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How are you holding up guys?
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>>37064914

28 considering killing self
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Pretty bad. No landlord will take me, no employer will hire me. Lied to the girl I'm dating to about being a NEET and she's about to find out. Now the government wants to take my NEET money away. Haven't showered in four days and I'm drinking so much alcohol every night that I have a permanent hangover.
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>>37064914
I don't.
orgianalelele
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finally got a job after three years of unemployment, quit after ten days because it was too physical and i kept getting injured

back to applying to Burger King and McDonalds and not getting a response
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24 here, but going worse with every year. Slowly but surely.

I've gone from social anxiety to full blown autism and paranoia.
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>>37064914
I can't say that life gets much worse as I get older. I give less fucks, and I become more knowledgeable about my interests with each passing year. It's never too late to take up archery. I'm still a kissless virgin, but I think my chances of finding someone have increased as my outlook has changed. I haven't given up hope on finding a qt, but it's possible to be single and almost content.
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27, NEET, pretty numb at the moment which isn't the worst.
Life passed me by long before I acknowledged it; really settled in now, though.
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33. Was depressed/anxious until I was 32. Depression is gone and anxiety is 90% gone. Never thought it would happen but it did. Discovering the chans/taking redpills and going to the gym helped. The chans spout brutal truth at times but as the saying goes 'the truth will set you free'
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Bad
Got caught stealing 20 bucks worth of sleeping pills
Sending me a civil demand in the mail I'm guessing it'll be at least 100 bucks
Started smoking again because I can't sleep and can't relax
Gained weight
Not gonna make it
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Good job, New car, perfect gf.

The commute sucks but w/e
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I have a gf for the first time. I can see why certain people can't stand being single now
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>>37064981
>No landlord will take me
why this? drugs or not enough money?
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>>37065018
>burger king and mcdonalds wont hire

damn anon, this is the lowest a man can be
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>>37064914

Great. just got back from Hawaii.
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>>37064914
I turned 26 on Saturday. Thing are going well, but I'm a normie by this board's standards.

If anything I hate how much drive I piss away by masturbating and drinking every night. I have good ideas but never follow through with them
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>>37065255
>I can see why certain people can't stand being single now

Can you elaborate?
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>42
>selling all my possessions so i can orbit a 16 yr old girl
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>>37064914
Pretty good.
>33
>Held same IT specialist job for 8 years
>live comfortably
>can cook, clean, do chores
>has a car
>travels a bit
>has hobbies and likes the outdoors

I have the ability to just take a few deep breaths and appreciate life. I've always had it, even when my life was a little shittier. I credit that ability with not getting swallowed by depression, because I'm still a KHV.
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>>37064914
26, recently became neet myself, moved back in with mom. I actually do not mind, i am happy, i was driving 2 hours each way for work so i am glad to not being doing that anymore.

not sure when I will look for another job, whats the point right? not like i will ever have a family or a gf.
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I'm all set bros, parents are leaving town for a week and I can finally relax and be myself

Feelin good
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>>37065326
It's kind of like a drug how good I feel with her. sounds faggy but only way i can describe it
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27 neet
summerfags are coming again and making the chans unbearable to visit.
just use my comp as a music box and stare out the window.
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>>37065361
you don't get along with your parents or just like them leaving for a bit? i like when mine leave because i walk around the house naked
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Life is fucking great!
I stopped spending all of time thinking that people on the internet matter and started experiencing real life! Now I have a girlfriend who is addicting to my dick and rides me daily.

Tldr get off the internet
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33 and retired I'm looking foward to going swimming later I could now but I have some shit to do
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>>37065399
A few days ago I was thinking of booking an escort but I backed out.

I'd like to believe in the whole "soulmates" meme and lovey dovey feelings but I know it is all a ruse.

Yet I still have hope somewhere in my heart, which is why I still backed out from the escort.
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>>37065329
haha nice

>>37065404
yep it's going to be a long summer

>>37065442
don't do it, condoms don't stop herpes
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>>37065399
If she's had previous boyfriends, she won't be feeling that way with you

Sorry
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>>37065436
Teach me how to get retired. I can't tolerate this wageslavery for the next 35 years
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>>37064914
The times of tribulation are over for me. Next month I will go to a mental hospital and get the help I need. Fate of this world is guaranteed. Put your trust in the lord fellow anons, he will set us free
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>>37065588
Based digits of truth. Kek be praised
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>>37065292
>damn anon, this is the lowest a man can be

yeah i know it, but no other type of job will touch you when you have been out of work as long as i have
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well I haven't finished by BA yet nor broken the depressive cycle of signing up for every datingapp and then deleting them
but other than that not too bad I guess
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>>37064914

Another drunken night of bar hopping. Three nights in a row. I'm now broke and hungover and miserable. There's no hope for me. I'm too fucked up for this world. If it wasn't for my mom I'd kill myself.
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>>37065678
What was your purpose?
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>28 years old
>Losing job next week
>Only reason I got current one is because of a government program
>Will never be able to find a new one
>Being unemployed and poor during summer triggers my depression like crazy
>If I have another suicide attempt my therapist told me that I will be forced into hospital
>Gained 11kg this year

I'm not doing fine.
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>>37065528
Could you elaborate on this anon?

Also unoriginal comment go away
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>>37065713

I'm tired of being alone. I just want a fucking friend but I'm too broken for even that.
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Bad. I am probably going to get fired for making a 'joke about rape' at work

>2 women next to me are arguing over whether war is worse than rape
>obviously war is worse, as it can lead to rape, rape doesn't cause war
>getting real tired of this shit in my ear
>turn and tell them 'I think war is worse logically because rape happens in warzones, for example the red army during WW2 and Boko Haram in Nigera'
>the woman who thinks rape is worse starts giving me shit
>'yeah but rape is worse because women don't expect to get raped and men sign up to war'
>laugh and say 'your dress is like the rape version of conscription'
>except, don't say it confidently, slowly stutter it
>both of them get mad
>report me to about 10 managers

I am fuked here guys
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how do i meet girls?

origagagaga
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>>37065736
>>If I have another suicide attempt my therapist told me that I will be forced into hospital
Involuntary commitment is absolute bullshit.
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>>37065412
I just like being alone
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I'm going to be 27 this year and it doesn't even feel like it. Where does the time go guys? Most of my classmates have kids and full-time jobs while I've ever only had one relationship that ended after 3 months and have only worked part-time. I haven't even had a damn job since November. God I'm a fucking failure. My dad doesn't deserve such a disappointment for a son.
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>>37065736
i don't understand these 'attempts'. how fucking dumb are you that you need more than one.
you should be put into the hospital for being an attention whore.
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>>37065803
Sorry dude but you learned an important lesson about jokes there. Also that was a dark joke, from my interpretation it sounds like you were saying that her dress was making it mandatory for men to want to rape her. Is that what you meant by the joke? I don't think that would fly anywhere outside of 4chan or a circle of close friends.
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>>37065843
Agreed. I went in volunterily once because my therapist really wanted me to. It was a fucking nightmare and I was there for just two days.

>>37065897
Yeah it's a weird feeling fucking it up. I took and overdose and by a freak accident one of my roommates walked into the garage. It would have probably worked if that didn't happen.
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>27
>NEET for almost a year now, was NEET between 2013 and 2015
>alcoholic and go to AA meetings 5x a week to keep my parents off my back
>still drink anyway, but have to hide it better than i used to
>no more beer only buy pints of cheap vodka because it's easier to smuggle into my room
>feeling pretty directionless
>last thursday see a thread here about self improvement
>anon recommends just going on craigslist and taking the first job you can
>fuckit.jaypeg
>i send a few emails
>get bored
>go over to w4m to browse
>find some posting about a lonely girl who is looking for a friend
>whatdoihavetolose.avi
>email her at like 5am
>get email back at 7am
>email back and forth all morning
>she gives me her number
>we text all day
>really hitting it off
>i'm almost positive i'm being catfished even though i reversed imaged all of the pictures she sent me and found 0 (zero) results
>she asks if she can call me on friday
>it's actually a girl
>mfw
>she sends me a good morning text every morning
>i see them around midday when i wake up hungover
>feel better about existence
>she's really expressive and nearly obsessed with me already
>she's always talking about how badly she wants to cuddle and fuck
>going to meet her IRL soon
>pretty excited

i've also been talking to a 43 year old woman that i met on whisper. i actually went to her place on saturday night and we hung out for a few hours. smoked weed and drank with her, kissed her on my way out. i didn't make a move to fuck her though, she seemed like the kind of woman who would appreciate that. she's basically said we're going to screw the next time i come over.

so yeah. my life is a lot different than it was 10 days ago. don't really know how to process this yet.
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>23
>baby-faced
>most people think I'm 17-19
>about to bang a 19 year old

For once it payed off.
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26 KHV here, what would you guys do in my situation. In about 1 month I will have around $5000 USD saved up from my part time shitty job. I plan on quitting it. I'm thinking of either using that money to move into a city 3 hours away (currently live in a small town), or I will take that money and go on a vacation to south america hopefully losing my virginity even if I have to pay for it .
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>>37066003
There's literally no major physical difference between 19 and 23. They're practically the same
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>>37066003

that's not exceptional.
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>>37066023
yea it's weird. when you're that age a year or two seems like a big deal.
now it's like...vaguely 16-22ish look the same.
23-28?
28-45.
it's hard to tell.
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>>37065270
No references. No guarantor.
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>>37066003
>23
>baby-faced
>have to shave my head because hair is extremely thin on top, looks JUST tier if I let it grow past a millimeter
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>>37066003
Lol I was banging a 17 year old when I was 25 that's a much bigger difference than 19 and 23
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27 here. Feeling like I should just give up on women and indulge in coffee, beer and first person shooters. At least I have a car, place and job
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>>37064933
This but originally orig
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>>37065442
I think you did the right thing. maybe. i switch between soul crushing pessimism and hopeful optimism about my situation with her. if it ends up in the dumpster i'll be sure to post about it here.
>>37065528
She's a virgin, or at least claims to be.
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>>37066252

how does a 25 year old even meet a 17 year old
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>>37065678
I know you're broke but MTG/tabletop gaming is a good way to make friends. It's going to cost more than booze though
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>>37066422

you don't get out much do you?
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25+

Like that's a weird thing.

Fuck, what happened to this site? How fucking dare you complain about normies. You're all fucking normies.
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>>37064914
>28
>take care oif disabled dad all day every day
>sleep less than 6 hours almost every night
>drink way too much to even get to sleep in the first place
>think about killing myself all the time
>too much of a faggot to go through with it
>can't ever see my life getting better
>dad is deteriorating more every day
>don't even think he knows who I am anymore
fuck
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>>37066445

I do actually, I'm 26 and haven't hung out with highschool kids since......i was in highschool...kinda weird if you ask me but hey.
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>23
>gf is 19
>bout to drop out of uni cos i've just realised i hate my course
>no idea what im going to do
>parents will hate me and gf might leave me
>thinking about cutting all ties and moving somewhere random
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>>37065888
Yeah it's kind of freaky but i barely remember a thing about the last 3 years. I would say find a decent job though, it really dulls the pain of being a failure better than any drug.
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>>37065990
>>going to meet her IRL soon
congrats, i hope it goes well. she'd have to be pretty sadistic to go this far with catfishing you
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>>37066546

Just because you don't hang out with them doesn't mean they're not everywhere. They're old enough to drive but young enough not to have a full time job or any such obligations. I could go to the mall right now and see 200 of them walking around.
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>>37066472
Newfag detected. Is this your first time seeing a 25+ thread?
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>>37066605
i think she's a sperg or something. she is how a cringy man would act when he is desperately in love with someone. it's actually kind of endearing coming from a girl.

i think she's just overwhelmed because she got out of a really long and bad relationship a few months ago.

or because she's fat and i'm objectively attractive
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All i ever wanted was to lose my virginity to another virgin, but it's beyond unlikely now. I would be lucky if I could find a single girl who just isn't married or a single mother, nevermind date one.

I don't see any point in continuing life anymore.
It's all so hopeless.
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>>37066565
normalfag problems. i hate summer.
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>>37066714

Why? So she can cry and get blood stain on your bedsheets?
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>>37066714
If you want to lose your virginity what the fuck is wrong with banging a single mom?
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>25 this November
>supposed to be my last semester in college
>fail one class
>class may not be given in summer
>might end up graduating after turning 25 just because of one class

i know i will still get a job and start earning money but dammit i really hate this

also

>never had a gf
>would be nice to have someone i can talk these things with
>would be nice to have someone to share my insecurities and anxieties about school and family
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>>37066714
I wanted that too, that's why I became a kv. It also caused spikes of desperation where I would not think straight and be extra aggressive in clubs before I got a hold of myself again and realized what I was doing.
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>>37066714
it's not that great. i think what you really want is to have sex with someone who loves you, because virgin sex is shit.
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MY POWER
MY PLEASURE
MY PAIN

ayeee-yayeee-yaaay
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>>37064914

Not that well

Over-educated and completely burnt out. Can't find a job and can't decide if I want to drag myself back to school again.
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>>37066842

Its not about sex at all, everyone knows virgin sex is not great. Its the fact that she chose you to lose her virginity to. Chose you over all the other guys, its a special feeling. Also a virgin male is scared he will under perform compared to her other partners, and get made fun of for it. Girls talk to their friends a lot, she will let it be known you were bad or awkward.
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>>37066737
No, it's because I fell for retarded purity memes, and I just can't help thinking the way I do.

>>37066746
> to another virgin

>>37066831
Honestly, I don't even care about having sex.
I've been propositioned by women who "got around" and I turned them all down.

>>37066842
I don't care whether or not she's "good at sex".
I just want someone who is untainted.
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>>37066954

>fell for retarded purity memes

It sounds like you realize this is bull shit. No one is 100% pure. Just go out and get laid ffs.
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>>37066690
Jesus fuck. You don't get to call anybody newfag when you talk about 25+. Get out of my site. All of you fucking recent normals.
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>30
>lost retail cuck job on the last of April
>haven't been able to get a job
>still live at home
>have enough money to pay off student loans for five or six months
>no friends

Thankful for my parents. Wish i didn't lose my job, though
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52 here, pretty good.

Still live with my parents after 30 years, not meming here.

I lived for 10 years with my wife but i cucked her with another women.

Now this bitch hates me too and just want's me to fuck her at the weekends.
Always hit these bitches, can`t control it, they are just all so stupid.
Lost 12k thanks to my ex wife suing me because i refused to pay child support for over 10 years..police fucking raided my apartment at my parents house and they found my money...

Now divorce is 10 years back, and i never see my children. Well, i deserve it. I hit them too, im just too agressive all the time.
Parents always granted me everything i wanted, guess they spoiled me to much.

But soon my parents die and i get 1+ million euros + 2 halls i can rent for over 5k euros a month.

So yes, i never really worked but will always have money, life loves me.
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>>37064914
Women irrevocably, absolutely, completely blown the fuck out

How will they ever recover
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>>37066995
I can tell you cockroaches are actually edible, but that's not gonna make them appetizing to you. Our brains are just hardwired in certain ways, and even though I know it's a baseless, unreasonable belief, I can't turn it off.

And I'm judging myself by the same standards I judge women.
I don't want to get laid just to say I did it.
I would honestly prefer to die a virgin.
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>>37065428
Still on /r9k/.
oreganno
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>>37067182

>baseless, unreasonable belief, I can't turn it off

That's not true. People become deprogrammed from shit and accept new realities all the time. Maybe it's a little more difficult for you than it is for most, but you are certainly capable of changing this thought structure.
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>>37067125
I've been here almost a decade.
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>>37067233
Maybe you're right, but I don't see what I have to gain. "Rreprogramming" is just a different way of coping with failure.
I could probably convince myself pissing in empty bottles and masturbating to cartoons all day is healthy, but why would I? Just to be happy with something easier to accomplish?
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>>37066923
>having a hymen fetish
yeah i would give up hope then. so many women just take their hymens themselves because first-time sex is unbelievably painful. they even lose it to tampons
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>>37064914
32 here. Trying to join the military for some adventure and a chance to fuck skin bitches. I swear only fatties chase me.
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>>37067437

Hey man, it's your life. I'm just speaking from experience, since I also used to think that girls that slept with a couple of different guys before marriage were all sluts. It's total bull shit. It's just an unrealistic expectation once you get into your twenties. It ends up being a crutch to lean on in your virginhood - "well she's nice, but I'm not going to ask her out because I'm pretty sure she slept with Todd". I mean, you might as well join a monastery.
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I'm in a pretty bad shape, admittedly.
I go to a nearby bar every night and get drunk. The regulars know me already, and so the barmen. I've wasted so god damn much money in that place already, fucking hell.
And I'm really broken up inside. It takes me a lot of willpower to even function normally and feign a smile around my friends and co-workers.
Nobody knows how much I'm hurting inside, and how I cry myself to sleep every night. Nobody understands me. Girls ignore me. I don't have anyone to talk to. I hate myself so damn much, and I don't know how to start sorting all of this mess out.
I've gotten so good at playing happy, it's not even funny anymore.
When I try opening up to my friends, they start giving me bullshit and superficial advice. If they catch me drinking, they laugh and say I'm doing it to be dramatic or something.
Just fuck everything tenfold, that nuke can't come soon enough.
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>>37067592
I could see how some guys could be doing themselves a disservice by using the purity excuse as a crutch to just never try/have to face rejection. But like I said I've turned down no strings attached opportunities to get laid before and I would do it again. It's not about sex.

I've tried asking girls out, and I'm not scared of taking a chance, but I just lose all interest and motivation once it becomes abundantly clear she's not a virgin.
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>>37068059
why dont you become rich and buy one?
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>>37068492
I'm pretty rich already, but you can't just buy a virgin girl. Even if you could that would make her a prostitute and we're back to square one on the whole purity thing.
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34 here.

things are meh
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>>37067592

This is bullshit. I either have to accept a slut or be alone the rest of my life? I'm not saying I need a virgin, but multiple guys already in her early 20's? No, just no. There has to be another way, I will find one.
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26, have job, wife, newborn.

Yet, for some reason, I feel like shit, like I worth nothing and will achieve nothing big or memorable in life.

I guess I'm either ungrateful or even if you tick out what's on the normie to-do list, you won't magically become happy and mentally stable.
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>>37064914
I WANT TO FUCKING DIE!
>This isn't original.
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>>37069060

>I'm not saying I need a virgin
>but multiple guys already in her early 20's? No, just no

Actually, that's exactly what you're saying. Most girls in their twenties have had at least one or two boyfriends whom they've fucked. Sorry.
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>>37069060
>There has to be another way, I will find one.
Why do you guys insist on this virgin shit all the time.


unless you are in some deeply religious community or its an arranged marriage your chance of finding a virgin are pretty slim.
On top of it the older you are the less likely it becomes.. virgin at 18 - possibly, virgin at 25+ what is going on here..
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>>37066009
how easily do you think you can find another job? id go on the trip but just know yiu might have to work again.
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>>37066310
you should, i have. im neet and dont need to work anytime soon. plenty of savings and with no gf to drain me it will last even longer.
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>>37069131
its pointless trying to argue with them.

a robot hasn't fucked any girls because he can't, so he makes up some virgin standard for his potential gf/wife.

Having sex is a normal part of a relationship and being intimate, but sometimes things don't work out and you only find out a few months or years in.
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>>37069060
Reading the other anons' posts, I have to agree with them. What I would like to add is this: a virgin can't fuck.

Fucking is not only about putting your dick inside a girl. Having good sex is a skill which you can develop. With that said, having a girl who is comfortable with herself and know how to give both you and herself a good time is much more valuable than taking someone's virginity.
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>>37069195

>its pointless trying to argue with them

Yeah, I see that. Not even trying to argue, really - just share some insight.

When you won't consider a non-virgin and get to a point where no girl your age still is one, virginity becomes a self-ensured prophecy.
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>>37064914
22 here.

gone from being a little bit sad.

to pretend depression.

to real actual depression.

then I passed depression entirely.

I'm waiting for my student loan to come in so I can use it to go to Sweden and commit suicide.

If I can't kill myself legally, then I don't know what happens after that.
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>>37069131

One or two is okay, I said multiple
>>37069154

I'm not look at girls over the age of 25 bud, late teens early 20's
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>>37067840
how much do you think you spent? when i was working i probably dropped around 5k at various bars near my job in 4 months.
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>>37069278
in 2017 I'd say virginity into early 40's is a destiny for many men that've been basically bullied, accused and lied too out of society.

It's just a fact now.
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>>37069305

So one or two is okay, but anything more is a raging slutbag? What if she's been with 40 guys and is technically still a virgin (in the vaginal sense) but gave a ton of head?
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>>37069071
you wont, your life is over now that you have a kid. dont you have some diapers to change?
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>>37069071

Is there anything more worthwhile in the world than making new life and raising your own son?
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>>37069359

You're playing with words now. There is a massive difference between 1 or 2 serious relationships that did not pan out, and a girl that goes out often and has casual sex and has a different boyfriend ever 3 weeks.

Also, why is it so hard for these sluts to just not have sex? I've turned down sex multiple times because I didn't find the girls attractive enough.
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>>37069389

Of course there is. Playing video games.
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35 started a new course yesterday. I'm the oldest person in the class. First time thats happened, pretty depressing.
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>>37069278
The irony of it is that if a robot had the chance to fuck multiple attractive girls they would, but because they can't neither can this potential girl.


I know an attractive virgin girl that must be around 23 today, she is religious and is leaning towards SJW ( she mentions rape culture and gets butthurt if you use the word "bitch" - but loves the weekends songs).
She feels that losing your virginity should be something special and all that, my gf and I tried to convince that her first time is likely going to suck, not be special in any kind of way other than embarrassment and discomfort and that she shouldn't hold out because she is missed out on some very fun stuff in the prime of her youth.
>>37069305
>I'm not look at girls over the age of 25 bud, late teens early 20's
I don't know your age, but everyone gets older.
Women typically date within ~1-5 years of their own age, sure there are outliers.
But older you get, no only does the pool of women shrink since they are getting married/whatever but so does the amount of virgins.


>>37069403
>Also, why is it so hard for these sluts to just not have sex?
because sex is great and not everyone wants a relationship.
The kind of girl you describe is a statistical outlier, yes they exist but its not like every 4rd girl fucked 200 different guys.
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>>37069485
>Women typically date within ~1-5 years of their own age

lol this is such bullshit

>because sex is great and not everyone wants a relationship.

you're literally slut-enabling saying shit like this, fucking idiot
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>>37069060
Dudes are hypocritical assholes. You should never demean a girl for having slept with as many people as you have.
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I have blood in my cum. Have an appointment in two weeks with a urologist, where I'm sure I'll have to explain that I'm a wizard and it can't be a STD.

This is after having to tell my dad in order to get an appointment in reasonable time.
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Turning 27

>Live with my parents still, partly because rent is too high and I haven't been able to find work in almost four years
>Also to stop them from killing themselves or each other while my younger sister is going through highschool
>Haven't had a girlfriend in almost five years after the last two cucked me, when I actually had sex it wasn't even that great due to following
>Have the 'tism
>Two chronic pain conditions that can a few times a week make sex painful all while having an abnormally high libido
>above average looking and sort of fit
>sperging out and disassociation tendencies in social situations
>Don't feel safe around most women
>Weed every day to numb stuff
>Taking a single class at school so maybe I'm not a total failure

I guess it could be worse. I wonder if my standards are too high, maybe I should just accept the fact that I should only see hookers on occasion...
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>>37069563

Don't worry, it's probably just cancer.
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>>37069485
Give me your qt friend's number my dude
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>>37069539
>lol this is such bullshit
literally so easy to prove

>you're literally slut-enabling saying shit like this, fucking idiot
nah, I just feel that people should be able to do what they want as consenting adults.
Just because you can't find any girls or fuck or don't want to fuck doesn't mean no one else should.
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>>37069131
Hope you have sex before getting married (thereby "taking" her virginity so now she's a "slut"). Would suck to find out later that you're sexually incompatible or she just doesn't like sex.
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>>37069625

>wikipedia

lol. But seriously if you're not trolling, its people like you that ruined society.
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>>37065404
umadbrooriginalamanu
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>>37069609
Thanks. Yeah I'm probably going to get something stuck up my ass, aren't I?
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>>37069243
That is a really good point. I didn't get any good until nearly 10 years after losing my virginity.
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>>37069686

Yeah, I don't know what causes that. It doesn't sound good though
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>>37064914
I'm struggling...26yo, broke up with gf of 7 years a few months ago. none of my friends can really relate, and it's the loneliest I've ever felt. I got a new job and my own apartment as a result of the breakup, but still it feels so empty and I don't really feel like doing anything, just come back from work and lay on the bed.. I don't know what to do. I'm not talking about ending it, it's just that right now I can't figure out what to do or what I need to improve and feel better.. there's just a big pile of loss and sorrow inside me
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>>37065803
>talking to female coworkers
Bad choice in the first place
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>>37069647
I doubt robots are compatible with anyone, look are argumentative and demeaning they can be.


>>37069665
>summarizing US Census data is trolling now
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>>37069071
Me too, desu. It's like no one wants to admit the normie lifestyle is soul sucking. Feel totally ungrateful but I can't change how I feel about the total lack of control over my own life. Being a decent person, I know I'm now stuck doing this for the next 60 years but it makes me want to sit in a dark closet and cry.
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>>37069647
Having a virgin at least means you get to explore your sexuality together. Dating a roastie means you'll never get to try things she decided she doesn't like.
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>>37069777

roast spotted
>>37069793

Why is that soul sucking? You have a wife and a kid to take care of. Better than running through life blind folded with no goal and nobody on your side.
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>>37069809
have you tried being fisted before ?
if your virgin wife would want to try fisting you, would you let her ?

Chances are if they likes you enough she will entertain your relatively benign fetishes/desires.
But virgin or not, she's not going into the deep end with weird shit.
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>>37069757
I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now, but I hope will get through this somehow.
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>normies talking about sex on a 25+ thread
Would you get the fuck off my board?
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>>37069878
I would actually try it if my wife was a virgin.
As her only life partner I would feel it's my duty, and who knows maybe I'd like it too.
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>>37069757
Piss off normalshit get the fuck out
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>>37069993
Thank you! I'm sure time will make things better
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>>37069757
>broke up with gf of 7 years a few months ago
what why? and how are you not married by now?
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>>37065399
That is how you should feel!

>>37065528
Not true at all
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>>37064914
26 almost 27

Gonna try a radical change in few month.
Going to migrate to an other country and learn to be a chef. If it fails, I guess it would be the end
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>>37070167
What should I have with my mild Italian sausage and pepper tonight? Pasta?
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>>37069757
Fuck off normie go away you idiot
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>>37070105
Life is different over here.. She had to move to be able to keep studying, and we lived so far apart for almost a year. Eventually she stopped calling. We keep in touch but she wasn't interested in me anymore. We are too young to be married, in my country people do that at 35+ if at all
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>>37070196

Yes. That sounds good, desu
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>>37070107
Most definitetly true, she will be less affected by the bonding chemical Oxytocin the more partners she'd had. Like any drug more exposure means less sensitivity in the long run.
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>>37070196
Rice is always better
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>>37070210
You normies just never let it go, do you?
All succubi, all the time.
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>>37070202
If you knew that kind of pain you'd be nicer to people
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>>37070252
most of us would wish to know it

Stay strong though
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>>37070167

Where are you going? I've thought about doing the same. In a month or so I am gonna make a huge step, either moving to a city or out of the US.
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>>37070235
I'm not mad at all, she found a better life. I'm just sad it wasn't with me.
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>>37070252

He probably does know that pain though. Imagine being the age you're at or older and never having felt that kind of intimacy. No one ever putting their hands on you affectionately, looking at you longingly, or saying that they loved you.....it's a wretched existence.
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>>37070296
Israel, my father is a jew, so I can claim Israel nationality.

The State will help me study for a job, although I'm still learning hebrew and it's harder that i would have thought
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>>37070333
>digits
>wretched existence
you're a towel.
I'm fine with charting the course of my own misery.
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>>37070363

a towel? What does this mean?
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>>37064914
yeah it's all right

>31
>NEET for three years
>eternal student since I dropped out of full-time college, always doing part-time courses
>fired from the same job I worked at for about 10 years because of new shithead owners and me spiraling down into depression
>had a couple of health scares, but am healthy again
>got fat but am eating right and exercising everyday
>finally figured out what I want to do with my life.
>gave myself a daily routine and fixed schedule even if it's just NEET shit, so I'll be used to living a routined life when I go back to work and school.

Right now I'm in my "free time" which is in the evening and night - which is the only time I come on 4chan. I can't relate to anyone posting here anymore. Bunch of 20 year old kids who grew up on the internet
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>>37070333
I understand that. I meant that if he had gone through a similar situation he'd be nicer to people going through that
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my friend made me make an okcupid account. a couple girls have responded to my messages but always stop responding when i ask to meet up. i need to just stop using it, it makes me anxious and sort of gives me hope in a guy in prison gets told an escape plan kind of way. i'm much more stressed and aggravated since i started using it, i need to give up so that i don't think about being incel so much.

i really need to find some kind of medication that just kills my sex drive.
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Emotionaless sex is as good as it sounds
Sex while maintaining >tfwnogf
status
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>>37070377
meh-tier south park meme, would have been a minor chuckle if it had connected, minor embarrassment now that it has whiffed.
There are worse things than being alone.
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>>37070497

Ah, i see. I'm usually better with references. And I agree though, there are definitely worse things than being alone
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26 KHV.

Have my masters viva tomorrow, in a hotel now chilling. Accidentally booked an executive room so it's pretty big and has some complimentary drinks in there as well.

I should be doing some last minute reading but instead I'm listening to Grime and re-reading Dragonball.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s9AnHSVq5CU
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I'm gonna be 24 in november and my parents are going all in on busting my balls for not finishing my degree yet and having no work history(Also I'm currently a NEET).

Do they eventually give up? I'm asking this because I don't want to egg them up to the point where they kick me out since I'll die on the streets because friendless loser.
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>>37070761
>I'm gonna be 24 in november

This thread is for 25+
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I just want to blow my brains out.
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>>37066310
only if you get a bass guitar and jam with me bro
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I've got used to the loneliness and desperation. I've got used to being dumb and having no education. I've got used to having shit jobs, currently working two weeks helping around in the construction of a store. I just can't handle the hot weather.
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>>37064914
>just became NEET and had to move back in with my parents
>Parents are talking about how I'll definitely be out before the summer's over
>absolutely no job prospects
I've been better
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22, lonely as shit

my summer job starts in 3 weeks, just working out and weed/vidya/guitar and music. It's not terrible but it's lacking that something.

A girl I 've been romantic with gets back at the end of the month but idk if she'll feel the same.

A high school senior who's talked to me twice irl messaged me on fb unprompted at 10pm last night while she was hanging with friends. I feel like a pedo but I'm so fucking lonely
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>>37070229
Hmmm, then maybe more partners is the answer...
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>26 yo,
>finishing college, 2 more months and i get my diploma
>no work experience
>no money
>unsure if i can still make it

i have a rare mix of hope for the future and dissapointment because it took me too long to get this far
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>>37070210
wow that sucks. did she find someone else or something? my friend did that with her husband but they flew to see eachother every 3 weeks
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>>37070448
>Emotionaless sex is as good as it sounds
it's okay, maybe i'm a faggot but i'd say it's 1/10th as sex with someone you love. it's still good though
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28.

Recently got my first commuter bike, 10 years after I was supposed to. I don't think I will ever afford a car at this point.

It's a start though I guess? Now I can go to my job centre appointments on that and get it nicked instead of the bus.
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>>37071414
It's just over jacking off though
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>>37065344
chk'd and just fuck ur mom dud.
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>26

I want to move out, get on with the next stage of my life, but my current financial status doesnt allow it. I make about 1500 dollars a month with my part time job and the cheapest room one can find in a student collective starts around 850 dollars a month, electricity and internet not included and with my monthly bills of about 300, leaves me with very little to live of unless I want to live off nuddles all year and die from malnutrition.

I could move to somewhere rural and live cheap in someones basement apartment, but that kind of defeats the purpose as I want to meet people, not add another 20 minutes to my all ready 30 min commute to the closest major city.

I dont know how I can get a job that pays more than the one I have now with the little job qualification I have.

And my boss dont particulary like me and cant/wont give me anymore shifts.
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>>37066252
I am turning 22 next month and I can legally bang 16 yo girls here.. would a person do something like that?
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>>37071381
She didn't find another guy, she was too engulfed in her work+study and hanging with new friends on her little time off. So there was no place for me in her new life, and I was not ok with that. Funny thing is, she's moving back this summer to her parent's. Life is weird like that sometimes
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>28
>Living in basement, on welfare

>Mom wants me to get a job or a gf
>Mom asks if i want to go on a walk with her

Shut up mom! Your incessant nagging me is stressing me out out of the little joy i have.
I don't even enjoy hanging out with you anymore, because you have this incredible power over my living situation, and you ceaselessly terrorize me.
What's more, i can't talk to you about ANYTHING of my life. My mental disorders? You don't think mental disorders exist. My suffering? You just think i need to go out more, find a gf, join a Church. I feel like i'm talking to a fucking toddler. You will never understand anything about my life and it's a waste to talk to you.
You lamented me for years for being different from other kids. You wanted a trophy kid, a normal kid.
I can't keep any close relations, i don't want girlfriends, i don't even want friends, i just want to be left the fuck alone.
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Turning 26 on sunday.

No gf no sex.
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>>37064914
>24
Called a mental health resource in my community today . First time I have attempted to seek help in my life. They set me up with an appointment 8 fucking weeks from now where I will hopefully whine to some asshole pshychiachologist. Just give my fucking antidepressants, I don't want to talk to you and jump through your hoops. I don't want to whine to you about my problems.

How do you get them without going through the bullshit system?
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>>37071826
Does that person still want prime teen pussy?
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>>37064914
Let me tell you my fucked up story
>Be Tunisian
>25 next November
>Finished a Masters Degree in Spain
>Never have been in trouble with the law
>Legal Spanish weed everyday
>Go to New York for carreer
>Lifelong dream coming true
>Get busted by racist cops in New Jersey for half a gram of weed
>Visa cancelled
>Cousin kicks me out
>Lies about wanting to see me and caring about me
>I am an only child and thought of him as the little brother I never had
>End up being homeless in Manhattan
>I do not call my parents because I do not want to worry them and do not want them to know.
>Living in a shelter
>Looking for oddjobs to eat
>Some people offer to help
>Those guys are gay but hey... I am not one to judge
>They want me to have sex with them
>I tell them to fuck off
>They rile the other homeless against me
>Become a marked man
>Trying to sleep in shelter bed
>Hear snickering
>Two guys looking at me from the left side
>Turn to the right
>A guy is masturbating in his bed to my right
>He is mainting eye contact
>Not blinking
>Looks like that rapper from Death Grips
>"wtf man... stop"
>"just let it happen"
>No sleep
>Nowhere is safe
>Become paranoid
Go home to Tunisia
>10 year visa voided
>Lost 30 KILOGRAMS
>Mother recoils when she sees me at the airport
>Everyone knows I carry pain around
>Crippling social anxiety
>Last ex was a total goldigger
>Almost got cucked
>Girl I had a crush on thought I was gay
>No confidence
>No money
>No love
>No hash
>No friends
But I must press on... I must keep fighting. God is with me. I will fucking make it.
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>>37064914
Just put my dog of 16 years down 5 days after I turned 25.

I'm not gonna make it
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>>37073557
Wish I had a dog... But he would probably hate me anyways.
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I'm losing whatever willpower and hope I have left
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>>37073593
They definitely provide you with a tangible reason to live
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>>37071823
Come to the thrild world. There is always Western neighbourhoods in which people are pretty chill amd make decent money.
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>25, male
>recovering alcoholic
>instead of alcohol, use excessive amounts of caffeine and sugar
>huge disappointment to my family
Once I hit 23, life just seemed like it was a fucking chore. i really feel redpilled
>>
It is worse when they give up.
>>
This board has been overrun by normalshits
>>
Life fuckig nosedives once you graduate uni
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>>37066546
If you're not trying for 17-year-olds then you're missing out
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>>37066009

City.

Save up a bit more too?
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real talk though: 12 gauge, 00 buck in the mouth up at 45 degrees. if i miss the brain stem will i still probably die instantly? what if i did it in my backyard and i live in a subdivision and had neighbors wpuld they be able to keep me alive at all? i hate that they try to save people that kill themselves

what the best way to do it with a gun? are the odds even relevant that id live if i aimed it like that? should i go out in some woods but leave my phone at home som it will take time to find me?

hypothetical of course but answers will be loved
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>>37066475
well shit anon, i'm sorry for. 28 myself and life is also shit, but alteast my parents aren't sick. hang on mate, maybe it will get better.
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>28
>retail cuck
>denied all of the schools i applied to
>ghosted by all the girls ive been texting
>apparently i was supposed to get a promotion but i admitted i was not interested in being with the company within the next 5 years
>still fat

I literally just want to lose my virginity and kill myself.
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>>37064914
>27
>diagnosed with schizophrenia last year
>lost job as a result
>gained tons of weight from the antipsychotics
>had to scrap car because i cant keep up with repairs

Yeah, my life is going great.
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>>37069281
shut the fuck up you faggot. you haven't even begun to fuck up your life yet ffs.

jesus christ kid kek. come back when you're 25
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>>37069757
you'll be fine faggot. give it time. at least you have your own place and a steady job
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>27
I've been enjoying myself lately and getting exercise. Feels good

https://youtu.be/L6yWnPuHsns
Finished watching every single Pride FC event recently
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Too many happy and successful people with social lives itt tbqh.
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>>37073557
I'm sorry to hear that senpai

we had ours for "only" about 12 years, but he was my best and only friend, he was also the only reason why I was still living at home. We put him down 9 months ago.

At least I can move on with my life now, I still have his picture as my phone desktop and I won't ever change it,
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>28
>Never had a job
>Can't drive
>On the bux
>No friends
>Spend at least 14 hours a day in bed
>If I don't take my brain cuck drugs I cry uncontrollably and make myself sick with panic attacks

I wanna kill myself. Fuck normies.
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>>37074583
Damn dude, really weird to hear you say that because, in some sick way, I also feel the same way. I moved out last August after being at home for 3 years post uni and now I feel like I can move on. I always wanted to go home to see and take care of him but now I feel like I can go elsewhere. Im sure he'd be happy knowing that. His life quality had been declining hard for a while with his diabetes so it was a tough call that had to be made.

What kinda dog did you have amigo?
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>>37071185
what are you studying? my only advice is to not give up getting something with your degree.
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>>37071842
reconnect with her man. 7 years is so long and it's not gonna get better. tell her you were going through some stuff with the separation or some mushy shit
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>>37071185
Hey man 26 is better than 30. Hang it there
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>>37074719
No, fuck you, you fucking manbaby.
>>
>still in the same place financially, romantically and emotionally I was in 2007

/stuck/
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>>37064914
>making 3k a month take home pay
>moving out of my mom's place in a week, only paying $300 in rent
>running out of things to buy, already own two Switches and two copies of BotW

might actually have to start saving or something
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>>37074841
Finally, someone I can relate to.

fgdffh
>>
I'm not even gona bother posting my story here. All I'm going to say is I'm 30 and a 15 year shut-in, and I just started seeing mental health professionals a few weeks ago and will be seeing a specialist next week to do some intelligence/personality tests. I've looked at the autism bux requirements for impairments and I tick all the boxes very easily.
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>>37074724
Golden Retriever.

He was old as shit and slow and stiff and his walks were just around the block mostly and then one day my mom was walking him in the morning & when they got home he fell and collapsed onto the floor. That wasn't the first time that had happened but he just couldn't get back up anymore. We took him to the vet later that day and that was that.

In a sense too he was also part of the reason why I was a NEET these last few years, I wanted to spend as much time with him as possible. He was the best dog and I was happy to be with him until the end.


We got a new dog now, he's 1 year old and he fucking sucks and he just constantly eats garbage off the side of the road and then shits back out all over the house and tries to jump up on people or towards dogs and then slams himself onto the concrete like a retard before trying to run off and yanking my arm out of my socket some more.

Once you go Golden Retriever you never go back.
>>
26 this year, dead inside and filled with self-loathing.

Married and have a month old kid and I feel nothing for either of them - it's like I just pretend to be a normal human.

I work a fucking horrible job in a nursing home which makes me want to die. I really, really hate the trash who I'm supposed to care for.

I just joined the army and go off for training in August so at least I can leave that place and this house for good.
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>>37075035
>26
>married with a child
what the fuck dude
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>>37071823
>I want to go to college but wah wah I refuse to live in anything besides a small mansion because that's the determining factor in how many girls I'll meet
College is about getting a degree not getting laid. It's not supposed to be fun it's supposed to be hard work
>buh buh Chads live a carefree life and get to slam stacies all day! He lives on campus and doesn't have to work...
Yeah turns out if you have richie parents and can afford a gym membership and fancy clothes, you'll be higher up on the totem pole than the rest
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>>37075048
Yeah I fucked up but I can't undo it now
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>>37074864
>two Switches and two copies of BotW
that's pretty gay. you spent money on technology that's been outdated for 7 years
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>>37075048
live anywhere other than a city. people get married and houses by age 21 here. being 26 and not married is considered weird
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>>37064914
Married, graduated, happy
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Approaching 27 still in community college.

It sure is great to be making virtually no money at my age surrounded by kids fresh you of high school that I have nothing in common with
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>>37075332
i mean, did you have anything in common with them back when you were 17-18
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>just graduated college
>72k job lined up
>just bought a nice car
>finally have money
>skinny not chad
>have long term gf, that has depression and constantly cycles into low moods and tries to bring me down
>eventually have enough and cheat on her with a girl that legitimately makes me happy
>stuck with toxic gf, still care about and have feelings
>girl that was a very close friend of me gets bored of waiting for me moves on to chad
>constantly regret not going 100% for my friend
>She ignores me for the longest times and right when I think I'm over her and delete her from my phone she texts me, then ghosts me and does it again
>gf and i still talk but have only seen her 3 times in past 2 months, fearful that I'm now obsessed with my friend
>parents hate gf
>I can't initiate conversation with friend only she can and she ghosts me
>have literally no idea what I'm doing

I thought money would make me happy, now everything seems stupid. Like when you unlock unlimited money in a game and buy everything and now you realize you are completely alone.
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>>37075294
I don't live in a city. Maybe it's because I am not American but it is considered weird to be married before you're 28, especially if you're a man.
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>>37075490
Also have paranoid delusions parents are messaging my gf that I'm going to break up with her or that my gf and my friend are messaging each other making plans to mess with me. But then I think to myself I'm not that important and yandere gf just is messing with me and friend is holed up in her apt binging Vidya because chad fucked and dumped her and when she wants occasional attention she message me but then gets sad cause I'm not her chad. Fuck everyone
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>>37064914
>feel like shit all day
>like I could passout any minute
>think it's the 6 meds I take for schizo and other shit
>stop taking them 5 months ago
>still feel like shit
>only feel fine when I start drinking
Why do I feel this way? Is it because of the carbs in the alcohol? I'll admit, I don't eat a lot through out the day when I don't drink. When I do drink I only eat a few hours before bed to avoid hangovers the next day. The only thing that makes sense, besides being drunk, is that all the carbs/calories in alcohol is what's making me feel fine. It's like as soon as I start drinking I no longer feel like I'm going to pass out. Could I be diabetic now? I have a history of alcoholism but never had withdrawals, worst Ive had is a hangover lasting an entire day. 29 btw
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>29
>Taught English overseas for a couple of years.
>Currently working Part-time/Seasonal at Rec. Center.
>Could be better. Could be worse. Co-workers and customers there are pretty chill.
>Go to MEPS on Monday. Looking into getting into the Army as an enlisted 35M. If everything's all good, shipping out to basic training late August.
>Just focusing on getting as /fit/ as possible until then.
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>>37067130
you are my hero anon. keep up the proud neet work, we could all learn alot from your example. smack the next bitch good for me!
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>>37067130
stop LARPing you stupid faggot
>Lost 12k thanks to my ex wife suing me because i refused to pay child support for over 10 years..police fucking raided my apartment at my parents house and they found my money...
Pinpointed where you story fell apart. Try again, faggot.
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>>37075762
Care to elaborate perchance?
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>>37064933
27 in august. should i just get it over with?
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>be 30
>wake up to phone
>finally getting rejection call from interview three weeks ago for a job I was supposed to be a shoe-in for
>can't get back to sleep
>disruption in routine makes me forget flonase
>give plateletes
>watch ds9, Quark episodes always good
>pain in chest after, maybe dying?
>remember didn't take flonase, allergies just feel like death
>too late to take it now though
>get approved for the sure-thing summer job at least, more quickly than planned
>have Carl's Jr. for dinner
>now here
OK day desu.
>>37074841
>tfw in a worse place financially, romantically, and emotionally than in 2007
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>>37075808
>lost 12k
even with 1 kid, that's nothing, even for 1 year
>refused to pay child support over 10 years
and all they took is 12k?
You would have been locked up years ago if you were avoid child support payments for years, let alone 10 years or more.
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>>37064914
>will being paying off student loans until 2027
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>>37065399
Wait until it ends my friend. the wild ride has just begun
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>>37066003
You're incredibly naive if you think that looking young is the best way to get younger girls.
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Older people discord (anyones welcome join though) DjZNvTQ
its pretty quiet here
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Its going to be a hot day today which will ultimately suck
I've to go to work in twenty minutes
Didn't learn yesterday because I was tired

I live to work and work to live
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>>37075490
>>37075572
This place isnt for you. Get out
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>>37075332
that might be me next year
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>>37077103
yeet nice and slow

like me
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>>37076294
i'm going to chase it with fatties out of desperation?
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>>37077103
how this work??

explain me Discord

looks like total excrement, cant understand it
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>>37078240
>explain me your electro-whats-its that you kids use
soundin' a lil long in the tooth there, my elder
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Pills i was on damged liver and couldnt work for 3 years now with that gap no where wants to hire gov fucked most of the jobs i could get with the gap looks hopeless
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Any shut in oldbots with literally 0 friends? How do you deal with the crippling loneliness? How do I work up the courage to kill myself?
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>>37078740
Haven't had a real friend in 5 years.

>How do you deal with the crippling loneliness?
Online friends
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>>37078776
I haven't had a real friend in over a decade. I've had a few online friends and it didn't work out very well on account of me having no personality. I'm too stupid to function even on the internet.
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>28
>no degree, part time job
>barely scraping by day to day
>tfw it will only get worse as my wage stagnates against inflation
I really don't know what I'm doing with my life and the closer I get to 30 the more I feel like it's already too late.
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>>37065588
What a fucking quitter
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WTF is wrong with you ppl? I guess I was a NEET for a long time too, and just had to figure out what to do, and hated having to make such a big decision. I guess the most important thing to know is all paths have their ups and downs, its what you make of it.
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>>37078927
Do you have any interests? You must do something all day, even watching shitty movies you can talk to people about that
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>>37079170
>You must do something all day, even watching shitty movies you can talk to people about that

That's literally all I do. I used to love video games, but now I can only play them when I'm feeling really good, otherwise they're just a burden. So I sit here and watch TV, movies, youtube, and a bit of anime.
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>>37078940
>wage stagnates against inflation

thats happening to literally everybody besides a select lucky few who work in the right industries who actually give a shit about their workers...which is not very many lmao
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>>37079314
join some discords that relate to those. you might have to wait a while to find one that's not full of drooling retards, but you'll eventually make some friends
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>>37079352
It's more that I'm at the ceiling where I am and there's no real possibility of promotion or a wage increase. At least with a "real" job you can either get either of those or jump ship to a new company to get the raise necessary
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>>37079404
What do you do? Yeah man start looking for another job asap
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>>37065329
Wash your mouth out with buckshot Joey.
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Turning 26 soon, pretty close to suicide. Getting my gun permit soon and after that I'm off to the gun store. Gonna take a long drive to the middle of nowhere and blow my brains out in my car.
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>>37064914
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xKqVhcp51qM

>Going through random baughts of depression thanks to a fucked up childhood
>Dropped out of college on my fourth year after half of my credits wouldn't transfer
>Have a average paying job with benefits that I hate
>randomly decide to join the Navy during one of my baughts
>Lied about most of my medical history and am getting in, I ship out in October and I am not ready for it
>Everyone thinks that I am a happy go lucky guy that gets everything, all a farce it is
I'm just sitting here drinking (this is my drink of choice) and playing games and have no idea what I'm doing with my life besides dying on the inside
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>>37079487
suicide by gun has such a high chance to go wrong, why do it like that?
>>37065329
damn is this real
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>>37079511
No it doesn't you fool. It's the best possible method to guarantee death.
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>>37079529
I've seen it go wrong before, it's not guaranteed to be painless though......
My dad's friend was shot in the back of his head, he is missing about a quarter of his brain and is still alive, but barely.
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>>37079487
Where do you live that you need a permit for a gun? What kind of gun do you plan on buying?
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>>37079557
I'll take the extremely high chance that I'll die over the miniscule chance that I won't.

>>37079571
Doesn't matter.
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>>37079487

Why not using said gun to rob some rich fuck instead? Giving back to the community what the community has given you?

Thats the thing. There are not enough criminals.
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Just turned 25. Still dealing with my depression. Damn fucking drugs that don't work or work but give you horrible side effects you can't live with. So sick of not giving a shit about things. Oh or drugs that you feel like your almost there to be normal but no your not and so you make stupid decisions. Hate myself for being so fucked up. Hate society/people/my parents for having kids even though there is a history of mental illness in the family and then they get pissy at you for not being normal. Fuck them. They will never understand.
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>>37065038
been there, bud

just keep putting yourself out there, you'll find a balance
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My copy/paste from the last one:

>Each year seems to go quicker than the last
>Months start to become blurs
>With each passing day the likelihood of ever finding female companionship dwindles
>Parents are visibly aging
>All your childhood hangouts have been demolished or are out of business
>Work has consumed your life and you find little joy in the things that used to keep you entertained for hours on end
>Less and less contact from your old friends, most of them have moved on and are married or have long term GFs
>What spare time I do have is spent watching TV/listening to music from mid-2000s when I was last semi-normal and somewhat happy, and in vain I try to convince myself it's still 2005 and I have my whole life ahead of me
>Weekends consist of looking up at ceiling and wondering where it all went wrong
>Injuries take a lot longer to heal
>Hairline is rapidly receding and what hair I do have is turning gray at an alarming rate
>Don't even have the motivation to smoke a cigarette despite being a smoker for 10 years

Why did we all think that our lives would be awesome as adults? I know I certainly did. I thought that being "free" and not having to go to school everyday & having curfews and shit would be the best. Why aren't we adequately made aware of how terrible adulthood is? I'm only 27, I didn't think these feelings would really sink in until I was at least 43 or so.
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>>37065255
give it a few months...
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25, unemployed for the last 8 months already, Just kill me.

Surprisingly healthy, tall, fit, clean with an interest in fashion and talkative. Was successful with girls, but I understood women are a meme. Every morning I Wake up I cry and Want to die.

Live with my dad whose health is declining fast because of alcohol abuse, heavy smoking, mild depression and the irrationnal fear of doctors.

All I Want is a patriotic government to feel united within my country though strong family values and traditional gender roles, but those times are over I guess.

Women flirting are like teenage Boys. Obvious as fuck and legit don't understand I don't Want to waste my time with roasties. Before you ask, yes I've fucked ~20 girls, the only worth ones were some of my exes.
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>>37079915
Oh boohoo, you got it so bad. How do you live?
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>>37079646
pls don't do it, be my robo bf instead, I'll do anything for you
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>>37069757

Are your initials R. A.?
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>>37064914
Turn 26 in a few months
>Was going to community college full time and my dad was paying for it.
>Dad loses job and I can't get gubment scholarships because he made too much the years before so I slow down to one class per semester.
>Have to move in with grandfather
>Grandfather is crazy schizo that tries to throw away all of our stuff and breaks into our rooms at night to stare at us.
>dad gets wagecuck job at a department store but nobody will hire me because no experience
>finally am able to move out and move in with my grandmother who lives at my uncles house and is less crazy with the long term goal for my dad being to send me up state to live with my sister and finish school and get a job.
>Move in with my sister and her husband and finally get a job working seasonal.
>They think I'm not trying hard enough and demand I find a full time job that pays 15 dollars an hour right away so I can move out. Kick me out after working for 4 months because the think I didn't try hard enough.
>Grandma buys me and my dad a house instead
>My dad has to work two jobs now while I've only gotten one interview in the year we've lived here and I didn't get the job
>Found out a lot of the professors that taught at my old community college lost their accreditation so when I finally get a job to pay for classes I'm going to have to retake everything.

All I want to do is help my dad so he can finally retire and live easy while I pay all the bills. But not even fast food places will hire me. I don't need a gf, I just want a job. Maybe if I keep drawing animu girls in my free neet time, I'll be able to trick some weebs into thinking I'm good and get payed to do it.
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>>37080056
goddamn how do fastfood places not want you? do your hands of a lobster?
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47 C.A.F.
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>>37079647

>being rich is a crime

This is a 25+ thread. Socialism is the ideology of adolescents
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>>37079972

This is not a competition of who is the biggest failure at life. You've got the whole r9k board for that. I do feel miserable because even if I try to better myself every day, I can't get the thoughts of killing myself out of my head. It's poisoning my existence
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>>37080237
Best post

orgen
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>>37079807
>>Each year seems to go quicker than the last
>>Months start to become blurs
>>With each passing day the likelihood of ever finding female companionship dwindles
>>Parents are visibly aging
worst feels
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54k a year job out of college, no debt, with a qt Russian gf. Shot my new rifle I bought over the weekend. I feel sad for all you old fucks that didn't have good parents to teach you how to not be a worthless degenerate. There is always hope though. Trust in God and he will deliver you from evil.
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>>37080056
>I don't need a gf, I just want a job.

This. Job-havers don't realize how good they have it.

I'd be totally fine never having a gf in my life if I could get a decent job.
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>>37080398

The Truth has been spoken

Orangoutano
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>>37080396
I started trusting in God last year. Now I'm just waiting patiently so we'll see how that goes
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>>37065399
a little advice homie, dont make her an essential part of your identity or youre asking for trouble
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>>37080420
>>37080398
You still wont be happy.
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25, male
This past year of my life, I feel like I've aged like ten years. It's been really stressful, brobots. i thought I didn't care about getting a gf anymore, but then I looked at a picture of myself from like 2 years ago, and i was fucking fit and handsome, and now i look at a picture of myself, and i look like an old decrepit pasty white creature with wrinkles and manboobs.

fuck, i haven't been this depressed in a while, and it's all because i looked at a picture of myself. otherwise i would've been perfectly fine
;__;
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>>37064914
tfw I'm 25+ for about 4 hrs already. Time to recap

> nojob.jpg ever
> 100 % pure KV
> dependent on parents
> social anxiety
> not brave enough to anhero anymore

Hello club 25+ members. :-)
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>>37080482
i know that feel. i'm trying to get my old body back and i have stretch marks and all kinds of nasty shit from letting myself go.
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>>37064914

My old age is catching up to me, I am glad I did gay sex when I was younger and hotter. I hope none of you bros missed out on that. It is pretty kinky. It feels great to know that you've shot your load into a twinks butt. Real men need to know how to do that sort of thing.
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>>37080508
>tfw stretch marks literally go up my belly to my ribs
>they're also all over my thighs, knees, biceps, shoulders, fucking everywhere

They have faded with time, and my caveman tier body hair really cover them up, but they're here forever. Maybe I can get some numale tier tattoos to cover them up.
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>>37080576
oh you can get them zapped off but it's pricey. better than some tattoo though
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How do you guys keep going and not give into suicide?
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>>37080744
by making oneself into a project and cutting and scrapping away each day in order to have something to do
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>>37080298
You are one pathetic little faggot. I can at least take solace in that because you're such a pathetic, weak willed queer that if you didn't win the genetic lottery you would have offed yourself ages ago.
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How do I get over an ex? Especially when I was best friends with this person for about a decade before we ever hooked up?
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>>37072483
You sound horrible. Time for you to be a man and reassure you mum that you'll be ok. It's time for you to start taking care of your aging mother if you're not moving out anytime soon.
Also get out and meet people either online or IRL
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>>37081124
repair relations? idk how you people even handle losing someone you've been close to for so long
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>>37065342
Congrats man, i dont know how you do it. 25 v here but i cant fucking stand it. I have a depressive fit every other month and it kills me emotionally and also physically (no appetite, always tired, etc)
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>>37081394
>repair relations?
I wish that was an option, I really do. I'm lost without this person, I'm mostly a shut in and they were literally my only friend.

I'm too stupid and afraid to make new friends, I can't do anything for myself. I just get drunk and take drugs every day hoping that I will die.
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>>37081423
what happened? did she cheat or something?
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>>37081498
Nah, I'm just an unlovable useless piece of shit NEET with a bunch of brain problems. I fucked everything up by being too clingy.
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>>37081579
okay. i don't know how long ago this was but just breath and think of the most sincere apology you can give her. it's literally not going to get better without her
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>>37065803
Imao this >>37065946
what was he thinking, the absolute madman?
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>>37081690
Now I know you're fucking with me. Stop this, anon. My only options are to move on or murder suicide.
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>>37066712
>or because she's fat and i'm objectively attractive
damn i was enjoying your story until this
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>>37066009
if i was you i'd move but i don't really like vacations that much.
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>>37082104
nothing ruins it more than a fatty
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>only 20
Fuck you I'll post where I want.
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>tfw no american friend to move in with so I can escape life in the 3rd world
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fast approaching 27
still an undergrad due to basically dropping out every other semester.
gonna find out if the 27 club is as real as they say it is.
I've looked forward to this year for a very very long time as some sort of year when I get shit together and things go well for me. We'll see how that goes. As is I teeter from hopeful optimism to suicidal pessimism daily.
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>>37066445
???

Most adults aren't hanging around with high school kids, you weirdo.
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30.
Money is just a nightmare. I was full of ideas ten years ago, now I just think about what yet another shitty job I should take again to not die under a bridge.
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>>37074864
>renting
>not saving

You are dumb. Save and buy some land you fucking serf.
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25 and trying to move out of my parents house now. Either I get a roommate since the rent here is so high or move to another state. Also trying to find a decent paying job. Looking back I should have just done a trade instead of falling for the college meme. Guy I went to HS with is a plumber and is living pretty fucking good meanwhile I'm struggling to move out and find a job.
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>20+ degree c
>am too exhausted to get out of bed
>am too exhausted to buy food and water
>am too exhausted to clean my flat

im going to die because of the heat
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>>37075035

27 here, I never understood people when they said their children were their world and their everything to them.

If I ended up having children I would probably just see them as a Mini-Me plopped into this world
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Don't fancy going into work again. It's only part time but I reckon the normies know I'm not one of them. It feels like I can't do anything right.
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31 soon, on autism bux, living with my mother, who is nothing but trouble, but I let the state pay partially the rent, so I can totally ignore her.
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25, turning 26 in July. Just graduated college finally, still a virgin, no gf, no friends, no social status, a disgrace as a man. All I have is my immediate family and my career.

Been trying to adopt Nihilism since last year.

I still feel resentment about my past, because I think letting go of what makes you a human is dehumanizing and torturous.

I still think about that one girl I had feelings for who I cannot duplicate that attraction for any other woman and how life could have been if I weren't such a social retard growing up because of my parents divorce, how frequent I moved, and how I was bullied into believing I was unlikeable. Being liked is alien to me.

I still think about the "friends" who I thought cared about me and were going to allow me to have the experience of being a part of a collective end up using and turning on me like a sack of shit. The only friends I have left live too far, work shit hours because the only ones that wanted me around are unambitious, or have more interesting people to choose to be with.

This is why I am trying to adopt this nihilistic perception of life just to save myself, but forcing such a philosophy is beginning to sound more and more futile and wrong everyday. Is it my humanity or my reality?

Filling the void with competitive gaming, practicing cyber security/pen testing, and learning new things that would benefit me in the tech/cyber sec industry. I think this is my way of running away from my lack of experience in other things that I should experience as a human.

I feel like such a loser. And when I bring this up to anyone, I get called a pussy, a manlet, or a fool.

Suicide is not even a option. I'm trapped in a prison and the only way out is to break the cage. I wish this really was a matrix.

SAVE ME!
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33 years old, live with my dad, gf, temping at a HS as a teacher.

Job's cool. Except when the little shits don't do their homework.

Asked them to read 5 pages for today. 0 people had prepared. Fucking shits.
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>>37065637

I haven't finished my BA yet either. Are you employed? I've found that at this age nobody will tolerate you romantically if you still live at home and are unemployed (regardless of if you still go to uni or not). So I'm just moving over to 2D for now.
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29 job search is a nightmarish hellscape, can't get an offer and if I do it's for like 40k a year in a big shitfucked city.

BA from duke
MA from Columbia

Live at home work at dads office
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25 in june here. I think it's too late for me.
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>>37084029
I have been employed but I only hold a job for 9mos-1.5y max before I quit because I want to focus on decent grades
My last job was a dishwasher so that didn't help me find any romantic interests, but then again I also had no relationships when I was at the theater or working retail or at the pizza place so maybe I am just hideous
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>>37065361

Enjoy! To me being alone at home for a week is like a vacation, even if I'm working. Being alone is liberating; only hardcore introverts can understand.
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>>37084114

Kek, I can only hold one for 6 months because I start losing sleep over the anxiety of having to go in the next day. Retail is hell.
(digression, how many hours of classes/work is ideal do you think? I'm taking 15 credits in the fall and was thinking 20hr/week might be ok)

I doubt you're that ugly. More likely you're just so withdrawn that nobody can get to know you. I'm guessing since you're here your social skills are a bit underdeveloped, right?
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>>37064914
Pretty fine. I mean, lonely as fuck, but supposedly successful. 29
>Should clear 100k next year, last 2 were 90k
>195k mortgage on house that should clear 250k easily, 25k car
>250k between taxable/401k/roth. Wonder if I can save 40-45k annually.
>should have no trouble hitting financial independence by 35 if I really wanted, by 45 without putting in anymore effort
>have GI bill to fall back on

What's wrong?
>cripplingly alone
>last kissed a (prostitute) 2 years ago, last reciprocal unpaid kiss 5 years ago
>degenerate(femdom, fetishes, pothead, moderate non liver killing alcohol use alone)
>working nights and 12 hours shifts at that, constantly fucked up trying to deal with daywalkers or accomplish anything besides being worker bee
>retarded as fuck coworkers, lazy, shitstains of humanity. Also hit my ceiling for current employment so unfulfilled.
>have mom with helicopter parent tendencies, but personally wish electronic communication didn't exist and also that I had enough to go "Walden"
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>>37084185
>I'm taking 15 credits in the fall and was thinking 20hr/week might be ok)
that's definitely manageable. but it depends on if you are doing a quarter or semester system I guess. I have only ever known semester system.

at the beginning of this spring I was working like 25-27hrs+ washing dishes and I also have 4 classes I think it's only 12 or 13 units. I just quit because I wasn't happy being the bitch of the whole restaurant and nobody else would stick around for dayshift and they were calling me in for extra hours and all that.

>I'm guessing since you're here your social skills are a bit underdeveloped, right?
Because my fucked up personality I would try to argue against that but I am a little hungover and can't find too much care at the moment. You are most likely right. The problem is meeting new people and connecting with them or reaching out like you say I am quite withdrawn and guarded. I can chat with strangers like it's nothing but nobody finds me interesting I guess. It has been a long looong time since someone has expressed noticeable interest in me so likewise I have slowly lost interest for all of society. And I am a sociology major btw
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What reason do I give them when they ask me what's preventing me from finding a job?

Also why can't I start a new thread? Always gives me "Error: Upload failed." =(
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32 yo, living with mother. Have a decent job and will move in with a female coworker of mine soon. I never had sex and we are not in a romantic relationship.

I done goofed for at least 3 years from now on, but the situation is extremely complicated. So I'll live with 2 girls soon and will have to hide my raging boners.

We basically are a couple without sex due to circumstances, and it's making me crazy, but here I am. What the fuck have I done.

Is 4chan acting up right now?
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>>37084193
That's some good coin my friend

What do you do?
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i'm 24yo
am I allowed?
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>>37084327
no
t. 24 1/2yo
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>be 28
>virgin
>live with mom still
>Never had real job

lifes rough lads I found a femanon to orbit tho
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>>37065990
So what are you going to do when they find out you don't have a job and money for them?
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I'm turning 26 this month

I make barely above minimum wage and have no friends. I'm not a virgin but I never had a gf

I always thought it would be better by now. I was just telling myself it was no big deal. I'll check r9k to feel better about myself. Then I see this thread
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>>37084321
Semiconductor manufacturing technician (at Intel), the industry is booming and it's going especially great in the US. The nightshift differential is worth 17%.
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>be 31
>Clear 6 figures easily
>Job is easy and is 30 hours of actual work a week if that
>Savings growing everyday
>Years of desk job has taken its toll and become a fatty
>Want to lose weight, but women didn't pay attention to me when I was thin anyway
>Filling void with degenerate stock market gambling, but it's losing its luster

Pretty much can't talk to anyone family/work related without them asking about a girlfriend or wife at this point. My friends atleast know I'm a lost cause and don't mention it anymore.
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28
Quit good job because of anxiety
Go back to therapy tomorrow

Things could be better
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>>37084396
>My friends atleast know I'm a lost cause and don't mention it anymore.

Sad but hilarious. Start lifting bud. In a few years you get to be fucking 20 year olds with daddy issues also you got money
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>>37064914
>28
>late bloomer on everything
>took 8 years to graduate college
>on/off NEET
>meme degree
>graduated at 26
>got the perfect job through an intership
>2 years where things were finally coming up
>They didn't renovate my contract
>loseperefctjob.tif
>have to move in with parents again
>got job on shitty Call Center
>hated it
>lasted 2 months
>been a NEET for 2 months now.

Stop the world, I want to get off.
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>>37084396
Don't degenerately gamble in the stock market. Buy it to own, and take the long bet.

>tfw finally bought some BRK.B
>don't gamble whatsoever with >50% of wealth, 401k is all index funds, low expense ratios. Working on decreasing active portfolio ownership. Can still get plenty of rush out of not being stupid with 100k.
>I'm >>37084193
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>>37084492

How do you even become forced to pick up a call center job if you have 2 years of work experience at a respectable job?
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>>37084248

27 while doing 4 classes is rough, especially when there are understaffed shifts.
I've known people who were working nearly full time while taking 4-5 classes; they were utterly miserable and looked like death, so that should be avoided at all costs kek.

Yeah, I'm the same way, except I can't even do small talk anymore. It's easiest to connect to people online, but that isn't as fulfilling as seeing people in 3d space.
Probably an obvious observation, but that guardedness likely has something to do with the lack of interest people show in you. At least that's how it is for me; I'm too scared/anxious in public situations so I come off as super polite and bland and boring even though that's not totally true.
But I've always enjoyed observing more than participating, so that's ok.

English major/math minor here. Can't wait to do retail management forever :'^)
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>>37084503
I have plenty of money in other investments/retirement accounts. This is just extra money I use to desperately find a rush.

>>37084427
I do lift actually, diet is just garbage. The whole "wait until X, you'll be swimming pussy" thing has been pretty much my life motto. Actual change is required sadly.
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Doing well! I graduate in the fall, in a field I love (teaching). After graduation, I'll head overseas and teach ESL.

I don't have a girlfriend any more, but I'm very happy about that. Sex isn't worth being around a unhappy person. Maybe I'll have sex again, maybe I won't. I'm happy either way.

Keep on trucking, fellows!
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>>37084540
I live in a wonderful country where "intership" =! experience
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>>37084549
we are both self-conscious introverts it seems. which isn't a bad thing in the grand scheme of it all but it definitely doesn't help when meeting people. I also blame the technology and the ease of access to the internet. in our parents' days they were nearly forced to have interaction with one another when now everyone can just escape so easily into their phones.
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26 virgin

wish i had a gf or some kind of a life so bad, but not bad enough im willing to change what im currently doing (work->internet->sleep, repeat)
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>>37084383
>Semiconductor manufacturing technician
do you have to go to school for this? i've never even heard of such a thing
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>>37084742
I'm a veteran. Some got by before they closed their doors to Devry and ITT Tech. Some have associates in... whatever.
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>>37084899
Before this dies. I was an Electronics Technician in the military. So you're looking for information on "Electronics technicians" "Manufacturing technicians", maybe "automation technician"(half my job is dealing with automation fuckups), etc.
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>>37084742
35

Forced myself to take some risks and try to get dates. Seeing results already even with minimal effort. One girl canceled our date today with a semi-believable excuse, but I didn't sweat it. Have a date with a girl I'm really thrilled about tomorrow. Still completely unable to make myself approach girls in the street or other public places. Have been working on hygiene/grooming, started lifting
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>>37085041

Good for you, man. I'm the same age and keep delaying it - trying to go out and date, that is. i just have such a horrid fear of rejection. how are you meeting these girls? Online dating? Tinder?
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>>37085196
>i just have such a horrid fear of rejection
i know that feel. for me the key has been doing it when I already have a reason to talk to the girl. girl 1 was hotel reception. girl 2 was a waitress.
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Spring allergies are torture, I finally have an interview tomorrow and I'll probably screw it up because I can't stop sneezing. It's an outdoor job too. Why me.
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>>37084703

True. Most of us (on neo-r9k, anyway) seem to still have potential, and could become self-actualized people if we were forced to like in older generations. The comparative few who couldn't handle that just fucked off. Now it's so easy to become a hermit...shit's fucked yo.

Whatever. Best of luck to you anon, I hope your college and gf woes end soon
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>>37085255

Nice. And you just asked the both of them out point blank? Good on you. I can strike up conversation, make them laugh occasionally.....but I never think to end a convo by saying, "hey, would you like to grab a cup of coffee?" It seems so easy, but I'm such a goddamned pussy.
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>>37085449
I'm a pussy when I comes to that as well, so I asked for a number first. texted for a day or two then asked for a date.

For quite some time I've daydreamed about putting myself through exposure therapy: force yourself to approach x women per day. even hot, young women who are almost sure to reject you. then you realize it won't kill you to be rejected and you lose the fear. Hard to actually muster the courage to do it though.
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>>37084255
same here.
Even when I try and reply I will get some error message.
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>>37064914
29 probably getting a job soon (hopefully not)
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Just discovered that the hair on my scalp is thinning. I'm only 25. Kill me
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Getting tired and fed up of living in a collapsing dystopia. Want to work myself into the ground until I pass out then work myself to that point again until I just no longer care.

Fuck everything
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>>37085543

Found this on ribbit the other day, might be of use
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>>37065616
jesus christ ive been out for like 8 years. is there any hope for me
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>>37074719

>this

Except I'm 27, only female interaction I get is with my social worker and therapist.
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I got a girlfriend and was accepted into the ranks of normiedom at 26. At 28 I can't help but still feel depressed about all the shit I missed out on so I sleep with up market hookers about once a month to make me feel better about it all.

I meet a lot of college age girls at work, some have even invited me to hang out. I'm as lost as fucking ever. At least I have a gf though, right?
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