>tfw intense desire to see a woman who loves me carrying my

>>37685842
Go to the Philippines

How many years did it take you to realize it ?
Being ignored by anything female since you hit puberty wasnt a big enough sign ?
>>37685864
>he wants a subhuman mongoloid to bear his child

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I know that feel, bro.

It's just weird to me how the normies just take it for granted. Or grouse about having a girl instead of a boy or some crap. Or treat it as an inconvenience, a speeding ticket for having sex.

I mean, it's a new person who is 1/2 you and 1/2 your favorite person and that's pretty magical if you contemplate it.

>Didn't think I ever wanted it
>Knocked a girl up while staying in another country
>Loved every minute of it and wish we could still be together

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>>37685885
When I was a teenager I just wanted to put penis in vagina. In college I started wanting to experience love. Now all I can think about is having one single woman who loves you and only you and wants to raise a family and grow old together.

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wew, lads. such keeps sending me scenes from shit movies where people are kissing. dafaq is wrong with her?

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>>37685842
>tfw the only think you can fap to now is impregnation
>tfw vanilla just reminds you of something you'll never have, so instead it's rape/netorare/mindbreak

>>37685842
Hey, could be worse. I want to be pregnant and that is literally impossible

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>tfw pic related
oregano

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DAE torture themselves by looking at Tumblr blogs dedicated to country living, families, traditionalism, etc?

>>37686058
We could just keep trying though.

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>>37685842
i know that fucking feel bro
roginal

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>>37686226
post some of them
original roach

The irony is the reason you won't get this is merely because you want it so much, and your irrational desire for certain things in life is keeping you from taking the necessary steps to reach them.

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>>37687378

I suppose I can dump a few

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Making breakfast originally

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Winter/Christmas

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A family dinner

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TFW no qt daughter to troll

>>37685969
This shit tears me apart. Remove all of this thread.

Do you want the pretty moments, anon, or do you actually want kids and a family?

I often get tfw intense desire to carry the child of a man who loves me and our child, or tfw longing to be proposed to. I can make to go away almost completely by thinking about what it's actually like to have children. Nothing fun, pretty or romantic about it. Even the best moments are connecting with literal subhumans.

>>37685842
>think of loving pregnant wife
>Never gonna happen
>If it did, she might fall out of love and turn it into a rope around your neck

Feels conflicted , mang.

>>37687657
A real and legitament fear after watching what happened to my father with the divorce.

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>>37687637

>I can make to go away almost completely by thinking about what it's actually like to have children. Nothing fun, pretty or romantic about it. Even the best moments are connecting with literal subhumans.

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>>37687657

>If it did, she might fall out of love and turn it into a rope around your neck

I hate how people have this attitude that something must be horribly wrong if they don't feel like a 14 year old with a crush after umpteen years of marriage. In a marriage compatible values and friendship are more important than passion.

>>37687637
Actual family. It never was about having fun or shooting a romance movie. What do you mean connecting with subhumans?

>>37685842
NORMIES GET OFF MY BOARD REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

originalo

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>>37685842
All you want is a wife and kids? To know that a woman loves you so much she'll have your child and raise it with you?

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>>37687925

YWN experience this original family experience

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>>37685969
>In the maternity ward; she's nervous but happy
>Labor starts. It isn't as bad as everyone told her. She is brave, and strong, and does as the nurses say
>The baby comes, and he's perfect. He's rosy, and crying. You thought you loved him before but now? Your heart just grew 100% so you can love more than you could before, all for him
>They give him to her, *your wife*, and she holds him and nurses him
>Her eyes are full of love, the love you feel, too, and you realize that her love for you and your love for her just grew, too
>She looks at you, your son nursing at her breast, and she is shining with love and pride
>"He's warm" she says "I didn't realize how warm he'd be"
>And you kiss her like it was the first time, full of pride. *Your family*

>>37685910
I think the point is most people wind up having kids with someone they don't really like.

>>37687763
Don't get me wrong, I love children. But it's still always a huge relief to return them to their parents. Everything about humans that makes us human is underdeveloped in children. It's exhausting to be patient with them.

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>>37685969
Fuck. please delete this

>>37687745
Look at that guys face, he's fucking miserable.

>>37685864
>perpetuating a problem

http://www.latimes.com/world/asia/la-fg-philippines-orphans-adv-snap-story.html

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>>37688012

I always imagined my first kid as a girl for some reason. Maybe it's because I like my sister more than my brother.

>>37688012
>five years later she divorces you
>she gets the custody and your dog
>you can see your son every month for a day
>he slowly becomes more distant
>raised by a single mother he becomes a beta autist
>ends up on r9k fantasizing about having family

>>37686226
>knew a guy from my neighborhood when I was in HS. He was homeschooled. Very Catholic. He was nice, and really smart. Tall, blue-eyed. You know - the opposite of me.
Over Christmas a few months back he was visiting his parents and I met his wife. He's just 20, she was just 19.
>Blonde, gorgeous, really pregnant.
>He bought 15 acres outside town and are fixing it up
>I added them on normiebook - she's doing the whole farm wife thing. I look at the pictures of her decorating, the new little boy, etc. and wish it was me

>>37688059
B-but your own flesh and blood, and a baby you molded into a well behaved child, one that adores you because for all he/she knows you're the strongest, smartest, best person in the world? I cannot imagine not being able to tolerate anything coming from him/her.

>>37687637
>Visiting my cousins
>their little boy, just 3 years old, is playing outside
>He runs in, runs up to my cousin and *throws* himself into her lap
>"Me love you, mommy. Me sit on your lap and love you"
>He crawls up with a book about puppies and sits on her lap, quietly, while she and I talk
>Reaches the end of the book and jumps down to run outside. Comes right back in with a violet. Takes it to her
>"Me got flower you, mommy."
>Puts it in her hand
>"Me love you"
Yeah, fuck off.

>>37688224
I'm guessing you don't have any much younger siblings. Or remember your parents ever acting frustrated toward you. And you haven't done much babysitting, either.

I'm only saying this because I'm an edgy robotess and I really need the whole sour grapes aspect. It's still true, though. You're not hearing it from parents because it's a taboo in our society and because parents must convince themselves just like I do, only of the opposite thing. Reality is children are not pleasant to be around, and the good moments will mostly only feel good afterwards as you're recalling them. But once they exist you love them anyway, and then you worry yourself sick about them. It's a bad idea getting any.

>>37688286
Does the kid have developmental issues? Why is he talking like that at 3? Or at all?

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>>37688012
>he's strong, and he's smart, and he's brave. She loves him so much she wants another one. Soon you're back in the ward, and she's working again. And once more your heart grows to love more and more.
>Your family is bigger, stronger
>You and your wife have more love

>>37688339
Fuck off. I couldn't talk until i was 4. Please delete this.

>>37688087
He's just tired. Dad's are tired a lot

>>37687416
actually...desu i feel that way BECAUSE i tried so much and god knows i tried,i should have given up a long time ago actually but i didn't,the thing is i truly,with all my senses feel like i don't belong in this world,in this reality,like i was raised a certain way is completely incompatible with this world,i wished for a future which i know no matter how i try i will not get,i might get lucky like some...but i don't feel lucky...

>>37688370
Why? Because you had developmental issues people shouldn't discuss them on the internet?

>>37688183
>All of my great-grandparents were married for life
>My grandparents were married for life
>My parents and all of my aunts and uncles are married to their first spouse except Aunt Janet whose first husband died and she later married a widower
I'm just 19 - I am going to make it work someday, too

>>37685910
>>37685842
>muh transient feels
1. if you took it so much more seriously than other people, there's opportunity literally everywhere you look. i spent 10 hours every day talking to girls before i found what i needed.

2. if you can take anything you already do for granted, you'll take that shit for granted too. you'll fulfill one function, but start missing out on another. you only win if you can balance your shit out reset the mood swings in either direction. if you get too excited over a bitch, you're bound to have a severe disappointment at some point too. stay somewhere in the middle where it's manageable.

>>37688446
Some people need to learn the hard way I guess.

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>>37685969
pic definitely related

originally

>>37688310
>it's a taboo in our society
My older sisters and brothers with kids talk all the time about how tiring and frustrating little kids can be, but say it pales in comparison with the good.
My oldest sister always says
>"It is easy until they're 2 or so and easy again once they are 6 or so. A lifetime of love is worth 4 years of mild exasperation'

>>37688446
a lot of people on r9k are from black families in the ghetto so they think divorce is a real threat. only in hollywood is it even a conversation.

>>37688446
I wish you best of luck anon, but start working on it as soon as possible

>>37688517
>implying that they even marry

>>37688339
>"By the end of age three a typical child can string together 3 word sentences such as 'mommy go store' or 'daddy go home'."
Protip: a just turned three year old that can say 'me got flower you mommy' is gifted. He is in a gifted program with Dr. Ruf, as a matter of fact

>>37688486
Learn what? That over 70% of first marriages succeed? That the percentage of first marriages that end in divorce has been dropping for 40 years?

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>>37685842
Imagine having a big family. All the love; all the fun; all the little inside jokes....

>>37688310
I am the elder brother to a sibling who's stuck being a misbehaving kid even as a young adult. I've pretty much been half a father to him and love him. I have been hit by my parents as well.

I think your kind of people would make the best mothers because you already think too much ahead of time.

>>37688564
Top fucking kek but they do. Believe it or not, the ghetto niggers have had genuine feelings for each other, even if they failed to stay faithful. My guess would be they have mistaken lust and passion with love.

>>37687637
Fags can't carry babies

>>37688012
>all for him

Sorry I'm not gay

>>37685842
>Go to lunch with a coworker. His wife meets him. She is due in a week
>I She says 'the baby is kicking'
>she sees the look on my face, laughs,. takes my hand
>"Here. feel"
>"Puts my hand on her belly
>Feel the thump thump, then pressure. Can feel the rough outline of a little foot through her belly
>"Oh,he's really pushing!' she laughs
>Filled with an intense desire to protect her and the baby from all harm, almost breathless with desire to have a wife and child to protect
That was months ago and it is almost all I think of, now

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>>37685842
nice taste in waifus though

>be 21
>girl I'm dating and in love with tells me she's pregnant
>get really nervous/excited
>get a big raise at my job
>things are coming together
>3 months later
>she has a miscarriage
>relationship starts to fail
>we go our seperate ways after a life draining breakup
>we still talk 4 years later
>hooked up with her a few months ago
>don't know how to feel about anything anymore since everything happened
>calls me and mentions having a family
>go cold and stop talking to her
>sign up on co parents website
>get a bunch of women who want me to impregnate them
>flake out everytime

I think I've been ruined anons, only the dead can know peace from this suffering. I still have dreams about my family.

>>37688310
>>37688782
>He tried.

I just want a loving wife

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>tfw had a gf who told me she loved me and wanted to be with me forever and wanted to have kids with me
>tfw when she broke up with me she told me that she never really loved me and lied about wanting to be with me forever and have kids just to make me happy

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>>37685969
DELET

origamzo

>tfw want to be an okaasan
>tfw too young to get knocked up

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>>37692387
>too young to get knocked up
give it time.

>>37691305
You still don't belong here, normalfag.

>Having a family seems to happen by default or even by accident for most people
>It will never happen for you even though it's your only real desire in life

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this is all just jewish propaganda right guys, living single is the actual right way of living hahahaha

right guys im not missing out on anything right??

Am I the only one that dosn't want kids because I'd be afraid of my wife loving them more then me?

>>37689093
What kind of man is your coworker?

>>37685842

LMAO at this faggot who says that he has instincts and thinks he's special for that. We're all animals here matey.

https://youtu.be/99j0zLuNhi8

Say what you want about Creed, but this is a good and relevant song for the thread

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>>37688006
>>37688012
Take me out of this nightmare, somebody... anybody

>>37685842
Lillie a shit

Why would anyone want a blind waifu, you'll always be judged by others as taling advantage of her and you might bring a blind kid into a awful life

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>tfw femanon
>have fantasies about working with some nice single dad
>he's super spergy and has terrible luck with women because skinny nerd with a bad hairline
>his kids love me
>and we fall in love
>go on "dates" with the kids on tow
>get drunk, listen to progressive tock
>and get married
>and i garden a lot and we cuddle
>have some more kids together

But it's never going to happen because (1) I'm a sperg, (2) I'm painfully average looking, and (3) I'm a feminist and men hate feminists.

My God, it's full of feels.

>>37693614
fuck off with this bait normaIfag.

>>37687523
>>37687511
>>37687473
>>37687440
nice pictures. He looks like a chad and she's a qt.

>>37693614

I have a crush on this widowed dad who always picks up his toddler daughter from the daycare I work at wearing a nice suit. He's really tall and smells like talc. ;_;

>>37688006
>tfw you only like this because they're white.
this place made me racist.

>>37693668
>post sincerely
>get called bait

>>37693751
>nice suit
I just want a cute frumpy dork like myself who appreciates a good cardigan.

>talc
I'm sad that baby has diaper rash though.

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>>37693755

There's something amazing about White families.

Desi/Asian? Some good ideas(respect for tradition, etc) but lots of dysfunction and viewing kids as an investment.

Blacks? They think of children as speeding tickets for having sex.

>>37693893
God that little girl is ugly

>>37693751
>tall
Triggered.

>>37693614
What kind of feminist? Depending on what your values are he may not mind.

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>>37685842
this truly is the worst feel going

>>37685842
Whoever made this draw, thanks you, it warms my heart.

My proudest fap in years.

>>37685842
If I managed to get a baby girl than I am actually scared to fall into love with my daughter, despite all my degeneracy I know I wouldn't be touching her but my wife would realize I'd be losing interest and spend unreasonable amounts of time with our daughter only.

>>37693751
Weird turn-on with the talc. I get it though.

>>37695614
Radical, lol.

>porn sucks
>buying prostitute is wrong
>strip clubs are bad
>house work should be 50/50 if both people work
O-or I could get a qt house husband.
>/r9k/ memes about matriarchy are dumb
>being a woman (especially in a male dominated field like myself) can really suck because most institutions are run by dudes / permitted by women with aelf hate complexes

I'm surprisingly pretty chill (most people think I'm some edgy tryhard and have no clue I'm left leaning) but that's only because men fucking flip out if I say the wage gap is real or if I tell pop-culture liberals that's their Prius and bumpster stickers are shitty praxis.

>may not mind
That's another thing - I don't expect a soxial crusader, but he should at least share my value system and give a fuck.

>>37696517
The wage gap isnt real. If you arent makin money get a real job.

>>37696517
>porn sucks
As in, porn is bad because of all of the bad aspects of the industry Or that it actually sucks because you can't enjoy it?

>>37687523
Are those originally polygamists?

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>>37685842
PLEASE
STOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOP
I DIDNT COME TO FORCHAN FOR FEELS
I CAME HERE FOR SHITPOSTS, TRAPS, AND SHITTY SOCIAL EVALUATIONS
NOT THIS
PLEASE
PLEASE
DELETE THIS
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW

>>37685842
The very thought of someone devoting themselves to me, making me their true and only love, enough to want to have a family with me is so alien to me that I can barely understand the very concept.

Truly the ultimate feels, yet I did not ask for them.

>>37685842
so be it robot, these women want money, not feelings. mistreat and misuse them, they are shallow tools.

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>>37696517
my household growing up was female-dominated, with my mom being the hardest worker/biggest breadwinner/dominant parent and my submissive dad doing the housework and shit. never did sports save for typically girlish athletic stuff, and a lot of female expectations existed, including being a "nice guy" (in a more "respect women"ish tone than the average nice guy cringe comps) later on. also led to me being a marxist until i got interested in the military.

It was not very good, certainly not better than vice versa would've been i think. maybe would've worked with girls idk. I ended up on here and my brother is severely obese, 0 ambition, heavily into femdom (evidently) and emasculated entirely. I don't know why. I only managed to escape my brother's fate because I realized what he was becoming before he even did so I ran away to join the military. and I know this is just anecdote and it won't change your mind but it is a warning about how things could be, regardless of what you currently think.

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>tfw really want to be a parent
>have a serious preggo fetish
>only person in my life right now is an online friend
>hes a boy. which normally is fine with me, im not too picky when it comes to love
>he wants to meet soon
>remember he cant get pregnant
>we cant have kids together
>if our little date/meetup goes well this is going to come up eventually. but i dont know whats worse, being alone or not following my dreams

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>>37685842
I never see myself ever having children in my lifetime.
I never see myself getting married in my lifetime
I never see myself ever having a girl like me in my lifetime

...and I don't care enough to try to change that

>dream time
>meet a woman
>do stuff, marry her
>time passes, have a daughter
>she is around 4 and walking outside
>she runs to me and I lift her up
>hug her, she is smiling
>a female voice says "you will never experience this"
woke up crying. even my dreams are against me

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>>37699004
Jesus, Superman you need a vacation.

>>37688153
Fuck, my heart dude, I'm supposed to be cold and grumpy, don't make me feel these feels

>tfw no worry about wife cheating or child having to compete in school

Win some lose some right?

On the bright side there's video games, you can create a child in the form of a creation like a book or something and you can make it for yourself sl the world won't take it and stuff