Why are most of you into being humiliated?

>>37464061
I want to spank women, that's about it.

Humans are animals, that's why. And although a lot of women are into bdsm as a fantasy, not many dare to make those into a reality.
Still looking for that sweet, cute sub girl. Maybe I will find her one day.

Low self esteem goes two ways, some like me are angry and want to lash out because they hate themselves and everyone else and others fall into despair and want to be treated as badly as they see themselves because that's what they deserve

>>37464061
does it matter whos humiliating you? is it possible to humiliated by someone you look down upon.

the word "ridiculous" comes from the terms "ridicule us" which means its absurd that you would attempt to challenge the mass. in this scenario im the singularity however the mass is rather pathetic. its the true balance in nature coming to pass as it always does. live on and be nothing. you have my blessing.

>>37464082
That's pretty vanilla though. It just seems odd that guys who loathe and hate girls so much would chose to be subby. Especially when most girls are pretty damn subby themselves once one gets that far and some of them are into pretty hardcore stuff that basically allows you guys to live out your anger in a safe and consensual way.

>>37464102
Start out with harmless stuff, like tying up her hands and handcuffs and escalate from there. Each step makes the next one easier and if she feels comfortable enough with you you can escalate pretty quickly. Maybe it's just the type of girl I end up with but most of them had huge streaks submissiveness once one scratched a bit on the surface.

>>37464113
For me it's not about anger at all. I become very giddy and happy when watching SM porn. I mainly am in it for the domination and submission though. The role playing. I don't care about using whips and ropes too much, it's all about playing games with each other.

>>37464061
For me, honestly, it's because being humiliated and hated makes me feel validated.
I have deep rooted issues with trust and believing anyone can like me, so whenever anyone says or does anything nice, it makes me question myself and I don't really think that their right. I don't feel like I deserve to be treated well, so whenever someone hurts me or insults me, it feels good because I feel like I'm not being lied too.

>>37464144
I feel like male sexuality is being repressed by most women. If I tell them I like pet play, they'll say stuff like:"That's gross." or "That's humiliating.". I can't help it I have these fetishes, but the reason I watch loads of porn is because most women I've met are so put off by my sexual preferences.

I even went to a SM club once. Filled with socially adept 40/50 somethings. I could easily find sex there, but not a long term relationship. It's almost as if I can't have what I need from life.

>>37464225
Pet play with you as the pet? Would be pretty obvious why. Most women are gravitate towards being subs in any relationship. Pet play with them as the pet? You escalated to quickly. You do not tell random women this shit, you start off with harmless stuff first.

Seriously if you told random girls you remind me of the failure of a son of my neighbour. Who literally stands at the bus stop and asks random women if he can lick their feet.

>>37464271
Nonono, the woman needs to be the kitty. Then I will feed her, stroke her hair and play fun games with her. If she's a good kitty she can even taste my dick.

>>37464271
And of course I don't bring up my fetishes up in casual conversations. "Hi Gina, I'm Anon. I like watching anime, pet play and daddy dom. The weather sure is nice today huh?"

>>37464061
they were probably humiliated some occasion in their youth, some weird things happen to guys that give them fetish for life.