How can you make people stop thinking you're weird? Im always clean, not fat, dress reasonably well and 6'1. I do have like 6 friends but it seems that everyone else finds me odd and I don't know how to stop it
>>37204728
Stop being weird and act awkward.
Goddam it buddy, it is that simple.
>>37204728
Become a famous actor and win a golden globe and a oscar
>>37204728
Never. At best you'll be "that weird guy who's kinda cool".
you have to impose it on people
make them unable to criticize you by making them like/depend on you
this is what normies seem to do anyway
Become sexually aggressive! Get high on fucking...WEED! I'm high as balls right now holy shitty TTY! I'm going nuts on!!! DRUGS!
>>37204728
weird people are cool. if you friends dont like it get better ones
>>37204728
>tfw made a group of friends
>tfw friendship with the one I met first lasted three months
>tfw the rest of them are slowly cutting connections with me
>tfw I fucked up again
How do I deal with this feel? It's been years since I've had to feel it and I can't remember how I truly got over it the last time.
>>37204728
You'll never not be weird. No one will ever not be weird.
>>37204728
I kinda get where you're coming from.
Here's my advice:
Read who you're with; don't say certain things if you think they'd be uncomfortable with what you'd day
Smile/make eye contact/active listening
Speak up if you have input; being too quiet makes extroverts uncomfortable with you
Stay on topic
Keep the weird contained for your weird friends
You will need to act differently around different people is what it comes down to
>>37204728
Anon, every one has some thing weird about them. Some people are simply better at hiding their weird shit. You sound like you're doing well at hiding your weirdness you're merely self conscious.
>>37204728
You've just described me word for word
>6'1"
>cyborg
>a few decent friends
>work at mcdicks
>shave, shower, hygiene every day without fail
>go on work night out
>think im doing good, making a good impression
>in vino veritas
>"anon you're likeable but weird"
>"yeah, a bit of a creep"
>been trying my best to be normal
>dont grasp the nuances of being a normie
honestly what the fuck am i doing wrong? Why do girls like me but at the same time seem repulsed by me? No matter how dependable or friendly or confident I am I'm rejected and cant't just form a good group of good drinking buddies, why do i get on with everyone but end up at alone on a Saturday night?
I feel I'm so close yet so far away