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Why do depressed girls get to have BFs but depressed men are

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Why do depressed girls get to have BFs but depressed men are forced to be lonely by default?
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>>37218700
More simpleton cannon fodder men then there is women.
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Oftentimes, depressed women are self deprecating and aim to improve themselves and their lives. Depressed men blame others and the culture surrounding them for their downfalls.
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THis girl is absolutel y hideous
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>>37218724
this, women usually blame themselves and accept advice.

Men turn into human trash wallowing in laziness and self pity.

Girls are just with it, y'know.
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>>37218743
>more women attempt suicide than men
pls go
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>>37218700
because you are most likely the "ill keep it all to myself" (like pretty much all of 4chan) type. most """depressed""" girls only want attention or at least try. does that answer your question?
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>>37218743
I think its mostly how men and women are raised differently. Most women I know how shit-poor self esteem and would rather take the blame for everything than stand up for themselves. Its depressing as shit.
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>>37218743
>Men turn into human trash wallowing in laziness and self pity.

Fuck, anon.
I've been feeling depressed for a while and you're spot on.

I'm too lazy to follow up on advice and cause I lazy I fail at vanquishing the sadness
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>girl
>cries and gets therapy after hard times then recover because they are more social
>boys(not real men)
>suppress feelings and become porn addicts and hypocrites who blow their brains out with shotgun when they realize they screwed everything up worse then it needed to be
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>>37218700
because they still have value nonetheless (their cunts). this is why there is no such thing as a "fembot". i can gaurantee you that every depressed girl would be a miserable loner if she were to magically turn into a boy the next day.
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>>37218735
I think it's a niche taste
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Because some men lack self-worth and they are so lacking in self-worth and the corresponding validation that they are willing to take ANYTHING to fulfill that desire for validation.
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>>37218786
m-muh
>>>>>>"real men"
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>>37218797
very niche. i dont see how ppl find her attractive
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>>37218753
You're not wrong. Estrogen makes people consider emotions and feelings than testosterone, and women are more likely to openly discuss their depression. However, I think its usually not for attention, as much as it is for validation.
If you have depression, you can know how easy it is to spiral into total self loathing, and it can be hard to differentiate the illness from reality. Women just tend to be more vocal about this.
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>>37218816
I think it's the eyes + general thinness
My taste in women has been influenced by 4Chan, maybe not your's
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>>37218700
Men in general are told to put up with shit from the get go.

With that said, some men with depression do get gf. They're just good looking enough some girls want to fix them.
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>>37218700
Blame culture and society.
Depression in women is seen as something natural and understandable. Women are more emotional after all. Curiously, they are easily cured by a big dick, which they can easily procure. They want a boyfriend that will take care of them and one appears.
Depressed men are basically ridiculed. They are told to man up, go out, meet people, get into sports. All they receive from females is expectation to handle their problems by themselves. When they are unable to, they are abandoned for a more suitable and well adjusted Chad.
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>>37218815
>alex jones
>gives full length speeches about how he's an alpha and how beta scum are killing society
>not "real manning"
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>>37218724
>blame others and the culture
>what is modern feminism and intersectional oppression
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>>37218784

Wallowing in laziness and self pity has to be the de facto motto of r9k.
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>>37218700
Because they could be 5'7 and it would be totally ok
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depressed men are flat out gross. they stop taking care of themselves and start to smell eww
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>>37218920
shhh this is a roleplay thread

y-yeah fuck men good for nuffins
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>>37218700
Society perceives depressed men differently than depressed women.

Men are condemned, insulted and told to fucking deal with it, lift, etc. They're dismissed. Most men are also more reticent to come forward about their depression.

Women that come forward are received with just about all the coddling, compassion and empathy imaginable. They don't even have to come forward. A girl need only sit by herself looking somewhat sad to trigger others' sympathy and warmness.

People still expect men to uphold traditional societal expectations. They're supposed to solve problems for themselves. Also, men are objectively more expendable.
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>>37218890
Yeah

Tbqh as of late I've seriously questioned whether or not my so-called depression wasn't an excuse my mind made up to cover up for laziness

But that makes me feel even worse

I want to be a Chad so bad
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because this world is made a heaven for women and hell for men. It's how the world works. The game is rigged. You have to stop thinking about it and try to find your own happiness.
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>>37219028
Think about it this way: what is preventing you from becoming a Chad?

Answer: only your laziness.
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>>37219046
Wut? Lots of men have a good life.
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>feminist white-knight jdif mindfuck shills activated

get cove-
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>>37219054
But my state of constant sadness prevents me from shedding my laziness.

I can't even get outta my bed
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>>37219108
It's a self-defeating cycle that you need to break. Baby steps. One small victory at a time.
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wut?

[citation needed]
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>>37219137
Half of those claims are subjective butthurt. If you're going to do something, do it right. That list is shit.
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>>37218718
underrated post, male to female birth ratio is 1.07.
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>>37218786
hey im a virgin boy(not a real man) and i stay positive and am full of love and friendship and wouldn't shoot people, im just really shy and have 0 self confidence( i personally tihnk im great i just know that others look down on me and don't like me)
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>>37219186
no you fucking idiot, it's based on numbers and statistics.
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>>37219228
What are the statistics on "having it all"
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>>37219228
Then you should have no problem providing statistics for each item.
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>>37219124
I'm seriously blackpilled on that anon.
I tried. Fuck, I used to be so much better, but I failed in the end.

/thread

"Depression" shouldn't be used as much as it is. Even though I believe I have it I'd rather use the term "constant sadness" due to le lack of diagnosis on my behalf.
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>>37218887
I wanna punch every one of them in the mouth
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>>37218818
finally some one agrees with me that its just genetics that women seek attention. proof sexs are not made equal.
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>>37218700
Depression is weakness. Weakness is a positive trait in women because it implies submissiveness, which is the typical capacity of the woman in a heterosexual relationship. In men, weakness is a reviled and negative trait because they are expected to be dominant and fully capable of protecting their women and family. A man who is weak disgusts women and gives stronger men an opportunity to prove their strength by besting them.
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>>37219340

I hope you pull out of your slump man. I feel the same sometimes, so I hope there's salvation incoming for the both of us.
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>>37220488
Most rational answer thus far.
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