my boyfriend told me if i left him he would kill himself but he also won't have sex with me, he never leaves the house other than to go to work and doesn't do any work around the house. he just plays ps4 or watches youtube videos with headphones on or naps whenever he's not working
he's also a gross pig who doesn't wash or change his clothes enough and leaves filth everywhere
i'm starting to really hate and resent him but i don't want to leave and make his situation worse .. even though he won't get help
what should i do?
Confront him about it and, if that doesn't work, leave him. You're not responsible for his actions and you don't owe him shit, not if he's actively refusing to step up and better himself.
If he's going through some rough shit and is depressed, give him some time to recover (though from the feel I get from your text this isn't the case??).
slap him over the back with a wet towel
This board is truly dead, I must be one of the last robots
You come here for relationship advice? That's truly a sign that this place has been ruined. Thank you for taking away another intelligent part of the internet you braindead normie facebooking filth
>>37156454
he's probably depressed. nothing bad is going on though
he's just full of sour grapes and exudes jealousy whenever people around him succeed
it's getting really tiresome
>>37156416
Leave him, he's obviously a bad person, why do you care about him if he doesn't care about you
Roasties are so stupid.
>>37156416
Those who talk and yell and threat about suicide never do it. Do this.
Talk to him and tell him everything that you do not like about his way of life how repulsive and sloppy he is. If he won't change with your words, then leave his ass and then, if he loves you enough, he will plead for your return with a condition that he changes his bad habits that clearly disgust you.
If he won't come back to you, or if he wants you back but wants to keep his way of life, LEAVE HIM!
Don't be unassertive, think for your sorry ass from time to time.
>>37156416
>kill himself but he also won't have sex with me
Stop stressing him out with your bullshit, you vapid cunt.
Wtf is wrong with you anyway?
>>37156416
Oh shit a hostage situation.
Leave, what do you care?
You're making things worse by staying because you're validating this shitty behavior.
Go find a nice boy who will suck your dick and say he loves you.
>>37156484
Fuck off, robot. REEEEEEEEEE!!!!
>>37156512
Then he's just got a shitty personality/world view, and that's not going to change.
>>37156600
I don't know about homosexuals like op but I had a gf try it. I said that was it and she better be gone before I'm back from work. She slit her wrists and painted the walls in blood like a fucking psycho. I called 911 and blocked her number once she was safely gone. She needed reconstructive surgery and spent nearly 3 months in the loony bin last I heard. My advice would be to kick them out and have a deputy babysit when they pick up their shit. Females are all horrible people.
>>37156514
>>37156600
>>37156655
yeah i know i shouldn't put up with it and leave but he always convinces me not to and seems to turn himself around for a short while.. then everything falls back like how it was
>>37156760
this is what i'm afraid of
>>37156819
i can't kick him out it's his place
>>37156967
Yeah that's because you're in the picture dumdum.
As long as you continue to stick around, nothing will change.
Say you're done and walk. Maybe you're the dependant one and that's why you can't.
>>37156484
Just in the last week this board has gotten exponentially worse
The majority of threads are about relationships, """""fembots""""", or general /soc/ bullshit. The last one is even against board rules but for some reason mods never intervene
This place is truly dead
Yet I'll never be able to leave
>>37157056
not dependent, more lazy
i hate moving and i don't mind just picking up after him, i also gave him a car to use and i'm worried he might try and sue me for it or something if i move out and take it back
it'd be easiest on me to just keep this a sort of business relationship and fuck out of town guys on the down low but that would be pretty cruel of me
>>37156967
Sounds like you're in luck then. Just leave while he's at work. Less blood smeared on your stuff that way.
>>37156416
Im black hire me to beat him up so he kills himself because of that. Jk.
I'll be his life coach and try to trick him into hating you and move on.
>>37157106
Only queers care about rules. If you don't like a thread then shit spam it while saging and stir shit up so everyone argues. It works for nofap. Shit, look at barnyfag. He gets threads that just have a picture of anime girl in it deleted just because he said it might be a pony drawn to look nothing like a pony and it's gone.
>>37157148
You're as lazy as eachother and belong together then.
>>37156416
you both should just kill each other.
>>37157148
Why would you take his car back unless it's just being spiteful?
>>37156416
Fucking leave. You dont have to be his crutch if he can't get his shit together. Don't ruin your own life for some asshole.
>>37157951
it's my winter beater. i use it when i put my summer car away
>>37157990
But he might kill himself or worse, sue her if she takes his shit when she leaves.