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>20
Obviously this is bait in an attempt to make oldfags feel like shit but you obviously still got plenty of time. Try being 29 with no future then talk shit, little bitch.

>>37622805
but i already know how my future will pan out. i already know that i will never change. yes, there is hope, but that hope is likely to never be relaised

before i know it i'll be the 29 year old loser

join a church youth group or something, OP

just play along, nobody is ever actually being themselves, learn to play a role, it's the only way to get by in this garbage world

if you cry about being fake when you get back home every day, at least it should be better to you than what you're describing in the OP

>>37622743
OP I'd kill to have 3 years of extra time like you do. I can give some advice on how to change your life if you seriously want it.

>>37622957
Not op but same boat kinda. Whatchu got its not falling on closed ears.

>27 couch potato neet since 2010
>single/friendless since 07
it feels like i missed that day of school where everyone learned how to 'make it'.

>>37622743
Get the fuck out of the house and do something literally anything. Go to the mall and sit on a fucking bench and read if you have to, take a daily walk or something equally stupid.eventually you will step your game up and find something better. I came to the realization you had at 20 and never did anything about it now I'm 25 and in the same boat still. For the love of Christ don't end up like me

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>>37622867
That's the thing, you have to change shit right now. I was saying that same shit 6 years ago and I'm closing in on 30 very quickly.
Once you start nearing 30 you realize that you are getting fucking old. You need to looking for people of your own age, your body starts showing its age around this time and from there its just a steep downhill straight to the grave.
You can change shit. Try new hobbies, find your passion. The keyword with hobbies is trying. Just see what you like.

You don't need to be outgoing or even have friends, just find something that gives your life purpose. For some its art, for some its making music or some other shit. Life is pointless and can end very suddenly, you just have to do shit that feels right. Don't give a damn what the social norms say is "right", you need to find those answers yourself. You are still young, but it won't last very long. Do something with your life.

>>37622805
Not OP but I feel the same way. I'm 21. I know I'm still young but when you've spent the last 15 years not doing shit with your life, it makes you feel like an old fucking man, especially when you see your peers moving out of their parents' houses, getting good jobs, getting into real relationships, etc.

It only gets worse, OP.

I'm fucking 30 and I've still done nothing with my life.

>>37622805
I wouldn't be so sure.

The job he has at 20 is probably shitty, and the way he talks suggests he is not in any education to get something better allowing for advancement or better future. That's why he probably knows it's going to stagnate from this point on if he doesn't do anything else.

>>37622743
protip: if you feel sorry about yourself and how "old" you are as a 20 year old kid and how your life isn't as good as normies your own age, that little pity party is all you'll be doing for years.

I'm 30 years old and did the exact same thing. It's only in the last couple of years that I've been able to change things around because I fucking stopped comparing my own life to other people's and more importantly I stopped wasting my days by sitting around posting frogs and complaining about how bored I was.


Stop posting frogs, get off this dumb website, and go outside and make things happen. That's all you need to do to improve your life.

>>37623047
>You can change shit. Try new hobbies, find your passion. The keyword with hobbies is trying. Just see what you like.

This guy gets it. I wish I had gotten it years ago. You just have to throw yourself against the walls and see what sticks like proverbial spaghetti.

>>37623068
>I'm 21. I know I'm still young but when you've spent the last 15 years not doing shit with your life

I'm sorry but what the fuck 15 out of 21 years

Weren't you in school for like 13 of those years?

>>37622957
op here. please enlighten me

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>>37622993
I always suffered from a major weight problem, so my approach against fatness/binging is the same as my approach to life now that I have seen what works for weight loss.

I would say that if you want to change your life, you have to measure where most of your time is going. You need to actually sit down and type it out on a spreadsheet so you can visualize and calculate just how much time you're wasting. The act of documenting your habits, good and bad, is not a bad thing. Don't ever look at it that way. My reasoning is, if you can measure the sum of your daily life, you can also control it.

I would also recommend exercise and a diet. The benefits of both have been discussed to death in places like /fit/, doctor's offices, etc. Still, it is the best place to start with my idea of measuring everything that you do. You actually get real and substantial gains there as you succeed, there is no need to overthink something as simple as cardio either so the excuses are few.

>>37623133
Yeah but all the other kids in school, they're going to parties, they're hanging with their friends, getting their first kisses, fingering girls, losing their virginity, creating memories. I didn't get to experience any of that but a first kiss when I was 12 and that was a quick little peck. I feel like I've wasted my youth.

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>>37622743
OP, i have time do follow a couple hobbies because i dont work full time.
I get NEETbux every month on top of only working 4 hours a day 4 days a week.
If you really cant get neetbux you should try living a minimal life style and if you must make the extra cash a different way.

Working full time, from what i hear on here is soul crushing...on the other hand working part time can be fun and slightly care free, giving me time and an extra check every week.

Im trying to learn how to set up a good stream and maybe start gaming on twitch, or maybe ill start following my porn drawing patreon dream more and go through with that, the point is, if you are able to you should cut back on working so much.
Your mind feels uncluttered and you can definitely find another easier way to make the extra money if you really need it.

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>>37622743
Yeah I feel the same bro. Just hang in there because oftentimes things change randomly without warning. You never know when, but things will pick up sometime.

>>37622743
You're still young Anon and you have time to waste. I'm a 34yo schizophrenic neet who has never achieved anything or worked a job.

>>37623140
See >>37623154

To expand on why I think this approach is so good I think it's because being able to have a perfect picture of the past lets you see beyond your personality flaws; you see your choices and the consequences of them without much emotion involved. After all, human memory is only so good.

>>37623157
>I feel like I've wasted my youth.

>21

It's posts like these that make me wish I could strangle people through the internet.

You could be creating memories and fingering high school girls right now as a 21 year old but instead you're just feeling sorry for yourself that you didn't get to do it when you were 15 or whatever like in a hollywood movie. big deal.


No girl ever even looked at me, other than with a look of pity, for all of high school. A year after I graduated I was balls deep in goth pussy because I stopped feeling sorry for myself.


You are still young, go out and make things happen instead of throwing yourself a pity party everyday.

Oh fuck of you literally baby. I am 31 this September and in the exact situation as you. In fact, it's probably worse for me because my parents and brother are dead so I have absolutely nobody to fall back on. I'm not even going to encourage you to sort your shit out, I just want you to leave.

Very few people get to have great lives.

>>37623297
just because you currently might have it worse than me doesn't mean i can't have my own problems.

>>37623245
Thanks famalam, you have no idea what posts like this do for me. I wish I could have someone tell me shit like this everyday, just to remind me of what a dumbass I'm being.

>>37623330
Sure thing.

I would be on here everyday and scream at you and tell you to get off this board but I also follow my own advice. I only post here on weekends and sometimes two or three times during the week but only at night.

It's hard as shit to get a real objective look on one's life. That's why I wasted most of my 20s.

I am 26 and you have your whole life ahead of you

You could be hit by a truck tommorow and at that last moment be like nah fuck it

>>37622805
or 29

or like the 35 year old bitches I try to bait on Tinder

If you're jealous of people having friends, go make friends, it's supposed to be weird stupid and ahrd but your species love you and we would gie you a hug if we could