I somehow got a girl to go on a date with me. I can sort of pull off a cool vibe via text but I'm incredibly autismo in real life. Any advice on how to not fuck this up?
>>37627206
did you make plants to go to a thing already? Where are you going?
My general advice is to not talk about yourself all that much. Ask about her without being too autistically interrogative. Ask her what she's into or studying or whatever and then compliment her and add something to what she's saying like "oh that's interesting, what's that like?" that lets her talk some more in a more natural pace.
t. cyborg who's fucked 5 girls.
>>37627270
Movie/dinner, I suggested a couple things and she picked that one.
>>37627206
>Ask her about about herself, but don't be too intrusive. Woman love talking about themselves.
>Have follow up questions ready to avoid awkward silences.
>Don't just ask any old crap though, because you'll seem insincere and like your trying too hard.
>Link your own interests/experiences in with her own. "Oh I like that, Oh I'd love to do that... etc" You can lie, as long as it won't come back to bite you.
Basically let her talk and let the drinks keep coming.
>>37627300
okay cool yeah that's always a safe bet.
I don't know you and I don't know the girl, but I would personally avoid dinner on the very first date. Can't go wrong with a movie though.