Hey folks, I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands. I've recently grown enamored with a girl. We casually talk in our college classes, and went out to lunch once and it was a really great time I thought. I really like her, and think I want to try dating her (never had a girlfriend before). However, I'm not sure how interested she is, and the biggest problem is she's going back home for the summer in two weeks. Do I tell her how I feel before, or wait until the fall semester? I worry that by then any romantic chances I have will be gone, but I also worry that it just wouldn't be worth starting now (she'll be about 4 hours away all summer, although a few times during it I'll be an hour away). What do I do?
Also, general girl problem thread I suppose. Would love to talk to anyone else who has some uncertainties
>>36882827
>4 hours
The only girlfriend I ever had lived three hours away when I started dating her, and I'd drive to see her two or three times a week. I loved her SO fucking much.
Four hours ain't shit if you really like her, anon.
>>36883037
Thanks anon, I appreciate it. She's working as a camp counselor, so I don't know how often I'd be able to see her. But still, maybe it's worth a shot. I just don't want to fuck this up, I rarely feel this way about a girl
>>36883108
Then go for it, you gaping vagina. I'd also make the trip there and back in the same day every time. I loved driving there.
Almost died several times on my way back due to being tired, but that's okay. I also hit a deer at one point.
>>36883153
So I guess this is my question: how do I go for it? I don't really know how to go about this, I've never really done it.
>>36883197
>Hey anonette, you wanna go on an actual date some time?
ezpz
>>36882827
if you have to go to r9k for help then your a fuckin LOSER KEK and you should permanently delete ANY HOPES AND DREAMS of becoming a chad, that girl wont save you FAGGOT
>>36883274
I figured I'd ask other losers
>>36883300
It was obviously a troll you shouldn't have responded
>>36883381
Eh, you're right, I know. I'm not bothered or anything
>>36883259
Would doing this in a Facebook message be too lame? I only get alone time with her for a few seconds in between classes before she goes to her next one
>>36883857
(I'm not that anon)
If possible, I would prefer in person
>>36883598
Good
Nah honestly dude I think you need to get her for the few seconds you see eachother, organise to meet up that day and confess your feelings