/cdl/ Cuddle Thread

>>37060981
I went to Yokohama once and paid a Nip girl to cuddle. Shit was amazing and she let me tickle her feet for 900 yen extra

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>tfw no lap pillow gf

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>tfw no sweet girl to cuddle
>no one to hold you and say they love you
Feels bad man.

>>37061131
And they wonder why men kill themselves in record numbers.

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>>37061080
that sounds comfy, how much would that be in the USA?
>>37061131
>noone to tell it's gonna be okay

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Cuddling is the solution to sadness.

I'm talking to a girl hundreds of miles away. I just want to hold her tight, but I don't have any money for the trip. I'm so bad at taking initiative to get a job. Why me?

>>37061160
I feel so blessed that I get this every day. My girlfriend asks for so many hugs, they make me so much happier

>>37061186
I know this is r9k, but get a job, and get the cuddles, it will all be worth it.

>>37061186
LDRs rarely work but good luck anon, maybe she can come to you
>>37061196
>tfw no cuddly gf
congrats anon sounds great

>>37061154
Ummm I don't think that you'll find that specific service here in the states. Its a niche thing in Japan cause no one has time for romance anymore


https://youtu.be/qpZbu7J7UL4

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>tfw I forget the image
>tfw no qt to interrupt my vidya with hugs from the back

>>37061196
How does it feel, cuddling/hugging?

Have been cuddling with a pillow lately, its comfy, but lacks warmth.

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>>37061230
I see, I know one anon said she offered it once but that's all I've heard apart from a few places across the country
>>37061269
I've got a big pillow I wrap my arms and legs around, as close ad I'll get but it's comfy.

>>37061236
Just happy but it wouldn't feel as good if it wasn't with her. I'm happy to spend every day with her, but we have been through so much together now that we know each other so perfectly. We always joke about how we hear about people having issues in their relationships and that we can't understand that since we just trust and love each other so much. She says that all she wants in life is to live quietly and peacefully with me somewhere in the countryside or something. I'm happy because not many relationships get to be so trusting as we are with each other.

My favourite part about a hug is the initial tenseness and then just the relaxation. We have also for some reason started doing this thing where we hold each others hands and then lean back to counterbalance each other lol

It's basically the only thing keeping me sane in this exam period.

>>37061236
From what I remember, it felt great. It's always better if it's from someone you genuinely care about.
I'm scared, I haven't kissed a girl for 7 or 8 years now, and when I did she tried to make out with me. I messaged her later saying it was great, then she told me that I didn't do anything but sit there. I don't know how to kiss, guys. I don't wanna ruin this, because I think I love this girl. What do I do???

>>37061229
She's not satisfied in her home town, so I have the grand idea that she could just move down here with me and we could live happily ever after, but she needs financial security to make a daring move like that. We both established that dating long distance is usually a bad idea, and she's treading lightly with me to some extent, so we're not anything official yet.

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>>37061306
>>37061293
These were good reads thanks anons
>>37061372
Probably for the best so noone gets hurt if you doesn't work out. Good luck with the job search man

>>37061291
Hmmm I know some camgirls act as your ldr gf and send cutesy messages and nudes for a monthly fee.

Is that close enough?

>>37061306
She wants the D.
Or you should do more than just use your mouth, touch her body or hair, use some tongue if she likes it. Use your imagination boy

once upon a time i was in an ldr and we used to fall asleep on skype together, which was very cozy
i also got to meet them and cuddle them irl one time, which was amazing.

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>>37061418
that sounds kinda fun but would probably just hurt the same way looking at these pics does.
>unless you'r cuddling it's not close enough

my favorite pic.jpg

>>37061160
>:^( what about anger

>>37061160
Until you feel the person becoming more and more distant emotionally and the cuddles don't do it anymore.

>>37061293
The worst part about this post is how close it hits.
I had this too. Be very careful anon, there is many, many people out there who will want to ruin this for you because of jealousy. Never keep anything from her. For me it ended when an old fling called me one day looking for sex and she saw the call cone through. What she didn't see was the resulting texts that basically went
>hey I'm horny come over
>sorry, I'm still with f2f
>oh, ok I didn't know, I'd like to meet this girl, I want to see who's been able to keep you this long
I didn't know she saw the call, she got suspicious.
She brought it up to a "friend" of mine who's known me since back in the day. He told her all out the fling and me, how fling had been trying to get me to go to parties at her house. I didn't tell gf about any of thsy, because what she doesn't know won't hurt her. Biggest mistake of my life, it just made her think I was hiding an affair from her, even though we had been living together for like 2.5 years. We broke up early 2016, because she's still a woman, once the idea was in her head, there was no changing her mind. And I can't even totally blame her, I can see it from her point of view.

Tl;Dr don't hide anything from her. Tell her everything. Girl tries to hook up with you? Tell her.

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share experiences
>none :^(

>>37061422
She actually did. I almost lost my virginity one school night at 11 PM with her when I was 13. I was in her bed right on top of her with eyes locked, but I just got nervous and told her I think I had to go home. I'm kind of glad things never went down, because I want to keep the sentiment and will be happy to share it with this new girl if things work out. Also, how can you tell when you're doing the right thing and not the wrong thing? Like, if I go for tongue and she doesn't like it, would I know?
>>37061414
Thanks so much!

>>37061484
I don't really have anything on that scale, but really I don't think it would matter anyway. She easily trusts me enough that it would literally take me cheating for anything to happen to the strength of our relationship. It's the same with her too, she was at a scout camp as a Network (basically over 18 scouts here in the UK) and there was a guy who had a crush on her, basically he kissed her and she kissed back but she felt so bad she immediately rang me in tears. I didn't really care at all I thought it was funny that she was so bothered. I used to be very jealous about things like that but now I think it's kinda healthy for stuff like that to happen lol I haven't done anything similar because I'm a lot less sociable

It probably helps that we spend almost 100% of our time together so like it would be impossible for me to cheat lol Also we have the same hobbies pretty much, recently she's been playing skyrim. Also she wants to do a breath of the wild marathon when exams finish and have us order takeaway I'm pretty excited for that, the rules will be one person playing at all time.

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>>37061454
video chat sleeping sounds really cozy
>>37061484
Thanks for the advice anon
>>37061499
Same here man
>>37061575
>tfw no gf to do vidya marathons with

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>tfw lonely as fuck but know it's better this way because you'd just be a burden to whoever you were with anyway
Anyone else know this feel?

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>>37061689
that's sad anon, why do you think you'd be a burden?

>>37061689
I felt this for years. Work on self improvement so you feel like you have something to offer to a special someone. Get hobbies, work on how you dress, try expanding your diction through reading, get a job, go to school, start working out, make some friends. Any of these are a good start, buddy!

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>>37061293
>tfw exams
>tfw no girlfriend
h e l p

>>37061757
Trust me you don't wanna be doing these lol definitely gonna have a nightmare about my exam tomorrow tonight

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Failed normie/cyborg/oldfag. Hope I'm welcome to contribute.
>College Freshman in 2003
>Ride a train from our college town to bigger city to go Christmas shopping and celebrate end of finals
>With two grils. One's an East European exchange student, other is a Jewish(not quite Agatha level qt though, sadly)
>Train seats are super uncomfortable but we're tired from finals
>I'm in the middle and both girls lean into me from opposite sides for duration of train ride
>Fall asleep, anchored in place by them

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>tfw going from northern Europe to Texas to visit an old friend from IRC I've had since 2012
>gonna give him a good soft hug when I finally see him

Feels good man!

>>37061575
>It probably helps that we spend almost 100% of our time together so like it would be impossible for me to cheat

We did too. We lived together, and I hired her as my assistant at work, we even showered together every day when we got home from work.
But there was always that stray 30-60 minutes here and there. One of us would run to the grocery store while the other was wrapped up in vidya, or whatever, she'd be super tired from work so I'd take the dog for a walk alone. We're talking about being seperate maybe 1 hour a week at the absolute most, 97% of the time we were together literally 24/7.

Everything else you said sounds exactly like our relationship, which is why I reached out to you.
I know exactly what you have. I know how amazing it is. More than that, I know how it feels to lose it all in the blink of an eye.
I'm not saying it can't be done, just figured I'd share how it went down for me. I truly hope you end up with the life I could have had.

>>37061477
True, then you want to get away from them and stay away from all of the pain they cause.

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>>37061860
Of chat you can anon, sounds like a dream id have desu.
>>37061909
that's pretty damn far is it a possible bf or good friendo?

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Best mornings I had in my life were few years ago when I lived at my aunt's place and my two, back then about 8 and 10 years old female cousins wok e me up on occasion, usually at weekends, by climbing next to me on my bed and cuddling with me. We used to do that for hours, just laying there, snuggling and enjoying the lazy weekend mornings.
I miss that so much.

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>>37062017
of course*
>>37062040
how old were you anon?
was pic related

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>>37062017
>that's pretty damn far is it a possible bf or good friendo?
Very strictly no homo. But I'm hoping to experience a slice of the good life in the Texan suburbs. He has a decent social life now, and even a GF. He really made it, especially considering we both met at tulpa.info forums.

Come for the mental illness, stay for the friendships!

>what does it feel like?
You know the feeling you get the first time you do heroin? Like that, only it doesn't fade the more you do it, as long as you actually love the person. It's warm, and cozy, and you can feel the stress and sadness, and anger, and whatever ales you fade away. It's like being wrapped up in a euphoric little blanket, where nothing matters but the moment.
That's what it was like for me, anyway.

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Met my gf here on some weaboo thread 3 years ago. We were long distant for a year before I finally dropped everything and moved to her state. It was rocky as fuck at first since knowing someone online and irl is really different but we grew past eachothers differences. The other night we were playing ocarina on the 64 with blankets on the couch and I just lay on her chest as she ran her fingers through my hair for what seemed like forever. Reading this thread reminds me how fucking lucky I am.

>>37061196
Don't lose hope, LDRs can work if youve got a realstic end goal. Good luck bro.

>>37062357
>Don't lose hope, LDRs can work if youve got a realstic end goal. Good luck bro.

I'm confused why did you tag (or whatever it's called here) me? Areyou confused from the LDR thread? I'm not in an LDR

>>37062299
21 at the time.
And yeah.
I still love those girls. Their affection was the first time in my life I experienced something like it. Before that, I didn't know what being loved and cared about felt and after that whole thing ended and I moved back home, no longer having that affection sent me dow to a depressed spiral

>>37061293
>>37061575
Where do I meet these vidya, turboclingy affectionate girls. You fucking cunt, lucky prick..

>>37062495
She isn't turboclingy she actually gives me a lot of space if I need it, and I do the same for her. We always sleep in the same bed though, we have another room which is way bigger but we never use it lol

>>37062407
Fug sorry I meant
>>37061186

>>37062539
>doesn't even answer the question
ok thanks chad

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>>37062329
That's kind of amazing, have fun anon
>>37062351
>blanket where nothing matters but the moment
fuck man
>>37062415
I haven't had that affection yet but I image it'll just make me sad after

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>>37062641
>That's kind of amazing, have fun anon
Thank you! You too!

>>37062600
Ok, basically I stalked her in college and she thought I was a massive creep. Then basically I freaked her out so much that she had a panic attack at home. She thought I was really creepy because I had a moustache which I thought was cool because I was basically a neckbeard at this point (like 6 years ago). She also hated me because I went on an atheistic rant at her because her best friend was a mormon (i live in the UK so that's uncommon)

Then I watched her favourite movie (Coraline) and I think she kind of was like "wow he actually cares" and then I decided to shave and she hadn't seen Finding Nemo so I went round her house to watch it with her, nothing happened though but it was nice. Then my friend had a party so I invited her and on the way we went and sat in a field and started kissing.

So yeah, the one time that being a persistent creep actually paid off lol

>>37062600
College here meaning 16-18 btw we call college university

>>37062299
>Moved out a few years ago
>Sister and I are really close but don't have as much time to see each other
>Still text and call when we have the chance
>She finally convinces our mom to let her spend a night
>Slept in bed with me
>Emotional bliss for the whole night

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>no chub bot to Discord cuddle
I'm male.

>>37063330
Just out of curiosity.

Would you get the hots for a hairy chubby guy at 190 cm and 126 kilograms? Bearded and long hair.

I've cuddled with a cute boy before. Nothing else quite like feeling the warmth of another person against you.

I honestly think it's better than orgasm.

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The girl I used to cuddle with a lot is now dating/(constantly fucking) my twin brother, so I've been doing my best to just be happy for him.

>>37063379
Yes I think I probably would.

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>>37062887
reminds me of the anon who did that with his twin sister nightly, sounds sweet
>>37063381
unless sex has intimacy it's usually lame
>>37063488
fuck anon, that's all you can do that must be hard

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it's been one day since you've left and i so desperately want you to come back. please. kat. don't go...

>>37063539
:3

thank you

ego boosts are nice. You have done me a great service today.

I am however not gay sorry about that.

>>37063619
Every kat i've ever known has been a filthy degenerate. I hope yours was different

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>>37063620
Please don't tease me like this.

I wish I had someone to cuddle. It's been a long time.
So hard to find a gaybot where I am too... :/
I miss the warmth and the comfortableness....
Cuddling and little kisses and smiles and mini naps, all very sweet uwu

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>>37064409
I like the term mininaps

>>37064468
Just like that in the picture, my boyfriend used to kiss me while I was going in and out of sleep

Miss them cuddles

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Can someone cuddle me?

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>>37064575
>tfw no qt to drift into sleep next to
>>37064610
you'll fine someone anon

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Does cuddling actually happen in relationships, or is it just a meme?
If it does, how often?

I cuddled with a girl once when I was like 13. It is pure torture, because I know how fucking great it feels but I have never felt it since.

>>37064345
Don't worry. If you need someone to bully you I'll be there for you though.

>>37061131
>Had a rough week
>Bummed out as fuck
>Call gf
>Comes over and restart my head in her lap
>Spend the night basically using her as a teddy bear (she's small)
>Warmth and comfiness surround me until I feel better
Cuddling is magical

>>37063587
She used to have nightmares and she'd come to me, I miss those times

>>37066296
Okay. Starting when.

>>37066391
Give me your discord. I can only bully you and feed off your attention. I will never love you in a romantic or erotic way. I can supply you with a platonic friendship, but no promises on that still.

It's all downhill from here.

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>Zeemaps anon near me stopped sending messages
>will never meet up for hugs

>>37066458
How do I install Discord?

>>37066655
Just google it pleb they develop it for all platforms.

Jesus you're already making for prime bullying material.

>>37061087
>she couldn't protect his smile.
Fucking fuck, the ending broke my heart

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I've started cuddling occasionally with a female friend that has a boyfriend, ask me anything.

>>37067024
How,what and why
Tell me everything

>>37067024
She probably thinks you're gay desu.

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I'll make a some stuff for next thread
origin

>>37061131
>tfw you cuddle the person you love
>they say how much they love you and start sobbing
>i start sobbing as well
>pure bliss

>>37067220
It started when we got sleepy watching a movie and we kind of just fell asleep on each other, and when we woke up she rolled with it. It's nothing sexual or anything, and we don't like each other so its ok.

>>37067345
No, I often tell her about >tfw no gf

Cuddling is nice when both smell good, I don't want to cuddle with a sweaty stinky neckbeard.

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>>37069325
I've been told I don't have a scent since I naturally don't sweat much
>>37068929
>ywn love someone so much that you just start crying