Non-virgin hate thread

I dont hate virgins but i hate when they dont understand that getting laid mostly is luck factor.

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The tfw "you're not a man until you fucked a girl" meme.

I live on my own
I pay my own bills
Change my own oil
Take my dog to the vet to get his annual checkup

How the fuck am I not a man? There are losers who live with their parents and mommy and daddy pay for almost everything, and somehow they're more of a man than me because some drunk chick at the club wanted to get stuffed?

>>37760732
I dont hate them at all and I'm a non virgin. I love them actually, they are my fetish.

But I don't understand how you wouldnt want to lose it unless you are asexual because sex is fun.

>>37760863
>I live on my own
>I pay my own bills
>Change my own oil
>Take my dog to the vet to get his annual checkup
>How the fuck am I not a man

A woman can do all those things.

>>37760863
What are you looking for in a girl? Just wondering because you sound like a cool guy.

>>37760878
A lot of guys my age aren't doing any of these things. They're useless cunts, but le "I am man because I smashed" meme

>>37760732
>>ask someone if they're virgin
that's where you fucked up

>>37760878
this post blew my fucking mind

the only thing a woman CAN'T do is cum inside another woman with a penis (all trap jokes aside)

I wasn't ready to receive this wisdom

>>37761035
>woman
>change oil

kek in what dimension?

>>37760863
Congrats, normie, you're better than everyone. That's what you wanted to hear, right? Pat yourself on the back, champ. Why not celebrate your glorious life by going out and getting laid? No one could ever turn down such an awesome guy like you, right Mr. Perfect?

>>37760975
>asking someone something is fucking up
I have to tiptoe around people so they don't offend me and I don't offend them?

>>37761125
>Why not celebrate your glorious life by going out and getting laid?
What he doesn't want to?
Why does society ostracise someone who doesn't go for vagina-Jew?
You sound like a normalfag scumbag representative of society so I'll ask you.

>>37761125
I'm not trying to say I'm better than anyone. I'm saying I take care of my adult responsibilities, but not having sex negates that somehow?

>>37760863
Ur not a man because yu can't get your peepee wet

>>37760878
Taking on responsibilities and handling them well is what makes you a man, being able to take care of shit. Not sticking your dick in something pretty. Get out manchild.

>>37760732
Sex is what we are here for bro. Virgins are sad and pathetic. Just the way humans have been forever.

>>37760863
All societies since forever have considered losing your virginity to be the start of being a man.

>>37761198
Because you're not an adult till you have had sex. You're a grown child with a lot of excuses but still no pussy.

Hahaha I'm a non virgin, I've had sex and you haven't because you're a loser hahaha

>>37761129
if you're insecure about being a virgin, don't bring up that topic!
You don't have to tiptoe, and neither do they.

>>37760732
>It took me years to explain to my friends that i didn't wanted to lose my virginity
>Now they think that i'm not interested in a relationship at all.
All i want is to give all of my first times to the person i love, but apparently people think that it's impossible to be a man and to refuse to stick your dick inside some woman if she offers you her pussy.
I want a loving relationship,not just fucking like some animal.

>>37761210
This.

Original chicken recipe.

>>37761252
Not an argument.

Explain yourself.

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>>37761210
That makes you an asexual genderless adult, not a man.

>>37761035
really makes you think huh?

>>37761295
Na. It's just that I don't become friends with non-virgins.
When I find that one of my friends is a non-virgin, I stop talking to them and remove them from my steam or remove them from my voluntary social life. I can stay acquainted with them but not form closer bonds than that.
That's why I asked the other guy if he was virgin. I can't be good friends with virgins.

>>37761524
>I can't be good friends with virgins
I meant non-virgins
Shit I should sleep.

>>37761524
>>37761572
>I can't be good friends with non-virgins.
why not? you're limiting your friend prospect on an arbitrary metric.

>>37761474
Okay, so if I get a prostitute I'm magically a man all the sudden now?

>>37761629
If you define it that way, yeah!

>>37761619
Some of my favorite pastimes are hating on people that have sex. I can't do that if a non-virgin is sitting right there now can I?

>>37761668
you also can't do that if the virgin sitting there doesn't want to be one.

>>37761668
you are a bad influence on your virgin friends

>>37761697
Yes I can. They haven't said that they're offended by it.

>>37761719
That's your opinion you normie roastie. I see myself as saving them from the vagina Jew and keeping their identity. Being virgins is a big part of who we are.
I have to stop my little sister from losing it also. I've tried to shame her by telling her that 99% of all guys are asshole chads that have had sex before and that she won't get a virgin husband. She said she's willing to forgive a non-virgin guy for being a non-virgin. I have to fix that.

>>37760732
>Why do people hate virginity so much?

It's not that they hate it. It's that it gives them something to feel superior about.

Just look at their reply:

>"Nice joke anon, don't get mad, you'll find someone willing one day"

Don't you see that condescending tone? They're reveling in their "superiority" over you.

>>37761855
So normies are scumbags after all.
Why do they feel superior though? Is it because they feel like the person who has the most sex is the most superior person just because sex is fun?
Look at prostitutes and pornstars. They're not superior people. People look down on them.

>>37761792
>and that she won't get a virgin husband

No, don't tell her that. Tell her that she won't get a GOOD husband.

If she lets herself become a used-up whore, then all she'll be able to get is some arrogant asshole who will dump her ass when a prettier girl comes along. Or maybe she'll get some poor loser without a job who's desperate for her money. But she won't get a quality guy to marry if she whores herself out while she's young.

>>37761252
>Because you're not an adult till you have had sex.
>You're a grown child with a lot of excuses but still no pussy.
okay you better explain that for us, I'm wondering why or how does losing your virginity matters in being a responsible adult.

>>37761792
>They haven't said that they're offended by it.
Just because they haven't expressed offense doesn't mean they approve of it.

>That's your opinion you normie roastie
The rest of your post validates that opinion as fact.
>I see myself as saving them from the vagina Jew and keeping their identity.
>I see myself
>I myself
>identity
> Being virgins is a big part of who we are.
>who we are
>identity
>shaming your little sister for her sexuality
you're a fucking narcissist, who has built an identity whorshipping virginity, and you hurt the people around you in the process.

>>37761977
I don't know about him, but what about the guys who simply aren't interested in sex at all?.
what happens to the ones who decided to keep their chastity by mere personal option?.
what happens to the men that would focus on science rather than relationships?.
what is wrong with simply being a virgin?.

>>37761952
>Why do they feel superior though?

Because they view having sex has having "won" a contest.

The idea is that guys compete over girls for sex -- and so the guys who get the most sex are the "biggest winners".

Your question is basically asking why guys are competitive and like to win, and feel superior when they win. It's not really a question you can answer. It's just part of the nature of a lot of guys.

Actually, girls do it too -- they also like to try to feel better about themselves by looking down on others. That explains why a girl will also look down on you for being a virgin. It makes her feel superior when she can look down on you as being inferior -- and she likes that feeling of superiority -- it helps soothe her low self-esteem.

If you don't have any problems with low self-esteem, then it's probably something that you'll never be able to really understand.

>>37762123
what about the guys who simply aren't interested in sex at all?.
They are simply not interested in sex at all.
>what happens to the ones who decided to keep their chastity by mere personal option?.
They get a promotion if they're priests.
>what happens to the men that would focus on science rather than relationships?.
They become scientists.
>what is wrong with simply being a virgin?.
Nothing, There is nothing wrong with simply being a virgin.

>>37760758
when you are a 24 yr old virgin, you KNOW its not luck...

>>37760732
Daily reminder that premarital sex is disgusting and you'll go to hell.

>>37761304
Same anon. If you want meaningless sex just go for a whore. And that's just sad, I mean even ugly people get laid. It's us introverts autists that have a problem talking and meeting people

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>>37760732
non-v here.

I don't hate you guys, I just totally don't get at all why you're actively trying to remain virgins

>What if it was my choice?

Well it's your choice but what's the reason?

I get it if you're religious and you think it's a sin that will get you to hell or reborn as a chicken - but other than that? What reason is there to willingly remain a virgin by choice?

>>37761619
I used to have a group of friends that were virgins. Then a pair of them became a couple. They couldn't stand being without holding hand or kissing and talking about each other. It was horrible. Our group dissolved. We never spoke again.

>>37761964
She's a virgin. She has no problems keeping her virginity from random assholes and chads. I made sure of it by telling her how I feel about it early.

>>37761304

First time is a meme.

Everytime that you make out or have sex with someone it's your first time with them.

If you do meet the girl of your dreams, wouldn't you want to be able to satisfy her sexual needs as someone with experience? Struggling to put a condom on yourself, going half-soft and humping her while not even being able to stick it in her before nutting after a minute doesn't sound pleasurable for anyone involved.

That's what practice gfs and sluts are for.

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>anon, you're a virgin aren't you?

how do they know?! how do they always know?!

>>37762123
Are u rick Sanchez?

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do i still get to be a wizard if i only fucked hookers?

i legit never had a gril interested in me or any female friends ever in my life

>>37762146
I understand it.
My self esteem is always low in my opinion.
But making myself superior to others and telling them that is an asshole move so I try not to do it. I also feel ashamed when I do brag. I end up apologizing to thin air all night when I say offensive in the day.

I don't mind if my friends aren't virgins, but I am and I'm disgusted at the idea of sex with a non-virgin that I'm not going to stay with.

>>37762462
I'm glad they found each other. But sure sucks that they were lost as friends.

Not even a virgin. Just someone whose life got flipped, turned upside down.
But I get this all the time.

>Professors in college used to tell me I should try and get laid.
>Sister in law (fat boring bitch) insults me and asks me how long it's been since I've gotten any.
>My mom thinks I'm gay because I haven't had a girlfriend in four years.
>Last time I was going to have sex I had whiskey dick and was completely soft.
>It's been 4 years since I've had sex.
>In the meantime I drink too much and smoke and my dick basically doesn't work.
>I can masturbate but porn doesn't do much for me.
>I've been depressed basically my entire adult life.

Every time someone says this shit to me I want to scream.

>>37760732
Hi, robots. I want to come out as asexual to all you here.
Do you believe in me, do you think I have a mental illness or do you think I'm trying to be an attention seeking snowflake?

>>37760878
Hey, this anon's onto som-
>women can change oil
Never mind.

>>37762462
Sex destroys pure innocent friendships.
See how disgusting it is.

>>37762575
Thanks for your witty retort, Tim Allen.

>>37762566
nice digits, make a new thread for your post and see how it plays out :^)

>>37762576
>>37762462

The problem is when virgins have sex the first time, they overdo everything and become overly clingy.

People who have had at least two sexual partners don't need to be holding hands and kissing each other all the time and starting sentences with "my boyfriend/girlfriend", he/she" when the other is not in the room.

>>37760929
And yet they aren't virgins. Hmm

>>37762576
Exactly. I didn't mind being a virgin with them or being a KHV because I had them, their friendship meant so much to me. Now I'm just waiting for death

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>>37762445
>What reason is there to willingly remain a virgin by choice?

Please reply I am really thinking hard

>>37762627
It hurt us so much. It was a constant reminder of what we could never have.

>>37760732
Normies are fucking disgusting. It's mind boggling how they can actually have things like casual sex. Just the idea makes me feel a mix of nausea and anger.

virgin but trying to keep up with normie circle of friends
>he suggests me going to strip club
>go to strip club
>get beers
>2 hookers come to table
>get convinced by the old hooker 10/7 jaguar
>go to room
>try to talk to the bitch about how this is the first time
>she can't speak english
>can't communicate
>fell fuck it
>get succ
>fuck her a bit
>can't focus on the bitch because I am thinking still abut studiofows kunoichi 2 clip that I was thinking about to get hard
>couldn't cum because my mind is fucking elsewhere
>bitch says the time is up
>get dressed and leave
am I still being counted a virgin? can I stay in this thread?

>>37762617
Yeah, except I'm afraid that will push the "attention seeking snowflake" narrative. I don't know why I'm looking for validation here anyway...

>>37762784
You're counted as a robot because the female wasn't willing so we don't hate you as much but you're not a virgin. Sorry.

>>37762797
darnit, you have seen right trhough my intentions!
have you asked reddot yet?

>>37762797
OP here. I have a strong judgemental temperament so I'm going to validate you.
You're not a special snowflake. You're not attracted to anything. That's okay. You're probably focused on science or something and that's what you invest in emotionally and physically. Good for you.
I believe in you.
The only ones who'd think you have a mental illness are those normalfags that enjoy the current society and are pushing that agenda on the rest of us. If we don't get laid we're trash to them.

>>37762784

This is why male virginity is weird. You're not technically a virgin no but you never really "got" a girl. Even if you came, it still doesn't count but it kind of counts.

>>37762445
Sex is the most intimate thing you can do with another person. You're literally sharing each other's bodies. Something like that should only happen exclusively between you and the person you love so much that you choose to spend the rest of your life with. It's too special to just use as a recreational activity.

>>37762938
>Something like that should only happen exclusively between you and the person you love so much that you choose to spend the rest of your life with.

I was asking about reasons other than the marriage/religion angle.

>>37762938
This so much.
>>37762971
It's not necessarily religious.

>>37760732
Always find it hilarious how people think it's some big accomplishment that one of the 3.5Billion people on this planet have rubbed genitals with you.

It's not a big deal and really more trouble than it's worth. Big fucking scam

>>37762994
>>37762938

Well like I said earlier, taking the religious aspects aside, you would want your first time -with- you true love to be an extremely pleasurable and unforgettable experience for your and for her.

Not an unfortunate situation where you have to apologize after a few minutes and she has to pretend that it's okay no really

>>37763053
Ya, I agree 100%.

>>37762887
Thank you for being willing to understand, OP <3

>>37763053
Meanwhile normies get pissed that virgins are too clingy after sex.
Normies want virgins to become desensitized to it so they can have sex with random people easier without being emotionally affected.

>>37762512
Non-virgin here and everyone assumes I'm a virgin because I hate relationships and never brag after getting laid.

Granted I only get laid maybe 2 or 3 times a year when I actually have the motivation to chase (usually when I'm on drugs) but it's just not a big deal. It feels really good while it lasts and there's a slight afterglow but then you just realize that it's a temporary high due to the instinctual deep wirings to survive

>>37762971
I'm an atheist I just want someone to care for

>>37762627
>They overdo everything
That's how it's suppose to be. You're using someone's body. It's not a trifle matter.

>>37762510
It's simple, i value myself and my future gf, i don't see a point in dating "practice gfs" or sluts if the only thing that you can feel for them is lust. I fucking hate people who says that they "are looking for the right one" while they fuck everyone and their mother. You value yourself so low that you fucking throw away your love to the first one that's willing to let you get your dick wet?

Also
>Struggling to put a condom on yourself
You have to be literally retarded or sheltered as fuck to not know how to properly put on a condom
>going half-soft and humping her while not even being able to stick it in her before nutting after a minute
That mostly happens because of anxiety, and most of the time that is because you see sex as a chore.

>First time is a meme.
It sure is if you think that it's something magical that will solve all your problems and make you a normie. The reason why i value the first time it's not because "it's the first time that i stick my dick inside a vagina", it's because it symbolises the begining of the sexual life.

Finally, don't get me wrong, i do see your point, but i don't share your world view.
It might seem like i'm angry and attacking you with this post, but that's not it, i've meet way too many sluts in my life and they all had the same fucking speech, so things like this irritate me way too easily.
I don't have anything against people who fool around or people that wants to have experience, but what angers me is the hypocresy of most sluts and manwhores these days.

>>37763053
>not wanting both of your first times to be together, awkwardly touching each other and exploring each other's bodies
>totally comfortable with each other's inexperience, learning how to make love as husband and wife

>>37763107
You're welcome random robot.

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>>37762445
>No STDs
>No kids
>No clingy whores who take all your money to spite you
>Not part of the rat race that modern society forces on guys
>My virginity literally makes me feel like I have a free pass to treat women the way I want to.
>Since sex is out question I can degrade them and belittle them as much as I want.

It's like you want to be inferior anon.

>>37760732
To me it's a constant reminder that there is something seriously wrong with me. Past a certain age it becomes apparent you're incapable of bonding with other people. Reminds me I'm on my own, and I hate myself for it. I don't hate non-virgins, and I don't think you should either. They're just mentally sound people.

I hold the term 'radical aegosexuality' to mean the rejection (either willful or innate) of societal norms, especially regarding sex. In my personal belief on this issue, physical sex in real life is inherently subhuman and reprehensible. In engaging in it, a person denies humanity's gift of technology, which has allowed one to foster infinite mental sexuality.

Thus the sexual person aligns themselves with animals, humanity's ancient past, and becomes a slave to their distant instinctual mind. Wasting money and time on another self-degenerated sexual, simply to feel that hormonal rush and feeling of societal accomplishment (a farce of it's own) all the while claiming that the chemical process they feel is 'love'.

Those of you using terminology such as '3DPD' and 'waifu' may not know it, but you are among the enlightened, with willpower to resist society's vile mockery, and using humanity's self-gifted technology to create a more perfect world which was, arguably it's purpose from the outset. CONT.

>>37764521
Your fictional fetishes, no matter how lewd or outlandish, show a mind willing to break society's chains and enter a true world of infinite feeling, in fact, on could argue that the waifu concept is a more pure concept of love than all others. As while the one forming a relationship with the character in question cannot directly contact them, given their fictional status, they persist in this relationship regardless, showing a deeply more genuine, less judgmental non-circumstantial form of 'love' closer to the definition than anything you'd encounter on Facebook.

Reject, resist, discover, prosper. Become a human being closer to the singularity than the vast majority, I promise you, inner peace is possible if you simply realize the farce of society's cold, bitter chains and cast them off with conviction.

Choose enlightenment, peace, infinite possibilities for arousal and virtuous love.

Or bend to society and choose: emotional stress, financial expenses, disease, endless competition, extremely limited, socially imposed false form of love, angry and vindictive partners, and ending in a disgusting display of obsolete reproduction and childbirth, which culminates into a life spent in slavery to the offspring. You are human, your brain is yours (or is it?), choose.

>>37762512
I'm the opposite. Everyone thinks I'm not a virgin.

>>37764521
seek help
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>>37764521
>subhuman
So would that make your definition of "human" one in a transcendent state between what most consider human, and extinction?

>>37762512
>he does the virgin existing

>>37760732
>ask someone if they're a virgin
It's already been pointed out but this is where you fucked up. I'm a virgin myself and I don't talk about my virginity. I just do not care and it's an awkward topic. Those non-virgins took pity because they presume you are actively trying to lose it and are trying to save face. They're mind-boggled because it's not normal.
If you don't want that reaction, then don't bring it up. It doesn't even matter because virginity is a meme. You can use it to sort through people but don't be surprised if you get a lot of bullshit in response. People will just think you're extremely awkward for bringing up something private like that at random.

>>37760863
All that and you still can't get a woman to sleep with you?
Fucking little boy

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>>37762445
Largely out of my control.
I'm not particularly handsome (weak chin/hairy/<6'/weirdly deep voice/nigger lips/etc) nor do I have a sexually/romantically attractive personality (too serious and sometimes avoidant).
Similarly, I don't have the guts nor really the desire to hook up with a landwhale on tindr since that's not really any better than just staying home and wanking. I want to at least like the person and have genuinely met them, rather than through a random online hookup.

>>37760732
>Wtf? Why do people hate virginity so much?
because its weird

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>>37760732
>ask someone if they're virgin

Why the fuck would you ask someone this in the first place?

Only low class garbage bring up sex stuff in a discussion.

>>37762445
I don't want to get legally-raped by a false rape accusation. Or fucked by divorce courts. There's a lot of prepwork and overall I just can't be assed to make that much effort to woo women when I'm broke, year 5 of looking for work under my family's roof at age 24, and have zero social contacts out of the family. Even in absolutely ideal circumstances, I don't see a point in risking so much for so little. It wouldn't solve my problems and it wouldn't make me happy.

So I guess I'm not "actively" trying to remain a virgin, I just lost the capacity to care long ago.

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>tfw no one has asked me if I was a virgin because it's so blatantly obvious it would be like asking a guy in a wheelchair if he likes skatboarding