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How do you combat loneliness anons? I am doing fine for a few years now, but these last months I am just getting lonelier and lonier
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>>37021434
idk. i'm 25 now but I haven't figured it out.
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>>37021434
drink, but dont become an alchoholic
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Actually, I'm not
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>>37021434
>>37021462
It's the worst after 25, the few friends you have all have bf/gfs and if they sometimes hang out with you you end up as the third wheel, so you stop hanging with them
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>>37021643
>the few friends you have

ahahaha nice joke
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>>37021434
I don't deal with it. I just live to get through the day even if it is painful.
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>>37021643
>friends
what? how?
I can't into that, people my age are entitled smug cunts who think they know everything about life.
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>>37021643
> the few friends you have all have bf/gfs
I respect my friends, but they are genuine awkward betas. They are so introverted that you rarely can get them outside to meet.
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I find activities to do by myself. Some weed and gaming, solo road trips, sole camping trips and trying to not kill myself.
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>>37021434

Everyone gets lonely, but not everyone has the mental strength to live in a constant state of solitude. Lack of human connection and contact impairs social intelligence, your emotions become blue and dull. You begin to daydream small talk and deep conversations with people who either don't exist or do but with you had the ability to do so with them.

Knowing you're a loner feels like a mark of cain sometimes because you allow the insecurity of it to make you self-conscious to the thought of everyone assuming you're a loser.

Allow self-acceptance into your life.
Toss self-pity away.

Self-pity will burn everything around it except itself. You're stuck, but it's your conscious decision to remain stuck. I have no sympathy for those who lack the desire to be self-overcoming while being happy and full of existential dread.
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>>37021784
This, I have like 2-3 friends and they're all semi autists too, and while I'm willing to go out with them, they often don't want to.
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>>37021825
OP here. Great response. I agree with you. But my problem does not stem from self pity. I try to become the better version of my self. Both mentally and physically. My loneliness comes from the fact that whenever I meet a person, its literally the "normie" stereotype. I used to think it was just a meme, but most people are genuinely cheap hedonists. I just cant meet a person who is interested in the same things as I am. I know there are people like me. Ive met a few on the internet and they are my best friends since we can talk about EVERYTHING and when the conversation is over, it always ends with a satisfying resolution. Extracted meaning. I have only met 1 woman like this and it was when I was super young and did dumb shit and blew everything away. And now everything is zombie like. They never look for the grand meaning.


This may come off as arrogant or rude, but its the truth. Nobody gives a shit about the grand scale.


TLDR: Lonely because cant meet a waifu who thinks like I think ( basically every persons dream )
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>>37021860
It even gets worse, when they are the only people that share your interests and you feel great with them, but they are so introverted that they come out once every few months and it basically feels like they are non existent.
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>>37022045
oh because you do right?

so why does a face appear when you superpose the christian cross with the jewish star and the muslim crescent and star?

"the grand meaning"... nobody wants to see it.
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>>37021434
>being lonely

how do you normies do it...
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>>37022184
t. i manipulate things until they represent my reality
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>>37022222
Holy kek, those digits
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>>37022259
Except unlike you, I don't manipulate things to fit my agenda. They just happen because I am a good man.
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>>37022222
i shouldn't care to argue with quints on this website, but...
How did I make a picture that reads upside and down, without tracing a single trait, and only by consecutive superpositions?

and how does it have anything to do with me? I'm not into scary faces nor dudes sitting on spheres.
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>>37021751
A few drinking buddies from school more accurately
People now will sometimes pity-invite me for a party or barbeque but I'd be the only single there, if I go I end up as punchline anyway
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>>37022184
>>37022222
>>37022259
>>37022272
>>37022273
OP here. Who is who guys, got confused. What are you implying? >>37022184
>>37022222
wot
>>37022272
2x wot
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>>37021434
The loneliest days of my life, I take comfort in the city. The city, she loves me.
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>>37022311
Just this.
"trigger warning"
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>>37022222
>>37022300
>>37022311
Is Kek in this thread right now?
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>>37022357
I mean, I can too place few patterns in an specific overlaping position so they generate me some dank forms m8.
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>>37022413
maybe you can, maybe you can...
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>>37021825
>Allow self-acceptance into your life.
haha good one

MOAR!
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>>37022456
RAAAAAOOOOOOOHW DAT'S AMAZING
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>>37022516
protip:
it's the jews
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>>37022365
We are never alone kek is with us always
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>>37021434
I keep a journal. In order to survive, you *have* to divide yourself, to maintain an illusion of human relationship. I also keep a gratitude journal, to tame the feelings of rage and hatred.

When I read Robinso Crusoe as an adult (same author, Stevenson, who wrote Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde), I was euphoric. It's a journal book, about a guy who survived more than 20 years in forced solitude.

I have vivid memories of the beginning of the book, where Robinson is a Law student or something, and he wants to quit for a life of adventure. He remembers how his father told him, happiness is in the middle. Aim too high, you'll be unhappy (because you're alone at the top, or because you failed). Aim too low, you'll be a slave forever. Aim at the middle and you'll be happy.
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>>37022563
stop believing in digit meme magic
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>>37022613
you wish you fucker
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>>37021434
You don't combat it. You accept it as a part of your life. Learn to live with it and eventually you won't feel a thing.

>but I already know how to live with it
You obviously don't, since you keep coming here.
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>>37022613
Are you implying meme magic is not real you infidel?
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>>37022649
>You obviously don't, since you keep coming here.
not him, but following this argument, you can't live with solitude either
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the sky is the limit, bro
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>>37022649
I rarely come here. Maybe once every 2 weeks. But when I do come its for 3+ hours
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>>37022629
>>37022675
yes, samefag

meme magic is not real
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>>37022738
Does it mean I won't win the super bingo?
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>>37022738
Its not only me, who thinks you are fool for not believing in Kek
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>>37021434
Loneliness never ever bothered me, I was always "alone" but never "lonely". Mostly, when I was a kid, I was afraid of the social consequences and criticisms of being alone- people think you're the weird kid bc you're alone, then you open your mouth and show them how autistic you are. Eventually for me it became more so that I was too smart for my peers, and everyone else was a brainlet. When I was in the nerdy classes I was actually middle or low tier for grades- and still alone. I've made friends, its just hard when you're inherently alone (moving schools frequently) and everyone expects you to be weird.
But I've always been comfortable in my own head.
>on the bus, afraid someone would sit by me or there were no spots to sit alone
>driving by myself, no music, just thoughts
>alone at my lunch table or outside
>alone at my school table, no one in my group
I'm just don't want to be labeled as weird. Any discomfort I have from being alone isn't because I miss another human being.
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>>37022738
o rly you're so good at what you're doing
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>>37022777
Trips confirm.

>>37022738
BTFO
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>>37022777
checked and verified
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>>37021434

I started going to a BJJ gym. I might be too much for the the average robot, but awesome if you get into their circle.
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>>37022777
nice script kid
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>>37021784
>>37021860
>>37022132
Having similar problems with my bros. I'm trying to incorporate more Chad characteristics into my personality, to get a gf, but my friends, I just want them to be happy and have gfs too- but they're p autistic and aren't on board. We cover each other's social hiccups pretty well, other than getting girls.
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>>37022840
I swear by mother, its not a script. Also more than a concrete proof that I am not a samefag is PIC RELATED. There is antispam function on 4chan which prevents you from making many posts 1 after another. Posts are 14 seconds apart from each other. 4chan wouldnt let me post if only 14 seconds passed.

>>37022840
absolutely destroyed


KEK IS HERE
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>>37022593
Personally I'll take being at the top even if I'm sad. I know what the middle is like (cyborg)- it's not fun, we don't even have our own board. Interesting stat for you though, saw it here somewhere
> 75k usd is optimal happiness, anymore either won't affect your happiness
>or too much will make you sad
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>>37022963
Linked wrong pic lol
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>>37022963
>you can't use a VPN and clear your cookies in less than 5 seconds

kek is never here and never has been. regardless of whether you believe in a frog or not, repeating digits will keep occurring. can't wait for hiroshimoot to bring back the XXX rule.
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>>37022649
No, it's just that I enjoy blog posting and reading someone else's. No one else understands my feels, so I'm here to see what it's like. Im fine by myself
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>>37022777
>>37022999
What is Kek trying to say? WHICH GET IS MORE POWERFUL. Are we just pawns in his grandiose plan?
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>>37022876
same here
original anal
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>>37023070
Frogposters are literally worse than any other religious sect, because you faggots see your own Jesus in every 2nd or 3rd post.
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>>37021434
Surfing
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>>37023132
Are you genuinely retarded or what? I dont like the digit meme too, but you have to realise none of the people you are talking to are serious about this shit. They just repeat it a million times and it becomes a giant fucking circlejerk, but whatever they find amusing I guess. You are being trolled around and thats exactly their goal.
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>>37023398
they unironically believe in this shit tho

like that one kid (we were 7 or so) i once convinced to hoard stones cos they had gold in them (if u break them in half they are yellow on the inside) and he collected a huge crate of them

then i told everyone i knew and we all laffed @ him as he sat on top of the crate, crying and warding off the kids who were kicking it and trying to pull it out and destroy it
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>>37023518
No, nobody legit believes it. Maybe the fattest most disgusting neckbeard hidden in some bunker. Maybe. Its all a meme. It gained more traction with the Trump gets and election, but after all its just a meme.
Also you were 7. Kids brains arent fully developed. If you told that to adult, they would think you are either trolling or batshit crazy.
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>>37023704
>he thinks that 7 year-olds don't shitpost here

lol
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>>37023704
I would go with 12 year old edgelords. Lowest number. Lower than that and they wont get the humour. But I bet most people on 4chan are between 15-25 ( common sense )
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>>37022222
Include me! Praise kek!
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>>37021643
it's ok again after 30, you can hang with them and their children
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