25+thread, babbies gtfo

>>37018919
Yes
I've seen people getting their shit together in college or uni, but after 24-25 there's little hope
You're broken for life, even if you find someone it's too little too late

24 here, not a normie, not a virgin, not a neet, not able to attract a female for a meaningful relationship. When I lost my virginity 8 years ago, I posted about it on /r9k/ and the people here weren't REEing at me. But I haven't made any significant in-roads with a female in years.

About the 19-20 year olds bitching about their problems, I can't complain about it because I was in their shoes when I was their age, maybe you oldfags should remember that you were 19-20 on 4chan once.

>>37018919
I can't relate to 25 year olds either. Anyone under 30-something year old is a fucking alien to me since they were born and raised on the internet.

Also 25+ year old threads always bring in kid who are 25- years young just be like all WHOA HEY I'M SO OLD YOU GUYS ME TOO TOTALLY >>37019093 like this guy

>had 2 chances to lose my v-card
>didn't because outside of a relationship it's pointless
>27 now
Morals are nice and all, but they sure don't make you happy.

>>37019211
Are those even morals? That seems more like religious dogmatic ethics. I'm not even a fedora-tipping atheist.

Who would have gotten harmed, assuming that you were two consenting adults? That's got nothing to do with morals imo.


It's pointless? Sure yeah I guess, but so is having fun. You may as well have fun.

27, been on 4chan since 2005.

I fucking hate what this website has turned into, but I don't know where else to go when I need to kill some time.

>>37019272
>Who would have gotten harmed, assuming that you were two consenting adults? That's got nothing to do with morals imo.
One was in a relationship and even if the guy deserved it for being an emotionally abusive asshole, it would have been the wrong thing to do.
The other one was an emotionally abusive cunt herself, a needy one though.

>>37019334
The era of "lulz" was infinitely better than this currrent shit puddle era of "kek".

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>>37019185
I'd rather have a 24 year old than some 19 year old faggot. At least he's changed out of his fucking diapers long enough to get woke and form some independent thinking.

>>37019272
I go to church. i think morals are important to have because they make you happy on the inside. Maybe everyone around you is a scum-bag, but at least you can smile at the end of the day knowing you did the right thing.

>>37019334
Been here since 2011, got sucked into the horsefucker fandom. Was there for 5 years. Recently got out and never ever ever want to go back.

>>37019211
I'm 26. Yeah, I'd suggest just buying a hooker my dude. Just lose that v-card. It's more of a mental barrier than anything.

Once you lose it you become a bit more woke imo.

>>37019064
>>37019093
Where do I go to find a loyal gf these days?

I'm 26 and all the women seem like used up roastiesauruses going from one chad to the next.

I don't want fame, money, or popularity. I just want love, I just want someone to hold me close at night. I just want someone who I can share a true connection with.

She doesn't have to be the prettiest. In fact the girls I've fallen the hardest for were all 4 outta tens and yet I would have been perfectly happy with them.

Why doesn't anyone understand this feel?

>>37019335
>One was in a relationship and even if the guy deserved it for being an emotionally abusive asshole, it would have been the wrong thing to do.

How would it have been wrong? it could have been the drop in the vase to end that abusive relationship.

>>37019448
>Once you lose it you become a bit more woke imo.
No fucking point, it's been 10 years since I've been interested in a woman. Those 2 mentioned above, killed my desire to get to know any for a decade.

>>37019334

It gets pretty annoying when all you want is some online bantz with other people and yet cuck and trap shill threads are shoved in your face

I'm 28 and I don't belong anywhere. Even on wizchan most users are underage or nonvirgins. Even the few virgins here are guys who look alright but have social anxiety or whatever fixable thing.

I can't relate to anyone online or irl.

>>37019448
>She doesn't have to be the prettiest. In fact the girls I've fallen the hardest for were all 4 outta tens and yet I would have been perfectly happy with them.
I know that feel. But of course 4/10 would rather try to get a glimpse at Chad then spend time with me.

>>37019448
I have no clue how to find a good gf. I've never had much skill at it, and my only success has come from lowering my standards and playing the numbers game with online dating, and that doesn't work too well.

I totally understand your feel, and the girl that I fell the hardest for weighed 290 lbs. Right now, I'm working on getting the other parts of my life together, homeownership, career advancement, hobbies, a stake in family affairs, hoping that eventually some coworker thinks that I'd be great for some lonely friend of hers.

>>37019475
She basically bragged how her jealous boyfriend threw her on the bed and had sex with her the next day (he's been with us the whole evening and she was mostly ignoring him, focusing her attention on me), after she had refused him so far, because he was acting callous (been lusting after his ex girlfriend and not treating this relationship seriously).

So yeah she used me to make him jealous, while I genuinely liked her. Would I have slept with her, this would have caused much more damage.

>>37019475
he dodged a bullet, honestly

why sleep with someone who's stupid enough to stay with an asshole and is also too cowardly to break things off before having sex with another man

not worth it

>>37018919
I like when they say they're 18 year old virgins.
Always gets me.

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>>37018919
I'm 28. Seeing people cry about their problems is why I come here. I can't cry about anything. I've never felt any strong emotions, I don't feel anything other than intrigue. Probably means something is wrong with me.

Regardless, it makes me find it interesting to see others experiencing strong emotions.

So, I don't know the feel you're talking about.

>>37019628
>why sleep with someone

because then you get to have sex and cum

Have you ever done that? It's great.

>>37019622
so he raped her?

>>37018919
Why is Kaede so fucking pretty hhhnnngg

>>37019677
>so he raped her?
No, he was just assertive. Until then he made half assed attempts to sleep with her, but that that he actually wanted her.

>>37019448
>tfw you find someone you genuinely connect with but she lives across the country and you're not even sure if she likes you the same way

I've kept my guard up against everyone for the past 7 years, I can actually "be myself" when I talk to her. God dammit, this will only end with my heart being broken won't it?

>>37019677
Yeah and it's the same or worse than masturbation if the person you're with is garbage

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Why do oldfags hate me for being 19?

>>37019334
Really? And why exactly was it so much better? Why can't you just fucking create threads like the ones you saw in 2005?

>>37019778
>yeah
Shoot yourself, normalfag.

>>37019778
>it's the same or worse than masturbation

The worst possible instances of me having sex were always a million times better than the best instances of me diddling myself while watching other people have sex on a computer screen.

>>37019836
Because kids under 30 think that the world belongs to them, which is why you're still posting in this thread that is specifically not meant for you.

>>37019903
>while watching other people have sex on a computer screen.
porn is terrible, it makes masturbation worse

>>37019903
If you have had sex you deserve to get banned, normalfag. This board is for robots.

>>37019937
It has a bell curve of pleasure I'd say.


It's fucking amazing when you first see it. it makes beating off even more fun and for years it's great. It's good over time, then eventually it start getting boring and you have to dig deeper and deeper. Eventually you have all the free porn in the world to look at and you feel nothing.

That's why noporn is a hot meme these days. Nofap too to some extent.

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>>37019522
Don't let 2 chances with some roasties ruin your life.

There are like 7 billion people on the planet. Come on son. Play the long odds, you ain't got nothing to lose.

You'll get old either way. Stick that weenie into a vageenie.

>>37019593
>But of course 4/10 would rather try to get a glimpse at Chad then spend time with me.
This feel.. I hate this feel.

If only I weren't so damn fat. I have a sexy face but you can't see it under all this pudge. Have had eating addiction issues. Skellies will never know the struggle of a true addiction to something you cannot avoid.

>>37019610
Homeownership and career advancement is farther along in the life game than I am. I'm still in college because for most of my 20s I didn't know what I really wanted to do in life.

Luckily I've finally figured out something and am gonna play those long odds.

>>37019652
THIS. Like crimeny kid, you're 18 not 55. They always act like it's the end of the world that they haven't lost the v-card by that age. Like I didn't even lose mine till I was 23. And that was only after a YEAR of a long distance relationship.

>>37019770
I have 3 girls who all have boyfriends but they're still friends with me. I hang out with them sometimes.

They're ALL weeb/gamur interests, they're all 4/10, they're all kind and sweet and thoughtful and everything you could ever want in a gril, but I CANNOT HAVE THEM. IT'S LIKE TORTURE.

>>37019836
>Why do oldfags hate me for being 19?

Because you cry about being virgins at 18-20. Try being 25+ before the shit really hits the fan. You niggers don't know how lucky you are.

"Oh no I'm slightly weird! It's the end of the world!"

Every fucking day. And here I am staring down the barrel of being close to 30 years old and not having hardly anything in my life working out.

And you have the audacity to come to this place and moan about your problems when you haven't even pulled off the training wheels is just insulting.

>>37019930
>Because kids under 30 think that the world belongs to them
So how exactly did you come to this conclusion?

Did you think the world belonged to you at this age?

> which is why you're still posting in this thread that is specifically not meant for you
whining about us in the OP is going to attract us.

>>37020004
You can't be a robot if you're younger than 30.

>>37020085
>how exactly did you come to this conclusion?
>whining about us in the OP is going to attract us.

"hey this guy is saying that we're attention-hungry babbies, let's go over there and prove him right!"

>>37020054
Nofap is retarded. Noporn is not, for the reasons described in your very post. It's not an addiction to porn, it's an addiction to novelty. A reflection of poor discernment. You feel nothing because you do not know how to appreciate what you have.

>>37020078
I didn't finish college because I started working fulltime at a startup company instead. Now that I've been working there for nearly 2 years I'm applying to other places thinking that my years of on the job work experience will be a good substitute for that last year of college. If that isn't the case, I'll finish up my degree real quick and get a proper job with a proper degree, but I'd really rather not. I'd have to eat a lot of crow if I went back to school.

>>37020078
>There are like 7 billion people on the planet. Come on son. Play the long odds, you ain't got nothing to lose.
Past tense my friend. I'm interested again, but I just don't know any women currently. Will probably change over the course of my studies and through hobby groups I'm looking for.

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>>37020078
>Because you cry about being virgins at 18-20

Never seen a post like that

>"Oh no I'm slightly weird! It's the end of the world!"

I have high functioning autism, social anxiety severe depersonalization, severe insomnia and bipolar disorder. I have 0 friends, I know my future is pretty much you.

I don't know, others seem to think I'm pretty weird.

>>37020175
>Nofap is retarded. Noporn is not

totally agreed.

People who try and do nofap are misguided. If you don't beat off you're just going to walk around with a constant boner and cum in your bed while sleeping anyways, so you may as well rub one out like how ski resorts and national parks with mountains have controlled avalanches.

It's also much easier to do for oldfgs who grew up without the internet. Even 25 year olds grew up with a computer and the internet - and therefore had access to all the porn in the world right away before they even knew what beating off was. Noporn is a state of normalcy for me, going back to my roots. It must be hell for 20-something year olds and younger kids.

>>37020130
>"hey this guy is saying that we're attention-hungry babbies"

Actually, you didn't say that. You said "kids under 30 think that the world belongs to them"

Everyone becomes attention hungry on 4chan, you are too anon otherwise you wouldn't respond.

>>37020329
When you think that the world belongs to you, you make it so that the world is your personal diary or blog or stage

>Everyone becomes attention hungry on 4chan, you are too anon otherwise you wouldn't respond.

I was just answering a question for the attention-hungry 19 year old.

You know how I know that he's an attention-hungry 19 year old?

Because he came into a thread for 25+ year olds and went HI EVERYONE!!! I'M 19 YEARS OLD!!!!!!!

That's like a vegan going to a steakhouse or an atheist going church type shit.

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Is this where I get a cute 25+ bf?

>>37020700
Yes, you wouldn't want me though, I'm overweight.

these "X age+ threads" are getting lower and lower as time goes on. i remember when there were 30+ threads. now it's 25. give it about 2-3 years and it'll be 20+.

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>>37020482
That's like a vegan going to a steakhouse or an atheist going church type shit.

Nope, this is 4chan and when people make threads about religion and meat eating the same thing happens.

>Because he came into a thread for 25+ year olds and went HI EVERYONE!!! I'M 19 YEARS OLD!!!!!!!
I don't know what made you think I am a different person now

OP said he was sick of 19 and 20 year old and I asked why.

>>37020700
>sad sacks of shit above 25
Gee, I wonder.

>>37020700
possibly, if you're okay with a fa/tg/uy

Moving out finally at 29. People tell me I'm only going to get worse because I'll be alone all the time instead of being forced to interact with mom and dad daily but I don't care, I need some freedom

33 here besides mental health I'm def a normie anyone elses penis stopped working

>>37020759
Don't use best girl while shitposting.
Use Benio instead.

>>37020786
I wish my country had more fa/tg/uys.
The nerds in my country are so half assed.

>>37020787
You can now have guys off Grindr go straight to your place instead of getting your dick sucked in the park

34 whats fucked is no one my age plays games or mmos wtf guys? I have a senpai too but I still make time..

>>37020796
>I'm def a normie anyone elses penis stopped working

you could use some work on your segues senpai

but nah, I'm 32 and it works probably as good as ever.

Actually better. I used to be a heavy smoker starting when I was 18 and by the time I was 22 I definitely had dick problems.

I quit smoking and started exercising and my dick has been great ever since.
Oh and I also don't watch porn anymore.

>>37020854
Trying to have sex with someone is the plan eventually hopefully if I can control my autism and fear of people

>>37020842
I mean, I just build magic decks and scour mtgo league data, my geek hobbies are a little halfassed. Do different nerd stuff at work though.

>>37020720
>>37020786
Nothing wrong with that at all!

>>37020899
My sides ya it does sound all fucked, ya mine is fucked from nerve damage strange times

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>>37019442
>he doesn't kek
Kek

>>37020907
A female or a male I guess it doesnt matter to much are you a virgin? For manpussy Grindr for women? Maybe just hire a hooker

Yeah I'm 26. I remember this place before all the "Wah stacey and chad" bullshit. I liked it so much more, but I keep coming back. There's nothing else. I feel half the woman hate really is just kiddies and I try and remember that when they're telling me to kill myself because I'm a roasties whore. And I guess you have to be really fucking young to think losing your virginity isn't going to solve everything

>>37019836
>Really? And why exactly was it so much better?

/pol/ didn't exist, mainly. Gamergate retards hadn't flooded in either. It was just fun times posting about nonsense.

>>37021051
*Is going to solve everything

>>37021007
cool, what can we know about you?

>>37021051
well if your journey to happiness is a maze and all you can see in front of you is a big locked door, then that locked door seems like the thing standing in your way. Since we're a sexual species, it's hard to not view your lack of sexual success as anything but an insurmountable barrier to happiness. I think it's just one of those things you have to lose to realize that it has nothing to do with being happy.

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>>37021077
>/pol/ didn't exist, mainly

Hmm that might be true actually, I imagine since pol became popular, everything has turned more political on every board.

When did /pol/ start to become popular?

>>37020700
depends.
are you a virgin?
you may ride me if you want

I feel you OP. These children don't know what true existential dread is.

Oh boo hoo you have social anxiety and haven't gotten your life together at 19? Nigga you're NINETEEN.

Wait until you're almost 30 then come and talk to me

If you are over the age of 21 and you have not killed yourself, you are a normie.

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>>37019448
>I go to church. i think morals are important to have because they make you happy on the inside.
>Yeah, I'd suggest just buying a hooker my dude.

Nice morals, dude.

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>>37020700
Yes but only if you're also a man (male).

>>37021186
True, I lost mine last year for the sake of it. A stupid valueless thing. Depressed the fuck out of me. It changes nothing, I am no more confident. I am now at least worthless as a gf to robots though if nothing else. It's a good deterrent.

>>37021296
I was a full blown normslime at 19, 12 months later my life fell apart and I was back to a basement dwelling anime watching video game addicted loser. It's only gotten worse since. These kids don't know shit

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>30
>Userbase around here seems to be late teens/early 20's nowadays
>Still come here because this place almost feels like a home
>Starting to get paranoid I'm gonna be called a pedo because of the young userbase

Anyone else know this feel?

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25 year-old from Eastern Europe who lives off interest here.

I live in a comfy town. I drink beer to get in the mood to go outside and ride my bike every day.

Only 1-18 year olds and 65+ year olds here. Everything in-between is in the capital. Kinda weird really. Plus the 18 year olds have now graduated and are moving out just as summer's knocking on the front door. I visit my high school in autumn to see the newfags' first day.

It's a really abstract kind of feel.

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I'm really lonely guys, the only person who talks to me is my little brother

he can't really understand what i'm going through so i still feel kind of alone

>>37021515
I waved off contact exchange with fembots (or at least highly believable facsimiles) because of that feel.

>>37021435
I lost mine 8 years ago, and it means nothing for my confidence. When I lost it, I wasn't even thinking about sex. The girl was a nympho and I wasn't ready and I didn't know how to say no to a kinda pretty girl, so it happened.

The measure of number of sexual partners is kind of fucked up. A girl can be a slut having fucked only one guy, and a girl can have had 9 partners in her time and not be a slut (though, I'd still question her judgement at picking men at that point)

You did it to learn something about yourself, and I don't think that makes you a slut.

>>37021631
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>>37021705
nah, bit worse t b h

>>37021718
Cheeki breeki i v damke?
Only the dead may know peace from being original.

>>37021261
>When did /pol/ start to become popular?
When SJW, left and feminist cunts started getting as totalitarian and blinded by their own idiology as they painted the fascists.

>>37021750
Balkans, but I won't say more.

GET OUT OF HERE STALKER!!!

>>37018919

>tfw nearly 25
>tfw still a manchild who lives at home

Still got another year at uni left, hoping to move out soon into an apartment nearby instead of driving an hour each way.
I figure I'll either get my shit together and start going out to combat the loneliness or it'll just totally consume me. We'll see

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>>37018919
26, no point in crying. I'd love to 19 or 20 again, but I know I could say the same thing about my early to mid 20's five years from and in some ways, I'm better off than I was then.

Question: Are all girls over 20 who are virgins bad? Seems it's assumed they're hideous or a nutter if they haven't been penetrated yet. I know they aren't cute 2d women, but is it really so?

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>>37022044
*love to be
*years from

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>tfw 26

I feel real old, its kind of horrible

>>37022044
There's a girl in my class which is probably slightly older than 20, but not older than 22 and most likely a virgin.
4/10 face, 6/10 body, terrible in social interaction from the looks of it. Likes anime.

Back to the nursing home, grandpappy.

>>37022138
Doesn't mean she's a virgin. Reminder that girls don't have to pursue, they just have to spread their legs when they're being pursued, or not.

All the shy grills I know got fucked by some chad at some point, and some of them are hikikomoris.

>>37022113
You're still young. Don't shit yourself now because in five or ten years, you'll be yearning to be 26 again.

>>37022254
She literally connected with one person after a whole year in the class. None of the guys interact with her at all.

Sure, just because you're too awkward to hold a normal conversation doesn't mean you're a virgin as a woman, but there's a chance.

>>37018919
If you can't fix your life then you aren't truly meant to live. What makes it normal ? Does your age truly affect anything ? Or do you just use it as an excuse ? How much have you actually gained living up to the age you are now ? Why do you still come to this board even if you know it's bad and you're life is on a downward spiral ? How can you say that nothing matters, despite coming here everyday arguing pointlessly ? Age doesn't define you, your character does. Remember that, when you see people younger than you with unfathomable amounts of success. Take this maturing time to allow your wisdom to flourish, learn, live, and teach.

Hope your week goes well guys. Goodnight :)

>>37022328
Muchos gracias, Dr. Phil.

>>37021679
Yeah sure it was a random dude plucked of Craigslist. It was literally "Right I'm 25 now I want to experience this normal thing everyone else does" bam. I don't regret it but it certainly wasn't some life changing event. I've never placed any value on virginity, and he was a decent enough guy about it. but it was sad I couldn't experience any of the nice parts of intimacy like that. The real connection, the cuddling. It just pisses me off when I can personally vouch for real relationships being impossible for the socially retarded/those of low self esteem. whether they are male or female. Its ny main frustration on here. That we're somehow lucky men are thirsty and will fuck literally anything. There is nothing good in that. And we're the ones resented

>Recently turned 30 and now a robot certified wizard
>Shit tier IT job and still live with mom
>No friends and never even been on a date in my life
>Was just forced to attend my cousin's wedding since I work for his dad
>Over 200 people there, from the fattest dingus to chad they're all holding hands with their girls, laughing, drinking, dancing and just loving it
>I stood in a corner drinking water while my dad got drunk with his buddies
>Three hours pass and I drive him home

I thought I'd be relieved it was over, but I felt nothing but shame for my pathetic existence. I do a good job of hiding from my life, but shit like this always reminds me of how deep the hole I've dug really is...

>>37019334
Fucking this

Reddit is a decentish alternative, but it's not the same

>>37022598
I hate family events because literally everyone has a gf/bf/married except me.

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>>37018919
>tfw 40
people at 25 are better than the 19 and 20's but not by much.
adolescence has extended a huge amount even in the last 20 years.
>>37019185
i can related somewhat to this feeling. pokemon for example is childish as fuck and we have people under 30 who take it serious. i feel like an alien.
>>37019334
i agree, the edge is mostly gone and humor is a lot more like reddit than people will admit, just with a slightly different lingo.
>>37019526
this is true, so many trap and blacked threads being posted by edgy faggots.
>>37019836
>Why do oldfags hate me for being 19?
your problems barely qualify as problems but you don't realize it yet. for teens every little thing is the end of the world and it oozes from posts from people your age constantly.
>>37019930
true, the under 25 crowd surpases the boomers in sheer narcissism. and they're lacking in self awareness. i really thing being raised with the internet has broken something very important with human beings.
>>37021051
it is mostly just teens and useless people. i have anger issues involving women but i've come to terms and don't actually blame women for them anymore. i blame western civilization in general, and i'm not without sin myself as they say.
>>37021261
>>37021836
basically yes, when PC/SJW culture became suffocating.
4chan didn't used to be one of the last refuges of free speech, it was just another site.
the entire internet was much more whimsical and humor was out there, outrage bandwagons weren't very much a thing yet, etc.

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>>37022254
That's true. You can't tell for sure who is or isn't a virgin, it's just easier to assume a male is one. Taking into account the difference between the sexes as well as current society, it's presumed a female virgin over a certain age must be severely antisocial and screwed up in some manner.

>>37022678
>40

How are you holding up? Does it get worse? Does the misery peak before that point? Will you ever kill yourself?

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>>37018919

>live in central yurop country capital city
>Downpayment for a one bedroom commieblock apartment might come to 15 000 Euros.
>Im 26 and I will have to save for another 2 years by literally not doing anything that costs money in my off time from work if I want to escape my single mom.
>Jordan Peterson, the Bible, lifting and a couple of normie friends are literally saving my sanity.

At least I made out with a couple of girls in the recent years.

Hang in there bros. We are all going to make it.

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>>37022749
physically bad, late 30's your body goes off a cliff suddenly.
you think you feel out of shape and tired now, just wait. shit is like a punch in the face.
i'm mentally a little slower, the color has drained from the world for the most part. I don't play video games or watch much tv. this all happened in the span of 2 years, and i laugh at myself thinking i had hit rock bottom in my 30's.
my misery peaked around early 30's, when i was young enough to still have hope i could do something with my life.
once you get to 40 you come to terms with what you really are, and the pain is far less.
i fear the process of death, but not being dead for example, i just don't want pain.
i'm not sure if i'll kill myself yet, the depends on my living situation. If i end up having to work at mcdonalds in my 40s and live in a building with crackheads then yes i will.
i'm so out of shape and socially stunted that even a normal fast food job is too much.

>>37022588
Possibly, it depends on what you mean by "real relationship" because some of the okcupid relationships I got into felt real even though they never lasted longer than 6 months. The relationship that took my virginity lasted a year in total, and it felt real while it lasted though it ended in me getting cheated on.

I think the difference between men and women is the lock and key thing, which explains thirsty men and their resentment. I don't think there's much to be done about it.

I am socially retarded and I have a bit of a self esteem issue, but I still hold out hope.

Anyways, do you have a discord? Mine is liima#7673

>>37022677
Yeah random people asked me bullshit social required questions. Once they see I'm not only ugly and short, but poor, 30 and live with my mom they fuck off real fast. Just the looks of disgust as girls my age had to walk past me reminded me of college. That's one era of my existence I'd like to forget about.

>>37023003
>how's school going?
>where are you living now (implying still with parents)
>you got a girlfriend?

I hate this, people make it so obvious that they're looking to verify the expected inadequacy of your person.

>>37022678
>people at 25 are better than the 19 and 20's but not by much
42 here. Difference is you would fuck a 25 year old girl. With a 19-20 by now you would start feeling as you did something wrong, legal or not.

>>37022901
thanks for the honesty bro. When I was like 27 I looked in the mirror one day and was shocked when I saw how old I looked compared to just a few years before. I also realized how I had let the best years of my life slide by and it was fast becoming too late to do anything. Nobody tells you how bad it is getting old, especially when your life is a failure and you have no personal achievements or social life. At least I know it can get even worse if I don't try to think ahead

>>37022901
I'm socially on the same path at 30. I was only given a job out of pity from a family member. I only hold it down because 90% of my job doesn't require social interaction. The 10% of the time I'm forced to interact I can barely function. If I survive to forty without killing myself I'll without a doubt be in the same boat.

>>37021631
do you also post on a less active chan and play guitar innawoods?

>>37023168
No. I'm not some hipster.

>old people posting pictures of little girls

ewwwwww

why don't you just fucking die of old age you retards

>>37018919
well, I'm just 20, but I live in a war torn 3rd world country and I've seen death with my own eyes, horrors you entitled pricks can't even imagine, SON, you ain't been through shit

>>37023078
Yep you nailed it on the head:
>how's school going?
When I say I'm 30 they look shocked. One guy said he thought I was like 16.
>where are you living now (implying still with parents)
I hate this one especially. One of the mother's of a guy who use to bully me kept poking me for this one. Once she found out I live at home she giggled and walked off.
>you got a girlfriend?
The worst part about this question is when people stop bothering to ask anymore. Nobody even bothered to ask at the wedding. I just look the part now.

They just dig and use it as an excuse to brag about their accomplishments to some random loser. I went out of my way to ensure I didn't remember a single person's name because fuck them.

>>37023087
no problem man. please do something, anything at all if you still can.
if you can save yourself even a little hardship it makes all the difference.
i wish i could emphasize just how hard things become after 40, if for no other reason than lethargy and mental capacity.
>>37023085
well yea, i'd fuck both but i couldn't take a 19-20 yo serious in a relationship.
i would feel guilty though that's true.
when i was 33 i defied the odds and met a hot 18 yo girl across the country.
i flew to her, fucked her, let her degrade me and i was so pathetic about my behavior that it changed me (i was needy and beta), was a learning experience.
but if i'm being honest i did feel like i was taking advantage of her, mentally, all the same.
>>37023151
hang in there my man. try to learn programming skills so you can work from home if you can.
do anything in your power to save yourself while you can.
i'd offer solidarity or comfort, but the most i can give the world at this point is just honesty as some sort of failed life, not long before i die.

just let that sink in, 40 years on this earth and the most i have to contribute to humanity is a few anonymous post on 4chan.
welp.

>>37023309
3rd world 20's around about the same as a western 30-50.
they aren't talking about you

>>37023329
To rustles your cage a bit there, I was fucking fat and out of shape at 40 and by now I am in better shape than at 20. Its not impossible, but the habits chaining you down become ever more stratified

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>>37023575
thanks for sentiment.
the truth is, despite it all i'm not 100% resigned.
i've got one last longshot at a (creative) career i'm trying, but we'll see.
i have a long way to go physically, due to smoking and soft drinks all my life, but i'm trying.
it feels like drowning, where you're underwater, your nose is filled and eyes blurry, can't hear, but you still reach up out of the water hoping to grasp something.
i'm still reaching, hoping there's something there, but my vision is starting to dim.

>>37023575
>i'm still reaching, hoping there's something there
That is the rub right there imo. There ISN'T anything or anyone coming to help you, and if there even was it would still be a bad thing because it could get taken away from you again.
Once you get over that icy feeling of lost hope for any outside help you'll either lie down and die, or you say fuck it and help yourself even when it hurts. Dunno if that makes any sense.

>>37024227
no i get you, i worded my post a little poorly, sounded a bit emo.
it was more of a bad metaphor for trying for some kind of life and failing so far.

>>37020883

33 and i lost interest in games a few years back. Games didn't evolve in the way I had hoped. And the games industry with their heavy emphasis on multiplayer and micro transactions turned me off.

I make stuff out of wood now. It's more rewarding.

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Turned 25 this year. Kissless, hugless, virgin. Was never too bothered by being KHV, but it would've been nice to experience a romantic relationship.

Been worthless NEET since 22, when I graduated uni. Had a job for a two month period last year but lost it because I wasn't able to keep up.

Only other thing mildly notable is that I've been fat as fuck since my early teens but I have recently stopped eating like a fucking pig so maybe I'll start exercising more. I'm not really sure why since I'm not too bothered by it myself and it's probably too late for me to find any sort of relationship, especially considering I'm a NEET living with my mother and have zero social skills. Still, it's something to do.

>>37024626
I made a really self-depreciating OKCupid profile when i was 26 talking about how much of a fucking loser i am and how I hate myself. Also added in that r9k story about how i lied to my dad and said I was going out on my birthday only to sit in a parking lot eating pizzahut listening to audiobooks.

A really depressed girl messaged me, said she hated herself too. A month later we lost our virginities together.

I was 350lbs.

Never give up!

loser here
recently lost my v card
it didn't chaged me in any way BUT it makes me feel like a piece of shit not having a work so i can live on my own
i got some really weird feelings

>>37024730
this story is the most depressing one I've read on here today and I don't even think it's true, just the fact that it could be.
women were a mistake.

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>>37024730
I can't see myself making a dating site profile. I've never been into the idea of dating someone simply because you're both looking to date. Mind you this is the first time I've thought about dating sites in fucking years. I guess it's not impossible to actually hit it off with people who share interests from them.

Either way, I don't think I'm comfortable enough with myself right now to actively look for a relationship anyway.

Also to be clear I pretty much care zero for losing my virginity, it's purely the relationship part that gets on my mind at times.

>>37024869
she was fat too if that makes it more believable.

>>37024902
i never thought itd actually get me laid. i was just really lonely and figured id make the complete opposite of a chad profile just to shock women enough to message me. i got a ton of messages. fatbro messaged me once. he was doing the same thing lol