ITT: write the exact text you would like to receive from your oneitis. I'll start
>Let's make dinner, drink, play games together and spend the night with each other
>Hey. I was thinking about you.
>>37754651
I don't have a oneitis because I have a fiance. How am I supposed to participate in this thread? It seems pretty exclusionary.
I already had my shot. My oneitis ran into me at college and texted me afterwards
>it was cool seeing you for five seconds
I had previously confessed to her and been turned down so I just texted back
>ok
Then she texted more, eventually asked me to meet her for lunch. We met up and talked for a few hours and then I never contacted her. At this point if she texted me anything at all I'd throw away my fear and just properly ask her out, but I think I already blew my chances with her.
>>37755159
Dude, that was not the smartest set of moves.
How long ago?
>>37755187
I know, freezing up was the worst thing to do.
Confessed in june, lunch in october. Actually ran into her in may at the local mall, she worked in a store. Thought I was over her but just seeing her smile dug up old feelings.
>>37754651
Hey, sorry I haven't been replying lately, but that week you came to stay with us, I had a little crush on u
Just so u kno
>>37755266
Go talk to her, there's nothing to lose except for the bitterness.
I'm sorry I left, don't know what I was thinking... can I call right now?
I actually get texts similar to this (even telling me she wants to get married and have kids with me) from her a lot but she always changes her mind and disappears for a bit before texting me again.
>A-Anon, I don't want anything else but you. I've never been loved by any man but you
God please let pic related happen because the above never will
>>37754651
"I know you don't hear from me that much anymore but I just want you to know that I still care about you. I've missed you since you left and I you've made me super happy with the time you've spent with me. Thank you for caring about me when no one else did."
>>37755315
I don't have her number anymore (deleted it to try to move on). and I can't think of any way to run into her other than going to her store, but I can't do that casually, she works at a hot topic and I'd never shop there. If I showed up it'd be obvious that I'm still thinking about her. I don't want to put her into a position where she feels like a sitting duck and I can approach her at any moment. Deep down I think she just pities me.
>>37755471
Take another girl with you. It'll have her thinking about you so much she'll go crazy.
>>37755471
I'm sorry, man.
I'm not the other anon btw.
>Lets hang out sometime, you free on saturday?
>>37755501
Or she'll think "well hes taken" because that is the most logical first assumption
>inb4 "but women are illogical"
If they were illogical they would be swooning over your ignorance
>>37754651
Im going to killmyself anonnbye
>>37755596
>being this unexperienced
you'll learn lad, you'll learn.
>>37755501
I don't think so, I think she'd just be glad that I'm finally not alone.
Anyway, how do you expect me to convince a girl to go with me to the mall?
>>37755596
This is also a valid concern. This girl is not very aggressive, she's never had a bf. She seems to have very low self esteem.
>>37754651
>Can we talk??
We had a bit of a fight and we havent talked about what happened despite being friendly
hi, sorry if you thought I was ghosting you