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How do you deal with loneliness? I'm curious.

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How do you deal with loneliness?

I'm curious.
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I do not feel loneliness as I am not a normie who requires social sustenance.
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Well for me it's easy, I have schizoid personality disorder and empathy deficit disorder, ontop of other mental disorders I have.

It's 2 ez 4 me
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Look at photos of cute girls i have downloaded
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>>37463379

this.
i hold grudges so it's pretty easy for me as well fampai
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>>37463386
Crispy is a slut. Don't post that whore.
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>>37463342
>How do you deal with loneliness?

I don't because I don't mind being alone
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>>37463342
>How do you deal with loneliness?

Very poorly.
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>lonely
>connected to an image board with thousands of other like minded autists
shiggy
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>>37463408
Dont insult my wife cuck
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terribly.
I miss waking up next to a girl.
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>>37463379
trying to cover up the fact ur shitty at socialising with others
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>>37463342
Is there really any way to deal with loneliness outside of getting friends and/or a gf?
Playing video games or whatever so you can pretend you're not lonely isn't exactly dealing with it
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Been lonley for about 4 years now I just get used to it.
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>>37463342

Not very well. I've been truly lonely for the last 6 years. No friends, no gf, no acquaintances, just my parents who I don't talk to regularly.

I'm a very bitter person who pushes people away before getting to know them. When I'm not at work, I just sit in my room and play video games or come here, or youtube to kill time. Nearly killed myself one time, but gave myself the opportunity to chicken out and did.

I don't really deal with it, I just kind of sit with it and let it fester.
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>>37463417
this
when you now people you just prefer to be alone
i enjoy it actually,
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>>37463453
>Is there really any way to deal with loneliness outside of getting friends and/or a gf?
I deal with it by telling myself that most people are boring, dumb, insecure, and/or miserable anyways, which is actually partly true. Because of that, I don't waste my time making friends, and I don't have the patience to find out who is a good friend. That's why I don't mind being alone. I have all the freedom and can do I want, when i want and maintain privacy while doing it. Just focus on yourself, why do you need others' attention?

And if you get a gf, then what? You will just have less freedom, you need to pay for her, and you'll end up ultimately breaking up with her, which will just lead to more loneliness. you just gotta learn to be content being alone and let people come in and out of your life
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>>37463342
More blunt bangs muh nigga
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>>37463342

I simply pretend I have conversations with fictional characters, hang out with my two dogs, imagine that I am interacting with characters make up, or I just tell myself that people are rather useless and boring to me anyway.

These methods help me go through a 3 month period with absolutely no human contact
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>>37463342
>How do you deal with loneliness?

I don't
I suppress it as best I can but some days it swells far beyond what I can control and I struggle to keep myself cracking, crying or giving up on everything
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>>37463342
Marijuana and lots of it.

oreg
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>>37463452
hahahahah sure thing normie, whatever helps you sleep at night before another day at work wagecuck
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Shitposting on /r9k/ usually does the trick
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>>37463342
Well part of it isn't up to me, it takes two to tango and if someone's gonna be a cunt I don't care.

However I've had a weird idea that has made me avoid people. You wouldn't want your happiness to depend on something outside of your control right? Then why put it in the hands of other people?

Things in high school were simpler and I don't know if I would ever choose anything else. Im going to lose my best friends soon.
Back then we saw each other almost every day and I could walk to their house after school. Now one of them doesn't talk to us and the other lives 6 hours away.
I pushed them away a few years ago cause I didn't want to live. Im still not auper sold on the life thing. I think I need to find something before I can have friends again. Media is alright. Can watch shows whenever I want. But now o can't go fuck around with friends through neighborhoods at night. But that was dumb teenage stuff. Now I'm an adult and all alone

I was fine being alone for a couple years. It hit me really fucking hard come Easter though. I think I just realized I couldn't do that stuff any more or,find satisfaction in it. I liked getting stories out of walking around, but you're never gonna become anything that way. But going through sewers and walking on train tracks is some of the most fun I've had. And what's the point if you don't have fun anymore?
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I masterbate
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How do you guys let go of the need for other people. It's weird when you think about it. Imagine me in a room and then another room with people. I'm still the same person in each room. Would you guys not rather have friends though? Are you just trying to appear more like a "robot"?
Then again I don't enjoy talking to a lot of people. Can't just find people you like super easily. Maybe I'm just being too judgmental. I was never good at conversation anyway
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>>37463377
Hey anon I found a picture of you on the internet
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>>37463883
I can say that i don't really care about making friends i can spend all my time alone and not be bothered. I've been that way since i was really young. I wish i felt the same way about a gf though. I know full well having a gf wouldn't fix everything in my life but i can't really help wanting one. To be loved sounds wonderful. I really wish that feeling or desire or whatever it is would disappear.
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>>37463342
By raging masturbation and shitposting, smoking cigarets and shit. Porn is the answer and websluts.
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>>37463342
I don't deal with it.
Loneliness is slowly dealing with me.
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>>37463883
I tried to let go and for a while i thought i was fine being alone. But it gets to you. tbqh it's the same feel as this (>>37463999). I don't deal with it, all getting drunk does is make me a dopier version of myself, i still feel just as lonely if not more. Yes i chat to people online but the lack of human touch is harmful. Aside from like 1 or 2 quick hugs, i haven't actually had any human touch for over 5 years. So when the loneliness gets bad i just let it happen and listen to something mournful like doom metal or something, idk.
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>>37463379
>SPD
Diagnosed by a psychiartrist? Because it sounds like you're spouting BS to compensate for the fact you're a sperg who can't make friends.

A real schizoid wouldn't even feel the need to reply to this thread seriously.
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>>37464058
>>37463999
Yeah I can be fine if I'm working on something. However that only lasts for so long. A relationship is nice but it isn't some end all be all meaning of life shit. It's overrated desu. I don't know about you but when people talk avout this stuff, the picture in their head is just a little bit off. They think of the future or a relationship, amd,things are better, and they might be. However it's still life, amd,you are going to feel much the same way you feel now. Don't really know where I'm going with it. Anyway, Emeven if you don't find love, you could still be someone worth loving I suppose.
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>>37464116
Yes.

I'm on autism bux.

Lel @ feggets who think everyone self-diagnosed.
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>>37464160
>>37463379
Did you know all along you had szpd before you got diagnosed? Also did someone in your family make you go to a psych or did you go on your own accord? just curious
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I recently came to realize that I'm just a shitty person to be around. Every friend I have had, I drive off whether it be intentional or unintentional. Having people around just reminds me of how unpleasant I really am, just like socializing. I avoid it. I sincerely believe I will never have a gf or someone who is interested in me. I am okay
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>>37464117
Thanks anon, this actually helps. I do idealise relationships and in my mind they are probably much rosier than in real life. But if i find someone to be with who i love, i can only imagine feeling better than this.
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>>37463379
>>37463395
>>37463417
>>37463433
>>37463478
>>37463578
>>37463790
>this much denial
All of you see >>37463937
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Not well.
I'm in control of my masturbation and overeating habits again, as they are how I self-medicate to take care of loneliness. So now I do intermittent fasting and eat small portions, and I'm a couple weeks into nofap.

I'm having trouble sleeping again, however. I lay in bed for hours.
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>>37463342
i dont ;-;


i sit and browse /r9k/ and occasionally r/2meirl4meirl on plebit, debate suicide cry some then go to sleep.
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>>37464256
You're so far gone into normie-ville that you cannot comprehend non-normie though patterns and logic.

I'm lmaoing at your normieness
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>>37464256
>he thinks you need attention from Chad and Stacy to be genuinely happy

>muh depression and emotions are too deep 4u. you wouldn't understand
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Excessive vidya/TV usually does the trick for me.
After a while of that the loneliness disappears and I feel alright, but if I ever stop those things it comes back again
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Masturbation and videogames.
Sometimes anime.
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>>37464221
Best of luck anon. Try and keep a level head
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>>37464343
>let me make a post that proves him right
Sad!
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>>37464160
>can't handle criticism
>part of the DSM states schizoids are indifferent to criticism
Yeah, I don't believe you either.
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Loneliness has become a part of me, basically. At this point I find hanging out with people more of a nuisance and a hindrance.
>tfw so used to being lonely I genuinely get exhausted or angry when talking to someone
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>>37464730
>you're not fine being alone. you're just in denial! you are sad and lonely and desperate for attention just like me!!

really jogs the noggin
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Who here started out being lonely?
I'm guess it's much easier to cope with since you had nothing from the start;

I had plenty of friends that i hung out with during and after high school but after a year they either stabbed me in the back, or stopped inviting me into shit.

Now i just play sims 4 or dota 2 killing time. attempt suicide almost monthly and fail everytime. one day ill snap
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Anime, books, and video games. Isolation and loneliness is a natural part of life at this point.
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>>37464830
>this
Sometimes I want friends and a girlfriend. I'm just too insecure and jealous for a girlfriend, that's been proven before.

Thinking about maintaing a relationship is annoying, going out to places with them when I would rather be home doing what I'm doing now. We all clearly yearn for human contact in some way, or at least I do but somehow we get turned off actually doing it with real people in public. I don't like them. You guys are alright.
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>>37464790
>he thinks you need 100% of every symptom to be diagnosed.

You only need like 6/10 or so for an official diagnosis, I hit like 8/10, 9/10 on most of my diagnosis.
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>>37463342
I start by asking for the name of that model

I'll let you guess how I finish
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Cry for a little while then remember that this is the life i was meant to have
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>>37463342
Videogames. Lots and lots of videogames.

It's mostly worked. Haven't killed myself yet, so we'll see how it goes.
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Distractions, you don't feel lonely if you don't think about it.
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>>37466099
When was the last time you got a hug, anon?

origidigi
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>>37466239
Does family count? Once a week when we get together on Saturdays. I also got a dog, that does wonders. My answer is serious tho, watch series/movies/play games really works. Gotta be careful with the content tho, if it's something that triggers your emotions, your fucked.
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