Anyone else feel like having conversations is like pulling teeth and you have to do all the work? Especially for women?
I only really talk to people online at this point, but getting anyone to give more than a few word answers is painful, and it always just turns into an interview where I ask all the questions and do all the heavy lifting, moving things from topic to topic. They're not always just uninterested either, since I'll end the conversation and they'll message me first thing the next day looking for more a lot of the time.
Are people just fucking boring? I mean I am too, but I can stretch my boring life out for longer than ten minutes.
simple answer: yes. iktf. stay tuned for more boring conversations...
>>36824559
Same here desu
I especially hate it when I ask a question, they give like a couple word answer, and don't even say "what about you?" or something
>>36824559
i noticed that too
while i feel more comfy talking on the internet it's actually more difficult
when you meet irl you share a moment and have something in common to talk about
Ever heard the girl you like talking to a guy she likes? She actually tried to keep the conversation going, while with me I'd get ignored if I didn't say anything.
In other words, it all depends how interesting you are to the other person. In our case, not very interesting.
>>36824559
Yes, the only people that seem to be able to reciprocate conversation are over 40
>>36824559
yeah and I think that's it as far as being fucked in the social hierarchy, you have to be able to have the right stupid things to say to be accepted by women as cool, it's all just memes
black males basically just spew rap lyrics and memes and they are seen as cool because they're colorful and have no moral boundaries
It means they do not want to talk to you.
>>36825014
But a lot of people, especially women, who make first contact end up talking like that from the very beginning. They don't gradually ice up as they become less interested.