YOUR DREAMS

>>37181211
Bought a gun.

>>37181435
What dream could you possibly have that requires you to own a gun?

I got laid.

That was about my only goal. I've been laying in bed doing nothing since it happened. I think my life might be over.

My goal is to watch anime and read. Instead i just shitpost. Im a failure.

>>37181211
I've forgotten my dreams

>>37181211
Fulfilled my biggest dream last year, after working towards it for the past 5 years.

>>37181465
I can think of many

Moving outa my house soon finally at age 26

>>37181211
ive never actually had dreams. I really don't want anything in life

>finally transfer from community to uni after 2 years
>scheduling is fucked for stem classes
>will take 2-4 more years to graduate

Already done with basics. This is just pure science now. I want off

>>37181211
My one and only dream is to die. I've been working hard most my life for my suicide to look "natural" but that's taking too long. I might try compression or better decapitation by train this year.

>>37181211
I'm soon going to get my first few guns (a basic M91/30, probably some Yugoslavian K98k if I can find one, and maybe down the line a Martini-Henry)

I also got into a prestigious school, and will probably get a high-paying job pretty much wherever I want in 4 years...Feels pretty damn good if you ask me.

But for now, it's summer vacations, so I still have 32 months to slack off.

>>37181503
>My goal is to watch anime and read. Instead i just shitpost. Im a failure.
Listen to this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fsKk5_xftNI

>>37181530
Could you share? I love success stories

>>37181520
>forgetting your dreams
Anon....

>>37181563
>i've never had a dream
Dreams breed success, anon.

>>37181654
Can you drive? Car accidents are easy as shit to die in

>>37181211
Thought I was gonna make an important step towards my dreams by buying a new flat... Turns out I got scammed the place is riddled with plumbing issues...
My lawyer is on it... In the meantime I am trying to put my shitnback together at my previous flat...
And everything takes ages in fucking france and so I am in forced procrastination mode...

I am starting to realise that the flat issue may have been a blessing in disguise as I am now considering travelling more to see less of french people. (I am french myself but I am really tired of my country being cucked yet so intolerant towards its own people... Try be say a goth, I am not, in France... Good luck)

>babies first motivational thread

you don't know how low a man can sink you fucking kid

>>37181211
got into the uni i wanted, just waiting for classes to start, im pretty happy for the first time in years. just need to stop being a KHHV now

>>37181765
I'm >>37181563 and i have schizophrenia
I was never meant to succeed

>>37181862
>letting a physical impairement blockade your dream

I have skin cancer and i'm still fighting to move to a different country. Losers make excuses, Winners find solutions..

>>37181773
Compression or decapitation are methods that are free and the chance of dying is almost 100%
I don't want to put anyone else in danger or wreck a car.

>>37181905
its a mental impairment you imbecile apathy is one of the symptoms i cant help it

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>>37181962
>i cant help it

The Fallacy of Helplessness

This is the belief that happiness in life is based on forces just beyond our control. For example, we think: If I could only have the right job, look a certain way, have the perfect guy or girl for a partner (fill in whatever you want here) then I would be happy or satisfied or fulfilled. We are the authors of our own life stories. I know this idea is scary, but it is also liberating. Think about it.

Only normalfags have dreams. kaerinasai

>>37181905
>I have skin cancer and i'm still fighting to move to a different country
Why tho

>>37182025
>For example, we think: If I could only have the right job, look a certain way, have the perfect guy or girl for a partner (fill in whatever you want here) then I would be happy or satisfied or fulfilled
you don't understand. I desire nothing. I really don't want a job or good looks or friends or a gf or anything. I don't really want anything.

>>37181211
>move out and get my own place

Tfw 22 and still living with parents
I can almost taste freedom but i make shit for cash. I feel like it would be easier if i kick my habit of playing hours of vidya a day

>get a dog

Wanted my own forever. Best pet, fight me.

(Hardest one, personally)
>overcome my crippling despression

Been fighting this shit for far too long, maybe since 10 years ago, and it has only gotten worse over time. I feel like accomplishing #1 and #2 would help tremendously, but i feel like this needs to be taken care of first in order for that to happen

>>37182116
how old? 18/19 i'm assuming?

>>37182193
26. why?

filler for origional

>>37182222
>26 years old with no path in life

Jesus. I hope you at least have an associate's degree. Most paths in life involve a bachelor's, and if you're 26 without even starting college ...it's not impossible, but if you haven't found any objective or goal after 26 years on this planet, I dunno, I would accuse you of not looking hard enough

Perhaps you're using your apathy as a way to just not explore your opportunities. There's a whole world out there you know.

The older someone gets, the harder it is to get them to move from the bad parts in life. So chances are you're not going to take what I say seriously, but if you want to achieve happines in life, it's time for you to fix your shit right the fuck now.

>>37181765
>tfw don't understand people singing about dreams and stuff because I don't think I have any dreams

>>37182340
>I don't want to succeed in life: The post

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>>37181211
i just want to get a job
i had a office job before but i couldn't handle my female coworkers and they didn't like me as well after some time because they thought i was "rude" even though i almost never talked to them
currently lifting to not loose hope and i want to fuck some escorts to be more confident around women
i may consider to work part time at burger king to get some cash while i look for another job
but i don't know if i would be able to handle a shiity fast food job

>>37182372
>succeed in life
What the fuck does that even mean? Seriously.

I will be graduating with a 3.85 GPA.
will start volunteering at a dental clinic next week.
and start studying for the DAT, and if everything goes to plan, I will either go to UCLA or UCSF dental school, if that shit doesn't work out, any fucking dental school that will take me.

>>37182287
kek i got quads

nope have no degrees, I had straight a's from elementary school up until my junior year because my dad made me. i never had any friends, never bothered to try. I got bullied a lot but i didn't really care. My mom was a total bitch, and my dad was away with work a lot so he never knew. Around my junior year i had my first psychotic episode. dropped out of high school, my dad divorced and got custody of me and ive been living with him ever since. Ive worked at mcdonalds and menards because my step mom forced me too, but it never worked out and now its been 3 years since ive had a job.

>Perhaps you're using your apathy as a way to just not explore your opportunities

No i don't think so. ive just never really cared about anything. i don't even brush my teeth or shower anymore

>>37182396
>Are you happy
>Are you stable
>Are you doing what you want
>Are you being true to yourself

If your answer is 'yes' to all 4 you are succeeding.

>>37182396
it means you don't meet my personal, arbitrary standards.

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>>37181211
I've been trying to improve myself so I can get a job and buy the necessary supplies for an exit bag, since the helium tank it's not as cheap here on Brazil.

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>>37182426
Get a girlfriend and help HER achieve HER dreams, then.

That's always a good substitute. When you can't find a dream yourself, help someone else reach their own.

It's perhaps in that moment, helping someone achieve their dream, you'll discover what it means to have your own.

>>37181765
>Could you share? I love success stories
There really isn't anything to share. Saved up my entire life, spent 5 years working extra hard, bought my dream car at age 24. My oneitis was in awe at my determination, endurance and success
and went beck to fucking Chad

>>37182445
Anon, the term "success", like any word in the dictionary, is something we use to describe something in life

We needed a word to describe someone that is happy, true to themself, and financially stable. We called that term "success". It's about as arbitrary as any other synthetic truth in our dictionary.

>>37182440
>Are you happy
I'm contempt. I don't know what happiness is. Bursts of feeling joy?
>Are you stable
I guess
>Are you doing what you want
pretty much
>Are you being true to yourself
absolutely

>>37182477
dreams are a thing i lack. Ive tried seeking them before, but i never found one. Its simple really, nothing brings me happiness so i seek nothing. it dosnt matter if i believe in a woman and help her on her journey to achieve her dream or if someone believes in me and tries to help me find my own. You see pursuing dreams as something that makes you happy, i see it as a burden

>>37182671
You would know if you were happy. You can't describe happy until you know what it means to be happy, and being happy is a pivotol feeling to being successful.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/laura-huckabeejennings/happiness-and-success_b_3596123.html

Key quote: "The greater truth is that success does not create happiness, but happiness can create success. "

>>37182690
it's that "it feels burdensome until I want it' feeling.

you can't see why people value it, so you disregard it. but the secod you see value, all of a sudden it becomes this super important thing you have to find out about.

I still think you should find a girl.

>>37182878
>it's that "it feels burdensome until I want it' feeling.
its a burden in a sense that i will be pursuing something that has no meaning to me just for the purpose of pursuing something. pleasure is a thing that i lack, and without pleasure there is no dreams.
>I still think you should find a girl.
When i was in school a girl asked me twice if i wanted to go to a movie. I told her id rather go alone, so she left. look kid

look kid, i bet youre some 20 year old in college dreaming about what he wants to do in life, and you cant wrap your mind around the concept of absence of feelings. I don't wanna discourage you so just enjoy life

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>>37181211
Studying all year round. Moving in the right direction at least.
If only I could get rid of this pesky AvPD I'd truly be happy again.

>>37183112
The fact you opened this thread means you're receptive to change.

Honestly, you can't just choose to change it, something meaningful has to happen to your life in order to set things in motion. It's usually a waiting game until that 'spark' happpens. But just listen here anon, if that 'spark' ever happens in your life, and you see that opening, go for it no matter what it takes.

>>37183857
I opened this thread because 4chan is one of the few things that interests me and is something to do to pass the time

meaningful things have happened in my life. I let those things slip away as they mean little to me. If i truly cared about getting friends or a gf i would talk to people. If i truly cared about getting a job i would have continued high school and gone to my states flagship university and get a degree and a job. I do not desire either of those things. To me the "spark" that happened was when i got back from the psych ward and was forced to take a bunch of pills in an attempt to rearrange the chemicles in my brain to make me what they consider sane. When i get too bored of my life ill commit suicide and that will be the end.

>>37181211
I have a few things I plan on doing in 2017, and I'm actually getting around to doing them. One big thing however is learning to play this on guitar: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V_-fba2hBG4
Aside from that it's saving enough money to get my own land and getting a small-medium sized house built on it with a greenhouse and a workshop beside it. That however is moreso for the future. Oh, and I'm trying to find a late 80s-1993 model Chrysler New Yorker within reasonable driving distance.

In a year from June 2016 to now, I lost 106 pounds and I'm not at the weight I want to be yet

I went and got 3 certifications, A+, Network+ and Security+ and I still dont have the job I want yet

I'm working on it but it's been hard

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>>37181211
Quit weed
Quit porn
Quit masturbation
Lost 40 pounds
Embraced my masculinity
Got out of a long term loveless relationship
Learned how to socialize
Built study habits

Confessed my love for a girl I've known
she turned me down but I don't feel bad at all
I feel glad that she knows, and that I may not always be available.