How do you even make friends as an adult? I just want someone to hang out with irl and do stupid shit together
what do you like to do?
there's communities for every hobby. get involved in one
You don't, you're supposed to find a wife so you can start a family.
>>37346572
Yeah me too but I'm too scared.
>>37346572
I want to know this too.
it seems if you flunk out of highschool friend circle you are fucked for life
>>37346589
I mean I get this, I've tried it, but I always felt like an outsider. Like after the hobby group up they would always be going out together to eat or see a movie or something and I would never be invited, even after a year of attending. They really didn't need any new friends. And I'm not gross or weird looking in general
>>37346572
>adult
>hang out irl
>do stupid shit together
Adults don't have any time for that shit. By the time you're done studying and wage cucking for the day, you might have the energy left to go to gym and try stave off the inevitable middle age spread. If, and only if your commute is short enough.
The rest of your time will be spent on maintaining what relationships you do have, doing housework and paying bills and looking after your household.
Once kids become involved, even Chad and Stacey lose their ability to socialise to a great extent.
>>37346572
My wife and kids are my friends, I would like to make other friends though, I get NEETbux for MH stuff so cant work and no school so idk mYbe find some online frienss
>>37346631
what's your hobby?
Some people are cunts. Just keep trying this until you find someone you click with
>>37346778
Well there's another factor in having friends or doing stuff irl while you're adulting. Especially if you're on NEETbux, you just can't afford to go anywhere or do anything.
>>37346947
are you implying people don't get genuinely upset and angry that their friend doesn't have to work?
>>37346947
>while you're adulting
I fucking hate that term. it impies I'm not adulting all the time, including socializing, which is important part of life. not all of use were manchilds/wo-manchilds till we were 29.
it suggest any time we hang out and not 'adulting' we are being children, which is wrong, and I will not be infinlitzed
>>37347576
>and I will not be infinlitzed
>saying this at a mongolian carpet trading forum
AYYY LMAO
I honestly have no idea how to make friends outside of work.
My best friend is a very social dude who gets along with everyone we meet and I am just this hanger-on who can't make friends without him.
My only other friend is also the kind of person that makes friends with everyone he meets online and when he introduced me to some of his online friends in livestreams and such I just clam up and leave. its a nightmare.