Hey, feeling alone and in the need for some company? Is the rain outside slightly warmer than it usually is? Get in here and do whatever you want. Shitpost, talk about girls or boys, or just listen to music.
You're always welcome in Cabin-Anon's threads.
Music:
Lo-Fi, or mellow vaporwave/mall-soft genre. Here's a collection of mixes:
Music:
Lo-Fi, or mellow vaporwave/mall-soft genre. Here's a collection of mixes:
>Sleepless nights - lo-fi hip/hop
>26:45
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWUWXqa1w1Q
>Get some rest - lo-fi hip/hop
>30:00
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nLEOwgm7OUQ
>Starfunkle: a mixtape from Japan
>45:51
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E4s-hxY80pA
>Love Hurts - lo-fi hip/hop
>46:25
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnOOExbte2c
If you're more in the mood for more relaxed and jazzy tunes, I recommend these mixes from youtube:
> Godot - Fragrance of Dark Coffee
>58:31
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D6KRIMASing [Embed]
>Ryo Fukui - Scenery 1976 (FULL ALBUM)
>41:21
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hrr3dp7zRQY [Embed]
> City Pop
>52:03
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pP7kapbwQ-Y
I love this picture, does anyone know of any good pic-to-cartoon converters online?
This mix is so good and so sad.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mo0JwoDFGUE
>>37645531
Could use both anons.
"""Girlfriend""" (inb4 get out normie) says we're fine, but doesn't have any time for me on her two days off. Talks so sweetly, but can act so coldly sometimes.
Friend says we're supposed to go out later today, haven't heard from him all day.
Sitting at home in my underwear wondering if things will ever go uphill in this shithole city.
>>37645647
Forgot photo and music.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oE45E7aKupw
>>37645647
Where do you live, anon?
How long have you and your girl been together?
>>37645669
Never heard of this group before, they're really good. Do you have any other recommendations?
>>37645725
It's really hard to find original text to post for every single post, but I suppose it's okay because there's no other place like here, you know?
>>37645690
Somewhere in the southeast of America where old people go to die.
Dated four weeks, together three weeks today. So nearly two months. Had a slight falling out Friday, putting me in hot water. Apologies, conversations, seeing each other for a few minutes. Supposedly moving past it. Still feel like shit. I can't get the idea out of my head that she's just biding her time waiting for Chad, because she always has a couple guys pining for her at any given time.
>>37645725
Avelino is my coworker's brother in law. He makes some good music. Similar recommendations I can give. Dubstep, rather than hiphop. Comfy though.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Aj3BlwebxUM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dx7vthdCPhY
>>37645808
Do you envision that you'll continue dating for a longer period of time?
>>37645832
Realistically envision? It's hard to tell. Outside my fuckup, I see us as a good fit for one another. In my head I'd like to see more of her. In reality though, I don't really know where she stands. She's so sweet, saying things like "You'll always hear from me :)" and "We're good" and such, but then I won't see her for days or hear from her for hours.
>>37645871
>[
If you don't mind me asking, what did you do? What was the fuck up?
>>37645531
Anyone here a fan of DnB? I find it evoke a sort of urban feel that's quite comfy.
Anyways, I'm just trying to enjoy what little summer I have. I've got a week before graduating from college, and then I'll be working until I head of to grad school.
I'm also beating myself up over whether I should ask this girl out or not. I want to get it off my chest, but I don't want to fuck things up and sour things with her.
Anyways, song
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDDEuQLtSWU
>>37646060
Ask her out, you'll regret it if you don't do it. You don't want to do it because it's scary, but better to risk something for something great than not doing anything.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQSljVL5ARA
>>37646049
We were supposed to hang Wednesday at 5pm. Chatted early morning. Don't hear from her for twelve hours.
7:30 she's like "Omg Im a terrible person, I overslept, im so sorry."
8:11 she's like "will you be at the [car] meet?"
I was already bothered she missed it, so I went out for a drive on my way to said meet. I enjoy myself, meet friends, go home sad I didn't see her there.
Didn't talk to her Thursday, but she said she hoped I had a good day.
Friday morning I ask her to join me to an event Saturday, she declines twice. This is where it was downhill.
Turns out, she genuinely did fall asleep for five fucking hours in the middle of the day, and even showed up to the car meet. She said she saw me, saw that I didn't say anything to her, and was livid I left without a word. Meanwhile, I had no clue she was there.
She was upset that I basically went cold for a day and a half without explanation.
Meanwhile, I was just really upset that I didn't get to see her Wednesday, and further upset since I didn't see her that night.
After talking, discover that she genuinely wanted to hang Wednesday night and asked if I was gonna be at the meet so she could see me. I don't even know she's there. Fuck, not only is she there, but she hangs out at the meet until 2, and then goes with friends to someone's house to decompress and watch a movie, leaving his house at 5am. She said it so casually, gave me names, times, location, etc, but I'm freaking out like she fucked some dude. Somehow, "watching a movie" and letting your dogs hangout isn't weird to her.
Then Thursday, she gets in a car accident around midnight. Doesn't tell me about it. Calls some other dude and gets her car towed and all this. Said she wasn't home until 7am.
All this happened in two days. I don't think she's cheating, because, when you're a girl in the car scene, 99% of your friends are guys. Other women are tire biters, and it's a male hobby.
part one of two
>>37646049
part two
I groveled, apologized, and told her that it was wrong of me to go silent, and there were big misunderstandings. She said she didn't know I didn't see her, and was past her anger, blah blah blah.
She's assured me that we're "good" twice now, but has pulled anything public (facebook status for xample) about our relationship, and hasn't put it back up. We talked last night, this morning, and it was good. She's busy all day. I haven't heard from her for hours, but she read the message. Don't know if I'll hear from her. I don't want to not reach out, because that's the mistake from before . But I dson't want to smother her either.
At the end of the day, there are more women in the world, but that's no the issue here.
>>37646235
Holy shit, anon. I hope thing work out alright. I honestly think that this is just a huge misunderstanding on both of your parts, which lead to this super awkward conclusion. I hope you're doing well tonight at least, and if not, I hope a good night's sleep will solve some problems,
>>37646348
My life is a fucking meme. It was literally a massive misunderstanding that's hurting the relationship for both of us, and I won't even get to see her until Saturday to really gauge how she feels. Maybe Wednesday. Maybe at all if I'm lucky.
Thanks Cabin-Anon. I appreciate the ear. Gym early tomorrow morning, so I'll need the sleep. How are things with you? Threads like these get made but no one seems to ask the OP.
>>37646166
Yeah, though cliche, the worst she could say to me is no. The thing is that I see her on an almost daily basis because of work, so asking her out has some potentially serious implications, mostly just related to making things awkward at work.
The chance of her saying yes is higher since I've known her for awhile and talk to her in person pretty frequently, or at least I think the chance is higher.
But, I think I'm gonna do it next week, probably on Saturday. If not then, then definitely before I move for grad school.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=svH8WXgAqhs
>>37646382
It's smart to exercise, it improves more than just your physical strength. It clears the mind and soul. Sweat some for me as well!
I'm doing fine. I finished my novel today, which I'm very excited about. I've been neglecting to edit it for almost a year, so I'm happy I finally got around to do that. Thanks for asking!
>>37646444
Check'd.
That's awesome, what're you writing about? I'm 33k words into mine, and hoping to finish by the end of the year. I can relate to finally getting around to it.
>>37646401
Just be polite and respectful, and if she declines, be very sure to act calm and as if it's not a big deal, seeing as she's your corporate business partner. Then it's not awkward for either of you and most importantly, even if it hurts for you, she doesn't need to know and it doesn't damage your relationship.
Excellent music, by the way. I love dub.
>>37646486
Have a look, it's not on Amazon for a couple of days, but here's a preview:
http://www.blurb.com/b/7994889-yume
>>37646537
Seems like it'll be a heavy read, Cabin-Anon. Sorry for the losses you've experienced. I'm happy that you're making desirable progress though.
>>37646594
Thank you, anon. I hope I figure it out some day.
>>37646491
Yeah, I'm thinking of spinning more casually than straight up asking her on a date. Probably something along the lines of, "Hey, I was gonna go out for a beer tomorrow if you want to tag along."
Pretty open ended and harmless, I think.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IKbadsY2MSs