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Come in, you know what to do
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https://www.16personalities.com/ - very basic test. Use it for a first time.
http://similarminds.com/ - both basic tests to advanced options even outside of the range of MBTI.
http://www.keys2cognition.com/explore.htm - Keirsey-like test. Still pretty nice.
http://keirsey.jung.test.typologycentral.com/ - Keirsey test.
http://www.celebritytypes.com/personality-tests.php - a lot of little-funny tests. Highly recommend it for those who's looking to just relax.
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male, INTJ- 91% assertive

Prove to me that INTJ isnt the best personality type.

Protip: You can't
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Post your type and how your "inner speech" relates to you as a person. Most people apparently can be in conflict with their inner speech, which is something I find very strange.

The inner speech of Si types seems to be revolving around what they "should be doing" and can motivate or depress them

I'm an INTJ and my inner speech is basically who I am, everything else is not important
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>>37648142
>INTJ standing alone in the corner like his favorite edgy lone wolf anime character

Accurate.
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>>37648942
my inner speech is literally the narrator from kaiji. intj here
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>>37648942
I'm INFP and unless I misunderstand inner speech is just thought, isn't it? I think in words, and those are my thoughts. There isn't another entity saying things to me, even if I insult myself it's me thinking it, not a disembodied mental voice.
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XNTJ is master race you can't deny this otherwise your a cuck
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>be born
>be INFP T
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>>37648942
If you don't constantly trade bantz with your inner speech, you're a wussy NF.
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>>37648142
>be ENTP
>end up being addicted to shitposting on a chinese basketweaving imageboard
>can't stop

well fuck
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>>37649005
>unless I misunderstand inner speech is just thought, isn't it?
Apparently. But it's so strange reading that some other people's thoughts are separate from "themselves"
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If you like organizing and planning things ahead, but you don't follow the schedule, can you still be considered J?
I always get 50% at J and P
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>>37649041
Maybe they have tulpas but don't realize it.
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>>37649072
I guess its all to do with your functions so as long as you want to plan/organize and stuff, I guess you would be
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>>37649013
>be born
>be fucking INFJ-T
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>>37649013
>>37649192
>be born
>be IXXX-X and male
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>>37649072
ExxJ? No.
IxxP or IxxJ? sure
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Ni dom/aux users, can you describe it ?
I'm still trying to figure out what it would be like, as I'm still unsure of my type (INFJ/INFP)
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>>37649779
INTJ here. My head is a fucking maze from which I cannot escape. I find myself daydreaming the majority of the time. I need to occupy myself with tasks that require concentration to not get lost in my own thoughts.
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>>37649779
INTJ

Dont know how to describe it, other than often "just knowing what is likely/correct without having to conscious think about it"

Differentiating INFJ and INFP isn't that hard. Both will often be inexpressive outwards.
The INFP is like a little kid, meaning he sometimes shows his true inner feelings on the outside and will usually be "happy" when talking with others. He will care about his own morals and will go against the group with no problems when his morals are in conflict. Finding his "identity" is one of his life tasks, and he will always want to be true to himself. Basically like an ISFP but will think more about non-obvious and random things.

The INFJ is not very talkactive to others. He will often be able to fake emotions on the outside and will be a lot more concerned about keeping the "harmony" in the group of people he is with than about his own feelings/morals. Basically like an INTJ who is concerned a lot about group harmony and not so much about his ideas being factually correct.
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>>37650057
Thanks for the explanation.
But I relate to both, following my mood. I don't trust my point of view as I'm heavely subject to the Barnum effect...
I'm trying to relate to the thinking more than the behaviors that comes from it.
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>>37648973
>INTP isn't even there, probably hiding out in autism cave
Accurate
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>>37650019
I strongly relate to the daydreaming. But I like it, and I always trying to find time to get lost in my thoughts.
What are you daydreaming about ?
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>>37648142
INTJ-A

i was basically a narcissistic, cold, calculating sociopath from 16-24 and then alienated and lost all my friends when they slowly came to realize who i was. still don't care and still think im better than everyone else
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>>37648973
>>37650213
Wait I'm dumb, I think the dude in the far right is INTP, didn't recognize him cause I'm used to seeing INTP as that scientist lady. Still pretty accurate, though.
>that awkward facial expression he's making as ESFJ tries to socialize with him
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>>37650232
>fantasizing about being a hero in a fantasy world and going on adventures with a party of bros
>fantasizing about world domination and reshaping the world in my image
>fantasizing about having gf and living life happily together

The usual shit.
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>>37648942
I don't have an inner speech, i don't think in words

t. intp
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>>37650340
Cool, do you think in "logic"?
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>>37648942
INTP, not entirely sure... I mean, I can't think without inner voice, so I just use it to solve whatever problem I'm currently having or to check it against what I know. It's like the link between my self and my brain, except I'm all three. The holy trinity of laziness.


But it lets me segue into what I was thinking about, even if the question itself is unrelated...
skip this if you want

I was thinking about the ways you can convey your thoughts a few days ago, and deduced that people have 4 different types of expression (this is nothing mindblowing, just a simple list, names pending):

>the true voice
these are your absolute inner thoughts, the absolute purest you. if someone were to hear them, they would cease to be your true voice, so others will by definition never know what they actually are. zero filter because you cannot filter them through anything

>the internet voice
what I'm using right now, the veil of anonymity that lets me express myself with minimal fear of social reprecussions. simple really
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>the yourself voice
how you talk in the real world when you are 100% yourself. you have to filter yourself somewhat, but it seldom gets in way of what you truly want to say. you use this when talking with your very best friends

>and the polite voice
the heavily filtered, normie-friendly, inoffensive voice you use with people you just don't know that much

Now, finally, here is my question: I enjoy using the yourself voice. I don't enjoy using the polite voice. But there are so very few people I'm comfortable using my yourself voice with (4 in my entire life? e.g. my dad, but not the rest of my family). I think I would be much happier if I was able to use my yourself voice more, but am I correct? And how can I build the confidence to do so?
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>>37650327
Isn't that guy supposed to be the ENTP?
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>>37650468
>I think I would be much happier if I was able to use my yourself voice more, but am I correct? And how can I build the confidence to do so?
That problem is that you have to use your "polite" voice to not be seen as strange/ridiculed. Because most normies don't understand or want to even see what a person really is like, they fear everyone who's not like they perceive the "perfect" person to be, which ends in you being ridiculed/not accepted by most people.

The only solution is to find people who understand and like your true self, which are rare.
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>>37648142
>get INFP on every test
>fit the description to a T
>or should I say....F?
>get it?

Fuck my life.
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>>37650601
Great, now that you've read the description you can work on improving yourself in the areas that you realized you're lacking.
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>>37648942
INTP
It seems like most of my inner speech is me explaining things to people in my imagination. Or mentally replying to 4chan posts. Or otherwise talking to people in my imagination. Basically 99% of the social interaction I do is imaginary.
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>tfw no ENTJ gf

Its a bad feel
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>>37650710
Yeah, I do this too a lot. But also reflecting on and thinking about problems/possibilities that I consider interesting.
(INTJ)
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>>37650760
Haven't seen you around in a while. Thanks for reminding me of this feel.
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Sup is this good or bad niggas?
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>>37650880

It means you're probably gay
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>>37650213
INTP here, currently hiding in my autism cave
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>>37650880
>irl
Yes.

>on this board
No. Get ready for "NORMIE GET OUT".
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>>37650938
Dang it..i am kinda "gay" but i love everything about the sensuality of a woman
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>>37650594
I get that, but why exactly am I chasing the approval of people I don't care about? If I just
>bee myself
then I'll have much bigger chance of finding people that will understand me. And normies do seem to appreciate 'weird people', even if their level of weirdness is 'quirky' or 'artist' at most

ah, the solutions I'll never act upon!
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>>37650955
Never i love /r9k/ im a turbo lurker
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>>37651008
>ah, the solutions I'll never act upon!
Right in the feels.
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Post your personality type and your desktop

INFP
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>>37648142
Lurker here

INTP-A describes me on a very accurate level. It's like the perfect autismo personality.

>tfw same personality as non-brainlets like Einstein and Newton
>tfw no INTP gf
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>>37651100
I didn't know this was a desktop thread.

ENTP.
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INTP-A/-T, kinda good imo
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>>37651100
>all that fucking clutter

What the fuck.
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>>37650525
Sorta looks like him, I think ENTP looks like this though, but in some pics they look almost exactly the same. You might be right though
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>>37651008
>And normies do seem to appreciate 'weird people'
Not really. Example: Normies watch big bang theory to laugh about how weird the people are, but not for the reasons you'd find them weird for. While you'd likely be thinking about how the show is a very bad portray of "nerds", they would laugh at the jokes because "lol the nerd said something smart while being oblivious to the girl! What a nerd! Good that i'm not like them!"
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>>37651100
INTJ

Why the fuck do you store everything on the desktop? What's with the crapware and windows 10?

Oh well
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>>37650353
i have no idea how i think, neither in words nor in images.
Maybe i'm just autistic
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>>37651351
It's the easiest way to access the files because my download folder is so full.

I'm so used to it that I just keep doing it.
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>>37650655
>improving area's that are lacking

retarded advice, he should be focussed on improving his natural strengths.
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INTP.
My desktop image is too heavy and I am too lazy to compress it.
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>>37651434
He should be focusing on getting good usage of his strengths, but also work on his shortcomings
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>>37650057
>e will care about his own morals and will go against the group with no problems when his morals are in conflict
How can women even be INFP? They don't go against the group.
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>>37651480
Because the group follows them, lel
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INTP/INTJ
The last letter appears to change based on the test.
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>>37651514
>women
>being leaders
Had a good chuckle
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>>37651537
You seem to think that every woman follows xSFJ stereotypes
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>>37651559
Women are herd creatures by nature.
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>>37651591
And every man is either ESTP (Chad) or ISTJ (beta orbiter), right?
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>>37651622
There are some minor variations in personality but most men are either alpha, beta, or omega.
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>>37651652
And most women are xSFJ. Doesn't mean that INFPs are like them.
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>>37651669
Fair enough. It'd sure be nice to meet one of them then.
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>>37648142

I'm ISTP is that bad?
>INB4 BTFO normie
I'm from /k/
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>>37651735
You were not meant for this world, brave warrior.
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>>37651735
ISTP are true warrior robots
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LOGICIAN (INTP-A)
hhszxc
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>>37651735
>I'm from /k/
>ISTP

Checks out
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I suspect that MBTI is fake because it tells me I'm INFP but I can pretty much apply every single type to myself, there's a massive overlap, and I feel like it's just autistic horoscopes. Plus I'm a terrible douchebag, there's no way I'm a sympathetic INFP
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Which type is the best type in men, and which is the best type in women/|?
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>>37651824
I can't apply most of the types to myself. Take a better test than 16 normie memes.
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>>37651735
>>37651780

/k/ = istp
/r9k/ = intp/infp
/sci/ = intj
/lit/ = infj
/pol/ = istj
/x/ = enfj
/int/ = entp
/biz/ = entj

hmm that's all i've got, feel free to complete/correct the list
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>>37651928
/soc/ = estp/esfp
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>>37651928
>>37651770
>>37651780
>>37651760
Thank you guys, but is there a meaning to this?
Really I know the site gives you some meme explanation, is there an /r9k/ version to this?
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>>37651825
The best type for you depends on what type you are

Male types that have it easiest in society:
ESTP (Chad)
ESTJ
ENTJ (if not a lazy ahit)
ENTP (if he can calm his autism)

Females:
xSFJ
xSFP

>>37651928
/pol/ is more like a few intuitives baiting and tons of sensors biting and taking shit seriously, lel
/sci/ is mostly INTx
/diy/ is xSxP
/a/ and other animu boards are Ixxx
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>>37651995
The real explanation is that you're someone who prefers logic to feelings and prefers physical activity to abstract logic

Means you're more interested in /k/ or /diy/ than e.g. /sci/ stuff, nothing more really
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token ISFJ reporting in
slay me
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>>37648942
INTJ, I always make fun of myself in my inner speech
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>>37652135
Are you a female? That's a roastie type.
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>>37649310
It's actually better to be I type if you're male as long as it's not unhealthy and you have good social skills. Believe it or not but extroversion is a ''female'' trait, females tend to be more extroverted. I assume you think Ixxx means you're shy and socially awkward?
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>>37652253
fuck no i am not one
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>>37652349
Are you gay then? Sounds like you got stuck with a female brain, sorry man.
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>>37649310
Ixxx-A is alright, it's the IXXX-T's who get fucked over.
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>>37648942
My inner speech is a sociopathic creep. Not sure if that makes sense
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>>37651100
ISTP here's my desktop in an original fashion
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>>37650760
Dude no.

ENTJ women are lowkey autistic. Imagine an INTJ girl who can hide her power level.
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>>37648942
my inner speech is my worst enemy who says the most fucking retarded shit and I gotta come up with arguments against his retardation or else it torments me forever

i cant say this is a bad thing or else i wouldnt be me, but it's really crippling

maybe i just need a wife
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>>37653274
What is your type? You sound kind of spergy.
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>>37653365
INTP

serrtherth
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>>37648142
Does this make me a bad person
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>>37653813
Not really, no MBTI type is "bad"
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i got infp-t again...........
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>>37655129
It's okay anon, we're the best type!
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>>37651995
>Thank you guys, but is there a meaning to this?

ISTP means you are a loner/observer and action oriented. You like to learn about systems, machines, and skills that you can directly exploit in reality. You want to fix and "master" things, and you want others to rely on your expertise. You don't care much about theory and patterns, unless it directly helps you in some way or can be applied. Generally have a very cool exterior, smooth movements, plain appearance (comfy clothing), doesn't like telling others what to do/drama. You are more in tune with your body than INTPs or INTJs, so likely to work out, do martial arts, or participate in an activity that involves your body at some point. You a bit more in tune with the environment then INTx types and like to learn by example (other people fucking up or performing well). You also like to "disappear" more than other types i.e start skipping class, stop talking to people for no apparent reason, etc. ISTPs aren't very good at long term planning and it frustrates them, and thinking of possibilities can lead to negative thoughts. Because of this, they tend to think others may be manipulating them or talking shit about them. They are generally tough skinned, but will be easily insulted if you question their skill/competence in something. But much better at actually taking action and learning through experience. Doesn't like small talk and doesn't talk/write much, enjoys being honest and telling you how things actually are, very serious exterior but playful interior most of the time
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>>37655569
*different person*
i am an intp who ( tries to act like / wants to think he is ) an istp but fails horribly
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What's your type's superpower?

I'm an INFP and can pretend to be sad ironically then actually start crying. Mocking pic related is how I awakened.
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>>37648942
My inner speech is filled with comedic monologues of things that randomly pertain to the present moment, thoughts about the omniverse or how to better understand what is true theologically, and the occasional bout of depressive realization on what this planet is and how saturated it is in horror, pain, gluttony, greed, and perversion.

Half of my comedic inner monologue is to placate the latter elements of my inner dialogue
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>>37655887
That's my secret, Cap, I'm always sad.
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Gentle reminder, if you got INFP - t you're probably not an INFP, just a sad other type masking as an INFP

t. INFP - A
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>>37648142
>INTJ sitting in the corner smiling like an autistic child
They're admitting INTJs are the most autistic, aren't they?
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>>37651780
>mfw INTJ from /k/
I probably seem like a school shooter at gun shows. Also explains my milsurp autism.
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>>37648142
*NT* alliance when?
We need to round up and gas all the F types
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>>37656143
INTP here
what will gassing the F types accomplish?
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>>37656060
I got 77% T and I always get INFP. I think I'm sad and unconfident (probably not a word) all the time because I grew to have mamy bad habits.
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>>37656230
F types are causing all the problems in the world
They prefer short term bandaid solutions that just make the world worse over an effective solution
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>>37651928
>/lit/ = infj
I do have a tendency to read a lot. Mainly science fiction, philosophy, psychology. ISTJs know what's up in today's world, though.
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Got ISTP-A. I generally don't think about my inner speech, unless I'm planning what should I do next.
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>>37656297
>-A
A's GET OUT
you actually cannot be a robot as an Assertive
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>>37656326
What about INTP-A
I'm an autistic asshole
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>>37656369
be thankful for not being an intp-t
intp-a is probably the best type out of all the types that differ by a single letter from intp-t (entp-t istp-t infp-t intj-t)
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>>37656326
>>37656369
>>37656414
Pretty sure the -T and -A stuff is just some random bullshit added onto the 16personalities test. Not part of MBTI and barely worth mentioning
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>>37656477
>Not part of MBTI
good thing that MBTI had no scientific worth to begin with
i honestly do thing that A/T is the trait that determines robotness the most
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>>37651824
>Fi
>Sympathetic

It hinges on how you and you alone feel
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love it when biscuits go soft
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>>37648942

I keep getting between INTJ/INTP/ISTP and the more disturbed I become the more inner monologues develop, until I start discussing with myself like a schiso, but I also talk alone because I'm lonely so that's just me being lonely exept I hardly want company anyway.

Anyone here like that? Who speaks to themselves like a fucking oriental moving picture character? I can't be the only who legit's do this as a habit...
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>>37656820
It's ok i pace around my house talking a mile a min to myself. Just don't do it outside everyone will think you're normal enough
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>>37656820
You might be an INTP. I'm an INFP and I do that very often. I go off on tangents aloud and excitedly make points and arguments even though it obvioualy doesn't work.
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>>37656926
>Just don't do it outside everyone will think you're normal enough

About that...

>>37656927
I have to try not doing that in a conversation because people tend to leave me in the vacuum.

I'm pretty sure I'm somewhere on the autistic spectrum.
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What nicknames you would give to the types to consisely describe them?

>infp: kid crying to himself
>enfp: kid screaming to his mom
>intp: directionless theorist autist
>entp: theorist who test it on himself
>intj: the madman with a plan
>entj: the absolute madman who actually follows through
>istp: the complete psycho who execute the "blowing things up" part of the plan flawlessly because he actually trained it to exaustion

Don't know nothing about other types tbqh
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>>37651100
INFJ - With the taskbar, too.

Jesus your desktop is a mess.
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>>37651100
INFP here.
>picname related
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>>37649040
LINK ME PLZ.
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>>37651100
ENTP
Nice dubs, witnessed
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>>37658069
great taste anon

what type is haruhi? she is absolute perfection
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>>37658128
Some claim her to be ENTP, but I think she's more like ENTJ
Thanks for that warm comment though.
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>>37656060
Are you retarded? Extremely original question.
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the bump to end all bumps
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>>37648142
Here's a pic for other ISTPs on here. I hope you guys like it.
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>>37648942
My inner speech questions everything i think, see and know. I'm in a constant battle with everything i experience and ponder
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>>37648142
>Take test.
>Get ISTJ.
>Read through it.
>Hold on I am nothing like this.
>Take test again, be more careful this time.
>Get ISTP.
>This is also not me.
>Find these test.
>Get ISTJ on 3 of them.
>Last one gives me ESTJ.
>None of these fit me.

What the fuck am I.
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>>37651928
/his/ = INTP
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>>37648942
ISTP
my inner speech is basically always 'this person was nice to you. why? how can you gain from this? are they going to get something out of you? you know you can't trust them. you know you're better on your own.'

it's actually painful sometimes.
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>>37660242
lmao I'm the same. Every interaction is:

>that guy was kinda nice to me. what a cool guy
>why was he nice to me? I barely talk to him. does he even know my name?
>this asshole might be trying to manipulate me. he might be talking shit about me right now
>he's not that bad lol. what a cool guy

>*never talk to him again for no reason*
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>>37648942
My inner speech is neutral most of the time, making small comments on things, or reminding me of past mistakes. When it isn't neutral, it's either making me long for the things I desire, or putting me down and letting me know of the futility of everything that I do.
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>>37660242
lmao
this is depressingly accurate. I cant stop thinking that people are out to get me and that they have hidden agendas.
If I'm not 100% sure about something, if there's even that 1% chance of something going wrong I take every possibly outcome into consideration and I think and think and think and I cant stop and it fucking sucks.
I uncontrollably overthink every possible thing and it makes trusting people so god damn hard.
My girlfriend says she trusts me, says she loves me, says she wouldn't leave me, says she wants to take care of me. She hasn't done a single thing that would indicate otherwise and she was nothing but perfect to me, and yet I cant believe her. Because I cant know exactly whats going on in her head and cant be 100% sure I can never completely trust her, but I want to and it fucking sucks dick.
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>>37660412
>>37660457
what types are you guys?
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>>37660496
originally istp
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ISTP-0
100% thinking
holy hell
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>>37660496
I'm ISTP as well
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>>37660576
>>37660742
crack up. feel like posting this meme now.
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I recently had my friends get into this and test, and it's usually a challenge to influence. I'm INTP-A.
>sensitive friend training to be a special needs teacher, overreacts to any criticisms (she once baked a cake for a guy because he was mad she tried some of his food)
>INFP
>low emotional and general intelligence friend who's probably a closet trap, came dangerously close to being a redpiller
>INFP
>the only man who can control and influence my decisions and have me be OK with it, loved by everyone, kind
>INTJ
>guy I frequently butt heads with in terms of what's the best protocol for going about things
>INTP

I think I'm really lucky, but they can be so frustrating.
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>>37660412
>>37660242
>>37660457
Fuck I'm INTP and this is me, especially in high school. I was practically invisible, wasn't popular but I never did anything to stand out much and I didn't get bullied either. There was this bubbly popular girl in a few of my classes that would try to talk to me sometimes, always thought she was just making fun of me. She even invited me to eat lunch with her and her friends a few times and I actually went the first time, but after that whenever she asked me I'd just make up some excuse like I had to go help out one of my teachers with something. I still have that feeling of hating not being 100% sure of what's going on in someone else's head.
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INTP aspie. I want discord friends but everybody is negative and wants to talk about politics and religion and sex.
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>>37648942
>Inner speech
ENTP, ahem.
"This seems boring, I dont want to be involved"
"Universe will end someday in any case, why would I do this unpleasant shit instead of entertaining myself?"
"Those guys have no sense of taste"
Basically my everyday thoughts. I also like analyzing some everyday phenomena with scientific approach. Also I have some worrying symptoms of ADHD, maladaptive daydreaming and avoidant disorder. Shit's sucks.
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INTP-T

I have no idea whether this is good or bad. Someone help me.
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>>37661501
lol u sound like a boring faggot
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>>37651100
INTP
origililioli
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>>37661501
then what do you want to talk about? yourself? thats boring.
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>>37661791
No I explicitly do not want to talk about myself, or you, in a personal way. I'm sorry that you think anything but those things would be boring.
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>>37661817
we could talk about vidya and music anon
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>>37661791
Well, I dont know if they would be, but if a person only wanted to talk about himself it would be likely that they aren't very interesting. And since you didnt answer my question: what are your interests? What do you want to talk about?
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>>37661858
fuck i meant you >>37661817

ore.spt
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>>37648942
INTP
I'm usually trading bantz with my inner voice. My inner voice also likes to harass me when I fuck something up
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>>37661883
>>37648942
I'm INTP and have a weird banter with my inside voice. It's a type of humour that only makes sense within the context of my head.
>inner voice also like to harass me
It's not necessarily when I fuck something up, it's remembering past fuck ups that does it for me.
The primary interaction between me and my inside voice is the trading of ideas. I will do the stereotypical INTP thing, and just contemplate things.
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>>37661951
I also do all of this. I'll make the most ridiculous stretches in my mind to make shitty jokes work and i just laugh to myself at them.
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Any other ISTP's into martial arts? I have been doing knockdown karate for 7 years now.
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>be ISTP
>people say I don't act like a human
>at the same time people tell me to bee myself
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INTP
>Crippling social anxiety
>Just want to build things and Vidya
>Depressed because humanity is going backwards
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>>Be INTP - 63% Turbulent

Autism incarnate.
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>>37648942
I used to find the concept of "inner speech" as in talking to yourself inside your head as utterly alien, I couldn't relate when characters in fiction I was watching or reading had inner monologues with themselves, and an inner voice. My "inner speech" used to be entirely wordless it was an instant knowing or understanding or something like that, without saying anything to myself, its the most difficult thing to explain and this isn't the first time I've tried to either.

I could comprehend something, or figure something out, come to a conclusion, form an opinion or plan something without discussing it inside my head to myself, it would just instantly be formulated and understood, without an inner monologue. There was no talking things over with myself inside my head, there was not much visualizing of things going on inside either if I wasnt actively trying to. For example- if I'm imagining some fantasy scenario and its going one way but I instantly think of some alternate route it can take, an alternate branch but I didn't think about it so much as it sort of intutively came to my mind and I understood and comprehended it entirely, it wasnt even visual - or not entirely, just a new concept/idea non-verbal and non-visual that came to mind and I can then later try to visualize or understand in depth and explore the new idea later.

Thats the only example I can think of right now and it took a lot of effort to write that down, because this is a downside I've noticed to this type of non-verbal thought, its difficult to write down in words what I'm thinking in my head because I don't often think with an inner monologue I can easily transcribe to speech and writing. This also gave me problems in school where if the teacher asked a question I would have a general idea of what I want to say or what the answer is but sometimes have trouble forming a coherent sentence out of it, I hated questions where you had to "explain how you got that answer" so much on tests
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>>37658022
>being this new

Origc
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ENFP.

Smiling on the outside, dead on the inside.
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>>37656701
Fi is about the individual which means people with Fi are usually better at sympathising with people one on one by placing themselves in their shoes. Fe is about the group which means people with Fe are usually better at thinking about how things will affect people by considering what that group of people are attuned to.

Essentially, Fi users are more empathetic while Fe users are more socially responsible.
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>>37652254
>It's actually better to be I type if you're male as long as it's not unhealthy and you have good social skills
More successful people are extroverts in general. People tend to mistrust introverts as they put them in distance.
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>>37663329
>Anime protagonist type
Why wont you gather group of friends and go on adventure?
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>>37663133
And this non-verbal mode of thought means that until I start speaking or writing I can't fully know what I'm going to write/speak until I do, because I just have the general concept of the idea which I intuitively understand in my head but can't translate it to a comprehensive sentence or explanation others can easily understand without understanding my thought process first but thats not possible so its a struggle for me to do so, doesn't help that around high school I got anxiety and panic attacks for the first time and ever since then and now into college I get anxiety and heart goes doki doki when I raise my hand to answer a question or the prof calls on me and I can freeze up and get so anxious it becomes even harder to coherently respond without looking like a stuttering retard trying to extract the soup of concepts and inherently understood information in my head down into words, when it isnt just a one word or sentence answer they're looking for.

And I said in that post that I "used to" find the concept alien because at some point a few years ago I realized that the majority of society does think verbally, and has inner dialogue with themselves in their head and I tried it myself but it was difficult but now a few years later I can do it somewhat and there are some advantages to it over the non-verbal mode of thought but it also tends to exacerbate my OCD and anxiety I've noticed, and indeed the effects of OCD and anxiety seem somehow more intense or present when I verbally - internally vocalize them, as opossed to just getting the sensations or feelings or whatever without accompanying internal verbalizations to further add weight and depth to the anxiety, and I cannot stop myself from vocalizng them because they just come up as intrusive verbal thoughts at times of worst panic - compounding the problem - but now that I think about its not much different from an intrusive visualization or non-verbal thought, just another way of OCD materializing
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>>37663329
I'm an I/ENFP-A. People flock to me and wanna be my friend
>>37663372
I did just this. Was fun
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>>37663372
I keep on gathering friends hoping that they'll live up to the unrealistic standards of friendship and loyalty instilled upon me by anime and cartoons only to be repeatedly disappointed when they turn out to be shallow, self-serving people uninterested in undertaking new adventures and primarily motivated by senseless hedonism.

I feel like a complete outsider. All my relationships end up falling short and being all take and no give. Don't even get me started on women.
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>>37663427
why are you on r9k?

> People flock to me and wanna be my friend
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>>37663329
INTP.

Dead on the outside, smi- dead on the inside.
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>>37650019
This, I'm also INTJ and I can't stop daydreaming all day long...
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>>37663437
>Don't even get me started on women
What happens when you're with women?
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>>37663354
They've got to place themselves in shoes first.
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>>37663396
However sometimes internally speaking to myself when having a bout of anxiety or panic attack can be more effective than when my mode of thought was entirely non-verbal and I had to ride the wave of anxiety hoping it would end and just physically attempting to subdue it with cold water, going outside getting fresh air etc. Now I can sort of say to myself inside my head in an inner dialogue "its just anxiety I'm not in any physical danger, its this or that etc" and even when I get an intrusive OCD thought suddenly I can say to myself "oh theres that OCD again" when before it would be harder to tackle these things when I couldnt speak to and reassure myself so directly.

So those are some of the benefits of internal dialogue thinking, but I have noticed some negatives too that lead me to think its not such an effective method of thought and maybe I would have been better off not trying to satisfy my curiosity and mess with my innate thinking mode-
>can no longer speed read as effectively as I used to, subvocalizing every word I read leading to slower reading
>monkey mind and useless chatter in the mind more than ever before
>internal dialogue can give intrusive OCD thoughts more "form" and lead to stronger anxiety as mentioned
>harder to feel a quiet mind if I'm automatically voicing things internally when walking outside etc
>having a constantly going internal mental train of thought means you can't explore other trains of thought as effectively or quickly, mental chatter drowns out the more non-verbal thinking sometimes
>thinking verbally can be slower, not as quick and immediate as the non-verbal mode of thought
>instead of understanding something subliminally and immediately you instead vocalize it and verbalize it in your head sometimes which is slower and less effective

All of this leads me to believe that there are advantages and disadvantages with "inner speech" thinking and non-verbal thinking and maybe a balance of the two leading more towards
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>>37663584
Most healthy Fis do that naturally. An Fe can risk being insensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others because they naturally think "well, this is what works for people like you so it should work for you too". An Fi on the other hand typically defaults to "well, if it were me, I can understand why they'd feel that way". Fis are naturally averse to group and the loss of individuality that they entail and so they're usually very resistant to just going along with what everyone else is doing. Fes are better at seeing themselves as a part of something greater and can often resent those who are unwilling to do the same. The result is that Fis can often view Fes as inconsiderate and fake whereas Fes can often view Fis as selfish and stubborn.
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I'm an INTP-A
Im also brutally honest most of the time so I guess it's right
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>>37663649
The dude who was an INFP that acted like a douche-bag is likely unhealthy, but he could easily be immature.
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>>37663692
Unhealthy Fis can be unbearable because they get caught in an overly defensive loop. When they feel as if their Fi values and sense of self are being put under scrutiny or attack by society and the people in it, they become overly defensive and self-centred, lashing out at others with bitterness and distrust as something of a preemptive strike. They close themselves off from people and constantly seek ways to be defiant to anything resembling popular sentiment in the pursuit of the individuality they feel is being wrestled from them.

An unhealthy Fe, on the other hand, is the kind you regularly see on /r9k/: dogmatic, aggressive, close-minded and severe. They screech at people who don't belong to their perceived group and demand that they fuck off because the existence of dissenting individuals is seen as a threat to their own beliefs. Unhealthy Fes are the embodiment of "REEEEEEE GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT"
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>>37663634
-more non-verbal thinking is the ideal but perhaps its better to be very capable at one mode of thought than being adequate and switching back and forth between the two, if so then non-verbal, conceptual and partially visual thought seems to be more my style, and I'm actually working on getting rid of the verbal thinking habit I gave myself out of curiosity now because it just gets in the way more than it helps I think.

Also I fucking wrote 4 fucking posts just answering that anons question about inner speech methods, I dont really care if anyone reads this in full or not, writing it out like this has helped me to understand this all better, its always been like this, I think this is why I also have this annoying habit of having discussions in my imagination where I'm explaining concepts and things to people I know in order for me to better understand them myself, I can't stop myself from doing it it happens seemingly automatically. Writing essays like this is no big deal, its been this way since high school, takes me fucking paragraphs to get my thoughts all out and explained. Someone who thinks purely with an inner dialogue could probably formulate everything they wanted to say with perfect sentence structure and get it written down in far less words than I can but thats never been my strength.

Any anons here can relate? Do you also think more non-verbal than verbally, and not just visually either just in concepts and impressions you subliminally and immediately understand?

Also my type is INTP in answer to that post.
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>>37663549
I'm not with women. xNFPs are the ultimate felers and though my E means I can often befriend women, they rarely if ever see me as a potential partner because I'm an NF pussy beta male. Most women only ever go the extra mile if they want something from me, otherwise they keep me at arm's length.
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>>37651928
w-what about enfp
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>>37663797
>>37648942

Also I notice now more often than not I can have a thought and concept understood intuitively and then afterwards comes the verbal processing inside, to give an internal explanation with words to that concept or thing but its often jumbled and I stop myself midway through not needing to complete the verbal sentence/thought process because its unnecessary, I already undertstand it without having to internally verbalize it, its already a fully processed thought without needing to be spoken internally which is just a waste of mental resources/time

And since I started practicing verbal inner speech that has happened more often and its really annoying, yet another reason I'm trying to let go of that inner speech habit now. Anyone else know what I'm talking about, in regards to processing a thought/concept/idea/outside scene instinctively without needing an inner dialogue in your head to do so.
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INTPs are the true robots
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>>37663797
Thanks, really enjoyed your posts.
Interesting how you have problems with switching between the thought types, I use them all to varying degrees (non-verbal the most, verbal mostly just to entertain myself, pictures are sometimes useful too). I can also "listen" to music in my head and have no problems with thinking at the same time, while most people are annoyed by such things.

(INTJ)
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>>37651100
ISTP
origigiginal
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>>37663329
Finally another enfp sup nigga
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>>37657418
I dont think that istp one is a nick name.
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Enfp here realized were the best of the worst
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>>37651100
ENFP over here, my bud
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>>37664307
Nah, ENFP are alright among normies.
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>>37663951
/out/ and /trv/, lel
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>>37651100
INTP. I deactivated icons on desktop because that shit's dumb.
This is also a rotation of pictures, not just this symbol.
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>>37663476
Cyborg out of choice. Played out my normie years and don't care for it anymore. You can reeeee me if you want
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>>37648942
INTJ-- My inner speech is my outer speech. I'm only an INTJ b/c I was raised privileged and socially isolated-- to the point where I basically talk to myself out loud like a prisoner in solitary confinement. Started as tons of voices in my head, but age has gotten it down to two. Very dissociative, but very efficient. Power hungry, empirical, and creative like a motherfucker

Social minimalism as fuck, I try not to waste my time
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>>37664468
don't forget /fit/ and /asp/
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>>37664509
Was this symbol used in 20th Century Boys? High five for a great taste, m8

I'm INFP-t but I don't think this test is worth a lot. Maybe I'm just saying that because I was cucked by the answer but it's like a horoscope for modern housewives/4chan users.
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>>37664594
>I'm INFP-t but I don't think this test is worth a lot. Maybe I'm just saying that because I was cucked by the answer but it's like a horoscope for modern housewives/4chan users.
Do cognitive functions one. 16meme test is bad.
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>>37664594
this horoscope meme is fucking annoying. The test is simply a series of questions that ask if you're introverted or not, and so on. Meanwhile, horoscopes rely on the stars, somehow.
I'd say a person's answers say more about a person than star readings. It's overall a ridiculous comment.
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>>37663329

It feels like there's a void in me that only other people can fill. I might be getting co-dependent or something, but I don't know if the solution is to stop being like that or somehow finding a co-dependent gf and seeing what happens.
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ESFJ reporting in, I still don't understand what it means desu
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>>37664687
Welcome to the wonderful world of ENFP; where only the love and validation of others can fulfil that annoying niggling feeling in your soul
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>>37664106
>how you have problems with switching between the thought types

I mean I think the problem is because of anxiety/OCD in general they will affect me negatively no matter what mode of thought, and maybe if I didn't have that then I would find it easier to manage, maybe.

Maybe its not so much problems switching between the two its just that this verbal thinking has become far more prevalent and I see how its not very effective and efficient a mode of thought but its only fairly recently that I realized this and recalled how I used to think non-verbally only and how drastically different it is now. Writing this fucking essay now has actually helped me piece things together, and understand my situation a little better. I mean I mentioned having these daydreams that come almost automatically of me discussing things with people in my head as a way for me to better understand them myself - and if I recall that was even before I tried to actively think verbally, so maybe its similar to that.

I can also think visually of course, but I had to kind of subdue that, and my visualization skills are weak now because again - OCD, intrusive thoughts, if you understand what I mean.

I'm glad someone read all that though, glad you enjoyed it, I find this meta-cognition really interesting, thinking about how you think and your internal thought processes/learning styles/modes of thought but they are difficult at the same time to discuss at least for me because as mentioned I have real trouble describing my thought process especially the non-verbal type because it just happens automatically and of course we rarely introspect so much as to think about our own thinking but I love doing so when I get around to it. This was actually the first time in a long while I did so, and tried to peer at and understand my own mental processes and meta-cognition, it took a lot of effort, but it was enlightening, I understand it all a bit better now.
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>>37648142
ISTP. some of it applies to me, like generally being good in panic situations, learning through experience, and being bad at planning ahead. a lot of it doesn't though. i'm not great with my hands, which they seem to have put a great emphasis on, and i could never work the blue collar jobs they seem to fit, i want to be a writer.
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>>37664106
I can think while listening to music with no problem, but I don't like to because I like to get lost in the music.

INFP
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>>37664703
>ESFJ reporting in, I still don't understand what it means desu
>ESFJ
Are you a guy or a girl? How nurturing and caring are you?
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>>37663660
the ISTP one being "it's an abstract kind of feel" doesn't really fit if this type is supposed to reject the abstract in favor of the practical. or is it an abstract kind of feel because he cannot feel the abstract? if the latter that's really good.
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>>37664663
I've done that test and got answer with no positive traits (literally)
Irl I was quite good at studying and now I'm doing good in my field. I'm not out-going and all but I honestly enjoy books, anime etc - they make me happy.
This tests suck dick, I can't be THAT bad
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>>37664790
I'm a guy, and I'd say I'm a caring person, I'm going through the process of becoming an RN
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>>37664841
that one always gives more negative traits, don't worry. It might be a way to counter 16memes and other sites' extreme positivity.
Besides, the point is to understand the way you do things mentally. There's no bad or good.
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>>37664841
>I've done that test and got answer with no positive traits (literally)
Why would you want positive traits? Everyone can write that.
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>>37664681
I haven't meant it's like a horoscope but role it plays is somewhat similar to the horoscope.
And honestly it may be a little more accurate but not that much.
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>>37664856
>I'm a guy, and I'd say I'm a caring person, I'm going through the process of becoming an RN
RN? Could you tell more about your personality? ESFJ's are so rare here.
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>>37664856
That's wild, what brings you to /r9k/? You're a rare as fuck type around here.
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>>37664892
I'm planning on being a registered nurse, and personality wise I feel I'm the overseer to my little friend group, as I plan when and where to hang out, as well as supplying food most of the time. I also grew up raising my little siblings since I lived in a single parent home, so it helped a lot with patience. I try to be the funny and bumbly guy, and I feel it works out often.
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>>37664900
I came around here after my break up with a long term girlfriend, but I usually go on /fa/, /x/, and /mu/
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>>37664874
>>37664866
I got rluai; other types have at least one positive trait but not this one.
And lots of this is bs, like: often bored, late with work, prone to health problems etc
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>>37665000
Damn that really sounds like what ESFJ would say.
>He easily maintains relations with many familiar and unfamiliar people and remembers everything about everyone. People, in fact, greatly interest him, and he knows not only how to spend time with them, but also how to look after and entertain them. If you arrived at his house, he will bustle about around you, give you something to drink, offer you something to eat and entertain you. The thought that you are doing well and enjoying yourself brings sincere pleasure to him, and he will not hold back on his efforts to surround you with comfort. Young ESFJ male usually displays initiative himself if he comes to like someone. As a rule, he is attracted to girls who are clever, refined, and romantic in their soul. The main thing is that she supports the group or the gathering, that she is cheerful and responsive to his proposals, that she loves to walk to concerts and to social gatherings. In the matters of courting, energy and enthusiasm he has in sufficient quantities for two people. As to your encounters being interesting and diverse, it is better left to the care of his partner. If you have a rich imagination, your proposals will be met with captivating enthusiasm.
Anyway what are you doing here? I mean, you're quite "normal".
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>>37665070
You can become RCUAI by maturing
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>>37665070
>rluai
atleast it's correct.
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>>37661501
>discord
We have a discord with cool people, just come here. Most people there are INTP THO. (the last part of the link is Zm3kUQ)
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>>37665141
Why are ESFJ women such giant bitches then?
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>>37665141
I've been frequenting this board since March after a breakup with my long term girlfriend to cope with it, I decided to stick around even though I'm still not over it
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Biggest MBTI r9k themed server around with active members:

Dcm6nYu
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>>37665070
the direct opposite to your type
http://similarminds.com/global5/sloen.html
it's all negative imo, or it sounds like it. Relax.
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>>37665195
>Biggest
No thank you.
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>>37665179
>Why are ESFJ women such giant bitches then?
You're mistaken with ESFP/ENFP women. ESFJ ones are pretty motherly ones.
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>>37665185
>I've been frequenting this board since March after a breakup with my long term girlfriend to cope with it, I decided to stick around even though I'm still not over it
Oh i'm sorry. You seem like a cool dude, you'll find another one pretty quick.
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>>37648942
INFJ here
My inner speech probably has little to do with my personality type, but I'd say it's very similar to a very negative/critical observer when it comes to judging my own actions. When it comes to judgint other people's actions I usually try to come up with good/bad(morally) reasons for what people are doing, depending on mood.
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>>37650760

I agree that this is a bad feel
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>>37662510
We ISTP cannot be human in a world that doesn't accept our warrior hearts. Nobody will understand us except ourselves and those like us. Which is a very small margin.
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>>37648942
ENFP. My inner speech sounds something like MF DOOM.
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Good MBTI themed server to join: Dcm6nYu

We got active members and admins on.
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>>37664801
Abstract feel as in knowing there is something more for you out in the world, but not knowing what it is. Typically wanting to live in a different timeline that features more aesthetically pleasing traits and scenarios that you want to see in your life.
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>>37665363
Sometimes i even have to ask myself if my inner ramblings make any sense and i have to shitpost instagram pages just to argue.
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>>37665264
What about INFP women?
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>>37665386
fuck repost ignore

originally original
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>>37648142
chad intp here
AMA
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>>37648942
ISTP
I dont do inner speech kind of thing.
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>>37648942
INFP. My thoughts mostly narrate my life like I'm writing a book to myself. I also tend to talk to myself as if I'm talking or making an argument to another person.
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>>37665178
Such delicious irony.
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>>37665408
why did you poop in my flower pot?
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>>37648942
ENFJ. I don't really have inner speech as much as inner grunting noises (could just be that I'm a brainlet). Being introspective just makes me angry.
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>>37665333
You sure you're not INFP?
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>>37665199
Ty for trying to cheer me up anon
But this type is confident and motivated - two good traits.
I still don't belive in personality tests.

(I work in university and school simultaneously as a historian and it's one of the favoured choices of career which freaked me out)
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>>37665408
>chad intp
aka a mistyped ESTP/ENTP?
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>>37665399
>What about INFP women?
Their morals are above logic. They cant outright refuse do things even if it's illogical and might cause problems in the future. They are very symbolic for example burning something from ex things when relationship ends. However you'll have to wear pants in the relationship and take responsibility for making decisions.
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>>37665458
>I still don't belive in personality tests.
Why? I mean they're not 100% accurate but still can tell you about thinking/cognitive patterns
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>>37664687
I think a lot of ENFPs are born out of neglect and rejection in their early years coupled with the intelligence/creativity that sets them apart from an ESFP. It's as if they spend years craving that affection that was denied to them to the point where it becomes an unrealistic, unattainable ideal which can never truly come into fruition. So they spend their later years bouncing around trying to find places to belong and people who will return their bottomless well of love.

Even when they're successful, however, they realise that nothing could ever match the unearthly vision they've based their lives around seizing. No friends will ever be that loyal. No lover will ever be that accepting. No adventure will ever be that enlightening.

And so the ENFP slowly becomes jaded and cynical, maintaining their usual outer demeanor as best they can while slowly withering inside under the harsh light of reality. The only escape is the slim chance that they might one day stumble upon an INTJ or an INFJ who can finally meet them halfway.
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>>37665450
I'm very borderline with my J/P but I'm an INFJ that has severe lack of self esteem and I tend to criticize myself, that's why I said that it's mostly my fucked up view of self other than anything.
When I take my person out of the equation, I'm a perfect example of an INFJ.
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>>37665458
You don't have to "belive" in it. It works perfectly, more or less well, or it doesn't work. I say it works more or less well, given the way it obtains information. Of course five words don't describe all the traumas you have had in your life: it's just that there is a group of people who share most of these characteristics.
In short, you might have good traits but the ones you share with similar people are the bad ones.
Which I guess would mean that your good parts are what makes you unique. Do whatever you want with that info.
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>>37665548
>borderline with my J/P
It does not work like that. INFP and INFJ have 0 functions in common, they are quite different, especially internally
INFJ:
http://www.typeinmind.com/nife/
INFP:
http://www.typeinmind.com/fine/
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>>37648942
ENTJ. My inner speech is literally Amazing Amy's voice being a huge psychopath.
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>>37665586
Do you think of that voice as "yourself" though? As in that's what you truly are like?
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>>37651928
>/sci/ = intj
>the one that hates theoric stuff loves science

/sci/ is intp
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>>37648942
My own voice is my inner speech I guess. I'm INTP, so I dunno what you mean

Are other types retarded and not in control of their personalities?
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>>37665520
It's because they all imply I'm lazy autistic piece of shit while I'm not. And thinking about my thought patterns just takes time which I can use for thinking about valuable things.
Most of this tests are kind of stereotypical, like some anon on /r9k/ - all social butteflies are bitches, robots are never at fault etc.
I think humans can't be "just 16 types". There's too many people to ever say that. Every little event somewhat shapes us into something different. So - we may have some things in common but in general everyone is a little different.
I understand it could maybe help ypu improve by showing you your weak points but weak points showed to me by that damn test are not even mine lmao
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>>37665551
Weirdly enough, I took the same test for mbti on different site (the same which hosted test with less positive results) and I got intj instead of infp. Accuracy my ass
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I'm an ISTP but almost all my close friends are INFP, does anyone know how this works
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>>37665755
You might just be unsure of yourself. I get INFP on every test without fail.
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>>37665793
You are like the strong warrior who protects the fairies
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>>37665652
>the one that hates theoric stuff
>INTJ
lel
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>>37665616
Yeah but I treat it like something that needs to be hidden. If someone is actually observant though, one can tell whether the voice is 'coming out' visibly from my face.

Or whenever I try to fake a smile after greeting someone, the inner voice is probably saying 'Smile you piece of shit' which can actually be visibly read
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>>37650333
do any other INTJs also daydream about this kind of stuff?

this post spooked me
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>>37665926
almost everyone does that as far as I know
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I got INFP-T and male, how fucked am I?
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>>37666100
Let's hug, fellow anon.
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>>37648942
INTJ-T
I think in words, and I don't feel like there is a distanced voice telling me what to do, but I do criticize my own ideas like it was a new me every second
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>>37657418
>intj
I think I got away pretty good
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>>37666100
>how fucked am I?
unless you're musician/artist no women cares about your emotional depth
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I got INFP-T and female, how fucked am I?
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>>37648142
ENFJ reporting in. Ask me anything as I feel i am just as robotic as all of you.
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>>37666279
>I got INFP-T and female, how fucked am I?
Pretty normal, you might be a bit spergy but that will be written off as a cute perk. It's not a deal-breaker
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>>37666297
>Fe dominant
>robotic
So you crave human interaction but unable to find one?
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INTP and male

are there any reasons I shouldn't just go and pull the damn trigger
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>>37666299
Nothing is a deal breaker with women except being fat.
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>>37666319
>are there any reasons I shouldn't just go and pull the damn trigger
Can you invent teleportation device before offing yourself?
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>>37665408
On my way to becoming this

>made an entire mental map on how to act in social situations
>add some of my autistic quirk to it so normies think I'm crazy and fun
> + my fake chill/lazy front I've naturally developed to be around people
>since I'm loner as Fuck nobody sees me often, so for whatever few memories they have with me I seem like a cool guy

Playing these Normies like a damn fiddle
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>>37648142
ENTP here
Currently chairman of a small local political group
Life feels good
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>>37666313
Fe dominant?? also to answer your question simply yes. long answer no. its easy for me but such a WEIRD FUCK IN MY HEAD BRO
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>>37666470
Tell us more about your small local political group, comrade.
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INTJ here
my friends actually like me a lot because they think I am funny and smart, but I basically don't talk to any of them in my free time. whenever I meet them I just fake my personality to their liking. Been working nicely for a long time now
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>>37666475
>Fe dominant??
>An ENFJ uses Fe to read the vibes of everyone in the room and is constantly aware of what everyone seems to be thinking and feeling. At the same time, the ENFJ uses their own mannerisms, expressions, emotions, and capabilities to influence and help others around them. When the ENFJ gets good vibes, feelings, or a sense of something that sparks the his interest from another person or group of people, the ENFJ builds on that expression via their Fe and mirrors it back to them.
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>>37666529
oh yeah that all is 1000% fucking true lol in a group setting i kill it but usually their is some fucking other chad (im a big, tall >boy but some people who overtake the conversation can suck my balls)

man this is fun
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>>37666354
haha doubt it

even if I could I probably couldn't motivate myself to actually get about to doing it
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>>37666426
please show us this
orinagel
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>>37666552
>couldn't motivate myself to actually get about to doing it
Hmm, so you'd probably need life/death situation to get yourself moving.
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>>37666573
>mental map
>mental
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>>37666610
I am prepared to be your student
help us anon
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>>37666426
well thing is im very hadsome so i cant do autistic shit and people are like oh he is so nerdy :P
>disagree with people and wanting to argue about stupid shit makes them think you are very smart
>always having opinion also makes you smart
>autistic quirk a must
>also a loner and dont give a shit so people want to hang with me even more
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>>37665444
because im a chad and i dont give a fuck about flowers faggot
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>>37666647
I'm not >>37666426 so you are not prepared to be my student. I could teach you things but they're not those things.
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>>37665477
maybe but i always get intp on test
are ESPT/ENTP similar to INTP?
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>>37666596
Yeah, one'd certainly think that to be the case. But... I dunno, man. I think I peaked some time ago and it's looking to be a less-than-enjoyable future. Should probably get up and call it quits at some point, I figure.
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>>37666742
>are ESPT/ENTP similar to INTP?
ENTP and INTP are mistyped very often but not INTP and ESTP. Besides ENTP is not Chad type, ENTP's are the most introvert extrovert type.
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>>37665408 im this guy what do you want to know >>37666647
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>>37666764
>I think I peaked some time ago and it's looking to be a less-than-enjoyable future
When was this "peak" time?
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>>37666778
guess im an INTP inside but my upbringing made me a chad
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>>37665528
This hits close to home. How did you come to this conclusion?
On a side note, what's your type?
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>>37666661
>also a loner and dont give a shit so people want to hang with me even more

literally what logic does this operate under
I'm also a loner and don't give a shit yet no one wants to hang out with me

>you know Tod is really talkative and friendly and all, but THAT guy in the corner who never says anything is exactly someone I want to spend a lot of effort getting to know
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>>37648142
>INTJ
oh look how edgy I am
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>>37666840
But, anon...

I am ENFP.

Rimshot. Everybody laugh.
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>>37666844
because when you are handsome and dont give a shit you are not weird but mysterious and everyone wants to know more about you
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>>37666794
Don't know that there was a specific time, but some number of years ago. Maybe back in high/middle school? Nowadays I'm just kind of an apathetic bastard who doesn't get much enjoyment out of most things and therefore can't really be assed to do much of anything. It's more of WANTING to like things than actually liking things for the things I do get enjoyment out of.

That shit's not going to fly, I'm aware. Tried some meds, didn't do much. Whenever I try to talk about it I usually get the same old "it gets better" bullshit, followed by plenty of evidence that they are completely aware it is bullshit (e.g. a good, long rant about how much working sucks), which certainly doesn't help paint a bright future.

Shit, I feel like I've been on a gradual but increasing decline since I was fucking 10 or something.
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http://falconnl.github.io/TypeSquare/

>tfw my INFP oneitis will never be attracted to me
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>>37666893
sure I get that, but then it's the result of your handsomeness and not because you are "a loner" and "don't give a shit"
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>>37666894
>Tried some meds, didn't do much
How about therapy? I hear that cognitive behavior therapy is really good.
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>>37648142
How does one know if they are INTP or INFP?
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>>37665582
>it doesn't work like that
are you implying that there is only black and white in this? there are preferences, only a small percentage of people are true introverts and extroverts. I just have similar preferences in both.
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>>37666882
Guess that makes sense, brother.
It's really fun to live in the perfect future fantasies in your mind only for what you described to happen.
How are you coping with it all?
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>>37666964
>How does one know if they are INTP or INFP?
Try doing this
http://www.celebritytypes.com/test/infp-or-intp.php
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>>37666979
I feel like I'm slowly morphing into an ENTP dickbag sociopath. But other than that, I'm doing great.
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ENTP
I'm probably the opposite of (You)
Inner speech:
I consciously think about what others think. It's like 'the mentalist' in NYSM movie. I try to put myself into other people's shoes to predict what could/might/could've happened (and sometimes even control the outcome of events).

When those people say something (to me, or to others) about others people (like backstabbing, judgement, etc.) I would occasionally vocally explain to them "what the other party probably thinks or feels" or what went wrong. It's like I'm defending them rationally while they're out.
^that thing about backstabbing is pretty common in the normie circle and I despise them.
>tfw this world is lacking rationals
>tfw fake normie but actually schizoid
I also enjoy playing farce.

I also find it hard to sympathize with others when I know that I've suffered worse or when I know they never did their best or there's nothing I can really do to help. This is the part where my inner speech short circuits.

I suffer derealization and depersonalization when I was young
>randomly too bored about reality or feel that I am not 'myself' like I'm having oobe which shows to me that I'm really insignificantly small in comparison to the whole world itself
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>>37666844
Not him I'm >>37666426 but the trick is to not be a loner when around people
Don't awkwardly stand in the corner on your own while everyone's having a convo

If you have to go loner mode and disappear around people make sure it's after having fun with people. It'll make it seem as if you don't have to time to be around them and you have better things to do and this will naturally draw them towards you because they feel that you're fun to be around (this works great with girls, they love guys that don't really care about them but seem nice when they're around)
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>>37666947
Also hasn't been terribly much help, I think. It's had its uses (a place to vent about various things and some assistance putting some monetary values and shit into perspective), but, overall... ehhh.
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>>37648942
ENTP
see
>>37667035
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>>37667002
>Slowly morphing into an ENTP dickbag sociopath
How are you going about doing that?

>Doing great
>Maintaining their usual outer demeanor as best they can
Hmm.
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>>37667044
>It's had its uses (a place to vent about various things and some assistance putting some monetary values and shit into perspective), but, overall... ehhh.
Have you really wanted to get out of misery or it you've been attending for some other thing?
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>>37667035
>I suffer derealization and depersonalization when I was young
What does it feel like to not be derealizing/whatever, since I'm pretty sure always am.
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>>37665408
>>37666426
>>37666573
That's ENTP if you can act on your intuition and not be trapped in "the Ti halt"
>tfw smug ENTP
>life of the party
>normies invite me to going out but I'm too lazy to get out of my secret base
>"anon, we really wished you were there."
>normies like me because not an absolute judgemental dick like most normies playing the 'impress others' farce
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>>37666929
unrelated to this
go to youtube and watch real social dynamics it will help you a lot
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>>37667059
I feel like I'm starting to care less and less about people's individual feelings. It's like my empathy is fading away. As a result, I'm more willing to say inflammatory and blunt shit to people and am less concerned about whether or not it offends them. I place less value on peace and harmony and more on what is and what isn't. It's like I'm changing on the inside.
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I think that thinking and feeling is a false dichotomy. What they're really talking about is someone's ability to systematize and empathize and while many people are better at one or the other, they are two independent metrics, not a single spectrum. You can be equally good at systematizing and empathizing so to say that everyone falls into these distinct types is wrong. Many will fall in between these types as it's not an either/or dichotomy at all. The same is true for sensing and intuition, while some do default more to one than the other, everyone uses both and some people can be high (or low) in both.
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>>37667102
A little of column A, a little of column B. I've been going partially to try to get my mental state all sorted out and partially to appease my mother. Who, in retrospect, is also the one who told me it gets better before regularly indicating that no, it doesn't really get that much better. At least.

Woman also bought me a machete for Christmas after this stuff came up, which... makes you wonder, you know?
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>>37667214
I fully agree with this, false dichotomies are my main issue with MBTI
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>>37667156
Suddenly you feel like nothing matters and you could die of boredom. I'd rather not experience that again. Kinda happens when I'm on a procrastinating streak.
Probably my subconscious telling me to get my ass up.

>>37667002
You should watch steins;gate.
>mc guy is ENTP in a nutshell
>mc girl is an INTJ memeposter
>bonus if you have tights fetish
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>>37667221
>partially to appease my mother
oh, i see, it wasnt all you who wanted to get better.
>woman
from workplace?
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>>37667002
>ENTP dickbag sociopath
R-rick?
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>>37666995
Thank you anon, I guess I am slightly more INFP than INTP. I am not sure how that makes sense, INFP individuals sound naive and believe everyone has good in them to hunt for. Meanwhile, I believe there is no good or bad, but simply compatible and incompatible humans.
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>>37667166
I get you senpai but I'm not that advanced
I'm never purely life of the party because of my lazy front I've made, I've just become the chill goofy guy everyone wants to see more

I wanna become more active and front and center but I'm too lazy and self doubting to go that far. Being le chill xD allows me to take short breaks of banter when around people.
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>>37667176
Don't be honest about your feelings if you'll end up bruised. It's okay to lie if the outcome is better but if you can change the outcome of what's happening out of you then that's even better.
Remember that you can't force your ideal ideals to others but you can force the ideal outcomes.
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>>37667317
>Sendai
F a m *
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>>37667267
No, mother. Sorry if my wording was unclear.

But yeah, it wasn't entirely my decision. I'm kind of a passive person, so I figured I'd go along with it. Overall, I do kind of feel that I'm wasting her money on something that's not really helping, and I do feel bad for that, but at the same time I'm not really sure I want to suggest stopping to her, y'know?
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>>37667296
>Thank you anon, I guess I am slightly more INFP than INTP.
Dont thank me yet. Those percentages shows that you could be either. Hows about doing cognitive functions test?
>http://www.keys2cognition.com/explore.htm
Post end results.
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>>37666319
Isn't INTP more common in men? I'd kinda understand what you're saying more if you were INFP maybe, since it's viewed as a "feminine" type.
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How do I deal with all my friends being sensors when I am an N? It's difficult to enjoy myself.
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>>37667346
It's always nice to see the word filter is still active. Fuck your normalfag words.
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How do you deal with ISTJs?
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>>37667347
>I'm wasting her money on something that's not really helping
It really takes a lot of time (from 1 year) to see clear changes. I think that you should continue therapy and try to be honest with yourself. You shouldnt feel bad about getting help because mother wants whats best for you.
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>>37667389
>How do you deal with ISTJs?
In what situation?
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>>37667317
If you start attending college you'll easily get there especially if you're very well versed about topics around STEM field.

The final enemy would be yourself. Don't keep the farce if it starts intruding with your work. You can always go back to your intp mode. ENTPs are well known for unfinished projects because of the lack of motivation. If you want to finish projects as ENTP you need a strong and solid motivation (I don't have it so don't ask me).
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>>37666920
>picture for INTP is literally autism puzzle pieces
Fuck
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>>37667389
Ignore them usually.
If you're willing take it farther, show them that you're interested about their hobbies (they usually collect stuff, you just need to know what it is)
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>>37667035
You should try to develop your Fe
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>>37667426
I'm actually going to college this year
I'm doing music though, it's the only thing I'm good at so I might as well have fun for two+ years before I off myself

Though only just recently I realized that taking an IT career path would've been great for me, it's a bit late now though

A job in IT would be comfy

>spend 6+ hours a day playing games and occasionally fixing some retard office worker's PC
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>>37667169
srs do this
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>>37667389
Keep them at arm's length with boring small talk and pray to god you never forget to use a coaster or some other banal organisational shit that might cause them to flip out on you and resent you forever.
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>>37667037
Hmm, I'm willing to believe you, but the few times I had "fun with normies" they never tried to contact me afterwards, no one has ever invited me to something that way. I feel like if you appear busy then people will assume you actually are busy and will not invite you so as to not bother you.
Also if they think you have "better things to do", they might feel they are bothering you by their presence - why would you be drawn towards someone who makes you feel bad?

Sounds to me as if whatever you can get by being aloof you can get much easier by actually interacting with people. But the truther answer is that people are dumb and don't understand what they actually want


>>37667169
wew lad
get that PUA shit out of my face
>suggesting an INTP should listen to some "experts"
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>>37667378
Pretty sure it is, but I figured I'd post that part anyway.
>>37667397
That's good to hear, at least, but... eh. Thanks, by the way, for tolerating the rambling of some twat you don't have any real reason to care about. Makes me feel a bit better.

I haven't been doing too hot in uni for a number of reasons (too socially awkward to get help I need, unable to get my shit together, apathetic about the work necessary, blatantly unable to do some of the work), and so they're cutting off the scholarship, which I can't really blame them for... Overall I'm aware it's pretty pathetic, and that I'm pretty pathetic, and that there's no real chance of surviving in the real world if I can't even do this properly, but that's part of the reason I feel like it might be the best choice. I don't really want to tell her because she already told me she's going to chew me out, rip me a new one, and throw me into wageslavery. I just feel like a burden at times, and I figure that it's probably for the better if I croaked.

I don't know how she'd feel about it; I'm shit at reading others' emotions, and even though I'd normally be inclined to believe that she cares about me enough that it's not for the better I've also got plenty a nagging voice telling me that the financial drain I am makes it not-at-all worth it.
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I've done this test 5-7 times over 5 weeks and come up with a different result everytime. I don't know whether I'm just a liar or I don't have a personality.
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>>37667489
No. Developing Fe would give me feminine types like ESFJ or E/INFJ.
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>>37667351
I think things just got more confusing. ENTP?
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>>37666995
I guess I'm sure now, I was kind of doubting myself cause the first time I took 16personalities I got INFP, but the next few times I took it I got INTP. The last sentence in pic related especially hits home for me
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>>37667547
Those are some good points

It's hard to explain what I do so I guess it's up to you to find out through trial and error

You have to leave a good enough impact that they'll want you around more, to be honest I'm confusing myself thinking about.
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>>37667420
In situations where they act superior to you because of their ability to perform the mind numbing task of keeping something stable. As an INFJ it seems impossible to not feel inferior to them when they're always on top of things. And then they mock you for not focusing on the task at hand.

It's even worse smoking weed with him as I tend to become incredibly absent-minded and he's able to stay comfortably level-headed. I over analyze every social interaction and any perceived mistake I make is deeply embarrassing to me - and he's quick to point out mistakes due to his desire to keep things running smoothly. How do I stop this constant feeling of inferiority when around him? Am I just a brainlet?

Also, he's incredibly shallow when conversing about anything even semi-"deep". He's absolutely ignorant about everything that isn't close to him.
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>>37667561
Consistency is quality.
If your personality is inconsistent then you won't fit on specific 'roles'
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>>37667609
From what I hear, 16personalities is not a good test, so thus this is a lot more valid.
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>>37667603
>ENTP?
It seems so. You know what? We can check whenever your new type or the old one is correct through enneagram test and look for correlation.
>https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/dotest.php
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>>37667638
>How do I stop this constant feeling of inferiority when around him?
That's the curse of Fe (2nd function of INFJ) as you're very affected by other people mood. I'd suggest drawing boundaries and outright saying that you wont tolerate this kind of behavior.
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>>37667547
did you try it?
because i did
thats exactly the mind set they are fighting
im trying to help you but you say
>wew lad
get that PUA shit out of my face
im intp im the smartest blah blah
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>>37663329
pic related is probably you
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I run a discord server primarily designed for INFPs. It actually was started in one of these mbti threads five-ish months ago. It's still active.

If you'd like to join, either post your discord contact in this thread or email it to [email protected]

We hope to see you there!
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>>37667663
Seems I am a 6w5. Seems about the same on all three types...
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>>37667939
I'm still pretty sure that you're ENTP just by the look of Ne and Ti strength in keys2cognition test.
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>>37667965
Perhaps. I just don't see myself as the devilish prankster type. I agree more with the 6 enneagram - "Thus, two opposite pulls exist side by side in the personality of enneatype Six, and assume different proportions in different individuals, sometimes alternating within the same individual.". Take that, apply that to everything you can think of, and you got me. I am a heavily conflicted individual that alternates between styles.
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>>37667777
even your quads cannot save you

I'm not a base churl like you that has to manipulate girls into liking him. What substance has a relationship that was built on deceit? And the underlying message of "be more confident" doesn't need that bullshit around it.

channel your help into some insecure slut you'll bait with your "artistry" instead
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ENTJ here, fellow robots. How do you do?
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>>37668021
>prankster type
It's just a stereotype just like ENTJ's are supposed to be leaders
I recommend reading on this as it's quite good view into ENTP profile.
http://www.typeinmind.com/neti/
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>>37667663
>8w7
Sounds about right. I'm a competitive person who loves achievement and advancement. This seems more realistic than those meme tests.
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>>37668032
yes you probably think you are very special i understand that
i have never manipulated girls
most girls hit up on me
what i suggest you do is watch some of there videos what are not focused on pick up but rather at life give it a chance even if you dont agree
as you evolve you will drop this r9k bullshit and constant frustration with everything (or be a faliure at life)
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>>37668058
>In social situations, it can make them a more expressive, eloquent, and otherwise skilled conversationalist, to the point where convincing others to believe in their ideas can be quite easy to do.

I am doing something very wrong. I often don't know what to say or say comments most people roll their eyes over, so a skilled vocalist sounds as far as possible as I could be.
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>>37650213
>INTP-A
>actually autistic
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http://thoughtcatalog.com/allyson-callahan/2015/06/13-insanely-frustrating-things-about-being-an-entp/
>12. ENTPs cannot lose.

>We are the worst losers on earth, which kind of makes us losers. We hate anti-success so much that we will literally find every possible way to cheat, and then methodically argue how we are in fact not cheating, but rather finding loopholes in the rules. Works every time.

h-how did they k-know?
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>>37668051
Fellow ENTJ here. I want to die but at the same time I don't want to
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>>37668130
>so a skilled vocalist sounds as far as possible as I could be.
To be honest, most people develop 3rd function (which is Fe in your case responsible for vocalist skill) by late 20's.
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>>37668178
>Ti and Assertiveness
:D <- (actually dead inside)
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>>37667720
Yeah that's true. But at the same time I wonder if he would even understand my feelings. I think he doesn't notice this kind of stuff.
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>>37648142
>be born
> INTP-T
> didnt use any of my qualities, full of shame and guilt
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>>37668274
>But at the same time I wonder if he would even understand my feelings. I think he doesn't notice this kind of stuff.
ISTJ's have Fi which makes them value their own feelings over other people. I guess you'd have "approach" the whole situation in a different way in order for him to notice.
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>do literally anything in front of an Si-dom
>"no, that's not how you do it"
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>>37668339
>ISTJ's have Fi which makes them value their own feelings over other people.
You have no idea how Fi works.
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>>37667379
Sensors can be fun for hanging around but try to join clubs or groups that pertain to your interests so you can ingratiate yourself with a few intuitive friends.
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>>37668248
Ti and assertiveness is so much worse than INTP-T
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>>37668129
I'm glad you are happy
but I did look at their youtube channel and let me show you some of their latest videos:

Tyler & THE CREW Reveal Bizarre Miami Pickup Rampage (+Infield)
>how to get grills
YOU Can Be Elite - Infuriate The Masses With Illuminati Secrets To Mind Control The World (+Infield)
>what?
Table Game Secrets Revealed - Sneak Away With The Hottest Women From High End VIP Tables (+Infield)
>how to get grills
Power of Elite Social Circle Game: The Secret to 9's & 10's Chasing YOU! (+Infield)
>how to get grills
Tyler, Luke & Max BRUTALLY DESTROY Your Ego Protection And Set You FULLY FREE! (+Infield)
>I'll give you that one
Invest In YOURSELF! #1 Secret To STOP THE LOOP Of Desperate, Compensating & Crazy Behaviour
>and this one
Truth About Success - The Most ENGAGED Yet Least ATTACHED WINS!
>how to get grills
Tyler & Max Talk Crazy Shit - Reveal "The Natural" Secrets To Get Girls (+Infield)
>how to get grills
Tyler & Julien On The Loose At Miami Mansion Party - Hardcore Pickup Secrets Revealed! (+Infield)
>how to get grills
Avengers Unite! RSDTyler, Elliott Hulse, Brandon Carter, Frank Yang, Kinobody @ Strength Camp!
>lads having fun
Tyler & Todd - Late Night Podcast - "Off The Cuff" Secrets On Girls, Game, And Life! - 4K
>how to get grills
Power Of Day Game! Tyler Gets Todd To Dish The Dirt On Picking Up Girls In The Day (+Infield)
>how to get grills
Tyler's Secrets For SMART Guys To Pick Up DUMB Girls (+Infield)
>how to get grills
Truth About Success: Choose PROGRESSION Over Degeneration!
>wow, something that's not about picking up women
...

I would rather remain frustrated forever than listen to that crap
pardon my autism
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"I HATE it when you disrespect my boundaries. Do not take advantage of our kindness. And stop being late, it's rude." -ISFJ message to ENTP

"I am literally in love with your brain. Like, you talk all your fantastic ideas out loud, and my panties drop." -ENFP message to ENTP

is the last part t-true???
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>>37648142
>be ISTP
>have two emotions
>full on genocidal rage and absolutely nothing
>can't even connect with anyone
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>>37668713
Where did you get those from?
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>>37667609
Godamn thats a really accurate description of INTP

I also got this similar result on the test
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>>37668772
http://thoughtcatalog.com/heidi-priebe/2015/11/19-people-share-the-one-thing-they-wish-the-entps-in-their-lives-understood/
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Are ISFPs the best normie type? They have to be right?
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>>37668229
Huh, guess it runs in the type, then.
No luck in life lately, seeing as you're here?
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>>37669302
>Are ISFPs the best normie type? They have to be right?
That would be ESTP/ESFP/ESFJ but ISFP with ISFJ are the most extroverted introvert types which is pretty normie.
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>>37668484
sensors are so fucking annoying
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>>37648142
>tfw no enfp to eat
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>>37669302
ESFP is the best normie type next to ESTP.
ISFP is the failed 'beta' or 'orbiter' normie types.
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>>37668639
INTP-A can become ENTP-A easily.
Assertiveness adds Fe points. All they have to do is invest in Ne over Ti.
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>>37649013
same and it feels.
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>>37669457
ISFP is fine if you're a woman. ISTP is the normie outcast.
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>>37669457
Really? How come they're beta?
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>>37648942
INTJ

Don't have any inner speech, and I find it weird that people do.
When I think about something it's just "thoughts" and maybe pictures.
It's hard to explain how I think, I just do.
I don't form sentences in my head.
When I want to explain an idea I've just had to someone I have to convert that idea into a sentence first before saying it.
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ENFJ

This website is telling me i am a good person
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ISTP here, I only live and breathe so i can get a gf and then get in this exact same position in pic related

my father is also going to help me get a street bike this summer, im planning to speed down the high and stuff it's going to be fun as fuck
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>>37648142
>most types are attracted to ENFP
>second most is INTJ
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>>37668713
I'm an INFJ with a close ENTP friend.

It feels amazing when I can finally wrangle his feelings out of him. His thought process, logic, and methods all seem so interesting, along with the value of what he actually has to say, when his guard's down enough to say it.

It's an odd feeling to describe.
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>>37669775
ENFPs are pretty easy to fall for. They're happy go lucky jokesters who are extremely perceptive of everyone's thoughts and feelings, going out of their way to make everyone close to them feel valued. They can befriend anyone.

Same goes for INTJs. Mysterious and aloof loners who initially seem off-putting and almost intimidating at first but who turn out to be huge softies beneath the surface, loyal to all they hold dear.
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>>37668237
Fascinating. So I am destined to be great with people. Based on what a ENTP deals with that I agree with, no real set goal but a great ability to adapt, it might make sense. Thanks anon for all the help.

The rest definitely sounds like it applies. I pride myself on my creativity and thinking outside of the box. That is the main reason I conflict with people, actually, my ideas tend to make no sense to others and frustrate those around me.

A renaissance man pretty much applies to me. I bounce from subject to subject, generally liking to switch to something else when it starts to stagnate to gain more info. I never really feel confident in my abilities, mainly because I never get as deep as I feel is needed in subjects, but instead cover a range. I am great at learning and doing high concept, but I struggle a lot more when I need to focus on details if progress appears slow.

I am a doer, I don't like to sit and think, so the part about experimentation first makes total sense and definitely is how I tackle the world. I do something, see how it reacts, and try to go from there. I rely a lot on improvisation.

The lack of scheduling speaks to me. I cannot be consistent in anything I do. I try to set as few schedules as I can. There is no time I do things, no real set day I may do things, usually because I am distracting myself with something else. I have too many interests and not enough time.

It also explains my social side more than others. I don't dislike being around humans, I need them to talk to, but I also need plenty of time to my own devices.
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>>37669576
male ones are.
>>37669527
ISTPs are outcasts who are low-key attracted to trump
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ENFP here

I'm dying a little inside, every day. No matter how hard I try to make things better for people, they just suck up everything I do, and just move on. I tried so hard to be loyal, and yet I'm the one that gets betrayed. I've done my best to make sure social circles don't rip themselves apart because everyone fucking hates eachother; to defuse situations so everyone ends up happy. Everyone except me, who just walks out of the ring, exhausted. And yet, everyone expects so much out of me, too. I get that you guys want to hang out and stuff, but I need some time to myself, too; after all, I'm only human! But I get dragged out regardless, as they only think of how they can have the most fun. I can see the better side of people, but also the worse side, and believe me, I've been hurt a lot by the latter. No matter how hard I try, the world is starting to lose it's light, and I'm starting to become cynical and bitter. The light's starting to fade, and with it, my hopes and dreams of a better world, as well.

Sorry for the blogpost, I didn't even realize it until I finished, but god damn, did I need to get that out.

I'm losing it, guys.
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>these people are so hopeless and lost they need to conform to a shit-test and blather about how they're this and that
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>>37669968
>So I am destined to be great with people
Look at it as a thing that you could do but it wouldnt be on a priority list. So, there we went from INFP to ENTP upon gaining more insight.
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>>37667296
INFPs aren't necessarly naive so much as cynics who want to believe.
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>>37669877
"You intimidate and frighten me, because you are expressive, comfortable with people, rational and come up with lots of possibilities for any conceivable situation. How do you do that? While I'm fascinated by you and want to learn, I hate when you turn your attention on me and put me on the spot to speak. Can I just hang out in your shadow and watch a while? Is that okay?"-INFJ

is this true?
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>>37670001
>everyone ends up happy
You dont have to do it. People are responsible for their action and if they want to stay that way, be prepared to walk away. Dont blame yourself that other people refuse to listen to you but also dont expect people to act like you want. Try to mean well but dont invest yourself into people so much.
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>>37670001
No one has an obligation to make you happy. You need to do that for yourself. amd you have no obligation to make others happy. Be a good man, be good to those you love, but be good to yourself as well. Cut the shit with the melodramatic "light starting to go out" bullshit. Be a stronger person for yourself. You cannot be loved and truly love others if you don't love yourself first.
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>>37670128
>You cannot be loved and truly love others if you don't love yourself first.
Not that anon but everytime i hear this, something dies in me. I just cannot love myself.
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>>37670174
"Loving" yourself is irrational.
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>>37670212
>"Loving" yourself is irrational.
Then i dont know what to do.
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>>37670080
Not for me, particularly. I like to try to keep up with him in conversation, and involve myself in shenanigans when possible. I've learned how to deal with taking attention.

I want to try to understand how his brain works, pick it apart, and then take as much knowledge from that as possible. The arguably fun part, is he makes it very difficult. He's grappling with logic-ing his way out of using and abusing logic.

>mfw there's a small chance he's reading this
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>>37670228
Hating yourself is also irrational. Just be comfortable with yourself.
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what's the best match for an INTJ in your experience?
does anyone want to date me
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>>37670001
the problem is that people build expectations and then get angry when you don't live up to them
if you always help people they'll get angry when you refuse because no one remembers the times you helped, only the times you didn't

honestly if your entire group of people depends on you not to fall apart, then it's not a healthy place to be in
don't become bitter and cynical like us INTPs, you deserve happiness, just don't try to find it in people that don't deserve it
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>>37670001
Avoid SPs or crypto-NT
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>>37670242
>Just be comfortable with yourself
But that's the same as loving yourself (in non narcissistic way).
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>INTP
>spend all day playing dwarf fortress
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>>37651100
INTP. Desktop icons are for retarded sensors and feelers.
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>>37670309
No, it isn't.

Being comfortable with yourself means you acknowledge both your weak and strong points. Loving yourself is being irrationally accepting of all parts of you without ever experiencing doubt or seeking improvement.
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>>37670256
As an INTJ i had a great 2016 with an ISFP, she really took care of me and we had crazy, beautiful times together. Inevitably though I led us to breaking up because I'm obsessed with progress, power and capability, and she was a distraction.
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>>37670346
Faker. Only an INTJ would get around to cleaning their desktop of icons that get added when installing shit.
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>>37670212
>>37670228
>>37670174
Alright faggots, here's the thing. Y'all have the wrong perception of self love. It's common to think of self love as how you regard yourself and only that; but it's only half of the equation and if you are only doing that you're gonna end up a narcissistic retard with no redeeming qualities. Real self love is how you TREAT yourself. You've got to be a buddy to yourself. Cultivate habits that you'd encourage in a loved one. Say your little brother is a fat stupid fuck. You are going to encourage him to go to the gym and read a book, right? Not because you hate him, but because you love him. From now on, you're your own retarded little brother. Be a good big brother and love him.
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>>37670358
>Being comfortable with yourself means you acknowledge both your weak and strong points
So just acknowledging is enough?
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>>37670419
>that get added when installing shit.
>installing shortcuts
The fuck's wrong with you?
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>>37670232
I was worried that you were talking about me at first, but then I remembered I'm INTP, then I remembered I haven't actually told my friend I'm INTP, then I remembered I don't have a friend like this.

It's a bittersweet, confusing relief.
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>>37670346
Josh, i-is that you?
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>>37670446
>You've got to be a buddy to yourself. Cultivate habits that you'd encourage in a loved one. Say your little brother is a fat stupid fuck. You are going to encourage him to go to the gym and read a book, right? Not because you hate him, but because you love him. From now on, you're your own retarded little brother. Be a good big brother and love him.
So what you're trying to tell me is that I should not give a flying fuck about myself, disconnect emotionally and just in general think my own existence is a bother most of the time?
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>>37670481
No, you faggot. I'm not some lard-ass Ameritard. Why would you think that?
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>>37670497
Haha it's so funny when you're obtuse like that anon~ ^_^
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>>37670552
If you care about people you're not a robot, but a normalfag.
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>>37670380
INTJ+ENTP is the best combo for your goal
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>>37670578
I think you meant to reply to someone else. I don't see how your response went with that anon's response.
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>>37670550
>tfw no deliciously evil INTJ gf like Misuzu
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>>37648942
ENTP
My inner speech is basically making sassy quips towards everything
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>>37670599
She's not nearly spergy enough to be INTJ.
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>>37670380
Your a bad person and I hate you.
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>>37648942
I'm ESTP. My inner voice will take in everything around me (literally around me or resources/people I have access to) and how I can utilise it most to my advantage. It also weighs the pros and cons of when I should do something and whether or not a task is worth doing. When it comes to people, my inner voice tells me what it seems like to me the people I'm with are thinking beneath what they say.
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>>37670656
We're not here to fucking mate. We're here to push the limits of what's possible. Why value something that literally anyone can have? Both the richest and the poorest people have sex. Both the richest and the poorest people have relationships.
If you're not working on being the best version of yourself, what the fuck are you even doing?
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>>37670869
>implying those things aren't capable of coexisting
Why not go to the top with a woman who loves you at your side? Besides, just because "anyone can have a relationship" doesn't mean anyone can have the exact one you had. You had a meaningful bond with a woman you had great experiences with and kicked her to the curb because she was a "distraction". Yes I'm a dumb feelfag.

Also this is probably the wrong board to be saying
>Why value something that literally anyone can have? Both the richest and the poorest people have sex. Both the richest and the poorest people have relationships.
haha
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>>37670869
This guy's got the right idea. That said, rabid individualism can be self destructive. The ideal path is to find a relationship where both parties are growing to be better people as a direct result of said relationship. If you are stagnating as people, it's usually best to end the relationship before codependence sets in. That's only if you do t have kids though. If you do, you should stick around for your kids sake and cultivate that relationship for mutual growth.
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>tfw no intp fembot to be codependent with
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>>37669486
>All they have to do is invest in Ne over Ti.
No
Fuck off I'm full
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>tfw lazy ENTJ

What do
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>>37663133
Great post there, my dude. I have the exact same problem, wanting to learn to think verbally. How did you do it? Could you explain?
(Infp)
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>>37670953
>>37670982

I didn't toss her to the curb, I was working intensively on multiple studio projects, and one lonely night we reconnected on tinder after like five years. She decided after our first date that she was ready to start sleeping with me, without a condom no less (she was on the pill, which took me months to be comfortable with); she obviously felt strongly, but given how focused on my work I am, I tried my best to keep it casual.

But she insisted on dating regardless, despite my incessant reasoning with her that because of my work, values and need for focus, I wouldn't be able to provide for her and give her a normal relationship. She screamed at me that she didn't give a fuck, that she would pay for everything, she just wanted us to be together. I reluctantly relented, knowing that eventually it would wear her down because after my projects I was going to take a year off to write. After 9 months, all of my philosophies taught/got to her. She wanted more, she wasn't focusing on herself, and the last time we saw eachother we were making out hardcore in tears. Her last text to me was basically that she wants to have me again someday.

That's the fucking sacrifice dude. During those nine months I hardly wrote shit because she monopolized my time and texted me 24/7. In the five months after I wrote more and at a higher level than I have in my entire life. I played a secret show for the first time two days ago and decimated it. Creative minds at the very least need that time in the hyperbolic time chamber to maximize their capability, like it or not.

I dream of a relationship with balance, but virtuosity and balance are inherently at odds with one another.
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>>37670629
I dunno man, Misuzu is pretty spergy
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>>37671210
The wrong kind. INTJ are a mix between fedoratheists and narutards.
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>>37671244
INTJ that literally believes he's one of the countless physical manifestations of God reporting in, goml
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>>37670419
>look up how to hide desktop icons
>click a (desu I forgot what the fuck I did)
>icons still there, just invisible
>no mess to be seen
it's just like my life!
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>>37664106
Do you have advice for developing verbal thinking as an entirely visual/nonverbal thinker?
Would be great
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>>37669302
>>37669457
what do we mean by "best" in this scenario? most enjoyable to be around? most likely to be successful?
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>>37671401
not him but first thing would probably be to learn what verbal thinking is, I guess reading material about it or google, just to get a general base idea how verbal thinkers operate, reading discussions/forums etc
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>>37669527
i would say that is true for ISTP. i am one, and in high school i had a lot of casual friendships with the chads and cool kids, but was never really in with them. always on the cusp of being "popular", amongst the guys at least.
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>>37671430
Any specific works?
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>>37670001

Maybe your friends think of you as an invincible partyman who's never bothered by anything. Like you're a well of joy that shoots rainbows into the sky all day long for everyone's pleasure, or the unicorn that never stopped existing and will always be there to dazzle people. So, going by that totally-not-insane reasoning, their thinking might be something like "oh man Anon is such a great guy, he's always happy all the time and he probably has a million friends so he'll be fine if I ditch" but then the truth is entirely different. It's possible that they just haven't thought of you as "human" in the sense that you are also vulnerable, since all they see is the guy who always turns up and never says no (as in, definite no) to a party. It kinda sucks to show that you're not happy with the way things are in your social circle (to me it always ends up feeling like I'm telling people they aren't good enough for me, and that's tough) but there's a part of you that needs tending to, as well, and I don't think there's any shame in letting them know that.

Oh and if you're anything like me then you'll go like this forever without telling anybody about it, except in hints that nobody pick up on. That's just not great and it'll corrode your relationships, so it's best to bring it out sooner rather than later.
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>>37671049
I'm an INTP "fembot"
But if I ever got into a relationship I wouldn't want codependency, I've seen it really fuck some people over
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>>37671405
best as in the full epitome of normie
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>>37671722
>tfw the only time an INTP female responds to me is when I'm shitposting and it's already too late to explain the intricate layers of irony in my post and I don't actually want a codependent relationship and honestly I don't even want a relationship exactly and it doesnt matter anyway because i'm old and introvert and aspie and skelly and fairly asexual anyways and probably not worth anyone's time unless maybe I am but who would ever know right fml
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>>37671722
what even is the point of a relationship and love then? just dont be a fucking retard before you actually engage into a relationship. what is courtship

btw where do you live
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>>37670001
INTP here thats why im real careful with making friends now
ive had 0 friends for a couple years now

and also dont listen to those dumbasses saying shit like suck it up and no obligation of etc they can eat shit
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>>37671198
If she really loved you shouldn't she have been willing to back off when necessary?
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What is the difference between INFP and ISFP?
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>>37671841
: <
Sorry for making you feel bad. I'm sure you're worth plenty of peoples' time!

>>37671917
A relationship is for mutual enrichment, not mutual dependency. It's like frosting. A lot of people consider frosting the best part of a cake, but it's an enhancement to what is already a cake. A pile of frosting is just gross. (I don't like frosting that much though...)
and New Jersey
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>>37672055
Thanks but you didn't really make me feel bad. It's more like a twisted expectation. Of course that's when I get a reply. Of course it doesn't matter. Of course it never will. It makes so much sense. Like everything else.
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>>37664687
>>37665528

This hits me right in the feels. This world is to cruel or maybe we just expected too much
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Is it better to be ENFP or INFP?
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>>37671841

Damn son, at least you've not completely abandoned hope. It seems like an easy thing to just beat yourself down to the point where you think you're -definitely- not worth anyone's time, but you don't think that. You still think it's possible, although unlikely. And that's great! Keep it that way, because you've also got love to offer someone, and just by lightning up the end of the tunnel yourself everything can become more meaningful!
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>>37672100
You sound like you need to talk about something. Would it help to talk about it in private or something?

If you don't wanna that's okay too, I just hope you feel alright.
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>>37672055
>mutual enrichment
That's what friends are for. You have to go beyond that with a lover.

fucking dumb bitch
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>>37671983
Dealing with an INTJ is asking a lot of a person. I'm highly passionate, headstrong, and I'm very critical of complacency and indicators of weakness. If you put that together with people not familiar with those ideas, you get extremely polarizing results.

In my experience, you either stand strong to an INTJ or you get the fuck out of the way. We're polarizing as fuck. I was like a jolt to her entire family's system, when I'd sit down at her huge family dinners with my pretentious self-certainties and beliefs in what a person is capable of. I was always trying to inspire her to be more and that she could have anything, which is A LOT. People prefer comfortz

I'd love to see personality statistics on lurkers. I'd bet a ton of them are INTJs just because of how rare it is to post here and receive genuine responses. I cringe at most of what I say too b/c I remember a time before being an INTJ, but this shit works
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>>37672259
What she's saying is that a relationship needs to be standing on a foundation, it can't be that foundation. The best kind of love isn't "I need you, I can't live without you.", it's "I can live without you but I don't want to"

I was a clingy codependent little bitch and learned this lesson the hard way, so I know it to be true.
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>>37672297
>my pretentious self-certainties and beliefs in what a person is capable of. I was always trying to inspire her to be more and that she could have anything, which is A LOT. People prefer comfortz
You shouldn't expect that much of sensors desu senpai.
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>>37670869
t. ESTJ/ENTJ
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>>37672311
Because you or your boyfriend was a retard, if your relationship was solid you would still be with him

whats worse than a female trying to undermine the foundations of love? go get raped
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>>37672357
Are you not capable of reading? "I learned that lesson the hard way", means the foundation was obviously not solid. Codependency is self destructive.
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>>37672328
I know. I didn't expect her to change for me. I don't expect anyone to see my perspectives as rational. I just wanted her to understand why/how I knew we wouldn't work out. I'm insatiable. It was heartbreaking.

>>37672348
Nah, I tested INTJ for like the fourth time in a row just last week. My best friend is ENTJ though, and he's satisfied with being a public school/private school history teacher.
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>>37672387
You're fucking stupid

>the foundation of my terrible fucking relationship was obviously not solid, so therefore all codependency is self-destructive
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>>37672348
Adding to >>37672408 I was kicking it with him two days ago after my show and I had us talking to these two girls because one of them knew me really loosely through an old roommate, and yet always acts as if we're close friends. I basically called her on her shit by actually trying to get to know her interests, etc, which she responded Pretty badly to. I apparently ended the whole thing rashly and made us leave them, which he gave me shit for because he really wanted to bring them back to the room to try and fuck.

My point is that you've got ur definitions swapped desu
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>>37672223
I might need to talk about a lot of things. Not say them aloud or write them down, but I might need to talk about them. Not keep a journal, not post a thread. But talk about about them. But that's a two party system. So either I pay someone to listen and try to disregard that fact and pretend they're actually interested, which won't do a lot for me, or I can specifically make a thread or post somewhere where I'll get called things (doesn't bother me, just is a waste of time) or will get hollow platitudes from anons that want to feel better by making someone else feel better (I get that, I do, you do you), which will also not do a lot for me. Another option is to try to make friend(s) and confide in them and share the things, but then it's a matter of "when is a good time? how much do I share?" and other things. Nobody wants their new friend to suddenly go off on autistic rambles about how nothing makes sense and other random shit. Besides, I've lost too many "friends" by sharing my brain too much. (inb4 well they werent ur reel friendz then)

I'm over 25, introvert, aspie, not a female, not gay, not a trap, not into anime, so 99% of anons want nothing to do with me. Which, again, is fine, except that maybe sometimes I do have things to share. To be clear, I'm not angery or sad right now, just trying to state things.

I tried discord for weeks now, joining servers left and right, lurking and participating in the group. I feel more lost than usual lately.
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>>37672416
>Codependency is a type of dysfunctional helping relationship where one person supports or enables another person's drug addiction, alcoholism, gambling addiction, poor mental health, immaturity, irresponsibility, or under-achievement.[1]

Yeah...
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ENTP
Love jokes, love stupid arguments about stupid things and don't care for safe spaces. Though, I tend to lose 50 IQ points whenever I'm talking with friends irl, so I've got no clue what that shit's about.

Also: me, an intellectual.
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>>37672416
I expected you to provide an actual argument, not "well your relationship was dumb for some other reason! n-not codependency I'm sure". I guess that was two much.

Codependency is essentially parasitism. It's leeching off another person because you're not capable of sustaining yourself. Codependent people will feel increasingly unfulfilled, while the one beng leeched off of will feel increasingly stifled and emotionally drained by how the other person needs more and more from them and no matter how hard they try it's never quite enough.Mutually codependency doubly so, both parties will thoroughly drain and burn each other out.

Codependency and deep, meaningful love aren't opposites. You can love a person and want to be with them more than anything. Mutual codepency is self destructive for both parties

Now, you could pose an argument for why this is not the case, or you could keep calling me stupid. Your choice.
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>>37672408
>>37672483
Tbh I just don't think that you're INTJ, or any sort of introvert. They are more sort of passive observers than doers, even though some meme descriptions tell you otherwise.
Look into both types I posted, you really sound like them
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>>37672531
>>37672555
Ok I dont know what is codependency
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>>37672588
>arguing about codependency
>doesn't know what it is
What is your type?
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>>37672565
And by "they" I meant INTJ and INFJ
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>>37672632
The word codependency just sounds like mutual dependency, which is the way to go in a relationship

I'm INTP
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>>37672565
Oh no I absolutely am. This is how we work.

https://youtu.be/P_LHDroHyLo

>Mastermind type
>Definitely not passive; famous model figures include Martin Luther, Vincent Frankenstein, Elon Musk, Friedrich Nietzsche, Vladimir Putin, etc.
My main objective is virtuosity in music. I've been researching my approach intensively for seven years, and had a vision for it four years ago. I bound between deep isolation and public experimentation. I surround myself with people only if I'm testing for something or working for something. Otherwise I'm just working out, practicing, writing, or accumulating knowledge and power

It's all in the obsessiveness
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>>37672672
>codependency: excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically a partner who requires support due to an illness or addiction.
Well it's an understandable mistake. Depending on each other is naturally good when not taken to extremes.
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>>37648942
INTJ here, inner speech mostly involving insulting myself or grandiose daydreams when i accomplish something
also your reddit spacing disgusting me and you should feel bad about yourself, its not like paragraphs arent easy to visualize in small excerpts of texts
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>>37672709
I'm still not sure what counts as excessive emotional reliance on a partner.
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Where my fellow INFJ's at? Ya'll feeling as fake as me?
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>>37672694
Sorry to break it to you, but that video describes an unhealthy Te-dom (ENTJ/ESTJ) and Celebritytypes is a very bad source. At least watch their other INTJ video
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>>37672756
Hi.

Fuck you :^)
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>>37672495
lol nice blog faggot
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>>37672822
I've watched at least 20 different videos in the past few weeks, read multiple MBTI websites, took quizzes from multiple sources ranging back to the first one I took in an AP high school Psychology course years ago, and on top of all of that, have researched both of the types that you referenced earlier. It's the type that most describes what I've become senpai.
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>>37672842
low original content
deluxe originality
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>>37672761
can someone tell me what is excessive emotional reliance on a partner
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>>37672495
I can try adding you on discord and talking to you, though I can't guarantee I can give the peace of mind you're looking for. It might help, though
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>>37672937
No one can tell you that because it's a buzzword that means nothing.
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>>37672937
I wish I could paint like this or at least this type of art was still popular.
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>>37673016
thought so.

>>37673033
same, death to modernists
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>>37673011
Gib discord name then?
>inb4 this goes the way it always does
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>>37672918
Protip: you don't "become" a type, and MBTI only describes in what way your cognition works

For INTJ gaining a deep understanding is the goal while their Te(organizing/doing) is only used as a helpful tool

Meanwhile ExTJ are the "doers" with a vision

Read the original introverted intuition description by Carl Jung to understand
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>>37673043
Have you seen paintings like this up close? The attention to detail is enviable. It's like you could reach out and touch silk.
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>>37673084
none with such intricate details no ;_;
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>>37673051
Madotsuki#1795
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>>37673146
HOLY SHIT

GO BACK TO XIVG
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>>37673163
What? I don't play FF14. I did for like a second, but I got bored of it.
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>>37673198
FUCK YOU


ERWTHWRETHWRTHWRTH
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>>37673213
I'm incredibly confused. Did I fuck up
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>>37673220
I don't know, but I (dumb anon) added you
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>>37673065
Acquiring a deep understanding of music is equal parts research, and execution. You have to test and meticulously study your results on people to try and perfect outcomes. I appear extroverted when doing this. But I've talked to less than 10 people for longer than 10 minutes in the past year and a half, sitting here in my place in the middle of these woods.

I see MBTI types more as a diagnosis of what one is leading up to the moment they take any given test, given the fact that my own specific personality is undeniably majorly derivative of the environment that I was raised in. Cut off and alone most of the time, denied a number of friends from different cultures, but given a computer extremely early on instead. I was raised to be an outsider. Mind kicked into overdrive with that "vision" four years ago-- that's when it really started to become real.

I mean you can debate this all you want but it fits like a glove.
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>>37673254
What do you consider more important: your inner life, fantasy and knowledge or actually doing shit in the real world and trying to reach your dreams?
How well can you handle your feelings: are they sometimes explosive and your apparent weakspot, or do you like having and using them most of the time?
Also being extraverted in MBTI does not mean that you like to talk to people
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>>37673016
Yep, there's definitely no such thing as unhealthy attachment.
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>>37673431
Nope, no such thing as a shitpost either.
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>>37673409
Power. Having so rich an inner life, capacity for fantasy, and deep set of knowledge that my intuition function is literally god-tier, to the point that everything I create nears high art status. I'm obsessed with Mozart and Beethoven and have sang their shit in choirs tons just hoping that some of it rubs off. I do that with tons of artists and scientists spanning thousands of years. I see myself as a tool at this point, trying to be as sharp as possible to maximize my capacities.

My feelings are definitely deep because I can write extremely emotional songs and stories, but they definitely come secondary to the work. I was destroyed after my last breakup, especially when I watched a remake of Tarkovsky's Solaris, but returning to the work helped me breathe again.
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>>37669332
>lately

My life has been like a rollercoaster of positivity and negativity

>>37671164
Why are you lazy?
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>>37673549
How much do you fit into one of these descriptions
http://www.wikisocion.net/en/index.php?title=ILI_subtypes
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