Any asexuals here? What's your experience?

>>37166634
I can't have sex or masturbate without drugs, I feel sickened. Also have trouble eating

>>37166664
You shouldn't take drugs anon
Just don't have sex

yes i am. i've never really masturbated and i have never felt the need/want to. i don't get turned on either.
bad side:real suffering is never having an orgasm
good: don't have to worry about sex with people i meet, all about friendship

>>37166634
No offense but girls who like Marilyn Monroe are sluts.

AUDREY HEPBURN

PIER ANGELI, GRACE KELLY ALL THE WAY

>>37166890
Huh that's odd. I can get turned on and get orgasms pretty easy and I'm ace af.

>>37166907
>>37166917
Why can't you guys just stick to the question

>>37166634
I have a lot of free time to waste.

>>37167053
Do we really though? I feel like normal people don't actually spend THAT much time on sex

>>37167089
There's a lot that goes into sex anon. Even the small things like only showering when you're going outside saves a lot of time. The amount of freedom that you get from not needing to adhere to social norms because you're not after a relationship is incredible.

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>>37166634
Normalishfag here

My highly autistic sister says she is asexual. She is 14 and wants her DD cup breasts REMOVED, not reduced, REMOVED because they are some sort of trigger for her.

What the fuck do I do? I guarantee she'll regret it later in life but I don't know what to tell her.

She threatened to kill herself multiple times, had to be moved to online school and is now failing even though she was a straight A student.

>>37167131
Hmm. Well I guess that's true, I guess I just can't imagine it since I've never done it. Fuck that shit.

>>37167131
Asexuals still follow most social norms you retard, they just don't do it for the purpose of getting their dick wet.

>>37167169
So? She wants to do what she wonds with her body, just let her.

>>37166922
It's possible he just has a low testosterone and isn't actually asexual. I can become turned on easily too but I have abstained from maturation my entire life out of choice.

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>>37167257
alright well time to heat up the butter knfie and slide those puppies off i guess

thanks anon

>>37166634
I'm a mtf tranny, didn't transition for so long because I thought you had to want it up the ass to be a grill
3D is disgusting some 2D is okay sometimes

>>37167266
He kinda sounds like it

Fuck asexuals, my experience is that they're the epitome of "I wont fuck anything except for this very specific thing" aka Chad ThunderPole

>>37167371
That's a demisexual you moron

Comsider myself asexual (grayace?) because i cant into physical/emotional intimacy with a grill so i dont bother to get into something thats bound to end due to who I am
Grills are nice and all but im rarely found of them
Not into guys

>>37167183
Then they're wasting their power. The amount of free time they could have is amazing.

>>37167266
>>37167355
yea i'm pretty sure i'm ace. i never think about fucking anyone. in fact, it quite bothers me and i'm positive i will never have sex.

How do you masturbate if you're asexual?

>>37166634
I'm ace but i have a nasty porn addiction and the main reason i am still on this site is because i can barely ever go a day without looking at loli for 3 hours and hating myself afterwards
other than that part, i love being ace/aro and im glad that i am because i cant be depressed about no one ever really wanting me anyway and i can focus on making friendships and feeling happy

I dont know if its asexual or not, but im disgusted by the idea to have sex with any girl i know irl. I watch lots of degenerate porn and fap daily, but for some reason i could never even be naked with a real-life female. I really feel like cuddling tho. Just spooning and hugging eachother under the blankets.
Im a khhv btw.

I'm asexual. Not sure if that's just who I am or meds made me this way. Was always awkward as fuck growing up and girls in school being "MMMMM I wanna fuck (some male celebrity)" and I always felt left out.

I hope one day I could find a nice partner to spend the rest of my days with. We could share chores and cooking, watch tv and play games together, go to restaurants together, adopt cats and sleep in seperate beds because I move around a lot in my sleep. Would also be nice to be a family with your partners' relatives.

I'm scared I'll end up alone since I'm so quiet and introverted, hate children and don't want any, asexual and depressed.

>>37168482
It's possible that you're ace. I got this theory that if you look at more degenerate porn and you're not attracted to real girls that might be because you just are "attracted" to the experience of porn itself. Maybe you should try nit looking at porn for a month or two so you can "reset" your brain and see if you start being attracted to girls or be attracted to nothing. That way you're gonna know if you're ace

>>37168578
>not to worry, you're living life on easy mode and therefore will never have to be lonely or depressed

>>37168668
Don't know how I greentexted that but oh well

>>37168668
Yeah this is definitely not easy mode. Fuck that.

>>37168668
The meme about girls living on easy mode only comes from the fact that /r9k/ thinks all girls are attractive and they can get any partner they want. But that can't apply to ace girls, right?

>>37168833
Of course it can. There are ace men out there and dating works just the same as it does between sexual people. Make your presence known and you are the one who will be approached your whole life by men looking to get into a relationship with you. You can't get easier than having your choice of dozens of men. It's not about attractiveness by the way, even ugly women will have it easy for the same reason.

>>37167131
>showering when you're going outside
deam ... i shower like once a weak (unless sweat in job) -rare showering= less skinn cels multiplaying = less dead skin celss = longer time not stinkin without shower

>>37166634
never masturbated or had sex before but the thought of it disgusts me and i can't watch porn either. although if i was dated someone who i really loved i would probably endure it to make them happy.

>>37167169
tell her to wait 2/3 years and then she can do whatever she want with her body

>>37168907
What about girls who are fat and uggo and have a extremely hard time "making their presence known". I'm not really interested in dating but I highly doubt anyone would be interested in me. My life is not "easy mode"

>>37166634
there is a lot of asexuality coming from perfected woman picture in porn
i myself did a lot of hentai when i was teenager
and when i said did I MEAN it ... right now i still enjoy draving female anatomy but ended up faping to music (music adict)

>>37168945
ah i meant to write dating* not dated i'm retarded

>>37168996
Are you having a stroke, anon?

Oregano

>>37168994
Try it out if you like, make a dating profile with your picture (or that of an equally ugly fat girl) and see how many replies you get every single day. Now try the same thing for a male

>My life is not "easy mode"
Do you believe you have it equally as bad as an ugly male?

>>37169185
>Even ugly fat chicks live life on easy mode

End this meme

>>37166634
Starting to believe I am.

>never had gf or sex but it doesn't bother me.
>can count the amount of girls I've ever been attracted to for more than 24 hours on 1 hand

BUT:
>can still find girls attractive but feeling goes away within 5 minutes
>can still jack off to porn, but it's not compulsive

So either I'm asexual or I just have a very low sex drive.

>>37168994
>My life is not "easy mode"
not living in ghana/venezuela/africa (probably us or eu) saying ;''my live is not easy mode''

>>37169317
Neither is living as a straight dude who can't pick up women "hard mode"

>>37169222
It's the truth though, you can test it any time you like.

>>37169355
As a ugly dude you can have a great job, money, status and girls will flock to you. That doesn't happen with ugly women.

>>37168996
How do you fap to music? What do you listen to and what's the process?

>>37169408
electronic, like there are some extatic moents that are folowed by bulding up music tention (solar fields majestic feeling for example)
i fap cos i dont like to feel steamed (if i would do no fap for a weak , then i would fap to anything like any guy)
still when i smoke weed i enjoy hentai a lot
but i never remember faping to real porn and thats my point , real porn is hideus
if i was born in 1950 i would be normal (no hentai back then)

>>37169376
>and girls will flock to you
this is not how life as a male works. The fact that you could think this shows what kind of easy mode you're living on

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>>37166634

>be me, 49 (omg, next January I'll become 50, a 50yo virgin!! yay!!)
>never had sex
>chickened out the only time I got a real opportunity when 45... because I didn't want to waste my virginity to a slutty skank, even less a skank wanting to settle

Sometime after 30 you stop obsessing with wasting your virginity, and you understand that sex is just an overrated drug
>(people fapping more than twice per year may don't understand that)

But there are some moments in life you get something like an orgams, and they last hours, not seconds. For example the first time you buy a LEGO train.

>>37167169
just tell her that removing her breasts will enhance her sexual desire, albeit in some bizarre and uncontrollable directions.

>>37169529
meaby not flock to you but with money you can have pusy thats the secound law of the money , right after money dont lie
but this dont work with womans

>>37167169
If she's asexual, then i don't see anything weird in that. She doesn't want them to be desirable, all they do is possibly cause her back pain. I know girls who want their breasts reduced, and although removing might be something she can regret later, it doesn't have to be. If she still wants it by the time she turns 18, it'd be abusive to stop her.

>>37169537
>just tell her that removing her breasts will enhance her sexual desire
god hint from a real wizzard ...

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>>37166634
I have no desire to do any sexual activity (including masturbation) and I don't develop "feelings" for anyone.
It kinda breaks my heart that I wouldn't make my parents happy and get married. I'm also worried people with think I'm a closeted fag.

I think it's psychological because I had my hormones checked and they're normal. I'm not sure what the "psychological reason" is. It's been like this all my life.
I'm 20 now

>>37169653
guy or female?
its not anatomicaly possible for guy
male asexuals just divert sexulyty at something else - drugs, music, porn but never would fuck 3d woman

>>37169704
i mean its not anatomialy posible for a guy to dont desire masturbation
asexuals divert sexualyty* at other stuf

>>37169704
Male.
This is why I have such a hard time telling people. They just don't believe it's possible. I have normal development (normal sized dick, height etc.)

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>>37166634
>Meet asexual woman
>Enjoys how excited I get when we do stuff though
>Just fuck my asexual wife now and reward her in return by running DnD
>She see's it as a totally fair trade

haha sucker

>>37169653
Haha, i get what its like to worry that everyone thinks your gay. I'm 100% sure everyone thinks i'm gay especially since i'm very feminine (not to sound attention whorey, i'm genderfluid). I once hinted at my friends who were talking about their gfs that i never had a gf, dont want one, and have never been in love. All I heard in return was a straightforward "That's because you're gay"

>>37169704
I'm sure that is not true.

>>37169721
I don't. Playing with my dick doesn't even feel good (feels like nothing) and I don't even get an "internal desire" to masturbate

I haven't fapped to porn for ~8 years now.

Don't get me wrong, I do masturbate, but porn does not arouse me anymore.

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>>37169744
>tfw your best friend keeps "joking" that you're probably gay
Shit sucks man. I'm not even feminine. It makes me feel so excluded because literally everything is sexualised so you cant relate to anything with your friends

>>37169745
dude whaaaat
i mean i feel soo not right after few days of nofap
so i fap to get rid of that felling
you dont feel "internal desire" after long no fap
? thast not ''normal''- common
>37169723
>37169744
and this ... i dont care if someone thinks im gay but its like SOOOO anyoing when i say to people that ''i m bored with girls''/''no i dont have girlfrend and i dont intend to'' and they like politely asking if i homosexual

>>37169816
dude whaaaat
i mean i feel soo not right after few days of nofap
so i fap to get rid of that felling
you dont feel "internal desire" after long no fap? thast not ''normal''- common
>>37169723
>>37169744
and this ... i dont care if someone thinks im gay but its like SOOOO anyoing when i say to people that ''i m bored with girls''/''no i dont have girlfrend and i dont intend to'' and they like politely asking if i homosexual

>>37169830
Does masturbation feel good throughout the entire process, or does it only feel good when blowing your load?

I sometimes masturbate but it's only because I'm bored and have literally nothing else to do. All I feel is my prostate contracting when I'm ejaculating.

>>37169886
yea it feel good but not the touching dick stuf, just ovverall feeling (i think it the blood stream and oxygen +dopamine and endorphine in brain stuf )

Dunno if asexual.

I like the idea of sex, fapping etc

Cuddling and foreplay us good but the pumping is boring as fuck...

>>37169785
I hate how absolutely everything in the world is sexualised. I've always been the only person in groups that can look at a guy and a girl and even consider that they might be just friends. And whenever i talk to girls, i have to do my best to make sure no one thinks i'm flirting. To the point when i get paranoid even when i talk to a lady 30 years older than me , or even my mom ffs. And same for all my friends who think im gay, whenever i'm nice to them i'm scared they think i have feelings for them. All i want is to have a best friend who i can give platonic hugs to and eat cotton candy together. It sucks.

>>37169830
No one ever asked if i'm homosexual really, but i can sorta tell they assumed that.

>>37170029
You just described my life, anon.

>>37169522
do you take drugs or have some kind of mental problems? Why do you type like that?

>be me
>policewoman friend of mine wants to settle
>definitely don't want to spend my life with her
>made her meet an old friend of mine
>loveatfirstsight.mp3
>day after first date, he's depressed
>told me he loves her but he's asexual
>he only wants a pure platonic asexual relationship
>told him that while dating, he will have time to tell it to her, little by little
>a few months later policewoman asks for advice
>told me he's depressed because he has a puny penor plus severe erection disease
>asks me how to tell him she's ok with it without seeming only interested in his money
>had quite a hard time explaining her that he's in love and his only fear is about losing her
>they eventually get to marry
>she gets even uglier than before
>while grateful, he doesn't want anymore get in touch with me, because I know the secret behind his proclaimed asexuality
>ffwd 1 year later
>she's naturally pregger
>wtf, a two inch dick barely able to get an erection from time to time, and even selfproclaiming asexual, was sufficient to father a child

>>37170115
I'm glad I could validate you.