Why are guys so shallow?

same, robots want to say that no girl ever likes them but they won't accept anything from a girl below 7/10. the only way I can keep their interest is with super angled pictures and makeup like a stacy

>>37651503
girls are incredibly uninteresting on the whole the only reason those guys talked to someone like you is because they wanted to fuck you. The only solution is to follow rule 30 or 31

>>37651503
We want to have sex with you so we'll say anything to help that along. Once we see your ugly excuse for a face, sex is off the table. With that out, we have no reason to talk to you since women make for terrible conversation.

>>37651503
"The day I realized it can be smart to be shallow was, for me, a deep experience" - The Art of the Deal

>>37651503
Everyone is shallow, looks matter no matter how much you don't like it.

>>37651503
I don't know? Why are women?
Don't pretend that you aren't.

>>37651503
Women are twice as shallow now that social media exists and thirsty cucks throw themselves at any pussy

>>37651503

I don't allow myself to eat everything in sight and try to keep myself somewhat healthy, if you can't do that too then you either don't care about yourself or you just don't care in general, either way I'm not cool with that.

Also I want a girl that can keep up with me in everything I do, I don't want to have to stop for her to catch her breath every 10 meters.

>>37651503
honestly that sucks. guys are shallow but at least they're honest about it. girls aren't which makes everyone frustrated.

the best thing any robot can do is work towards making virtual reality/the singularity the new norm. we won't be confined by the limitations of the body we were born in and can be anybody or anything we want. only then will the playing field be equal.

>>37651567

Why would I settle for you when I could fuck an 8/10 twink.

I'm not ugly, just slightly awkward, which doesn't matter much to guys. I'm bi but modern women provide zero incentive for me to not be full gay.

>>37651503
>why are guys so shallow?
And you're implying women aren't equally as shallow, if not, even more so?
Idiot. Most girls bully other girls. And they bully other girls who dare deviate from what is accepted of a women. You don't wear makeup? You don't care about nail polish? You buy your clothes from the second hand store and not some shitty trendy junior's clothing store marketed towards brainless sluts? You're basically not a woman anymore to most other women. ALL that is on their minds is their personal fucking appearance.
All that they think about is taking selfie's and applying expensive makeup to their lying ass whore faces.
They are boring sacks of shit, too.
all my bullies in elementary/middle/high school were girls, and I was bullied for how I looked and how I acted. I will fucking punch the next woman who dare ever tells me "I don't judge sweety ;)"
98% of women suck, I should have been born with a fucking cock
This is the worst thread in the history of this shitty fucking image board

>>37651869
>You don't wear makeup? You don't care about nail polish? You buy your clothes from the second hand store and not some shitty trendy junior's clothing store marketed towards brainless sluts?
I never did any of this shit and no one was ever remotely mean to me in high school.

>>37651970
Are you below average looking but still not unattractive? That'd fly under the other girls' radar and you'd basically be invisible to them.

>>37651715
you're bi, so it's different. straight bots still have impossible standards and they aren't getting anything from anyone

>>37652045
Possibly? I don't really know how to be objective about my own appearance. Genuine-seeming compliments from people without any incentive to lie lead me to think I am possibly even above average? But I look young for my age and not very sexual, so that might help. I got called "cute" a lot by other girls. And I hardly spoke to anyone.

In middle school I actually was bullied, probably for being ugly and awkward looking, so in high school it was kind of surreal that no one ever messed with me, most people even seemed to have a positive opinion of me (nice quiet girl, or something) even if they didn't care to get to know me.

>>37651503
From day one men are fed the idea they deserve the world and a 10/10 who lives to suck them off...it's actually super fucking obnoxious
>source: I have a penis and was raised to think that makes me special
>inb4 one of you virgins calls me a cuck or a chad

>>37652250
From day one women are fed the idea they deserve the world and a 10/10 who lives to provide for their every need...it's actually super fucking obnoxious
>source: I have a vagina and was raised to think that makes me special
>inb4 one of you cucks calls me a roastie or a stacy

>>37652250
By the way you type it's pretty clear you're either a female or a man pretending to be a butthurt girl as bait.

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>>37651503
Your appearance can tell a lot about your personality.
If you're fat it just says you're lazy but whatever, I actually don't care about fat as long as it isn't a full fucking whale like in your pic.
However tatoos, rainbow hair, those holes in ears whatever they're called just straight up tell me you're a fucking degenerate, therefore not worth spending time with.

>>37651503
I just don't want someone who is obese because I'm not obese myself, a little chubby is fine but fat like in the photo is not going to work.

>>37651503
The only value women have is their appearance.

>>37652485
>if you're fat you're lazy
I'm skinny and not even I believe this. There are fat athletes. Mostly football players and ufc fighters

Plus I've dated a fat chick. She wasn't
"lazy" she just liked eating junk food too much

>>37651571
Maybe the kind of emotionally broken women who talk to people from /r9k/, a board that is opposed to their very existence.

The interesting ones hang out in other boards, other websites, or just don't talk to people like you.

>>37654260
>normies are the interesting ones
now that is just ridiculous. i hate femanons but even they are more interesting than the average normie roasties

I'm fat and ugly and won't ghost you. Talk to me ;_;

>>37654361
m-me too, wheres my low standards bf

>>37651503
>they go from saying things like they can't believe a girl as 'cool' as me exists to pretty much ghosting me after they see me
This is basically an admission you're a man.

>>37652190
>above average
>bawww but I'm ugly pay attention to me
Go back to tumblr you gutter trash attention whore

People ghost you because you're an obnoxious, whiny basic bitch like 100% of the "women" on this site.

>>37651503
i really relate to this, op. it really sucks. i've had multiple guys tell me i'm their dream girl or whatever and i get ghosted always after a few situations
1. i send them a pic. and i honestly don't think i'm ugly by any means. sure i'm a chubby but i think my body is shapely and i take good care of myself otherwise. on one hand i'm glad it happens because you can't really have a courtship if you're not attracted to someone. on the other hand i wish people would be more upfront instead of just ghosting, and of course it hurts to hear you're someone's dream girl but you're not even good enough to be someone's friend unless you're gorgeous.
2. i don't respond well to sexual advances. on /r9k/ you have A LOT of men saying they won't settle for anything less than a virgin. and well, how do you expect me to keep my purity if i gave it up to every guy who hit me up on this board? this is relatively minor though because i think it shows that someone's only in it for one thing, which means i can go no contact without guilt.
3. in a similar vein, if i feel uncomfortable with romantic advances. maybe its just simple incompatibility but i always feel terrible when i have to tell someone i'm not ready to be their girlfriend after knowing them for a week (and that's no exaggeration). we could be hitting it off and getting along great but i think there's value in knowing someone for a while before you start to date.
anyway, i don't really know what else to say but iktf op.

>>37654468
r-right here. be my gf

>>37654582
post cont info and don't ghost when you see me..

>fat roasties getting btfo even by virgin neet robots
ahaha i love this thread

Find your equivalent.
Likely they're as shallow as you are.

>>37654629
[Spoiler][email protected][/spoiler]

I'm no prize myself ;_;

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>>37654629
>>37654942
make way for the happy couple

>>37654994
that's not a bad looking fatty

I'd fuck her

They ignore you for the same reason they suffer from, being ugly.
You can't do much about your face shape but dressing well and grooming increases appeal

Ffs, every time theres a "perfect gf" thread theres always a dozen replies that are simply: 'not a fatty, interested in me".
If you can only get a 50% score on that test and YOU'RE PURSUING robots. You need to re-evaluate your life.

>>37654536
I never said I was ugly though, I said I was ugly in middle school. Anon asked me how attractive I was and I answered to the best of my ability. I've never been ghosted and I didn't say anything about ghosting, so I don't know why this was mentioned. It sounds like you're projecting things onto me based on your own experiences with other people despite having only a few sentences from me to come to a conclusion about what I am like.

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>some form of regular hygine
>don't be a fucking 300 pound meatball, some chub is fine
I'm pretty much basing these on being 2 things I can at least manage doing nothing all day, and the second one could be negotiable if she isn't a complete bitch because I care more about getting along at least. Is that being shallow? I feel like it's fair since it's a standard I'm holding myself to, but I don't fucking know these days.

>>37651869
Is the pressure to conform as a woman greater than the general demand to conform to societal standards?

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>>37651503
you guys are retarded.original aidiok

>>37651503
Is that you? Because if it is, then there's your answer. Obesity is an outgrowth of a personality defect. And it goes both ways.

>>37651503
>they can't believe a girl as 'cool' as me exists
guys used to say this all the time when i was in highschool/college and obsessed with socializing online the only way i can competently socialize desu and i was 90% of the time a come on to try and get nudes or cyber. don't fall for the compliment bait and get on with your life. thank god i had a mom and grandma and step father that all redpilled me on men from a young age or i might have been some sad used up camwhore before turning 18.

>>37655837
*hygiene
Fuck me, I type too fast.

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>>37651869
This. Thread over.
Not all women are complete shit, but the overwhelming majority of women are complete shit
hopefully /r9k/ turns me gay, freeing me from the spell of women and their meat curtains

>>37651503

Pic related?

fwejfwef

>>37654313
LOLNO. 4channers are some of the most boring, basic people I've ever met. Just because you're a loser or a shut-in doesn't automatically make you more interesting than Joe 6-pack.

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>>37651503
i wish i knew, op. i already don't have much social interaction irl outside of work (work in tech support, don't talk to coworkers outside of work and honestly not when i'm on the clock either.) it seems like no one here wants you unless you're at least an 8/10.
i'm not even on /r9k/ looking for a boyfriend, but supposedly i don't pass anyone's standards to just be their friend. feels pretty bad and absolutely demolishes my self esteem. the loneliness is getting to be too much to handle. i just wanna game with someone or have a bud to talk to every once in a while. it's not like i'm forcing my ugly mug upon everyone.

pic related is me; so far i'm 3/3 for getting ghosted after i send a picture.

>>37656308
i think you're a super qt, you actually sorta look like me because of your face shape and eyes. guys on r9k seem to be turned off by normal women since all they're exposed to is porn and anime grills

>>37656308
Oh come now, the bait is just crawling onto the hook by itself.

>>37656308
No lie. Would fug and cuddle with on hours end. Do you accept nigbots?

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>>37656308
I don't believe a word of that, or believe that pic is you.

>>37656308
This has to be bait. Do you talk to Chad's or what?

>>37656241
i meet alot of normies and robots are much more interesting. except normie baiters like you

>>37656358
thanks anon, that's kind of you to say and a reasonable explanation. it feels kinda bad to think that of someone who you've been getting along so well with, though. i have a lot of faith in people and try to look inward before projecting anything on someone else.
>>37656386
i'm flattered, but not looking for someone to fug! i already have my puppy and stuffed animals to cuddle. i would accept anyone as a friend if we were compatible.
>>37656439
fair enough. i could post a timestamp but i'm comfy in bed.
>>37656442
not to my knowledge. i'm more interested in talking to other extremely introverted people or agoraphobes such as myself. the people who ghosted me weren't bad looking, though.

>>37656541
So friends first then fug?

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>>37656541
>i'm more interested in talking to other extremely introverted people or agoraphobes such as myself
>upset when these type of people up and leave
I'm surprised you haven't figured out you're basically on a soft time limit when you're talking to anxious, less social people.

>>37656308
You're talking to chads obviously.

That's kind of your issue.

A 7/10 guy would NEVER ghost you.

You're going for 9+

>>37656308
Not ugly but you give serious feminist vibes with the nose ring.

Protip: Nose rings do NOT LOOK ATTRACTIVE TO ANY MALE (MALE)
I knew an actual fucking MODEL that had a nose ring and it, no joke, decreased her attractiveness level by like 2 points on the richter scale. It just makes women look like cows

>>37656709
that could be it. i've considered that it could be my personality as well. either way i don't hold it against anyone.
i understand needing time to decompress while talking to new people, i'm like that too. sometimes i'll take a while to respond because i feel the need to analyze and proof read what i say dozens of times before i hit send.
i just wish we could start where we left off to build a friendship.
and to some degree, i think everyone ghosting after asking for a picture is too coincidental to ignore. i could be wrong though.

>>37656770
that's ridiculous to assume. it's not like i'm going on /soc/ adding all the good looking guys. i don't go into conversations knowing what someone looks like. every time i try i added them from /r9k/ after a pleasant conversation in a thread and them dropping contact info. is there something that i could do better in your opinion?

>>37656805
i like my piercing. honestly if someone thought i wasn't worth being friends with or assuming something about me from something i flip up 90% of the time then we're just not compatible as friends and there's no harm done. sorry if this comes off as mean.

>>37654994
Don't think it's happening. She never messaged.

>>37656896
>sorry if this comes off as mean.
It doesn't come off as mean. I gave honest constructive criticism and you pointed out exactly why you deserve to be ghosted.

You ignore the constructive criticism and go
>lol I like it anyways so I should just keep doing it xDDD

>>37656896
>honestly if someone thought i wasn't worth being friends with or assuming something about me from something i flip up 90% of the time then we're just not compatible as friends and there's no harm done
Then get used to being ghosted when you send pictures. You've got a few people in this thread still willing to be your friend even though you've got a nose ring, but those guys are just desperate. Any self-respecting guy wouldn't be friends with a girl with a nose ring.

>>37656970
>Any self-respecting guy wouldn't be friends with a girl with a nose ring.

This.
This.
This.
Oh, and THIS.

>>37656896
To be frank, you look too good to be posting the shit you're posting. And I'm trying to say that in the least orbiting way possible. That pic looks fake. Like you're wasting someone's time by fishing up some random pic on POF or tinder or whatever the fuck else there is and using it as an avatar. I wouldn't call it a stretch to think a lot of people who've seen you thought the same and thought it would be better to just cut and run now before it became potentially agonizing later. Pic looks like they should be doing some other shit like going to a bar or club with friends or some shit.

>>37657041
The make-up, sideways pic and the myspace angle cleverly hide the fact that she actually has a pretty ugly face. Without make-up she'd be a 5/10 at best.

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>>37657011
Yeah but why tho? Is there some conspiracy about women with nose rings?

>>37656308
The nosering is unattactive and I'll never understand why a woman would want or like to have it.

>>37657060
That's the other half of it. If this is the case, you're going this far to inflate your appearance.

>>37656308
I'd marry a girl who looks like that (as long a sshe took out the nose ring), but
>>37656541
>i'm flattered, but not looking for someone to fug! i already have my puppy and stuffed animals to cuddle. i would accept anyone as a friend if we were compatible.

I'm sick of talking to femanons who don't want me romantically. I have a fucking legions of female friends already.

>>37657011
i have a face shape and eye shape similar to hers and had a fake septum in for awhile to try it. all but one guy liked it, who was my edgy young teacher who definitely wasn't attracted to me in the first place. i love nose rings but it's just an immediate turn off for 90% of dudes

>>37657146
The nose ring, being a more mild form of neon hair or excessive tattoos, represents a combination of two qualities:
>an obsessive need to stand out or feel unique
>a rejection of social norms
I meet a lot of girls who think nose rings are cool but would be scared to get one, those are girls who possess the first quality but not the second. I guess guys in general just aren't attracted to girls who display a bad ability to be part of the in-group.

>>37651503
The only useful attribute you have as a woman is your beauty. No man gives a flying fuck if you think you're a nerd because you like doctor who and capeshit. If you are unattractive, you are of no use to us.

>>37656308
nice attention whoring.I bet you rejected all the beta males in your tech support work and expected some knight in his shining armor(chad) to come along and pick you up from the evil betas.We all know you are bullshiting,just jump of a cliff and die you dumb roastie

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>>37657252
Gotcha.
I mean, I've dyed my hair, have a couple of tattoos and don't mind piercings personally, but most of my friends and family have them or have had them at some point so it kind of seems like it's the opposite in my experience.
They've been a pretty normal part of life, even with business professionals and etc in my area(somewhat close to chicago) so I never really understood the hate for them. I wouldn't personally cut out 80% of my dating pool over a tattoo or a piercing but maybe it's just different where I live.

>>37657146
Know that uneasy feeling you get when you see a neckbeard in a fedora? Kind of like that. Too many people fucked it up.

>>37657330
i dyed my hair a light grey/green, i didn't realize how many guys found it gross. it seems like every trend girls love, guys hate.

>>37657379
Let me put it this way. What you did is the equivalent of a guy wearing a fedora, which is a trend "guys love" in the sense that some guys think it's cool but most people overwhelmingly hate it. You did the same thing but with genders swapped.

>>37651503
Fuck off cow

>>37657410
is there any 'trend' that guys approve of? I'm a chubby uggo femanon and i just wanna look qt for once

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>>37657379
That's cool. As long as you keep up with the dye job it usually looks pretty sweet imo. Apparently I'm not the norm though.
>>37657337
Well, if a guy looks good in a fedora I don't knock him just because some fat basement dweller tried to pull it off. If it's not raining outside or something you better not wear a trenchcoat tho.

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>>37656308
I'll be your boyfriend

pic related it's me, am I good looking enough for you not to ghost me?
I'm a laid back easy goin guy with no mental problems unlike most of this board. of love to get to know you.

>>37657465
>Try to lose weight
>Get good at traditionally attractive makeup styles

Basically, "chubby uggo girl who is nice and makes an effort to look decent" is more appealing than "chubby uggo girl who desperately wants to fit in with some obnoxious subculture".

>>37657574
Lmao, this post gives me a serial killer vibe

>>37657465
>chubby

Lose weight retard

>>37657574
She says she isn't looking for a boyfriend (AKA there's no reason to talk to her unless you like being an emotional tampon)

>>37657602
im actually currently doing both, i put work into my looks, I just can't shed the 20-25 pounds that I need to lose to be a qt grill

>>37657574
>attractive male on a fat/ugly girl thread
how did your standard get so low

>>37657640
20 pounds extra isn't bad at all. Don't dye your hair meme colours or get weird piercings or any tattos though.

I've grown to not care about looks as I've gotten older. I'm only 23, but honestly I really don't care.

Most of my tastes come from morals. Do you have a good heart, are you honest, are you wholesome and pure? Then there's the other stuff, do we share the same values? Do we share the similar beliefs? Do we have common interests? Do you seem like you'd be a good mother to my children? Do you even want children? These are things that really matter to me. There are A LOT of attractive women on this planet, but you need something to set one apart from the other.

As far as the picture in the OP goes, I don't know if that's you or not, but my main concern is the piercings, the dyed hair and tattoos. These are all major red flags because it makes me think you're a liberal or a feminist or that you're rebelling against something. The face is fine and the weight is fine. I actually kind of have a thing for chubbies anyways and that picture is the upper part of my limit where it's just right but not TOO fat.

There's a reason guys always go crazy over virgins. The reason isn't because "they're tighter", although that may be a reason for some. A big part of that reason is because it's a good sign that the girl is wholesome and would probably be a good wife and mother. It's the same way that women look at dominant men because they subconsciously want a father figure for their children.

>>37651503
If it makes you feel any better a lot of guys will feel pretty bad about it later and you'd just flip out on them, or ignore them if they tried being friends again.

>>37651503
Because they feel like they're entitled to a 8/10 when they themselves are a 3/10 and refuse to do anything to change their appearance, then proceed to bitch about how all girls are whores or only go for assholes.
My ex roommate in a nutshell

>>37657612
well say what u want most of you are scared to even show your faces. Of course we would have to try to be friends first. I don't just dive into every pussy I meet. I don't even know why I try on here most of the girls are traps in disguise and live on the other side of America is the middle of no where. id send her my Facebook profile so she can see I'm no serial killer and that I have a lot of friends still from college and high school. I was an athlete and a degenerate mostly making friends with everyone I met. even you needs and uggos in the library's book clubs. I consider myself a friend to the world type of guy but recently niggers have ruined that idea fucking robbing me and being terrible people in general now that I live in a shit area where I can actually afford rent in the d.c. metro area. it sucks because I'm the only white guy within a 4 mile radius. if she doesn't want to talk or have anything to do with me it's no skin of my back tho.

>>37657723
Definitely a serial killer.

>>37657762
definitely a jealous faggot

>>37651503
Are you overweight? Some people just have a problem with that

>>37657723
>is a friend to the world
>hates black people
Kekeing at how tryhard this post is

>>37657723
why would posting our face change anything? if you want to be friends first I mean

>>37657816
Not him but niggers hate other niggers. It's anecdotal

>>37657723
>he thinks he's white

>>37651503
Cheswick, is this really you as OP?

>>37651503
Cheswick, is that you??!

>>37657723
>with no mental problems

>>37651503
because looks matter and they need to mutually work with your personality for you to be a good girl.

or half-wit orbiters will just go for the nearest girl who looks remotely good.

>>37651503
Honestly, I've only have a 5 in dick and probably can't penetrate pass your fat pussy lips

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>>37657819
because girls don't want to be friends and poentially intimate with ugly mental people. I'm done with this thread anyway. you robots can go back to shrieking at each other I'm goin to bed.

also don't hate black people just saying they are terrible to try to be decent people tward down here. they all seem to hate whitey and have no concept of decency tward their fellow man unless you grew up in the same hood or some shit.

also I like your colored hair and nose ring op. I was really into the emo scene in high school and dated emo girls so your looks are pretty tame to those standards.

for everyone else the pic is me getting caught in the rain the other day.
here's a pic of me meeting JT from hawthorn heights in my hometown.

>>37657196
Do you do everything to appeal to others and please them? Get a backbone you pathetic fat roastie.

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>>37656308
I'm talking to you btw, not the op

>>37657947
Where did this come from? I think noserings are ugly, not to mention they look uncomfortable. It'd make more sense if you were criticizing me for judging the other girl for doing what she wants, but this just seems to be implying that anyone who doesn't have a nosering is just doing it to look attractive and not beeing themselvz, which is pretty silly. Thinking a nosering makes you individualist is prime roastie logic anyway.

>>37657930
you're super qt, if she won't message you i will

These threads are always the most pathetic because it always devolves into the fembots desperately fishing for compliments and a series of robots ACTUALLY trying to court said females in the same thread going so far as to post their pictures and contact info.

How about you chucklefucks get some self respect. This place breeds misery, why are you trying to go for people just as miserable as you?

>>37657574
i'm not looking for a boyfriend, sorry. you're a handsome fella but i don't want the basis of my potential relationship to be on physical attraction.
plus hitting up someone just bc you find them attractive seems like a really normie thing to do. ree

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>>37658068
>i'm not looking for a boyfriend, sorry.

WHY IS THIS ALWAYS THE CASE

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>>37651503

Sorry anon. I'm a guy. I'll befriend if you like.

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>>37658028
>these are likely the same people who shit on robots for dragging each other down and being negative
The mind of thirsty fucks is an enigma.

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>>37651567
be my gf. I'm fat and ugly too! but i'm beautiful on the inside :3

>>37651503
Lol some men actually have a fetish for unatractive women. Hell men have a fetish for just about anything, but women 99% don't want to have anything to do with ugly men, you're delusional if you think this isn't the case. And everybody has standars, EVERYBODY. Even the ugly people who whine and complain about how shallow other people are. That being said i don't think i'd ghost someone just on the basis of them being unatractive. If i where looking for a sexual relationship in the first place then i'd put that aside and try to be friends with them, if that is what they wanted.

>>37651567
>the only way I can keep their interest

BUT YOU NEVER INITIATE CONVERSATION

YOU GIVE ONE-WORD ANSWERS

YOU NEVER ASK QUESTIONS BACK

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>>37651503
I HAVE ONE STANDARD.
THAT SHE ISN'T CRAZY.

It's not that I'm shallow, it's that I'm small and feminine, in a superficial world where that matters. It's bullshit when threads like this pop up becuse I'd take and MARRY anything that would give me proper companionship and not break me... and even that's negotiable at this point, I would not mind being snapped in half as long as it's someone who loves me.

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>>37651503
You are probably doing something wrong

>>37651567
But no girl really wants me. I don't like saying that, and I wish it weren't true, but it is.

no we aren't. if you provided us with good music or debate we would appreciate you more

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>>37656308

Hmm. If you need a friend anon I'll befriend you. I never ghost people if that makes you feel better.

>>37651503
Hmmm. I really, really find that hard to believe. I would not consider myself to be cute, but there are some pretty horny and desperate guys on this board. I haven't talked to a lot of people here, but those I have have all been complementary. Even to my fat-ass self

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>>37658171
Not desperate. Just lonely and misunderstood

>>37658005
[email protected]

>>37658212
Well, I understand that :) I think many of us on here are really lonely and sad. It's just nice to have someone to talk with. I don't think looks should matter in that situation anyways.

>>37658068
the "normie" thing
the normal thing
looks are a huge part of comparability in the human physic and I'm not looking for a girlfriend per se either just thot it could be fun to meet someone new
if not, big deal

>>37651503
You seem fine to me, if you are where you want to be, both body and life, then don't worry about dudes who just think with their dick.

>be me
>autistic male
>not neckbeard
>not weeb
>not virgin
>not fat
>"too weird"
>"i don't get you, anon"
>"you can't be real"
>gets ghosted

>>37658247
Why would someone take looks into acount in a friendship? Unlesh they're trying to be friends for lewd reasons that's just stupid imo

>>37658285
maybe your too autistic? do you think it's a good thing now because you feel like it's cool to fit in on here being so?

>>37658304
>Why would someone take looks into acount in a friendship?
I don't know anon, I'm not female, I can't answer that.

>>37658310
I realize I'm too autistic. I'm actually diagnosed ASD. The rest of your comment is difficult to understand... If you're suggesting I think it's cool to fit in here, that's incorrect. I don't feel as if I fit in here at all. Most posters have relationships or sex as a drive or desire, I do not.

>>37651970
This. Girls were never mean to me, but guys always were.
>>37651869
You must've been trying to hang out with the popular Stacies but did not make the cut then. That's the only explanation.

>>37658345
yes you understood me correctly but I'm suggesting your problem is that ur a fucking autist and you don't realize thats the whole problem right there.

>>37656308
cute as fuck. stop baiting.

>>37658340
Fucking hilarious this. Roasties proven wrong yet again.

>>37651503
I wanna fuck her fat feet

>>37658377
I think maybe you misunderstood me, then. I realize I'm an autist, I realized that before I was diagnosed and definitely can't deny it after. I do realize it's the problem, that's why my post mentioned it instead of asking "does anyone think I might be an autist?". I wanted to include another perspective and anecdote in the thread. You seem to be upset with me maybe, I can't tell. I'll stop posting. Carry on.

>>37651970
>>37658374
"i'm not like the other roasties, they're mean! i'm nice and pure, pls orbit me, look at me i hate women as much as you do!"
Anyone else think that this is the most pathetic fucking thing?

>>37658487
>expressing thoughts anonymously
>"please orbit me"
Okay then, I guess.

>>37658487
Yeah. It's really telling when the worst of the worst calls you pathetic.

>>37658487
it's just another case of a girl wanting to be special by putting down everyone unlike them. it's not cute when it's a sjw and it's not cute here

>>37658759
Is /r9k/ this unaware? Probably yes.

>>37658421
holy shit don't be so timid. I'm sorry I missunderstood you my friend. please work on your asd problems that might interfere with your personal relationships with others and maybe you can find success

>>37658487
>posts talking about how they weren't bullied by other girls
>"I hate women, they're mean!"
Reading comprehension is an important skill.

>>37651503
Because people as a whole are shallow. If you're concerned with finding people that can actually form deep bonds don't go looking on 4chan for it.

this thread is dying, pls some ugly fat chick post a pic

>>37659075
>thread is dying
you say that like you don't want it to happen

how old are you tho>>37658880
big deal, people laugh at you as soon as you step outside

>>37656896
age and do you want to be my friend

I'd be friendos with a uggo girl. No problem

>>37657011
lol you guys are super weird

>>37657379

If it weren't for sex, guys would have gotten rid of women a long time ago. It's pretty easy to hate women.

Why do so many otherwise cute plump women have to ruin themselves with getting tattoos and wearing ridiculous face piercings?

Here's the reality. Very few guys want a fat chick, the few that do its a fetish thing.
You can be as cool as a a person and what not but if said person isn't attracted to you i feel its best to stop before things go bad. Say this person likes who you are but not what you look like when it comes time to fuck and he can't get it up you got no one to blame, he tried and you aren't appealing without some whiskey.

I'd love to chat to a fembot, wasnt sure they even existed. Snapchat me at xxxreight

>>37651970
Okay, fair enough. I'm also on the spectrum and couldn't make eye contact with people so that probably also had to do with why I was bullied. But still, girls will almost always pick on anyone who is different.

>>37655861
No, I'd say. Women and men both have individual standards they have to conform to according to gender, in the eyes of society. Both have fucking stupid standards. Unfortunately I feel even as a below average, bitter woman child, I have a better shot at everything in life. And that's mostly because this crowd of thirsty virgin men on websites such as this exist, and will always want to fuck ugly girls like me. And so many women will take advantage of that virgin thirst, post images of themselves on here, and catch all you guys' attention. It's sad. But it proves women are definitely more shallow, materialistic, and get away with ALOT more. I wish you guys would stop biting stacy's bait. But it makes me smile whenever a stacy posts her lying mug and gets outed. Serves her right for posting it and whoring herself out on such a site. Warms my heart, really. That's the most scrumptious form of justice.
But yeah, even though the demand to conform into the modern women is very much there and in your face, women STILL get away with so much they fucking shouldn't that men never could.

>>37656034
Yeah. Thread should have been over, my man. But unfortunately a fucking stacy decided to whore herself out, on this very thread, overnight. It's incredible.

>>37656308
>thread about how men are shallow
>stupid attention whore takes advantage of the entire thread to get lonely beta male attention
>"but men are the shallow ones lol"
I swear to god, I hate you so fucking much and I really wish you'd drop off the face of the earth. Or atleast this website.

>>37658374
I wasn't even though. I didn't want to hang out with anyone at all. I didn't talk.

>>37651869
Want to talk about it?
You seem like a pretty down to earth person.

>>37654550
iktif?
you date people from r9k?
how? why? are you okay?

>>37651503
>>37654550
Be honest ladies, these guys are all Chads aren't they? Because your great personality deserves a shredded 8% bmi adonis with a ten inch cock and you shouldn't have to settle.

>>37658131
You probably
>only talk about facts, places, occurrences
never about
>feelings, ambitions or goals

Like the robot you are.

>tfw posted my email yesterday in here thinking she was going to message me
>never get messaged

Why did you lie fembots? ;_;

I've dated fat girls, one even 30+ BMI. I am not picky, I don't really give a shit about your fat or whatever. Shit's fixable, if you want to. I wouldn't want a HAES type girl because honestly, that fat will only lead to health complications later in life, and if I'm looking for something long term, I'd like for her to survive. So unless you don't have some horrible disfigurement, I couldn't give a fuck.

Now generally speaking from my experience with fat women, they're fucked in the head. They seem to be generally used to bullying and crave attention like no other. Clingy as fuck, and while I like that, it still has the issue of seeking attention. The last two girls I've been with broke up with me over some shit that happened - nothing major, nothing unfixable, and I did my damnest thing to apologize for it even though it was not that necessary to do so. You know what? During the small time they received no attention to me, they latched on to some other dude they had in their back pocket for a while (and I try not to be jealous - I always make it clear upfront, I trust you, but if you are going to cheat, you're dead to me) and treated me like trash, like I never even fucking existed.
This trait may be inherent to other women too, since everyone can be an attention whore, but it's most observable in fatties. And I want to minimize my fucking risks in the future.

I would say i'm not shallow at all, but if you're a woman who weighs over 200 pounds and you're not 6 feet tall you should lose weight because that's not flattering, and actually unhealthy. That said, to me there is nothing more attractive than a girl who likes me. This is pretty sad and most likely due to emotional starvation, but it's how i feel.

My problem is that i'm a coward who's too scared to be hurt and/or ridiculed to put myself out there and actually show women I like them.
So i'm stuck in this slightly teasing phase where i treat them like a little sister that i like but won't make a move unless they more or less push me up a closet and have their way with me. This has only happened with one girl thus far and she is in a commit relationship. Guess i have to resign myself to living alone.

>>37663003
>blameshifting this hard just to make robots looks like they're the bad guys
take the red pill

>>37651503
They can't have platonic relationships, that's what's shallow

>>37663003
>tfw never want to talk about feelings, ambitions, or goals
>tfw don't like negativity
>tfw will never have someone similar to talk to

>>37651869

LAWDY, more people in this thread need to come to terms with this.

>98% of women suck

98% of h u m a n b e i n g s suck. Men have their own issues.

>>37651567
this is the only truth. i'm reasonably intelligent and average to mildly attractive but the best i could hope is for some guy to settle for me while he resents me because i'm not stacy. angled photos and makeup it is, i'll catfish you with no shame.

>>37663637
are you fat tho, fr real, senpai?

>>37658140
Because one night stand = wanting to hang out as friends/romantic partners.

Logic, amirite?

>>37663691
i'm not fat. this meme that guys will go for any girl who is not fat should die already, it's not true.

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Fucking faggots, you can't be serious.

>>37663725
maybe youre dumpy

>>37658285
>"you can't be real"
Usually when people say this it's a sign you're actually interesting to talk to. Autists are much better than normies, too bad their standards are fucked by all those years of porn and hentai.

>>37663115
You're not Chad.
When 4/10 girls complain about not getting attention they mean Chad, and only Chad.
Every last ugly, mentally ill, or otherwise undesirable girl on the face of this planet is single BY CHOICE.

>>37663756
i'm dumpy because i'm a womanlet. there's nothing i can do about it.

>>37663725
post your email and I will give you my entire life savings if you don't get at least 10 guys who are interested in 24 hours.

>>37663785
bro, if you're not attractive, then why are you getting mad

>>37663904
that's the whole point. that's what's being discussed itt.
>>37663817
because desperate guys emailing me is supposed to make me feel desired and accomplished? i don't want to be a human fleshlight for random losers. i don't want to some dude to settle for me as stacy's low quality replacement. i'd rather be by myself. just don't come here saying you're not shallow.

>>37664107
> every guy who messages me is a stupid desperate loser (aka not Chad)
> i-it's men who are shallow!
why do you vapid roastie cunts even come here?
go to lolcow or something.

>>37664254
you either missed the point completely or you're just pretending to do so. it's pointless.

>>37651503
This is one of the worst threads I've ever seen here. Not because I disagree with it. No, I actually agree with OP. What makes me mad is why the fuck people need validation on fucking 4chan? This is the worst place for people to search for validation and relationships. Also, don't ever compare people from here with people from everywhere else. 4chan users are mostly immature guys who don't have much of a life and blame everyone else for their failures, including women in general.

So, OP, don't waste your time seeking for good guys in here, that's impossible.

>>37664429
>mandatory white cuck reply
this whole thread is a joke, full of used up roasties, desperate beta orbiters begging for a reply from the roasties and idiot white knights like you. this just shows the horrible state r9k is in currently

>>37651567
7/10.
literally, any fat girl is 4/10 or lower. Just fucking lose some weight that's all you have to do.

women are fucking retarded

>>37664347
You're the one who missed the point you hypercritical retard.
If a guy likes you, who isn't shallow, but isn't a Chad, he's "a desperate loser".
If a guy likes you, who isn't shallow, and he is a Chad "he's settling".

In other words, literally no one is good enough for you. So fuck off with your retarded woman logic.

>>37664487
Well, you know, you just proved my point.

>>37664769
>implying i want anything from the dumb beef creatures who use this site
maybe if a cute and shy virgin wanted my attention i'd consider it, but i'd never be the 100th penis inside one of our femanons

>>37664877
I know that. I already described the kind of sad guys who use this website.

>>37664550
a guy is a desperate loser if he pretends to like me only to make it obvious later that he's still hoping for a stacy to fall on his lap. this has happened to me irl several times. i've never even looked at chads before but they seem to be the nicest and most honest. i'm done with losers.

>>37665147
>I only like Chad cause he's the most geuine!
You may fool yourself when you say this but you don't fool anyone else

Sounds like you're a fag OP

>>37651503
I'm not shallow, ya rood dood. Unless you have a hole in the middle of your face or you're fat, we could be buds.

>>37661174
I think different high schools and places have different social systems. I was mostly an outsider, granted, but I hardly ever saw bullying at my high school. There were plenty of people being assholes to each other, but there wasn't really that power dynamic or group ganging up on one person that bullying has. It helps if the school has a large number of students, it becomes harder to establish a pecking order.

>>37651503
I am not interested in having a girlfriend I can't show myself in public with.

>>37661174
So you're a whore and women rightfully dislike you because of it. Got it.

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My experience dealing with femanons:

>Femanon says she's lonely and wants friends
>Add her on Skype/Discord
>She puts minimal effort into conversation
>She never initiates conversation, doesn't speak unless spoken to
>Barely seems interested
>One-word answers errywhere

At least when the girl is cute, this process feels minutely rewarding.

>>37651503
>HEH WELL YOU'RE NOT ENTITLED TO A RELATIONSHIP BUT WE CAN STILL BE FRIENDS :^)

I'm not saying tit for tat, but tit for tat, bitch.

>>37667879
or might just be another entitled bitch? at my uni girls do this all the time, and the guys act like monkeys trying to entertain them, its pathetic. grow a spine guys and dont put effort into a conversation if the girl isnt doing it either

>>37665049
why come here then? if you want polite gentleman and nice ladies talking with each other, and scumbags like me banned, maybe try reddit or facebook

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>>37667879
I talked to one fembot, told me she was getting anxiety talking to me. Now I barely even see her anymore.

At least she's posted a reason unlike others, who will just do exactly what the person replied to you described in the end.

>>37651503

>>37658120
kek a robot throws himself at you and you ghost him. you probably only take chad's dick too. kill yourself uggo landwhale

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>>37651503
Sonic's daughter loves chili dogs apparently.

To any ugly / fat fembots.
I am a 6/10 possibly 7.
I will date you if you love me and accept my bipolar post contact info.

>>37651503
>implying women aren't worse
At least you know what to fix you hambeast.

Women just ghost you and never tell you what you did wrong.