>finally get gf >she's such a prude and abstinent

What do you get out of that l

>>36935373
just marry her then if she is abstinent then this is great, if she is a virgin marry her now and she won't leave you.

>>36935380
This. Why are you even with her, OP? Spend your time with a girl that's going to give you what you want. Either leave or marry her

>>36935373
She'd drop that act in a few minutes if Chad was there.

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>>36935373
I am so fucking jelly. I would kill to be in your situation.

Why don't you just jerk off a lot around her and let her know she can join in at any time? She's going to make a quick decision on whether to join in or leave you, so it's a win/win.

>>36935373
Wanna bet she fucks Tyrone and Jermaine behind your back?

Same, but I married that woman because I fell for the "sex isn't an important part of a relationship" lie.

It's fucking crushing not bring desired by the woman you love.
Every day, I show her just how much I love her, I passionately kiss her, I cuddle her, I listen to her problems and help her out - but she's just so frigid and uninterested in sex.

We have sex at best once every two weeks, and she puts in no effort, just goes dead fish, she doesn't let me go down on her, doesn't like me playing with her nipples, nothing.

Shit makes me suicidal, I've taken to running a Tinder account and matching with women, then going and watching them show up to no one.
I block them immediately afterwards because I know it's a trash move, I just need to know that someone out there wants me.

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>tfw no belly gf to cuddle with
What you complain about is actually ideal, I want to do hardcore nofap/nosex mode but still want lots of cuddles

Id talk to her about it, and if she still refuses to put out, dump her. Guys basically need sex. It's the one thing that can make us really, really happy, and not getting can make guys feel depressed, demoralized and unmotivating. If she won't even have sex with you, even though you basically need it and it requires no effort on her part, then she doesn't respect you and she's not worth your time.

>>36935373
She's probably just not yet ready to reveal to you that she has a penis.

>>36935380
I get someone who really cares about me, likes to cuddle, occasionally brings me baked goods because she loves to bake, someone who does fun things with me, a friend, etc.

I mean being dragged to church is annoying, but I can tolerate it.

If a woman youre in a relationship with doesn't want to have with it's more likely than not she just isn't attracted to you or is fucking someone else

>can you fucking imagine laying in a bed with a girl with a fat ass

No. no I can not.

>>36935500

So, you're with someone because it's okay, not because it's great.

Congratulations, this is the recipe of long-term depression.

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>>36935496
this. fucking this lmao

>>36935500
All you have to do to get sex is tell her that you're okay that she was born a boy, but you'd be willing to suck her feminine penis because it's a girl's penis now.

>>36935445
Just divorce her dude. Not trying to be rude but how did you not notice her being a greedy roastie cunt only out for money before you married her? You're already fucked, atleast you're not a virgin though.

t. KHV

>>36935373
She's taking advantage of you. Get her out of your life

>>36935519
but it does feel good despite not having sex. i just want something, even a blowjob
>>36935576
she's a real girl

>>36935582
She's not greedy/out for money.
We both work and earn similar money.

She's just always been this way - I asked for advice before we got married, and like an idiot I fell for the "sex isn't important in a relationship" fallacy.

She means the world to me, and our relationship is great otherwise, but she's borderline asexual.

Were it not for standing up Tinder sloots, I probably would have an hero'd by now.

>>36935516
I kek'd. Hope you find someone soon though anon.

>>36935445
What a horrible idea you had. Clearly it's done dude, that shit can't work. You could be scummy about it and just cheat, or actually divorce her. But before either of those make it very clear to her you aren't happy

>>36935373
>not enjoying having the company of a female

if you enjoy her and show her how awesome you are you'll get her pussy in a minute. But you should try to actually build a friendship with her insteda of just trying to fuck her. Sex with friends is way better than sex with a "girlfriend". Share a part of your life with her. You better learn quick or else you arent going to have her for very long.

If you really love her, the sex will be so much better when you show her how much you love her with time. trust me.

>>36935432
this.

jerk off by her face while she's asleep. then shoot your load up her nostril.

>>36935519
The tuth had been spoken.

>>36935650
And her response to all this? It's been brought up right?

>>36935650
Just tell her then that you want to have some more sex or something? Talk to her about it? If she is a pissy bitch about it then ask her what is the matter. Tell her it's a two way street, you do things for her all the time, maybe she could sacrifice a little to help you out as well?

I don't really see the problem here other than her being a lazy cunt not giving back. That's just how I see it though and I don't have any experience in this shit since I've never been with a girl.

>finally get gf
>she's hyper sexual and cheats on me a month into our relationship

just fuck my shit up
I dumped her though, and I'm not feeling too bad about it anymore. Plus I had sex. I went from being a KV to normal in a fucking hour. Fucking whores.

>>36935707
>hyper sexual
>not satisfying her needs in excess

>>36935373
>this is a bad thing
You don't know a good thing till it's gone. YOU HAVE A GOD DAMN PURE GF! IN A SEA OF ROASTIES YOU FOUND A PURE GF!

>>36935373
Dude just dump her. Don't fall for stupid memes about relationships like you're doing something wrong or she'll come around.

>>36935666
Are you retarded? He said they're already sleeping together, just not fucking. I don't know what stage sleeping in the same bed is to you, but "build the relationship and the sex will come" is shit advice at that point.

>>36935707
Are you gay or something? I'd fuck her every single day if I could. You lucked out but blew it, fuck you.

>>36935718
I slept with her one night when I visited her college and the entire night she kept waking me up so we can fool around. I apparently made her cum multiple times but that still wasn't enough.
>>36935743
>You lucked out but blew it, fuck you.
>it's my fault she's a cheating whore
What are you, some kind of literal cuck? I'm not staying with a woman who cheated on me.

fuck off normiecunt. if you're horny you can just jack off anyway.

>>36935598
Girl (male)s are real girls, shitlord. Besides, have you ever seen her vagina?

>>36935735
dont laugh, but sex is a byproduct of a happy relationship. Go out and do something fun with your girl, get some physical fitness with her. You cant just stay inside with her all day doing nothing and expecting sex. Go on a date that isnt a date. Walk in a park with her. dont spend money, just go out and see the town and shop in little shops, and maybe buy some chocolate and share it while exploring the town. Be creative with it. its hard, but maybe she just isnt for you. I learned this the hard way. Gotta step up your boyfriend game man.

>>36935801
>You cant just stay inside with her all day doing nothing and expecting sex.
Lol you totally can, you don't have to bribe the woman. Me and my gf will just lounge around watching movies and documentaries then smoke weed and smash.

>>36935764
No you are the fucking cuck retard. You couldn't put your dick in her soaking vagina so she had to resort to someone else to do the job for her. If you would've just fucked her regulary she'd still be with you, but that would be too hard for a faggot like you.

I envy you but at the same time despise you.

>>36935822
But, yeah you should absolutely take her places and do things with her obviously. But I don't think any of that will matter for the two guys in this thread, their issue isn't they aren't active enough (I don't think) , something is clearly disfunctional sexually in the relationship

>>36935707
Sounds like BPD

>>36935826
I live 2 hours away from her and I'm expected to go and fuck her every day? Maybe she shouldn't have been such a stupid fucking whore. Maybe she should have been a decent human being. But yeah, I'm the cuck for living 2 hours away and not fucking her literally every day.
Her being hypersexual isn't a get out of jail free card for fucking around and cheating on me. That's just being a shitty person and a whore.
I had sex and you didn't, faggot.
>>36935841
Probably. She's pretty fucking emotional.

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>>36935822
not gonna lie, weed does help when it comes to lowering inhibition. I wish my last gf smoked, but she was a whore that got drunk and high every day for 3 years and never drank a sip of alcohol or smoked a even once with me. I just wanted to have fun, and she just wanted to regret being a whore. Shes a nice girl though, and now that shes done being a stuck up bitch we fuck every day like animals, completely sober animals. My current gf though is a fuckin freak on weed, and even when shes sober, but there is nothin like a high fuck.

>>36935839
there definitely is some level of dysfunction. They really need to have a conversation about it that doesnt involve whining about why she wont have sex and getting into an argument and being angry before bed.

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>>36935728
This. I don't fucking understand all the normies in this thread, or r9k in general. I though we were looking for pure girls to love, not sex. What the fuck happened. If I had OPs girl I would never even look at another woman. The fuck is wrong with you. She's a keeper. Jerk off and call it a day, fucking appreciate her. Some of us have never even felt the touch of a woman...

>>36935868
Why would you purposely walk into what's basically a long distance relationship? Find a girl in your city or the next city dummy, not 2 hours away.

>>36935868
Well maybe you should've moved together or something then so you could fuck her and she wouldn't have to cheat on you with Jamal you cuck.

You're now a normalfag and don't belong here no more, get out faggot.

>>36935881
Maybe if you're some low testosterone Klinefelters man. Majority of men, I wouldn't say NEED sex, but desire it highly regularly. If a girlfriend can't provide whatsoever she's a shitty girlfriend it's pretty simple.

>>36935801
>dont laugh, but sex is a byproduct of a happy relationship
that might be true to an extent, but there's still a million things wrong with your advice.

>all happy relationships lead to sex
>you have to work for sex in a healthy sexual relationship
>sex is a reward
>assume what the problem is if she's not communicating it
>stay with someone who doesn't communicate their problems

>>36935884
She was the first girl that showed interest in me for the first time in quite awhile. I was a desperate KV, and my life has been a fucking mess this past year. I didn't want to pass up my chance for companionship and intimacy.
I didn't expect it to be over that fucking quick.
>>36935905
>Well maybe you should've moved together or something
>college age kids moving in with each other a month into dating
What are you, retarded?
>she wouldn't have to cheat on you with Jamal
Nice projection, faggot.
>You're now a normalfag and don't belong here no more
I had sex and you didn't, faggot.

>>36935912
>I wouldn't say NEED sex, but desire it highly regularly. If a girlfriend can't provide whatsoever she's a shitty girlfriend it's pretty simple.
But what if she wants to wait till marriage and she would make a great wife. Are you seriously going to put the needs of your dick to greater importance? You could lose a good girl like this. What you want is a roastie. There's plenty of em. Go get them and their flappy roasts, and leave the pure ones to me. They'll love me more. I'm content with my hands and porn collection so long as I have a woman to love at the end of the day. You don't deserve her.

>>36935905
i feel like one day you're going to have a gf that cheats on you and you're going to be 100% okay with it. you do realize that some women cheat even when a man satisfies her sexually, emotionally, and financially? they are animals. they cannot be controlled. fucking cuck you deserve whats coming.

>>36935953
Well you got it off your chest, that's good. It's experience you needed you lost your virginity and you surely feel more confident because of it. Keep hunting.

I lost my virginity to some random tinder whore, I was hilariously bad at sex but I was still butthurt when she ghosted me.

>>36935445
She wants you to take her by force.

>>36935956
My needs trump some stupid unnatural self loathing abstinence pledge that is "waiting till marriage", yes.

>>36935996
Yeah, being with her did make me feel more sexually confident. She told me I was actually really good with my hands. Thanks for the kind words my dude.
I actually did meet her from Tinder. We talked for a couple of months before actually meeting though. I went against my own rule of falling for a girl from Tinder, so I guess it's not a total surprise she ended up being a whore.

>>36935467
> If she won't even have sex with you, even though you basically need it and it requires no effort on her part, then she doesn't respect you and she's not worth your time.

I seriously don't get it.
How can women be with someone that doesn't attract them in the slightest.

And if the guy does attract her, then how come there are all these stories about sex being a chore for women?
Can a female answer me those?

Personally only time a girl was holding out on more sex was the one I lost my virginity to, and that's because honestly I was awful and too dumb to work my way into getting better.
She had her own problems with communicating about what she wanted sexually and what pleased her, so I wasn't getting better.

But other than that, and since I've become a way better lover, never happened to me again.
In fact I am a bit worried my gf may want more sex than I, once a day is usually good enough for me most of the time.

>>36936027
Point being, I can find a perfectly reasonable and loving girlfriend who isn't some bizzare Christian and will actually have sex with me. Aka the one I have currently for two years.

>>36936039
Because the guy doesn't fuck her hard enough anymore. Give it to her rough and don't take no for an answer. Overpower her and she will start enjoying it more. Women are weird like that. She doesn't seem to enjoy it cause she doesn't enjoy it. Rough sex is the key to making her want it.

>>36935692
>>36935702
I talk to her, and she says she'll try more, but after a week it fizzles out.

I want her to be enthusiastic about it like I am, I want to feel desired not just simply be sated.
Were I just interested in sex I'd just be getting hookers, they're cheaper in the long run, it's the emotional intimacy that comes from sex with someone you love that I miss.

>>36936026
Kek, I wish.

I had my fun girlfriends before I net her, one girl was into bestiality, another liked being choked to point of unconsciousness - they were great in bed, but their other attributes didn't make me want to have a life with them.
My wife is the inverse, every other aspect I adore, but the marital bed just makes me sad - I avoid sleeping at the same time she does just so I don't feel so dejected.

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>>36936046
this mentality is why we have a short supply of pure qts

>>36935953
You got cucked by another man, you are a normalfag. Get out faglord.

>>36935984
Kek, alright whatever you say faggot. Women are retarded and I can agree with you on that but the rest is just your inner normalfag cuckoldry fetish speaking.

>>36936129
>your inner normalfag cuckoldry fetish speaking.
You're the one having and autistic shitfit about me not staying with a girl who cheated on me.
Anon, you're seriously projecting your cuck fantasy onto us.

>>36936126
Just tell her that then, don't know how you're gonna say it without soundling like some giant fag but just do it. I don't know what else to say but talk about it, either that or leave for someone who actually loves you.

>>36936129
i'd rather be a faggot than a cuck

I jack off to breastfeeding videos on YouTube

>>36935445
Moments like this I'm glad I'm an attic dwelling psychotic NEET

>>36936129
i'll suck your balls bitch

>>36936142
No, I'm just saying you got cucked by another man. You're the one hoping I get cucked and that I'll be 100% okay with it. You're wishing cuckoldry upon me which is kind of fucking weird.

Now fuck off you weird normalfag with cuck fetish.

>>36936168
I know you would you massive faggot

>>36936183
same family
who needs that shit

>>36936206
As you said in, >>36935743
>I'd fuck her every single day if I could.
This was your response to me breaking up with a girl after she cheated on me. You said yourself you'd be a cuck.
Besides I'm not this guy >>36935984 I just called out your hypocrisy when you replied to him.

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>>36936206
yeah talk dirty to me i like that and submit your virgin boipussi

>>36935373
Kinda in the same boat with my current gf
>Meet hapa qt at a houseparty, get her number
>Find out on our first date that she's a a 23y kissless virgin
>Bullied through school, mentions she has anxiety problems, also seems either autistic or slightly retarded. 'Odd' interests and sense of humour.
>Incredibly sweet and caring though. Always arrives at our dates with little presents and things. Constantly looking after her family, especially loves caring for her young nephews and nieces. Even became a vet nursee so she can look after the sad animals.
Says I drive her crazy every time I kiss her or touch her and she wants more, but won't have sex before marriage.
Don't know what to do. She seems like she could be a perfect wife in so many ways but I'm not sure I could bear a sexless relationship long enough that I'd feel comfortable enough to propose.

>>36936262
Hey anon, I know what you should do. It's the perfect solution. Just kys

>>36936262
>23 year old kissless virgin.

yeah i had one of those too bro. Turned out she was a huge fuckin whore with like 20 dicks under her belt. If your girl wants dick and gets excited at the idea of dick being inside her, she is not a virgin by any means. Dont push it too hard, let her live her delusion. You can have sex without dick though. Rub her pussy good and finger the fuck out of her. If shes not a whore she might let you slide it in. If she doesnt shes probably a whore regretting her whoredom.

>>36936262
And her reasons are? Nutty Christian family upbringing? I seriously don't get the no sex before marriage meme. Why would I commit to marriage without having sex first. It's like committing to buying a car without driving it. What if she ends up having completely different sexual interests than you, those things can't exactly be changed. Just seems like bad things can come from it and nothing good. I'm not saying you should have sex immediately, I basically waited a month or so, but a month time isn't "X years until you commit to me in a legal binding way and pay thousands of dollars"

>>36936262
marry her

do it faggot

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>>36936262
She not a roastie, so do whatever you can to keep her

It's one out of every couple thousand that you find one who's pure

>>36935373
>>36935500
>angry or uncomfortable when sex is brought up
>being dragged to church is annoying

Sorry to tell you pal, but in her eyes premarital sex is a sin. You're gonna have to ring it to fuck it.

>>36936329
Riley Reid really let herself go

>>36936321
Story time then.

Describe her mannerisms and the eventual reveal.

Otherwise, I doubt it.

>>36936262
Marry her dude.

>>36936325
>a month
manwhore

>>36935445
Anon i feel for you, i was in the same situation (engaged instead of married) she would literally lay there like a plastic fuck doll but was so nice everywhere else. She eventually wound up fucking another dude who was 15 years older than her, get out now before you get hurt even worse she doesent really love you otherwise she'd be interested.

>>36936236
No, what I ment was if he were still together with her and that she didn't cheat on him, she did it because he couldn't fuck her but you and him are too dense to realize that.

Whatever, I'm done talking about this whole cuckold mess or normalfag relationships. Call me a cuck or whatever if it makes you feel better but I'll go do something else now, here's your last (You) from me.

>>36936245
I'm not gay faggot. Go burn in a fire or return to your containment board >>>/lgbt/

>>36935881
And when you do find the girl you want to love you will want the sex, trust me

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>>36936361
No story sadly. Its much too long and complicated for me to recall at this hour.

Does your girl grab at your dick with close on?
Does she kiss you deep and grind on you?
Does she play with your penis?
Does she tell you how she wants you to be inside her?
Does she tell you how much she cant wait to have sex with you?

for starters.

>>36936467
Are you an actual child? Your reading comprehension is absolute shit.
>he, him, you and him
You do realize I'm the guy who made the original post about being cheated on, yeah? Daft retard.

>>36936329
>She not a roastie, so do whatever you can to keep her
>It's one out of every couple thousand that you find one who's pure
That's what everyone says on here but 2 of my last three gfs were virgins (or for some reason had hymenoplasty for me) and the remaining 1 said she had only one prior partner.

>>36936325
>Her reasons are...?
She says she's scared of sex, she wants her first time to be truly special and if I care about her I'll wait.
>I'm not saying you should have sex immediately, I basically waited a month or so, but a month time isn't "X years until you commit to me in a legal binding way and pay thousands of dollars"
That's basically what I'm thinking.

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>>36936467
I'll make you gay with my superior NEET cock and fill you up to the brim with my NEET cum. Bend over and prepare for my load sissyboy wagie, you wont believe the pleasure you are missing out on that roasties cant give you. SUBMIT!

>>36936537
>>36936537
you found two virgins? where do you live? we cant find this in USA.

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>>36936537
What's the age of your previous gfs? Any issues revolving around why they were?

>>36936489
If she did all that and you couldn't read that she wasn't a virgin, then that's on you.

Being demure is what signifies one.

>>36936493
Changed it last minute because I re-read it and fucked up. You'd still understand what I wrote if you'd not be so fucking retared and actually took a look at what I wrote. As I said in my previous post, I'm done chatting with you about your cuckoldry and your failed relationship. Now fuck off and do normie shit you retarded normalfag. Here's another (You), even though you don't deserve one.

>>36936548
>implying I'm a wagecuck
>implying I'm not a KHV
Nah, you faggots are as disgusting as the general whore roastie, fuck off.
Keep the wagies ragie though.

>>36936585
>getting exposed as being a cuck
>getting this btfo that you have to leave the thread
Typical cuck, backs down when challenged.

>>36936537
>That's what everyone says on here but 2 of my last three gfs were virgins (or for some reason had hymenoplasty for me) and the remaining 1 said she had only one prior partner.

This is a lie, and a very common one. Girls know guys value the number of partners they had. I've had sex with 20+ girls, dated more than 30. All girls lie. There is no Chosen One.

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>>36936585
>implying wagecucks cant be KHV
Alright wagie enough fooling around here. You are a ragie wagie and you must recieve my NEET cock full of cum I must empty into your boipussi. Bend over please, before I need to use force. Do not deny you are a faggot. You like my NEET cock. I heard a moan and saw your dicklet get hard. Pathetic sissyboy.

@36936605
>Implying I'm leaving the thread because I'm done chatting with a literal cuck
Shut up and cry more about your whore roastie that cucked you faggot. No (You) this time.

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>>36936628
That is a fucking artificial (you) stupid faggot works as good as a real (you) now BEND OVER

>>36936624
Kek.

Not a wagie though, I'm a fellow NEET. Just not as autistic and not a massive homosexual as you. Thanks for the laugh though.

>>36936573
no i knew straight up she wasnt a virgin, but we have good chemistry so i let her live in her fantasy.

>>36936160
I have told her exactly that, and as stated she genuinely tries for a while, but then falls back into her own ways.

She does love me, bit she's a lot less sexual than I am.

>>36935728
It's almost certain that her disinterest in sex will vanish as soon as Chad shows up.

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>>36936649
hit enter too soon. My ex was "demure", and she was a total whore too. Bitches lie and deceive. Get used to it. Bitches play the virgin role, but take it in both holes.

Never trust a female.

>>36935373
She's shit-testing you anon.

Tell her you'll leave her if she doesn't put out.

Alternatively, tell her you'll stay, but only if you get to fuck other women to satisfy your sex drive.

If you lose her, she was never meant to be with you, but I guarantee you she will beg to suck your cock to make you stay.

>>36936183
And it's time like these that I wish I was, but other times, just cuddling with her on the couch watching our favourite movies, going to lunch at our favourite restaurant, building home projects together, the feeling of her grip to me whilst she orgasms, makes it all worth it.

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>>36936648
*forces NEET cock into you* OHHH YOU LIKE THAT DONT YOU OHHHH ITS COMING ITS COMING I... *bursts*

There we go. You're tight wagie. Must be all the stress from your wagecuck job. I've gotta say, you have the best wagie hole I've ever had and I've been through hundreds. you might wanna get tested

>>36935666
This is straight hit garbage advice. Either you're a dumb virgin or an entitled bitch. Either way fuck off and don't post your trash advice ever again

Just leave her OP

No point in trying to have a relationship with someone if they act like a child over sex

>>36935500
>being dragged to church
Bait detected, commencing sage procedure.

>>36935445
Try marriage counseling or at least confront her about it

>>36935445
>"sex isn't an important part of a relationship"
you should've dumped her right there

>>36936652
>tfw I'm in the same situation as your wife

Feels bad, man.

>>36936559
>>36936564
I'm Australian
The first girl I met when she was 16. No real issues when we started going out, just a quiet nerdy girl that went to an all-girls Catholic school. Super horny but just hadn't had the chance to act on it. Amazing personality and looks too. Together for five years, wish it hadn't ended.
The second was a short relationship with one of the international students at uni. From the US but strict Syrian Muslim family, I guess they kept a close eye on her at home.
Third gf wasn't a virgin but said she'd only been with one guy previously and I'm inclined to believe her. We'd in the same dorm for a while, studied the same courses and she had a rep as being frigid. Drunkenly made out with guys at parties a lot but was renowned for never sleeping with any of them. Again, a fairly nerdy girl but she was sociable enough, attended plenty of parties where she could have slept around if she'd been at all willing but just ... didn't. Admittedly her face was barely a 5/10 but her body was easy 10/10, never seen more perfect tits in my life.
>>36936608
>This is a lie, and a very common one
Can't fake an unpopped cherry though so at least the first two were telling the truth.

>>36936835
Wasn't her saying it, it was friends/family.

>>36936844
Why do you do this? Why don't you like to cum?
Is there something that's putting you off?
Not being a cunt, just genuinely want to know.

>>36936665
>>36936649

I don't think you know what demure means.

>>36936869
Well I have never orgasmed from vaginal sex alone. For a while, it felt alright - not necessarily good, but okay. Now, it honestly just feels like nothing. I enjoy the emotional intimacy of sex, but it does nothing for me physically - it's actually more of a chore than anything. I'd rather cuddle and fall asleep.

>>36936711
>her
dubs confirm you're the best papi ever

>>36936877
she pretended to be "demure", rather i should say.

>>36936907
are you a genetic female? And how long does your sex last? Is there foreplay? How many positions do you have sex in? Describe your average sexual encounter. If you got fucked by a real man, you would much rather stay up all night fucking, than cuddling. A good dicking is not something you pass up.

trust me. I make every girl i fuck cum like niagra. Im only average dick size too. I could make you cum.

>>36936963
You sound absolutely disgusting, m8.

>>36936907
Why not educate your partner on how to pleasure you, he'd probably be thankful to know.

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>>36935500
>>36935373
>has a relationship with qt, virgin, christian, conservative, caring gf
>still unsatisfied

What the fuck is wrong with you dumb faggit?
Appriciate what you have.
IDK talk about her why she's so uncomfortable with getting intimate.
Maybe it's religous thing.
Maybe she is insecure.
Maybe something happend in her past.
Just figure it out with her together.

Or just kill yourself you dumb fucking cunt of a faggot.

>>36936963
Kek, you're an overconfident faggot.

>>36936991
did i trigger you?

>>36937024
no, i just know how to use my dick. Its literally not even hard to make a girl cum.

>>36937042
There are a lot of women who do not cum from vaginal stimulation, for a lot of them it's a mental barrier.

For a lot of them it's like if you tried to jack off only using your pinkies.

>>36936262
You have to marry her. Get her comfortable with oral and eventually anal I guess.

>>36936963
You and I operate under different things then. A woman pretending to be demure is no different than people pretending to be kind.

You often find out early on because, as I've found with most people, they cannot afford to lie all the time and most people tell you their true nature if you just actually listen and observe them.

If you're the original guy whom I asked to describe them, they gave an answer that was completely opposite to demure. Even just the first of those is literally the opposite of demure.

>>36937011
It's not that I want to be pleasured. If I did, he'd go down on me - that does the trick. But even then, there's still the less-than-pleasant sex afterwards. It's all very time consuming.

I would like to be able to enjoy sex with my husband, but I feel like it's physically impossible at this point.

>>36937139
>>36936372
>>36936329
>>36936326
As I was posting in this thread she just messaged me
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K9qlfwBWsM4
>Which of the girls in this video do you like the most
What did she mean by this?!
How do I even respond to that?

>>36937441
So what should I be doing to try and make sex more enjoyable for my wife, given that she's not good at talking about it.
ie. What does he do wrong/right?

>>36937497

Talk with her.

If there is no middle ground for both of you and you are still frustrated, separattion is the only option available, unless you want to be a depressed cheating cunt for the reste of your life.

>>36937497
Honestly, my husband tries a lot of things and I always end up thinking, "I wonder when he's going to finish." The best thing I could wish for is for him to hurry up and get it over with. I know it's a horrible thing to think, and I love him with all my heart - the sweet man he is - but I just can't conceive of any way of making it an enjoyable experience.

>>36937441

Let him fuck other women then you retard. If my gf didn't enjoy sex I'd kick her out instantly. I want a real woman, not a fucking fleshlight of no emotion

>>36937564
Maybe you're doing it wrong. Have you tried using your hips?

>>36937518
I try, but she doesn't give me anything to help her with.
I was asking for suggestions so that I could bring them up, I am sort of stuck with the lead position on these things - she won't ask for me to change up what I'm doing unless I offer to.
Any suggestions I can ask her about?

Also, I'm not going to cheat, never have, never will.
I feel shit about the Tinder thing, but I don't want to cheat, I just want to not be rejected.

>>36935373
Take a page from the female playback; practice hypergamy. Look for another girl while you're still in a relationship.

>>36937564

Let him fuck your ass and see if you like that then? Roastie.

>>36937587
Have you tried vibrating your wiener?

>>36935650
You do realize that no sex has turned you into a monster right?
Those "tinder sloots" are humans with feelings and you are fucking with them for your own twisted amusement.
Youre miserable, so you want to spread your misery. You will gain nothing from that. I think couples therapy might be the best option.

>>36937582
Yep, I use my hips. Most of the positions we've tried have been physically painful for me, though, so we can't really try too many variations.

>>36937587

You just talk to her with words. "Listen, we have to talk. I'm not satisfied with our sex life and I hope we could try to sort it out together".

You're already considering using Tinder. You're already on the cheating path. Never say never.

>>36937619
Are you sure he's using the right hole?

>>36937604
But that's where my poop comes out, anon.

>>36937633
His or mine?

>>36937633

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA rekt

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>>36937643
>His or mine?
>his
wat

>>36935666
Satan knows whats up.
Women get turned off if the only interest you show is sexual. It makes them feel like objects and that you dont care for them as people.
You should only try to fuck them when you have proven to them that you value them in ways that are not sexual.
You can prove this with romantic words or gestures.

>>36937564
Thanks, but I really hope it isn't that.

I must admit, one of her complaints is that I do last too long...

I just love being in the moment, the buildup, the sweat, the kissing the pashing, the post coitus sweaty, sticky cuddling.

>>36937609
I have tried vibrators, she was not a fan.

>>36937611
I feel shit about standing them up, but it makes me feel better about myself.
Maybe they learn to go find a partner in s less skeezy way?

>>36937632
Again, I've tried talking, to no avail.

I'm not using Tinder for sex - I'm honestly not interested in sex outside the relationship - to me its all about sex with someone you love. It's incredible and it's peak intimacy.

I use it to keep my confidence up, I just want to know that she's not disgusted by me.

>>36937688
>I just want to know that she's not disgusted by me.
Do you think there's any other way for her to show this to you, or is sex the only way that you could get confirmation of it?

>>36937688
>Again, I've tried talking, to no avail.

Well, what's your plan, then ? Waiting until you feel nothing for her anymore and leave her ? Trying to spice things up despite having tried everything in your power ?

There are no magical answers, you know. A couple of friends of mine - have been together for 6 months. Suddenly one lost all sex drive. They tried to work around it, didn't work at all. They are separated now.

If a relationship can't fulfil your essential desires, whatever they are, then you should consider leaving the other person. Otherwise it'll all just be suffering.

>>36937729

For 6+ years* not months

>>36937688
Have you tried GHB or MDMA?

>>36937719
I think it is, it's not so much the sex confirming it, as the lack of sex creating a need for confirmation.

>>36937729
I honestly don't know. If I had a plan I'd already be doing it.

I love her, more than I thought humanly possible, and on the sparse occasion when she's initiating because she wants it, it's incredible and I'm in bliss for days afterwards - I feel so in love with her.
The problem is that I am in love with her, and that for me, enthusiastic sex is an important part of intimacy and affection.

>>36937767
Yeah, in my travelling youth, not see how that's relevant...

>>36937807
It makes women horny af that's how it's relevant.

Let me ask you does she get wet when boning?

>>36937807

Well whatever you decide, I hope you'll consider your own feelings too and find a logical conclusion to your story.

Godspeed anon, I'm leaving now

>>36937826
She does get very wet (leaves the mattress protector soaked sometimes), but she's pretty plain, doesn't even drink - no way she's taking ekkies.

>>36937843
Cheers, have a good night.

>>36937862
Maybe she has a secret fetish

>>36937807
Sounds like you guys are fundamentally incompatible then.

My latest ex broke up with me because I basically never want to have sex due to some childhood trauma. I dont blame her, she wasnt getting what she needed out of our relationship. Doesn't sound like you're getting what you want out of yours.

>>36937476
Pls hhelp anons

Propose to her that you have a half-open relationship. That is, its open for you to go have sexual affairs on the side.

>>36937932
I got you dog
Change the subject and say you have a surprise for her. By the time she knows what's up you'll be in Mexico living a carefree life

>>36937950
And she isn't? Just because she typically interested in sex doesn't mean the relationship should be unbalanced.

>>36937907
I wish.
>>36937910
Well, everywhere else we're perfect, I just place a lot of intimacy in sex.
She has said she wouldn't mind if I had sex with other people, but that's not me, that's not anything I want.
Leaving her would just mean I wouldn't be spending my life with the woman I love, in addition to not bring intimate with the woman I love.

>>36937950
See
>>36937997
She has offered that, but I'm not interested in other people, no point having sex if you don't love them IMO.

>>36938015
You can still have emotional intimacy and great sex with people you don't love so long as you have some chemistry with them.

If you do that you might also decouple your feelings about your wife not desiring you sexually from your feelings about how desirable you are sexually.

If this was a realistic way that could enable you to continue your relationship and it not ending in you leaving her or becoming more and more twisted and emotionally fucked up down the years, would you do it if it was no other way?

>>36938097
It's just not something I could do, don't even want to.

Nobody else is her and I don't want anybody else.

>>36937932
Pick the one she most looks like.

>>36935500
Sex is 10 percent of a good relationship, 90 percent of a bad one. Ask yourself: can you really go that long without sex?

Nothing is going to magically change when you guys marry. She's not going to turn into this cock hungry animal. She's going to be her same prudish self.

>>36938115
And what if she never existed or died? Would you never want to be intimate with anyone else on the planet?

>>36938503
don't listen to this guy. The world would be a much better place if premarital sex was outlawed

Set your dick on fire and tell her she's got to put it out with her minge.

>>36938849
Don't listen to this guy
You'd be much happier, and making the world a better place, with premarital sex

>>36938902
As long as you knock her up, and are white

>>36938849
t.christcuck infiltrator

>>36938966
t. fedoratipping masturbator

>>36938842
That's a far off hypothetical.

>>36937932
It's been more than an hour, so you probably already responded, but in case you didn't she basically is trying to trick you into saying that you are not attracted to her, probably so she could feel justified in her insecurities.

Can directly call her out or ask her why, but the best way would be turning it somehow into complementing her.

>>36935373
>>36935500
Fucking kill yourself, you mentally ill faggot. I would kill to be in your position.
Don't be like this fucking cuck. >>36935707

Why are there so many fucking normalfags on this board?

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>tfw gentle femdommes with high libido who are also fiercly loyal don't exist
back to 2d I go

>>36937807
dose her with fucktons of LSD

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>>36935373
Get rid of her asap. I had a girl who suddenly started getting upset when I brought up sex. Turns out she wasn't emotionally invested in me anymore and just broke it off a couple month later.

>>36939194
>r9k
>Marital experts

>>36939813
God damn I love chunky pubic mounds.

>>36935666
She is cheating you memes.
Shes got something better and dont care.

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>tfw you found a girl that is into every thing youre into
>tfw she's too far away and I only get to see her for 2 weeks in the summer

We're both into weider things like rape role play and other stuff like that. She's really submissive and lets me do whatever I want to her. She's very attractive too, slim short, blonde, blue eyed.

>>36940996
Post a picture I am curious.

>>36941232
I'd rather not post pictures of her

I'm too lazy to type a long post but I read through this entire thread.

Op trust me I've had plenty of my own experiences with women. Some similar and some not. Your only option is to break up with her. It's either that or you will stay absolutely miserable for as many years as it takes for you to either snap and do something that makes her leave you, or instead of leaving her now you leave her next year. This is who she is and you can't change that. You shouldn't cheat and I don't recommend it but men have needs and you can't ignore them and shouldn't be shamed for them. There's literally no way you can be happy in this relationship. It isn't in her power or yours to change this. It's just done. If she's going to ever have some sort of sexual revelation obviously you're not going to be the man to trigger it or you would have done it by now. And trust me, if or when that happens you are not going to want to be anywhere near this girl because the betrayal and inadequacy it will make you feel is too much for almost any man to handle.

>>36941814
You're a retard.
Original comment is actually not original.

>>36941887

Why?

My comment is more original.

I'm in a similar situation in the sense that we're abstinent. Difference is she definitely wants to do things, but feels super guilty about acting on her urges. It's really frustrating to see her upset over it so I do my best to make sure we never do anything more than kiss. I want to think that's enough but I suspect she still feels bad about her feelings for me in general but keeps it from me so I don't fret anymore than usual

Could it be that she's repressing her own sexuality? Something tells me that she's a lesbian.

>>36935373

>no big butt gf to get denied by
>why live

I'm in a similar situation as this only I'm the woman.

I've been with my boyfriend 5 years now, and whilst we have sex regularly, I don't necessarily enjoy it, or I try to avoid having to do it wherever possible. Even after 5 years I've never allowed him to see me fully naked, not only that but I've never once experienced an orgasm during sex. Every time we actually do have sex it always hurts really bad at first because I've developed vaginismus, and sometimes it even causes me to bleed.

It's not exactly like I'm naturally asexual, I know why I'm like this. When I was a child I was sexually abused for many years by a friend's father, and now I can't stand being intimate with other people. Even just thinking about it is making my blood run cold. Every time I do it I feel like my body is being invaded, like I'm having my autonomy taken away from me all over again.

My boyfriend is so incredibly understanding and patient, but I know he's frustated, and I know he's disappointed that even after all this time nothing much has changed. This is ruining my life and I don't think I'll ever be able to fix it. I wish I gather every paedophile up, chain them all together, and slowly, slowly lower them into a vat of acid, feet first. And pour salt on them.

>>36943927
Have you seen a therapist? They may be able to help you partition what happened to you and genuine intimacy.

>>36935384
ur retarded why would you care if shes a virgin if she never wants to fuck anyway. after u fuck her once shes no longer a virgin anyways and theres no point to stay with her if you only get sex every couple of months.

>>36935373
It sounds like she might be using you. If not for your money, then for your affection. I mean it's your gf, so you know more about her than me, but this sounds pretty suspicious.

>>36944222
I had to go to a children's therapist after the guy got caught molesting a client's baby whilst he was fitting her kitchen (dude was a carpenter), but the therapist was garbage. Made me do a lot of fucked up shit like forcing me to draw his face and getting angry and yelling at me when I refused to do the things she told me to do.

I tried again when I was 16 and entered college, but every time I tried to talk about it she'd instead start trying to make me talk about my anorexia instead, and it's like, fucking hello, the anorexia is a symptom of my ACTUAL problem, not the cause. Fucking useless.

I briefly saw another therapist again when I was 18 and at university, but whilst talking to her about how my schizophrenic sister destroyed my laptop after believing that aliens had installed a camera in it, thus losing all my stored work, she very strongly suggested that I was lying to try and get an extension. I'm 25 now and I'll lost all faith in the purported 'mental health profession'. I've come to the conclusion that people can't help you unless they really understand your experiences, i.e. they've been through it themselves.

>>36943927
>I wish I gather every paedophile up, chain them all together, and slowly, slowly lower them into a vat of acid, feet first. And pour salt on them.
I like the way you think. I keep having scaphism on my mind, but I dunno I feel we can outdo that, some people say death of a 1000 cuts but I think it's overrated. I very well intend to do these things to them, well once I have legions of people behind me, I'm probably on some list, check that, certainly (if only as designated as lunatic)

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>>36944476
Scaphism sounds good, but I feel like they would succumb to blood poisoning too easily.
How about a brazen bull?

>>36944522
Nah nah that would feed Moloch, a brazen frog perhaps designated only for pedos

>>36935438
Get our self defeating cuck

>>36944408
That sucks to hear mate, but there are 100% people out there that know what they're doing and can genuinely help you.

Try seeking out someone who specialises in cases of sexual abuse and PTSD.
The psych I see is a PTSD specialist, but probably of a different variety to what you'd need.