don't believe you're fat. Post time stamp

>>37763631
Sorry you have to deal with that bullshit.

>>37760829
Yes

Only ever fucked her so idk but it was nice
Almost killed her it was worrisome

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>>37763719
It was pretty whacky. I told my new gyno (female) and we bonded.

It sucks because otherwise my life is pretty good, but I get down on myself because "wow people you mock for being stupid can figure this vagina thing out you stupid retard". I'm trying to touch my vagina after I beat my meat / before bed / during my period and hopefully through self-imposed exposure therapy I'll get over it. Worked on my arachnophobia. Now I pick spiders up all the time.

Although does anyone else in the thread get anxiety about vaginas? Like I see or hear them being talked about and I get this weird combination of sexual arousal and anxiety. I can't look at them, but I feel horny. Wtf?

>>37760829
yep, the sex was off the walls, she liked it rough. Wanted me to call her a bitch, whore, etc, wanted me to slap her, pull her hair, spit on her, she was crazy af

>>37763631
>>37763866
Sorry I don't understand what the problem is, is it just mega tight and you're scared to go near it?

>>37764201
It's a bit of both. I have a hard time parting my folds (total innie). I try penetrating myself but I "hit a wall" and give up without perusing more than that. Usually if I stuck something (like a tampon) near ny vagina gets this dull ache a few minutes later. I have anxiety related to this. I can't even take q-tips with lube.

>>37763403

I just want to put my face in. Nice moist cunt. I bet you taste great. I wish I had a camera to offer tribute.

You're not fat. What do your tits look like? You already showed us your pussy. What else you got?

>>37761493
anon comes from pure souther bloodline desu

>>37762223
I think you need help. Your friend is right, mastrbating to the abuse is probably not good for you.

On the flip side, I understand needing to relieve the experience in order to process and regain control. However, I think you're doing yourself a disservice to jump in blind. Best of luck, sweet heart.