25 +

33 NEET moved back with parents a couple years ago.

Gonna pick a city and move there and try to start a new life. One final chance at making it.

NEET frogposters are right; I do have to spend my time slaving away, grinding down to get money to pay for a place to store my shit while Im at work (aka a house), a lot of my wekeend free time is taken up by cleaning my fucking place.

Its a lot of effort to keep friendships alive. Now one of my friends has kids, another has an actual wife, and the third is running his PT business (yes I really only have three friends since one stopped talking to me after a fight about money he owed me), I cant just drop around at a moments notice like we used to do to each other a few years ago.

Its june and I have seen these guys a total of about 4 times. Not each, in total. One not at all this year. Its hard work to negotiate, organise, and not feel personally attacked when they prioritize other things over you. Its also lonely sometimes.

Trying to study to advance my career, but everytime I start, I immediately put the book back on the shelf because its too hard.

I spend more time more happy than unhappy though. It is also fucking good to be in my own house. It might be a pain in the fucking arse to keep it in order, but I can jack off wherever the fuck I like.

Money is also nice to have. I am looking on ebay for a few OG era pokemon and yugioh cards I want, a beyblade and tony hawks for ps2 because i fucking can. Its nice to be able to do this.

27yr old single father. I came down with viral pneumonia and now have my parents looking after my son because I can barely get out of bed to piss.

How are the rest of you?

Turned 23 yesterday
Not too bad

>>37464275
>I came down with viral pneumonia
i had this a fortnight ago.

i needed a whole week off work; my temps were 41 in the drs office

work cracked the shits and there was a meeting about how much time im taking off

cunts

>>37464275
What happened to the mom?

>>37464339
I live on the Sunshine Coast and apparently about 60% of the population here has it. I've been cutting at the moment so my immune system was in the trash. Got rushed to the hospital with temps of 44 and uncontrollable shaking. This fucking sucks, I'm in so much pain despite the drugs.
>>37464360
Ducked out on us after she decided parent life isn't what she wanted. I hope she doesn't try to get back in after he's in school and the "hard work" is over.

>>37464391
>I live on the Sunshine Coast
im in darwin, wonder if there is a correlation

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>>37464391
Good on you for sticking with your kid. Never give up.

>>37464219
Everyday is a struggle,I have done everything that should have allowed me to succeed and society has spat in my face for my efforts. I'm 28 so I know it isn't going to get better.

currently drunk and resisting the temptation to call my ex. she always makes me feel better but i know she knows i'm still in love with her

>>37464405
Apparently the shit has been going around everywhere. Not surprising we've got it so badly considering we're a tourists hotspot and the temps have been pretty good despite being autumn/winter

I just want it to end, my eyes feels like there's balloons inflating behind them and evey muscle and joint aches.

>>37464253
>30
>havent even made the first move yet (going off to college and being totally supported by Bank of Mom and Dad doesn't count)

>>37464423
Don't plan to, he's literally the big ball of light in my otherwise dull life.

>>37464219
>Im happy, but fuck life is a lot of work.

Sounds pretty damn normie in here.

I have no life, so there's no work. Or maybe because I have no work, I can't afford a life.

>>37464253
>Gonna pick a city and move there and try to start a new life
Have you got monry saved up? Bond deposit, few months rent incase you struggle to get job, power connection fee, internet connection fee, moving your shit?

Its tough man. It cost me a lot when I moved out of my parents and 500m down the road, let alone a new city.

>>37464459
>going off to college and being totally supported by Bank of Mom and Dad doesn't count
Yes it does. Its a big step. I was told by a recruiter today the biggest thing I have going for me on my resume was not my experience, but my degree.

>>37464308
The mindstate between being 23 (im so young hahaha i dont have to get serious! im so young!) compared to me now at 25 (oh fuck my life is slipping by i need to get a move on oh my god) is amazing since its 24 months of difference. Not 24 years, a few months.

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Turning 27 this month and I'm depressed as fuck. I'm getting to the point where I'm about to hit the wall and I feel like I haven't done or seen most of what I want to with life and I'm not sure if I'll ever get to because my chronic pain take up so much energy and some days leave me immobile.

I wish I had the passion for things like I did when I was younger and could still keep the knowledge and skills I've gained since realizing my entire view of the world six years ago was based on a conman's lie to steal wives and get money.

I'm not a virgin but I've never been kissed. Women approach me but I end up ghosting a lot of them because I see that they could bring me down and I can't trust. Have never had good sex where the other person cared about my enjoyment.

Not sure if I want to love past thirty because of the adhedonia I'm experiencing be a use of it all.

>>37464551
nah I'm $25 in credit card debt. but what's a little more debt for those kind of expenses? it will be worth it so i can get a job and pay that shit down.

Initially, I'll only take what I can fit in my car. I've already boxed up the rest of my stuff so it can be shipped to me at a later date (will cost about $350-400 to ship it all).

>>37464583

that's $25k not $25

>>37464507
>Sounds pretty damn normie in here.
Maybe. Ive been here since the beaches and shores wordfilter, so staying in this cesspit voluntarily for that long should say something about how "normal" I am.

>>37464427
>I have done everything that should have allowed me to succeed
What exactly have you done anon? A recruiter today told me that being 25 is way too young to work on the team hes putting together, as the median age is 35. That in a way made me feel good about my lack of progress at my age.

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>>37464219
>25
Been having some pretty severe impostor syndrome as-of late. It doesn't really matter what I do at work, I keep getting paid, even if I don't bother to work for 2 weeks at a time.

It is bizarre and unsettling; Either they trust me enough that they don't care what I report on my logs, or my contributions don't really matter as long as I come in and yell at everyone every few days. I'd like to think it's the first. I'm in a creative role that not a lot of people understand, and I know I need to be there to provide leadership and coherence to the project.

I think we're going to make it though.

I'm also feeling like a severe hippy these past few weeks. I've been doing mushrooms & LSD more than I should, to the point where my tolerance is building back up. It's put me in a good mood at least, and I've been helping others talk about their feelings and mental illnesses. I still don't have any friends though. It would be nice to meet someone locally, but the midwest can be a lonely place when you're not a part of a church.

Thanks for reading my blog!

>>37464583
>but what's a little more debt for those kind of expenses?
How high is your limit?

>25k not 25
Ok so its fucking high.

>it will be worth it so i can get a job and pay that shit down
I hope to fuck this doesnt blow up in your face.
>>37464583

>I've already boxed up the rest of my stuff so it can be shipped to me at a later date (will cost about $350-400 to ship it all)
That is really fucking cheap, jesus. Where you live?

>>37464551
Nah I don't really feel that way. I plan on getting 'serious'
I got about $2000 in medical bills

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>>37464219
I was much happier before I bought a newish car. Goddamnit I should have just bought a junk and kept my bank account comfortable. Now, if I lose my job, I am fucked. It all seemed harmless.

>>37464626
>That is really fucking cheap, jesus. Where you live?
usa

>>37464627
>I got about $2000 in medical bills
pls dont die

>Nah I don't really feel that way
what way?

>>37464632
>Now, if I lose my job, I am fucked
Thats usually what happens if you lose your job.

>>37464609
I know feels similar to this. If I do outstanding work, noone really cares. If I do nothing, noone really cares. I prefer to think its the second reason; no one cares about my work. Which is fine, because I get paid.

>>37464563
Nigga I dont know what the fuck to say. You have contact with people who could make you happy, and you ghost them because ???

Youve fallen for the redpill / mgtow meme and arent even going your own way. All I can suggest to you is to NOT be yourself, and try being someone else, because this clearly aint working.

I placed my penis in a woman just 6 hours ago.
Couldn't do a lot because no protection/I was going to cum quickly so just went a few thrusts and got her to blow me.
I'm 28 and it's the most sexual contact I've had

Finally hit the 25 club. Still living at home because housing prices here are retarded (2.5k per month for a apartment), work is okay, pays decent and is full time but not enough to live alone. I detest the thought of room mates too.

>>37464672
That whole 'im so young haha' hate people that act that way, so I've always tried to somewhat act mature/grownup

As for the medical bills, I had a case of phimosis and because of no insurance, got hit hard. Doesn't really help that the lady that did my taxes fucked up majorly and somehow only got me back $30 even though all the years prior I got around $1200 to $1500 back even without insurance (thanks obama) and because the local hospital staff cares more about getting paid then actually helping me get insurance, gotta pay about $2,100 for 'surgery'

Its Saturday evening here, and I had a good day.

>got in contact with a recruiter via someone my dad knows
>he told me my resume was shit and gave me his to copy
>will pass it on to his employers in the infosec realm
>had a wonderful nap because the weather is cool
>spent a lot of the afternoon reading Tekken lore

On the negative side,

>friend said on thursday he is going to organise a bbq for tonight
>rock up to house and hes not there, just his cousin
>says hes at footy training with his awful mrs
>call him, he said he didnt get a chance to organise anything
>come home and feel sad one of my three friends is busy

I realised I havent made a new friend in years. 25 really seems to change things.

25 extremely soon
Get an escort or grind Tinder for a slut?

I'm tired of being behind on it all

>>37464794
>I had a case of phimosis
i never understood this. maybe i touch my self too much. I had a tight foreskin too, and one day during sex the banjo string snapped. after that, holy shit son, its been so much better. foreskin goes all the way down now.

>>37464219

I don't know how I'm doing. I'm by all means a complete loser. But I'm slowly improving.

The positives right now are
>decent new job that is grooming me for advancement
>coworkers that I can actually consider friends
>got student loans on an income based repayment and live on home, meaning I have a fair amount of disposable income

But
>just turned down a lucrative short term job
>whore I used to see cut all contact and changed her number
>whore I was seeing ghosted, wasn't going anywhere anyway tho
>feeling like my depressions taking a turn South

DESU I don't see much point in this life. If it wasn't for my mom and my pets I'd probably off myself.

There's no jobs in australia
At this point all I want to do is get even the shittiest wageslave job because having literally no money fucking sucks.

>>37464811
I'd take the escort. Might be hard to keep it up if you have negging feelings behind it all though.

p.s. size out your condoms prior, you don't want to have to guess

How the fuck do I grow up r9k? I'm in my early 20s and the rest of my friends have gfs and careers, I'm stuck playing vidya every night. The thought of getting a career and not having time to do the things I want to do freaks me the fuck out, and I can't change it.

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>>37464743
>Thats usually what happens if you lose job.

Your right. I don't now why I feel so mortified about it all though. I guess its like I can see the NEET ship has sailed to the brink of the horizon and is nearly out of sight, gone forever. I can never live like a carefree child again. Now that I have bills and obligations, I feel like I am living in chains. It feels awful.

>>37464854
You answered your own question famalam. You can't change it, it's too late now so just go with it.

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I'm turning 27 in November, the late twenties are here now.

A few months ago I decided to pursue a Masters of Social Work. Recently quit my job at a restaurant and am looking for a part-time job in human services. Feels like I'm going down the right path but who knows.

Also about to start collecting disability pay for schizophrenia.

>>37464854
It's amazing that lot of people don't actually have their life on track until their late 20's.
Not saying that it's a majority but it's more than you know.

>>37464811
>grind Tinder for a slut?
Swipe right to everything. Even things you find disgusting. Its cheaper.

26 and life is awful it's hard to even describe this nightmare
i don't see a human in the mirror anymore

>>37464950
Can't swipe too much, the jews that make the app force you to pay for extra swipes, so it's better to swipe those that look like they might have a remote chance of swiping you.

>>37464850
>There's no jobs in australia
What part of aus are you in?

>>37464845
The positives in your life sound really positive. It also sounds like all your negatives are from women. You could kill yourself over women like a little bitch, or you could find a new one, and enjoy your good job and friends.

Short term contracts are only good when you have the career capital to easily sail into a new contract. It doesnt sound like thats you.

>>37464743
First one had kids and delusions of dating celebrities, third seemed abusive and Ive already done that with the last two women i dated.

Ive been cyborging for six years and roboting before that, do I settle for the next one that comes around or just keep up being fit and fake it until I make it elsewhere in life?

>>37464879
>I can never live like a carefree child again
You never were living that way. I guarantee you were wanting so badly to move out of your parents place and be seen as a real adult. Its here, and you can be more child like than ever. You think you would have gotten away with eating frootloops for every meal of the day and playing spyro in your underpants as a neet in your parents house without someone shaming you?

Thats how I spent last saturday, because im in MY house.

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>>37464950
>>37464852
hmm
Unless some Ausbots can weigh in on escorts and Tinder here I'll have to investigate both

>>37464854
>I'm in my early 20s
Youre young.
>The thought of getting a career and not having time to do the things I want to do freaks me the fuck out, and I can't change it.
Youre also a dickhead, and I bet youve done nothing remarkable with all your free time in years.

>>37465019
*you're
and yeah, sounds about right. Is it ever gonna change, oh wise elder?

>>37465019
lol FACT do we really value free time or are we just scared of picking our lazy asses up and doing what our parents did for us.

>>37465015
Tinder is slightly more fulfilling since the other person technically has to swipe to you as well so thats probably the better path

I just stole some cheetos and candy from walmart while buying my weekly diet 2 liter of dr pepper.

Living the 25 year old neet dream.

>>37464960
>Can't swipe too much
The amount of free swipes is sufficient to swip through every single person in your area in a week if youre keeping track of the cooldown.

>>37465015
I am an ausbot, and I like tinder. Young girls like to swipe to me because Im older, this is what they say anyway, and you can always find a desperate uggo who will smash as soon as you match. which is fine, because any holes a goal.

>>37464923
>schizophrenia
>part-time job in human services

>>37464971

Nah the negatives go far deeper. Like a terrible amount of debt. A lovely diagnosis of bipolar that helped cause said debt. Being 28 and never living on my own. A criminal past, never having real friends growing up.

Women wouldn't be the reason I off myself. It's more a disgust of how much of a failure I turned out to be. Plus I feel so empty. But that could be the downturn I think I'm about to have.

I'm 31, and most of my friends are couples at this point. Being the only single guy of the group would be bad enough, but what's really making things hard is that I keep having taken girls from my groups come on to me. I don't know what to do, it makes things awkward as fuck and it's forcing me away from what little social life I still have.

Just this last weekend I had it with two separate women from separate groups, and with their BFs nearby in both cases. One girl was all over me and grabbed my crotch while he was watching, and to make it even more awkward I don't really know him, she's the one I met and "clicked" with, so I know I seem like some Chad rolling in to cuck him, and that's the opposite of what I'm trying to do. I just want people to have drinks with and chat about common interests and whatever, ya know?

Another girl does it in front of her BF all the time, and also says stuff to me privately and whatever, and she's even more confusing. He doesn't seem to care, and it's making me wonder if he's an actual cuck or what.

Meanwhile single girls treat me like I don't exist. I just don't get it.

>>37465062
you live with your parents? if not how do you get buy?

>>37465065
you clearly dont live in a metropolitan area

>>37465084
I live with me mum. every few months I make money delivering food for grubhub, then I neet up deep.

I hate my life every single day and want to die.

>>37464986
>just keep up being fit and fake it until I make it elsewhere in life?
always the answer.

>>37465040
>>37465036
yes, when you get a job and see how great it is to have money. real money, im gonna go buy this figurine and hot glue it because i fucking can afford to money

>>37465062
>I just stole some cheetos and candy from walmart while buying my weekly diet 2 liter of dr pepper.
Self serve machines are good to steal shit.

>>37465088
Negative ghost rider, I live in darwin. Not that much here.

>>37465082
>most of my friends are couples at this point
Fuck, I have this at 25. It makes it hard to ever see them.

>>37465096
ah okey thanks for the warning. I'm 21 and thinking about moving out. I don\t really have anywhere to go and I tried getting a hospital job which was a big mistake i hated it and quit right after orientation. I think I'll live in a monastery ,but I'm scared still having to leach off of people there.

>>37465127
>I live in darwin. Not that much here

Perth so shit will be interesting
I hear nothing about anything (tinder etc) outside of Normiebourne and Sydnormie

>>37465080
>>37464971

And plus maybe I'm a little bit of a bitch. Every social interaction with a female I've had to pay for. Sorry my body is telling me I want something that people take for granite.

>>37465152
>Perth so shit will be interesting
dynamic will be similar to here, seeing as perth is a defence and mining town

lots of young, average girls sick of chads ignoring them because they arent stacy, so they latch onto the first person to give them attention

good for practice gf.

>>37465197
>Sorry my body is telling me I want something that people take for granite.
u wot m80

>>37464829
I had it once when I was a kid, it just got swollen and once again about 3 months ago after I jerked off using some bath gel. But after that I've been pretty damn good

>>37465215

I work with people who are fucked up. And yet they still manage to have gfs/get married/ have kids. I just want to cuddle with a girl. Yet I'm fucked up beyond all repair apparently

>>37465244
>it just got swollen and once again about 3 months ago after I jerked off using some bath gel
Wow thats really strange bro.

Strange that it happened. Shower gel is ok to jerk off with. But my favourite has to be when I used toothpaste. Oh lord that was wild.

>>37465306
Its your mentality. Your nihilistic, I cant trust women / bitches and whores attitude. Youve put what, 5 posts in this thread and youve presented that side of yourself?

>>37465539
I applied alot but didn't rinse it off good
But I've been using shaving cream for my fleshlight and it feels amazing, like it doesn't irritate me and feels fresh af after

>>37465589
>I've been using shaving cream for my fleshlight
Shampoo wasnt too bad either

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27.

>How are we doing?

I'm consumed knowing the future of my cucked race. whites will be a minority in the USA by the year 2045, with the EU following maybe 20-30 years after.

automation is set to happen by 2040, and when the cheap, shitty jobs are culled the gibsmedats will be pointing fingers anywhere they can.

our opponent totally destroyed us in a game that they invented, and they're going to do it all over again to the 'new money' chinese.

>>37465809
>our opponent totally destroyed us in a game that they invented, and they're going to do it all over again to the 'new money' chinese.
I dont follow.

>automation is set to happen by 2040, and when the cheap, shitty jobs are culled the gibsmedats will be pointing fingers anywhere they can.
This does concern me, and is why I need to study so I can make myself even more specialised in the networking field. No robot is gonna replace a fucking network architect. You think a fucking idiot programmer knows enough about networking to EVER make a bot that can put together a working spec sheet, let alone BUILD a failover network?

Im finding it harder and harder to go back to hobbies I used to love when I was younger. I havent made music or touched my guitars in over 18 months now. Its kinda sad.

dont you fucking die, i know there are old bros who have feels to share

work home sleep. work home sleep. endless cycle.

no career advancements. not enough money. barely any friends.

shit sucks really bad.

>>37466904
>no career advancements
what do you do for a job?

>barely any friends.
iktfb

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>losing weight
>seeing ab imprints for the first time in my life
>Trying to make a huge effort
>giving people things and helping them out
>learning to be a better listener
>some girl said " you're a virgin aren't you? I can tell by the way you carry you'reself,you're a good looking guy, you should be putting yourself out there, you're smart, just go to a coffie shop or a church"
>tfw just turned 27 and losing weight
fuck lads, I hope this is the year I get a gf.

>>37466904
>no career advancements
Hobbies, even if other's think they're farfetched, I'm thinking about getting into comedy. I make ok jokes and have studied comics and charismatic speakers, I can be alright as a stand up,odd sense of humor,

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25 KHV.

I finally understood what a mental breakdown feels like, and it was the most unlikely trigger that brought about such emotional rage.

> work a menial labor job, after investing a great deal of effort, money and 4 years work to get promotion within the company that I am passionate about.
> Working 5th 13 hour day, but it was really "split shifts" of 4 hour blocks because company wants to """Save"""" expenses via mealbreaks
> Only time to eat was in the shift turnovers inside an engine room that I had substituted into a lunch room with a sleeping bag so I can get some sleep since it takes me nearly 2 hours to drive to work.

Yesterday
> Eating takeaway dinner, because I couldn't pack lunch, because I couldn't afford groceries that week.
> Bits of soot and diesel fell into my food. Just as I opened it.
> $14 gone.1 hour's worth of work and pay, 1 hour of my life.

I sobbed, I couldn't control myself. I was alone in that engine room, as I had been for the past 4 years. It hit me like a ton of bricks.


I am so tired...
I wish for deep and meaningful sleep and have pleasant dreams in which I cannot wake.

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just turned 26, still khv. Feels like 25 is the definitive limit of youth to me.

It's all over

>tfw the only way I can obtain sex is illegally by risky hookers and sketchy Chinese message parlors that may be bait traps
>I don't want a criminal record so I stay a virgin against my will
>selfhelp books written by 6'4'' rich chads aren't helping me
>shit's like a 7'2'' guy telling little niggas how to dunk when all he has to do is raise his hands above his head to dunk the basket

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>>37467050
>just turned 27 like 5 days ago
>still feel like I'm 18
>going to the gym, still have little less than a decade to beefup before it takes it's toll
>tfw came to terms with getting old
>still want a gf before I hit 30 though
I'm doing a 180, I've seen many people in their 30s go to community college and get great jobs and meet girls there. It's not too late, don't belive people on here when they say it is.

27, haven't been laid in 5 years. How do the normies do it?
Just moved out of my parents house last year, make ok money and am decent looking but I just don't really know how to meet people when i'm not in school.

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i have to go back to school and get a reliable job that i can survive on comfortably before my mom dies, otherwise i'm screwed.

i wanted to get braces, but i just don't see the point anymore. i need to be securing a financial future, not worrying about my confidence with women.

i feel like by the time i finally get my life together, i'm gonna be in my mid 40s and it will be too late for me to do anything with women, it'll just be time to die, that's a wrap.
shoulda tried harder in school, didn't realize it would be a death sentence.

>29
>neet
>diagnosed shizoid, schizophrenia simplex, depression

i am totaly fucked up in the head i'll quit

>>37467202
>he fell for the "you need a good career for a gf" meme
I worked at the shittiest jobs you can imagine, picking with illegals and greenhouse cleaning. greenhouse cleaning is the fucking worst of all. and a lot of those dudes in their 40s-50s have wives and people they fuck. The only reason why they say we need a stable job is because we are ugly and uncharasmatic so we need to make up with it by having money.

Don't feel bad about being a older student, those other people ain't living your life, fuck what they think. You gotta get yours and stay focused and do you.

>>37466971
>seeing ab imprints for the first time in my life
gw nigga

>>37466998
>work a menial labor job, after investing a great deal of effort, money and 4 years work to get promotion within the company that I am passionate about.
there seem to be at least two contradictions in this statement, or your grammer is bad. You are passionate about your menial job, and grinded for 4 years to be promoted to it?

>>37467050
>Feels like 25 is the definitive limit of youth to me.
I blame society. Those normie memes about 25 being when people start asking you about your "career" and "when youre gonna have a family" are real.

>>37467067
The advice is simple. Do NOT be yourself. Yourself got you into this mess, you think being the real you will fix it?

>>37467100
>I've seen many people in their 30s go to community college and get great jobs
Going to school when your older is the way to do it. I pissed away my time at uni as a teenager / early 20s. I rode the "P's get degrees!" train, and as a result I got a 3.1 gpa, and am now having to restudy topics I have already covered from my time in uni, on my own time and money now.

Youth is wasted on the young.

>>37467154
>How do the normies do it?
tinder.

>>37467202
>i wanted to get braces
If youre here. I assume youre in the 25+ category. One colleague I have has just gotten installed at 23, and he regrets it HARD. 7k, 4 teeth ripped out, hes gonna look like a fucking goomba when its over.

>>37467247
yeah, the toothless mexican dudes i work with have children and wives.
it's more about my self-esteem and confidence. i can't even talk to women if i don't feel good about myself.

>>37467320
yes im 25+. my problem is minor enough for a retainer, i'm just too scared to go to the dentist/ortho. i'm afraid they'll take all my money, which again, comes down to stable job with benefits.

stable job that pays enough for me to survive is the key right now.

25 here

Finished college a year ago
High paying engineering job
Cute gf
Living in a great area


Life's good

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>>37467050
Shit, only half a year until I reach 25 and it feels like my end is near.
My 13 year old brother has a gf and I have never even gotten close to one.

I am a broken human bean who doesn't understand people.

>>37467304
>there seem to be at least two contradictions in this statement, or your grammer is bad. You are passionate about your menial job, and grinded for 4 years to be promoted to it?


Sorry, I just proof read it just then.

I work as a mechanic servicing ground service equipment for airplanes.
I've always wanted to be a pilot, so I try and scrounge up what I can to get my hours up.

I just received my 5th rejection

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26 KHV.

Found out I passed my masters a couple of days ago which is a load off my mind. Can't be arsed to go to the graduation ceremony, I never went to any previously either.

Had to buy a new car recently because my old one (a Vauxhall Corsa) is now beyond repair. I fucking hate normalfags' attitude towards car, I couldn't give a fuck what it looks like or how big the engine is, I just want it to work and get me from one place to another without constantly breaking down. My family are all up their own arses about getting cars which match their jobs or lifestyle, so I've ended getting an Audi A3 to stop them from constantly going on at me about getting a good car.

Should be updating my portfolio for revalidation in a couple of weeks but I'm reading manga and listening to Drum & Bass instead. Feels good man.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N9_Y_uoPcXM

>>37467304
>The advice is simple. Do NOT be yourself. Yourself got you into this mess, you think being the real you will fix it?
To extend on this, nearly everything you do that seems negative is really a defence against change. The reason you tell yourself that only chads get girls is because it stops you from changing into the kind of man who women want. Because only chads get girls, therefore you don't have to make an effort anymore.

>live with parents in Canberra
>finished STEM meme bachelors in another state but couldn't find work
>no jobs here other than public service jobs which require experience or connections
>too old to get a trade apprenticeship
>don't want a grad degree because I fucking hate uni

All I want is a shitkicker job that pays a living wage.

I woke up in the AM with the urgent need to shit. I had a violent explosive diarrhea episode, then went back to sleep.
I woke up later with the same need to shit, the same violent evacuation, the same tiredness.
Now I need to go shit out a small amount of almost clear water every hour or so, its such an urgent need I feel I will shit myself, I have to run there.

I think I may have poisoned myself.

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Still live with my parents.

Still never had a gf.

Still have no friends.

Still have never had a decent job.

Still feel like I'm 20. (I'll be 30 in September).

I'm the epitome of a disgrace

Any other 30+ bots here?

>>37467870
>too old to get a trade apprenticeship

Getting an apprenticeship is impossible if you're >17 and haven't already spent a year or 2 in work experience or trade certificates

Best alternative is being a labour hand on a build site that you find in the paper or Gumtree
Expect to be paid decent enough cash buy some immigrant boss after you work you fucking ass off all day hauling shit
good luck anon

>>37467931
Is it still a useful pathway to an apprenticeship? I aim to do electrical or HVAC.

>>37467922
I was also born in 1987.

You still live with your parents? I moved out at 18 and have lived alone since. You are pathetic.

Joined the 25+ club last week.
NEET
Live in shared housing
No friends
No hobbies
All i do is browse the net all day
Have had a few jobs but figure theres no point to working if all you spend it on are living expenses. Like I'm going to spend 8 hours a day, 5 days a week being a slave just so I can sit alone in my room doing nothing.

>>37467922
Me, 35 yo, living in a 3rd world country, after 10 years of uni, the next month i will graduate

>>37467965
Lel no you're going to be an unskilled labourer who might pick up some skills when required to do a specific task

Trade bosses get to pick and choose from hundreds of <18yro's who have trade certificates who don't have to be paid fuck all
You can't compete with that

>>37467870
>Canberra
get a job on the defence helpdesk with fujitsu, use the clearance to move onto new work.

>>37467920
>27 here. Just discovered that my constantly raw, peeling, chapped lips really improve if I just floss more often. This might just eliminate one huge issue in my life
What a strange post to delete.

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>26
>most of my friends have moved away after college or ignore me
>I have one really good friend left in town and if it weren't for her I would quit my job and go NEET for awhile
>she's in a long-term relationship, I'm not attracted to her sexually but emotionally she's my only real lifeline
>want to just move the fuck away and start a new life somewhere
>not that easy because I have a dog that I have to take care of
>also don't know what job I even want at this point, all I know is that I hate my current one
>starting to drink more

>>37468057
>all I know is that I hate my current one

then why wouldn't you begin to hate the next?

>>37467966
Shame on you posting in this shithole

>>37468078
Because my current job is also killing my social life. I have to work on the weekends which keeps me from going out and seeing people. I also hate my coworkers and I know that most people make their friends at work so I hope at a new job I could have a chance to actually meet people to hang out with.

I also just hate the industry (IT) so I know I want to jump into another career entirely. That's kind of the problem though, it's hard to jump industries.

28 and just got kicked out of engineering.
I'm still a student at the college so I have to pick another major.
I'm at the point now though where I don't really have any ambitions. Not sure what to do.
I feel like if I just drop out I'll regret it but I don't know what else to major in. I'm getting old as fuck and kind of just want to wage slave in peace.

>>37468125
did you fall for the IT Career/Education meme perpetuated by 4chan?
At least find a new employer

27. Fat khv. Failed date after date im convinced im gonna die alone.

>>37468026
Thanks for the tip. Any programming languages that would be useful for that role? I'm half assedly learning Python.

>>37468148
No I was a business major in college and just happened to find an IT job that paid pretty well.

I'm going to try to find a new job in the coming months. I've been trying for awhile but I got demoralized from the rejection letters so I stopped for a few months.

27yo couch potato here.
>grandpa died on the 29th
>granny in the nursing home doing /ok/
>brother is getting married in october
>i fell for the trans memes and ordered 420days of female hormone pills

>have to wait until 4pm everyday for my friend to get online on discord.

another day
another pissbottle

>>37468180
you answer phones and log tickets. being able to speak english and type are the only useful skills.

>>37467994
>Like I'm going to spend 8 hours a day, 5 days a week being a slave just so I can sit alone in my room doing nothing.
The mental gymnastics you must have performed to come up with this are incredible.

>>37464923
>Social Work
>Has schizophrenia

Government level jobs employed by borderline worthless and mental shits.

Sounds about right.

>>37468125
>I also just hate the industry (IT)
If you work on the weekends, you arent even in the industry. Your job is shit, probably because you are shit. Anything that is actually not garbage will be 9-5, M-F.

>>37468596
Thanks for the inspiring words

for the record I did work 9-5 M-F but I hated my coworkers so when an opening came on the weekend shift I took it.

And I don't want to be in IT, I feel like I've made that clear. I don't care if I'm a shit IT person.

>>37468555
If it's so easy then aren't they swamped with applications like the generalist APS 3/4 positions?

>>37468360
good luck I guess? all I can say is be careful

standard q: how do you pay for expenses?

>>37468613
because its a call centre. its awful, soul crushing work that pays peanuts. You need to remember its nothing but a stepping stone.

you need to be able to sit and handle 250 people a day hurling abuse at you down the telephone for probably 18 months to receive NV2 clearance. That is the golden ticket out of the place.

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>>37468643
I'll give it a shot just for that dank NV2 clearance (even NV1 would be fine too). I would take having to deal with rude people while having a full time APS job over something chill and casual like being a handyman because at least the hours are full time. Since most entry level jobs are dead end these days, might as well pick one that adds something new and useful to your resume. My biggest fear is to reach 30 (25 now) with a HECS debt and nothing to show for it in terms of professional experience. I know plenty of people our age or a bit older who settled into being a barista or a retail manager after uni and didn't move on.

>>37468569
>dude mental gymnastics xDD

except hes right

>tfw employee of the month
>tfw feel appreciated for the first time in forever
feels good

>>37469251
Happy for you anon. Savor it because you wont appreciate it as much after some time and prob wil crave for somethibg more.

>>37469409
okay life wizard gandalf