>gone through whole life trying to juggle between loneliness due to social isolation and extreme stress when I do socialise
>extroverts seem to have it best of all worlds
>google if introverts can become extroverts, and how
>"No, for the simple reason the brains of Introverts and extraverts may be wired differently from birth so that each handle dopamine differently. An introvert can practice extrovert behaviors and become more comfortable with them but cannot change his basic nature"
Well just absolutely fuck my life, then.
you arent a fucking introvert you retard. you are an extrovert that failed. you want to socialize with other people because you cant handle being alone but no one wants to give you the time of day because you are pathetic. just kill yourself already
>>37712899
I can relate OP because I have no desire to socialise. In fact, I often get angry if I'm not left alone. When I'm at home alone I feel a sort of bliss, but as soon as someone opens the door that disappears
In public I just try to go from point a to b and ignore the normies
>>37713018
"I can't relate" I meant to say. Fuck mobile
>>37712969
Intraversion and extraversion is on a sliding scale.
See, introverts become exhausted due to too much stimulation that comes with social interaction, and extroverts aren't so easily stimulated, and are rewarded when they do interact with people.
So it's not about being invited to parties. If I go to a party I hate it. If people reach out to me, I hate it unless I'm feeling that isolation.
>>37713018
Me too though, if somebody texts me I want to ignore it. If somebody calls me I always ignore it. It's cost me quite a few friendships.
>can socialize mostly fine
>still on a lower social level than most people
>mostly just feel like an alien among humans for lack of a better term
It'd be easier if I was a legit fucking alien because then at least I would know I wasn't just simply a defective human being.