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How many times have you been rejected? >32

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How many times have you been rejected?

>32
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>>36910721
>0
I wait for them to come and they never come so the answer is 0
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Once, for my height. I have rejected a lot more women than I have been rejected by or even approached.
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>>36910721
>0, I never tried

But if you count the times I've been ghosted, it would be like 8 or 9.
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>I've been rejected at least 30 plus times. Most I wasn't even aiming high.
>People just think you never ask out women, like anyone would brag about how often they get rejected
>Never rejected a woman though, never been asked haha.
>I've had men come onto me but, I don't swing that way. I don't even have any physical female traits.

People wonder why I gave up, as if my face wasn't enough of an indicator
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>>36910729
The only acceptable answer. If you have enough understanding of societal norms and courage to actually approach a girl you can't be that much of a failure.
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Twice.
When I was 12 I panicked when a girl told me she was into me, so I rejected her. Boy, what a mistake
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>>36910721
Once, after she hit on me first. Rejected every girl who was trying too flirt with me after that.
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>>36910721
So far I recall 5, but I never really come to them. Had sex with 7 far as I know. It all happened on its own and I have no idea how.
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>>36910721
>3 times by the same girl
Then i said fuck it and got a qt a few months later
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0, but they end up failing in the end because
a.) the relationship was dysfunctional
b.) she was too shy to say no

Not sure what the intentions are, but maybe I need to figure out just who I am. Anyone else have this problem?
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>>36910721
Not a single time.

I have not had a date turned down, cancelled or moved. Never had a girl say no to my advances, for example; lean in for a kiss.

I don't know how to feel about it. I've been on numerous dates.
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I've never been rejected IRL, because I've never tried, so 0, but I've been ghosted by /soc/ hoes if that counts. I've also preemptively ghosted them. Oh, now I remember that I rejected a few girls in middle school. I hate myself.
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Twice
Once I was WAY out of my depth and stupid drunk

The second was like last week with a nurse. We got along well so i went fuck it and asked her out. She had a boyfriend. Rip.
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Are you faggots even trying? Ive fucked about 15 girls but I've easily been rejected over 100+ times
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Everytime I tried
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>>36912289
of course we're not trying, Chad
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>>36912289
Yeah i browse here because I heard it was a train wreck of humanity but I still wasn't ready for it. Most people are lost causes
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>>36910721
0
I am too scared of rejection to even try.
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>>36910721
You're doing it right, Anon, stop whining.

You can't help if they reject you, but what you can do - is ask. Every time you ask your chances of finally getting a gee-eff rise, even if you're horribly emotionally stunted or look like the Hunchback of Notre Dame. And, every time you ask a grill, you develop a better understanding of how to ask grills out.

You can't help it if you're untouchable, but you're actually doing something to get yourself out of robothood. Normies seem to think being a robot is the end goal, for some reason. You're a step above everyone else here, well done, Anon. I managed to ask out a grill two weeks ago, stuttered, got rejected. I'll keep trying with others though, maybe I'll be where you are eventually.
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1.

tis was my high school crush

too scared of rejection to try again
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A lot of times, can't really count since I don't care much about it. I've had sex with several women tho
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>>36911110
I can't believe no one has mentioned those digits yet.
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0.5
I was half-hearted making up my mind but before I could make a move she signaled that she's not interested
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Well don't give up now!
You'll get them next time!
33rd time is the charm!
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>>36910721
Probably once or twice. I decided I would never put myself in such a vulnerable situation ever again. It's basically putting them in a power position, much like a dog goes belly up when he's comfortable with you to let you know he's in a vulnerable position and unable to pose threat yet you still choose to kick him.
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>>36910721
4 so far

oregenado
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0

I never tried though. You can't lose if you don't play
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>>36910721
never. Never asked a girl out, I already know the outcome so there is no point
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>>36910721
>I've had over 1000 rejections in real life
>2000 rejections online
>That's over 3000 rejections total
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Just once
That was enough
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>>36912504
LEAVE YOU FUCKING FAGGOT!
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>>36913112
how the fuck does that even happen? Why didn't you give up? Greentext some of your worst
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Twice,
but I have rejected someone once.
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>>36913112
I'm tempted to call bullshit. How the fuck you get rejected 2000 times?
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>>36913177
>>36913198
What are you even doing here if you haven't saw this: https://youtu.be/sJ8EAwRauoM

They should make robots watch this before posting
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>>36910721
0
you risk failure only if you try in the first place
>tfw undefeated love game's champion
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>>36913112
>>36913198
>>36913177

im >>36912289 and I was tempted to say like 2000, 3000 but I was only counting the ones that i was talking to on facebook snapchat instagram or in person. If we include tinder and being in clubs the numbers go through the roof
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>>36913350
how many successes have you had?
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>>36913112
have you simply propositioned every human you've come into contact with?
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>>36913280
oh yeh everyone on this board must'v seen this 37k view video on their own.
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>>36913350
>going to clubs
>getting tinder matches
>acquiring a telephonic address
Get out.
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0, I've never gotten close enough to a girl to attempt.
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I think I've rejected myself more than girls have outright rejected me. But let's see...

My first huge crush on a girl in high school: Approached her once, fucked up, never approached again. Guess that counts as one.

Went through a cringy PUA phase in my junior year of high school, approached around 50 girls, got one date from a 6/10 girl, no sex. After that, I kinda gave up on the whole getting a girlfriend thing for the rest of hs, graduated hs a khv

Freshman year of college, randomly decide one day to ask out a 6/10 latina in my history class, she excitedly said yes. Holy fuck, it took me back a little, a girl had never been that excited for ME in my life. We dated for a year, had sex a few times, then broke up.

Now I have a raging addiction to prostitutes, but I would like to get back into the regular dating game. I love sex, but nothing matches that great feel of successfully getting with a girl I actually have a crush on.
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>>36910721
Never actually because I never make a move until I'm certain they will say yes.

Either that or they approach me.
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>>36910729
this was gonna be my answer....
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>>36912698
>you can't lose if you don't play

Kys this is original
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>>36910721

30ish not counting the two years of online dating that went nowhere.
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>>36913553
had you had any interaction with her at any point before hand.
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>>36910729
>>36910799
>>36911110
>>36912071
>>36912330
>>36912487
>>36912505
>>36912698
>>36912959
>>36913153
>>36913345
>>36913427
Fine, but don't
>tfw no gf
if you can't deal with rejection.
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>>36914142
I never post
>tfw no gf
but I sure as hell have that feel.
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>>36914142
I reject girls and still have that feel man
relationships are not meant for me
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>>36914188
Perhaps someday the urge to get a gf will overcome your fear of rejection. I just hope that it isn't when you are a creepy old man.
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>>36914260
>implying I'm not a creepy old man already
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>>36914297
No anon, 25 is not old.
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>>36910729
I talked to a girl once
>Asked to borrow a pencil
>Didn't have the courage to give the pencil back later
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>>36914310
try 39yo khhv, my ten year wizard anniversary is next year
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>>36910729
>>36913651
These, never really talked to girls, I prefer talking to my friends and women are generally not as amusing nor interesting, I'm not going to force myself to laugh at their every joke and be a different person just for them to distance themselves when I do have to put my foot down. I'd prefer to be standoffish and show kindness on the off-chance otherwise not bother, I don't really mind being alone, rather that than prance about like a moron.
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>>36914310
sorry, meant next month. birthday is on june 25
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>>36914260
Thanks for your concern. I'm the anon you replied to. I'm 19 and not especially ugly, but I'm awkward and boring because of muh anxiety. I don't see myself with a GF for a long time yet. I try not to think about it.
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>>36913797

not at all desu. It was a young mistake :/
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>>36914369
the key is to fake it
press the right buttons and say right things
with a very little hussle you can get a lot
it doesn't matter who you really are just use correct mask in specific situations
at the end of the day it doesn't matter
once a girl falls for you, you can stop caring
the initial attraction is the most important

i know where you are coming from, but you might miss the boat that way
and once it's too late you are fucked
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>>36914472
I'm aware of the need to fake it, though you'd have to compromise on that eventually, you know? I don't want to risk "changing" in that manner when I've been like that in the beginning, that's not to say that I'll casually insult them or act tsundere all the time (though I am blunt as hell), though I do want to at least establish that I hate drama of any kind and that my mood can change pretty quickly. Of course such can be masked though when you are living with them, that'd become significantly harder. Personally I have no interest in losing my virginity, I care more about the family side of things which such is a means to accomplish, so making sure they know what I'm like at my worst is pretty much essential to maintain stability. I don't know about the last part, quite a few girls have fallen for me (given various back-talk that I've heard and how they acted around me), though I wouldn't want to waste their time, that and my mind forbids me from talking to them lest I nearly faint from depersonalization.
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>>36910721
none, because i never asked anybody out
also i rejected two girls at school and three boys online
i still am a robot
this was my story
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>>36915020
It may be our... last chance.
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>>36915239
what do you mean anon?
who are "we"?
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7/7 shooting 100%
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Never asked out a girl. Rejected two girls who asked me out, and was too shy to approach a third who was staring at me with "I want to fuck" written on her face.
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I used to ask a lot of girls out in grd 6 lmfao
I havent asked one out since then
im in uni now
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>>36910721

3/3

Third time wasn't the charm so I gave up.
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I learned my lesson the first time
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>>36910721
>How many times have you been rejected?
Zero.

Never even tried lol.

I genuinely know neither how to aproach a girl nor what to even do next if by some miracle she responds positively to my "HEY WANT TO BE MY GF???"

I don't even speak to girls.

Without exaggeration, literally the last time I held a conversation with a female of my age more than one, one actual minute, was six years ago, in high school.

I don't even know a single female in my college.

Fuck, I even have only two fucking male *friends* that I only come across at the campus once per week avarage.
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once by some popular chick who was into modeling, didnt help that I was shy as fuck and stumbling over my words, Humiliated myself really good there, Even though most of my friends told me "Hey atleast you tried man"
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just once

I've rejected others before, but this time I was actually interested in someone but came across the wrong way and she lost interest. We had so much in common it was insane but she didn't know that and I came across as desperate.
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5, my dude.

One ended up being a lesbian.
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>>36918032

>he fell for the lesbian meme

hate to break it to you, but no woman can be 100% lesbian. Even the most hardcore SJW tumblr lesbian will gladly hop on a rich Chad's dick. Every lesbian will come across a guy who is her "one exception"
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>>36910721
>having enough courage to ask out 32 different people
Fuck off normalfag.

>tfw only rejected 6 times but each one took so much guts from me the pain was felt 100x over
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are we counting by women or social rejection?

women, i've been rejected by all of the women i tried to make a move on.
social rejection i've been rejected so many times i lost count.

every forum, social media, chat box, clique, doesn't matter, i eventually get ousted/banned from all of them.
sometimes i have to exit out of 4chan because every reply on any board i post on is someone insulting me.

nice words don't even exist in my world. nothing but hate.
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>>36918323
I know, same thing with gays. Doesn't really upset me, tbhfam.
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>>36918583

I know therapy is a meme here, but you sound like you could use it. You seem to have major trust issues, and I think you're the one who mostly rejects yourself.
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>>36910721
Literally hundreds of time in nightclubs. But I end up pulling most nights anyway. If there are a hundred girls in a club, I will try every single one of them until I find that one special woman in the smoking area at 3am.

I would recommend this to each of you
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>Implying I'm not tot shy to confess
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