What is the biggest thing that attracts you to your oneitis?

Obsessing over an idealistic version of someone I vaguely know won't like me back is easier than trying to learn about myself and what kind of person I can be a good match with

also nice tits desu

For me, it's spunky and witty girls. The kind with cute voices and frequent giggling. She'll laugh at your joke even if you have low social value. She often has long hair. She dresses classy too. She has the ability to be social but also be quiet/reserved when necessary.

are these common traits?

>>37487178
Her face makes me smile, I find myself unwilling to turn down or resist any time we can spend together even when I can rationally deduce it will not be favorable to myself. Normally my 'experience' of things is kept very distant from interactions in the moment, my emotional range has been blunted to such a degree that it doesn't phase me to do anything, it's disconnected and kept completely separate until processed when I am alone in complete control of my environment but when she is around it's like riding a wave of her presence.

>>37487271
Usually that kind of character has a shorter haircut, although there are some shows where it is not the case

she's pretty thats literally it. Not stunningly pretty but personally for me she is.

>>37487271
I'd say it's common, sounds like you described the girl I'm pining for.