I'm autistic and I don't really know the difference between how close friends act vs someone liking you?
Basically I think my friend is gay and likes me.
We're both really lonely and agreed to spoon. We don't touch each other except for this and when we punch each other. He also always asks to hug before one of us leaves.
Is he gay or can this be normal, where we're both just lonely and act affectionate?
I haven't had many friends but I feel uncomfortable now knowing he might think about me as more
>>36945394
He wants u to fuck his ass
Lol, why did you spoon, that makes both of you gay, unless you didn't want to spoon.
>spoons
That's kinda gay anon
>male on male spooning
nigga u gay as fuck
>>36945394
Don't get tied down by their labels, man. You're free men.
>>36945451
>>36945468
>>36945489
I-it feels really comfy anons. I wouldn't even feel gay about it but I'm so worried he's thinking lewd things about me. I know I should just find a gf but no girls like me. Still not going gay.
Is there any way it could just be platonic? We talk about opinions on hot chicks when we cuddle
>>36945524
Here's an idea.Ask him.
>>36945557
woah
wtf
what is that
>>36945557
you know what, I have actually, and he admitted he liked me (this was two months ago). I guess I like cuddling and am so lonely I'd do it with him too. But I feel really weirded out now, he told me he wouldn't think of me like that anymore but clearly thats not true?
>>36945692
You made him promise not to love you?
>>36945765
I-I just told him it made me feel shitty that he thought of me like that, and yes pretty much. Does he still like me? Fuck I'm just so desperate for platonic love ;-;
>>36945692
Are you gay?
Are you curious?
Kiss the nigga and see how you feel. Reply when the deed is done.
>spooning m/m is gay, anon
>>36945813
I know that I would feel really shitty and regret it a ton. I don't want to lose my friend either, like I've said it feels good but I don't see it sexually at all
>>36945394
Spooning without good reason is pretty gay dude.
>>36945902
Then what's a fucking reason? Agh just someone tell me if he's thinking like me (straight) or is a fag
>>36946043
>Gay?
Well...
>>36945692
>he admitted he liked me (this was two months ago).
Why even bother making this thread? You know the answer better than any of us.
Your best friend is likely gay for you. Yet, he's not grinding on you or making any moves, right? If you both like to spoon, then spoon you fag. I'd love to have someone to be physically intimate with, platonically or not. Don't fuck this up.
Alternatively, set your boundaries like an insecure prude.