/r9k/, how do you deal with your mom lying you straight in the face and going "you're such a handsome young man etc"? Do you just take it or do you tell her off? I know she's just doing it to be nice but it's pretty blatant that what she's saying just isn't true
My mum has never said that 2bh
>>37123727
>mother fugged father because she was attracted to him
>mother thinks you're attractive because you have similar features to your father
like pottery
>>37123727
I just laugh, yell "OK" and go about my business.
Don't even answer and fet back to my room
always knew she was lying even when I was 16. I know I'm ugly as sin so why would I care what she says
>>37123727
talk to her about it lol,
>>37123727
She probably feels sad that something ugly came out of her vagina
>>37123727
If you aren't too ugly, your mom probably really thinks that.
>implying people on this board talk to their parents
>>37123727
I laugh and ignore it but still feel like shit because she's the only female who has ever said that to me
>Ma tells me I look handsome
>Disregard it
>Girls at the dentist tell me I look handsomethen tell me to brush more
>Think Ma told them to tell me that
>Girls at her work tell me I look handsome
>Think she set this up too
>One of my Old Man's 8/10 co-workers starts to hit on me
>Drop my spaghetti and dash out the door
WHY DO THEY KEEP DOING THIS CHARADE???
idk your mom could tell you that she feels ashamed for having given birth to you and that she resents me for becoming a shut in nerd, in her words that is.
>>37123727
More related pics pls
I actually am fairly handsome so when people call me handsome I don't think they are lying.
Whenever she does this I tell her it literally doesn't matter if she thinks so as long as all other people on the planet think otherwise
>>37123727
damn that's an alpha ass pic anon, please post more
>>37123727
>I can't remember anyone ever calling me handsome
I don't think I look THAT bad.
>>37123727
>mom tells you you're "hansome"
>just reminds you that you have a physical appearance
>remember that you are ugly
wtf mom
>>37124043
That's not how it works anon. Attractiveness is determined by secondary sex characteristics, not by this meaninsgless "features" nonsense. Which is why attractiveness is universally recognized as attractiveness, regardless of skin color or other non-secondary sex "features".
I share many features with my father, so does my sister, yet she doesn't have male secondary sex characteristics.
If you go through a bad puberty or are a mouth breather, no "features" will save you.
>>37123727
Honestly fuck this bullshit. When people knowingly lie to you to "make you feel better", it's a strong indicator that they're sociopathic narcissitsts. If they actually cared for you, they'd tell you the truth, as it would serve you better and lead to less suffering in the long run than going through the world believing a lie would. It's a self protective mechanism - not compassion.
I'd propably say nothing and just mark the person off as untrustworthy.
>>37125978
>I can't remember anyone ever calling me handsome
this might, in some way, actually be a good thing. "Handsome" like "beautiful" has been used so inflationarily as a feel good term, that it has not only lost all its original meaning, but actually taken that of its opposite.
If someone called me either of those, I'd be very suspicious if they just said that because they considered me hideous but wanted to make me feel good.