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WHERE THE FUCK DO YOU MEET WOMEN Nobody ever explained this

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WHERE THE FUCK DO YOU MEET WOMEN

Nobody ever explained this to me.......... If you go outside its just old people and niggers

I RARELY see a young women and if you did you know how awkward that would be to actually approach someone who is going about their business?

I think normies totally overlook this and they get women simply because they have always had a group of friends from college or something
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bumpin this shit

got to because , it makes no sense.

idk how ur supposed to meet a young women i cant comprehend it

i go outside all the time but ,,,, seeing a young women is a very rare sight, and they have nothing to do with you though.. theyre going about their own business
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>>36812861
Same, no matter where I go it's nothing but old people.
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>>36812795
>did you know how awkward that would be to actually approach someone who is going about their business?
That's exactly it. It's only awkward if you think so. Women are stupid. Just play a pretend game in your mind that you know her. And bee yourself.
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>>36812881
no you dont understand how rare it actually is to see a young women for me

i saw one the other day in a grocery store, and she actually had a boyfriend on her arm

so what do you think im supposed to do?

>>36812878
word.
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>>36812795
>>36812861
>>36812878
Where would YOU go, if you were a woman your age? Go there.
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>>36812795

i would also like to know this.

where the fuck does one meet girls ?
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>>36812897
wew no need to make this a You fall in love you lose thread. Because I just L O S T !

And dont all young women nowdays go running and to the gym to get a round ass? Go there, robot.
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>>36812902
idk you answer that dude thats why i made the thread

i just assume theyre all at college finding other men at their college and they dont really exist for people like me
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>>36812902
If I were a woman my age I'd probably go to my boyfriend's house a lot.
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>>36812795
>Go outside in the middle of the day
>Only retired folks and niggers
Go back to bed until 5:30, everyone else is working.
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>>36812795
shopping centre faggot
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>>36812967
Not OP but the nearest mall is a 45 minute drive away.
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I think think real question is how do you get them to approach you
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>>36812988
lol they won't approach you... lot of roasties are working in malls aswell...
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>>36812878
>>36812795
Stop being boring and going to boring to old cunt places losers
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>>36812988
Women never approach puzzy. Be a man
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>>36813033
I find it amazing that young people don't buy groceries.
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>>36813050
Be a man and take what is rightfully yours with force? I like that idea
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>>36812967
I'm not OP either, but do women want to be approached in malls? Aren't they busy shopping? I don't want to bother them.
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>>36812795
Sports, dancing. I do the latter (salsa) and there are lots of chicks. Better yet, it's customary for chicks do go and pick their male dance partner. You literally just need to learn how to dance and attend themed nights.
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>>36813067
woman and busy, pick one idiot...
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>>36813067
Not only that but the ones in malls are always in groups.
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You're right, OP. This is one of those things that rarely get talked about.

For a male to find a female partner, he has to basically either meet her in a social setting DESIGNED for 'random meetups', like a concert, club, or chatrooms, etc. These will work for Chad, and occasionally for normies. Or else he has to find a way to take part in some sort of social activity where he can be "vetted" to some degree, where his 'social access' can be at least basically established. Males are by default always on the outside of society and have to work to gain any access. The problem for you is that if you're a guy with any degree of social anxiety, you're going to have to endure that "vetting" process which you'll likely find very trying. Even if you enroll in a university or some sort of course, you'll be placed in a situation where most of the time women won't approach you, and you'll have to make all the effort to first establish yourself within the social group, and THEN pursue a woman in a context where she'll always have the upper hand and where a single rejection can make the social group hostile towards you.
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>>36813062
You're not man enough to do that even if you wanted to

>>36813060
Who buys groceries dude just go out lol
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>>36812902
I would stay at home obviously
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>>36813067
>I'm not OP either, but do women want to be approached in malls? Aren't they busy shopping? I don't want to bother them.
This translates to:
>I'm less important than shopping

It's the truth. Take the plunge and approach them. Pussy is on the other side of that path. Be so important they forget they had shopping to do. Take the PLUNGE into their pussies later too.
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>>36813086
>Who buys groceries dude just go out lol

Is this real life?
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>>36812902
the women's bathroom
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>>36813098
Average men are less important to women than shopping, yes. Unless you're hot you're making a fool of yourself.
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>>36813083
This post is so full of shit. I've only met one girl through a friend. Rest of them randomly

>>36813103
Young people barely do that. It's for middle aged people dude
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>>36813125
>Rest of them randomly
That's because you are a handsome normie, not a fat autist
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>>36813125

>This post is so full of shit. I've only met one girl through a friend. Rest of them randomly

Maybe I'm wrong, but could it be that you're relatively more confident than others? Could you greentext a list of the exact circumstances that you've met these girls?
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>>36813125
NO ONE CAN AFFORD TO GO OUT FOR DINNER EVERY FUCKING NOGHT HOLY SHIT
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>bar
>club
>parties

In warzones too? Because I would feel better going in there instead.
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>>36813147
This cuck is full of shit anyway. You don't stay fit by eating fat-ridden takeaways every day. Of course young people so groceries.
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>>36813160
>>36813124
>Bars

bars are filled with like 50 year old men where i live definitely not a place for young people

also club is probably filled with niggers and chads , i definitely wont get along well in there

also wtf is a "party" how do you just magically get invited to them?

see what i mean youre not making any sense
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>>36813134
Yeah I guess. Stop being fat tho

>>36813140
Three at work, one at the shops while we got checked out together. Two online.

Two at kmart one at a grocery store. They all lasted at least 6 months that's why it's low.

>>36813147
Not on neetbux you can't. This is why it's just a meme

>>36813161
Barely. Go grocery shopping and tell me how many people under 25-30 you see faggot
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>>36813187
Even on an average salary, eating out three meals a day would destroy your income unless it's McDonald's every time. All the young adults I know eat at home most of the time.
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>>36813219
>if you show up at a homeparty

what home party?? do you just drive around and look for houses with a lot of cars?

dude youre fucking insane and not making any sense

>there are bars for young people too.

ive never seen one in my entire life
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>>36813219
>If you're not a fucking socially incompetent retard

Do you have any fucking clue where you are?
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>>36813219
I went to a bar the other week with some friends. All young except one creepy old guy. Every was under 30

>>36813226
>3 meals a day
Lmao are you the fat guy
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>>36813117
>Average men are less important to women than shopping, yes. Unless you're hot you're making a fool of yourself.
Does the woman's rating give us average fucks any chances? If it's a 5/10 woman and I go stop her, will I just look funny? Please answer me!!!!!!
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>>36812861
ugly gooks
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>>36813187

>Three at work, one at the shops while we got checked out together. Two online.

Work is clearly a situation where you've already been "socially vetted" to a degree.

>Two at kmart one at a grocery store.

Ok, so above you say that you met one woman at the checkout, so these three in addition (kmart, grocery store) were just wandering through the store?

I've rarely seen anyone strike up a conversation in a store or kmart with complete strangers. Were you with friends when you did this?

Whatever the case, you're either a normie with uncanny levels of confidence, or full of shit.
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>>36813236
Okay this has to be a troll. Which does everyone supposedly skip?

>Breakfast
>Lunch
>Dinner
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>>36813248
>I've rarely seen anyone strike up a conversation in a store or kmart with complete strangers

word.... they act like this stuff actually happens in the real world

when in fact its the same exact thing every time you go to the store

girls are already occupied in their own worlds

walking and keep walking nobody just hits it off with a stranger

thats fucking incredibly unusual
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Look, OP, you retard, it's very simple. You meet women through friends. You don't just go up to random women you've never met and form a relationship. Not unless you're really attractive and socially competent. To get women, you need friends. If you don't have friends, you need to work on that first.
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>>36813248
I was working at kmart dude. I had girls approach me often dude. One time two kept coming through my checkout buying like little shit like gum and giggling. After like two or three times they have nothing, basically scream we just wanted to say you're so cute or hot or whatever. Turned to dude working beside me he's blown away and said he'd never seen anything like that before. I was mad proud. Though it wasn't the last time it happened. I got a bunch of numbers just doing my job but this was years ago. I was like 18 or 19.

Grocery store was a Co worker. Nothing special about that.

It's not hard to be confident dude.

>>36813262
I almost always skip breakfast. Sometimes I'll eat breakfast but skip lunch. Lots of people do
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>>36813301
How is that supposed to help? I had friends all through school and college. They didn't introduce me to girls.
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>>36813301
alright well there you go

atleast youre the one whos being honest

so you need friends to have a girlfriend

ok now were getting somewhere
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>>36813315
BECAUSE YOU'RE FUCKING ATTRACTIVE

THAT SHIT DOES NOT WORK FOR AVERAGE GUYS

JESUS YOU ARE SO DISCONNECTED
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>>36813315
>One time two kept coming through my checkout buying like little shit like gum and giggling. After like two or three times they have nothing, basically scream we just wanted to say you're so cute or hot or whatever
Attractive detected. The rules are different if you're hot fucko
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>>36813315
It's not hard to be confident when you're getting called cute or hot

God I hate normies
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>>36813330
Not anymore I'm not lmao. I love beer too much
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>>36813315

Ok, so you said my post was bullshit, and then why I ask you to list how you met these girls, literally ALL of them you met through situations where you'd already been 'socially vetted', exactly as I said. Also, once again - assuming all this is true, then it means you're obviously better looking or more sociable and confident that the average male.

Please stop posting, normie filth like you ruin threads.

...and yes, I know that you love posting this shit because part of you needs the self-esteem boost rather than having any interest in the truth.
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>>36813315
>"Jeez, anon. Just bee yourself!"-the post
>>36813330
T H I S

We robots have absolutely no hope...
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>>36813342
But we aren't talking about now, we're talking about back then you retard.
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>>36813239
That's just unhealthy, her brother needs to loose some weight.
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>>36813349
I don't need more self esteem. Not sure how having a job makes me socially vetted. I think you've got a weird outlook bro

>>36813359
Just saying dude. Chill
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>>36813316
Then you had the wrong friends. If you're hanging out with losers who don't know any women, you're hanging out with the wrong fucking people. Before I met my GF I had male and female friends; I met my GF at a mutual friend's birthday party.

>>36813317
It's really pretty basic knowledge.
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>>36813374
>Dude just befriend people who don't like you and you have nothing in common with
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>>36813315
>Grocery store was a Co worker.
Wait a fucking second, your original post said

>Three at work, one at the shops while we got checked out together. Two online.
>Two at kmart one at a grocery store.

So you listed the grocery store one separately, even though she was also a work colleague? Something about this story stinks to me.
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>>36813388
>Dude just post shitty strawmen and then think that you've won the argument
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>>36812795

Women don't hang out around the suburbs.
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>>36813399
How is that a strawman? I naturally befriended the people I liked and who liked me back.
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There is this thing called the internet. You're using it right now. In the past you used to have to go to bars and meet bar sluts. Other than that you had to take your chances meeting someone at your work place or at some other sort of gathering. We don't need to do that anymore though anon. We have smartphones and dating apps. You don't need to even leave your house. Every gf I ever had I met on the internet. It's 2017, get with the program.
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>>36813363
Not brother mate. Lover. He's fucking her as we speak... "Just bee yourself, anon. You can make it too. No excuses!"
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>>36813389
I literally am telling you what job I was working so you don't think it's at an office or something you sperg. I'm saying you'll never meet girls who are customers at grocery stores. In my country almost all the cashiers are young girls. The rest are old women. It's rare there are dudes there. At kmart there were only 3 of us guys. Rest girls my age
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>>36813420
It's a strawman because you're making the assumption that anyone who knows women is someone who wouldn't like you and someone who'd have nothing in common with you. You are so fucking far down the hopeless loser rabbit hole that you seriously believe this.
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>>36813426
This chicken is legit ugly though. Them fucking legs bro
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Literally anywhere.

You have to start actually engaging in life. Talk to everyone you meet. Be curious about their lives. If you see a pretty lady, don't just say "Oh that's nice" and move along. Actually stop and think why you like her, and express that to her. At least give her the chance to make a choice.

The more people you meet, the more women you meet. It's like a snowball. Keep taking small risks and expanding your comfort zone. It won't always be peachy, but you will naturally become better at it. Baby steps, anon.
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>>36813315
Wow, get a load of Chadidius Cockmaster over here. What the fuck are you doing on r9k anyway?
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>>36813444
Chick not chicken. Autocorrect
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>>36813438
I'm saying none of my friends got me closer to women.
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>>36813450
I been on 4chan since 06 bro. Underage. Long time to grow up. Never wanted to leave hetr
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>>36813449
>Hey I like your big tits
>Hey you look like the kind of girl who has no friends, I like that
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>>36813369
>Not sure how having a job makes me socially vetted.

Joe comes up to you and asks for 50c for a bus. You know nothing about him, for all you know he's a meth addict and a serial killer. You probably don't give him 50c.

Joe comes up to you and asks for 50c for a bus. This time Joe is a co-worker, you've never spoken to him directly but you've seen your other coworkers talking to him, so he can't be that bad. Maybe they even commented positively on him. Maybe you know the guy who hired him, "he can't be that bad if bossman hired him" you subconsciously think to yourself. You probably give him the 50c.

In short, determining who is and isn't a weirdo/loser is very important to social success and a core cheat people use to do it faster/effectively is "What do other people think of that person?".

I cannot believe I just had to explain that.
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>>36812795
Chad Here

Find the Instagram of a beautiful girl and see where she take the pictures, that's the place she like to go, find another Instagram and do the same thing.
Now go out and meet girls faggot.
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>>36813462
I'm saying you should have found friends that weren't complete fucking losers, you imbecile. Jesus Christ, how dumb are you?
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>>36813449
>Actually stop and think why you like her, and express that to her.
Please whatever you do, do not do this. If you take one thing away from this thread it should be this: Do not do this. This works if you're conventionally attractive and most importantly, very socially skilled. It takes a lot of talent to deliver that message and if you aren't sure you can do it, you definitely can't. By all means strike up conversation over common ground (i.e. The bus is late, so you voice your disgruntlement to your fellow waiters at the bus stop), but for the love of god don't do this.
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>>36813487
I dunno. Talking to people isn't begging for money. It's a bad analogy
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>>36813444
Do you think he cares?

>>36813449
I feel like if I approached girls they would feel sorry for me and think "how cute, he's trying" No, thank you.

>>36813495
Chad, will you be there? Because in that case Im not coming desu...
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>>36813495
Instagram whores don't live in the middle of nowhere
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i met my girlfriend doing voluntary work
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>>36813522
Dude you gotta stop being so paranoid. Just try dude. You don't get good at talking to girls by not talking to girls
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>>36813521
Then use your imagination and come up with a better one, unless you're brain damaged the point should be plain to see.

I used it as an example because I've been missing exact change for a bus before and I've gotten it off co-workers, even ones who's names I couldn't necessarily remember, with absolutely no hassle. Meanwhile everyone I know absolutely ignores anyone who asks for it in the street, without exception. It showcases the assumption of basic human decency that being a coworker grants you.
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>>36813511
You can't force friendship. I tried getting along with most of the guys but it only stuck with certain ones.
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>ctrl f tinder
>0 results

What the fuck. No wonder you people are alone. It's the easiest thing in the world.
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>>36813557
I don't wanna save the world just to get some pussy so no thanks
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>>36813557
Only old people volunteer where I live.
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>>36813424
LOL you've got to be fucking shitting me. Dating apps are a meat buffet for women and robots are the dried up, piss-warm rolls in the corner that get thrown straight in the trash. Nobody's choosing that when there's unlimited prime rib on the table.
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>>36813574
>600 Tinder users were surveyed

>Out of 300 women, 240 had gotten laid through Tinder
>Out of 300 men, 50 had gotten laid through it

Tinder only works if you're above average because it's totally looks-based.
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>>36813560
>figure out my analogies for me
Nah
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>>36813563
Doesn't matter. Try harder. You can't force friendship but you can take more initiative and find new friends, always. You hopeless robots always have an excuse for everything. No matter what advice someone gives you, you jump through some retarded mental hoops to try to invalidate it. Stop arguing and start taking action. Actually work to improve your life instead of sitting here trying to think of ways it won't work. Or enjoy being alone forever. Your choice.

It's not impossible to make friends who know women, and that's the only fucking way you're ever getting a GF. Accept that as the fact that it is and then work towards it.
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>>36813617
There is nothing I can do to rectify your stupidity. Sorry.
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>>36812902
The cops
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>>36813620
>that's the only fucking way you're ever getting a GF. Accept that as the fact that it is

>>36813424
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>>36813639
Whatever makes you feel better about yourself bro
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>>36813449
> Actually stop and think why you like her, and express that to her. At least give her the chance to make a choice.

>tfw normies are this fucking delusional.

Thanks man, but I don't have a criminal record and I intend to keep it that way.
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>>36813522
>Will you be there
If it's a cafe, a restaurant, a dance class or the gym she go and even a party, I wouldn't be there.
If it's a Club or my College I would be there 24/7

>>36813529
Find a girl that live near to you
Learn how to google
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>>36813663
>Find a girl that live near to you
>Learn how to google

i have a feeling that no normie ever has actually done these retarded suggestions
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>>36813657
Talking to girls isn't against the law dude. Stop making excuses for yourself
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>>36813648
This shit doesn't work for the average /r9k/ poster. In order for a man to be successful at online dating without having any kind of a social life, he needs to be quite attractive and quite good at selling himself as a successful, attractive man. That shit isn't happening. Guys of average to below average attractiveness and social skills get GFs through friends. Period.
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>>36813680
What kind of weirdo is going to walk up to a girl and say he likes how fat her ass looks?
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>>36813694
>he thinks dudes don't do this all the time
Not saying it always works.
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>>36813677
What I mean it,s that you can find the Instagram of a girl that live near to your house and start talking and all that shit until you want to hangout or you can find where she like to go and go to the same place
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>>36813774
Why did you have to put a spoiler on the Tinder logo? Oh yeah, because it's SHIT! Tinder... More like Cancer!
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>>36813680
>Talking to girls isn't against the law dude.

Maybe for you. Who the fuck just walks up to people and says random shit about them?
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>>36813806
Normal people? Originally
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>>36813602
Then stop being those piss rolls and become the prime rib. Why is it so hard for robots to understand girls are not attracted to you because you made yourselves unattractive?
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>>36813614
>still believing that "survey" which was totally made up
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>>36812795
cinema
outdoor holiday events
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>>36813845
>you made yourselves unattractive
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>>36813845
This. This shit pisses me off. Dudes on here always bitching and moaning about this shit when all they need to do is put themselves out there
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>>36813877
>posts an outlier and thinks this proves his shitty point
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>>36813877
He looks like a character from King of the hill or some shit. Story???
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>>36813881
You responded to a post saying they need to more than put themselves out there.
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>>36813881
The key is putting yourself out there. And this is exactly what robots need to do. Instead they find all sorts of excuses why they don't try.
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>>36813910
Exactly mate. Spot on. It's funny though that they could fix their problems so easily but do not realise it
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>>36812795
There will be exceptions, however, social circle from school, and contacts made through work, eg sister of workmate.
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>>36813917
>>36813910
just put yourself out there bro!

WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT
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>>36813924
GO BE SOCIAL YOU FUCKING IDIOT. MAKE FRIENDS AND TALK TO PEOPLE
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>>36813917
>t. Someone who never had robot problems
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>>36813942
What I'm going to approach a random fucking dude in the streets "Hey wanna play some cards later?"

How the fuck am I supposed to do this what the fuck?
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>>36813946
Nah I was lonely as shit for years and had no friends. Then I realised I should hit the gym. Went years without a gf

>>36813959
School uni work mates and online. Ezpz
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>>36813942
Making friends is easier said than done when you're an awkward stammering fuck who can't think of anything to say until the conversation has ended.

I try talking to the guys at my work but they're all like seven uears younger than me and it feels like they exist on another planet.
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>>36813825
There's nothing normal about that, dumbass, unless you're Chad.
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>>36813969
>uni
>work

You are heavily implying I go to uni and work at a place where other people are.
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>>36813971
Figure out why you stammer like a sperg then. Get some normie hobbies watch some normie shows and music. Talk about it with them.
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>>36813971
Unironically, literally, try harder. The only way you're going to get better at socializing is by socializing. And consider seeing a psychotherapist.

>>36813981
Maybe you should get a better job, then, you cretin
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>>36813994
>Pretend to enjoy things you don't in hopes of eventually getting pussy
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>>36813977
Everyone does this you weirdo.

>>36813981
>no job
>no education
You're probably not getting a girl like that anyway. Fix that you lazy shit

>>36814020
Learn to enjoy it then you contrarian faggot
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>>36814020
What do you enjoy? Fapping to animu and shitposting on a Tibetan pottery forum?
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>ITT: such motivation! wow
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>>36814051
>If he's not in uni now he's never been
>There are no isloated jobs
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>>36814072
How did you not make friends at uni? They literally force you to get to know each other

Get a different job or go online
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>>36814064
Basically just Nintendo video games and old (mainly 50's/60's) music.

There are no gaming clubs in my town.
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>>36813942
What the fuck does that even mean, lmao

>>36813910
How do I put myself out there? What does that mean?

>>36813845
Dude what? How did I make myself unattractive?

>>36813522
I feel like if I approached girls they would feel sorry for me and think "how cute, he's trying" No, thank you.
They would. I tried that.

>>36813495
Go there and do what exactly?
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>>36813578
i used to volunteer at a public farm/animal place for a few years once a week because i like animals and it's what i'm studying at college. so i enjoyed it and just met a nice girl by chance. i always thought it was bullshit that you could meet a girl randomly without trying but it actually happened to me
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>>36814093
I'm not him, I had friends in college but they never invited me anywhere.

So the point of a job is to make friends?
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>>36814094
You have shit hobbies. Get more but better ones
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>>36813924
Do something other than mope in the basement. Go outside. Attend events. Set up tinder. Etc.
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>>36813588
i volunteered at a public animal sanctuary place it was mostly people between the ages of 14-20 there was the occasional person in their 30s but very rare
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>>36814105
>what does something obvious mean???

You know what it means you deliberately obtuse cunt

>>36814107
Do you have autism
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>>36814107
I for one only have male friends at uni and when we hang out, we do that in pubs. Tried approaching girls there but they all told me to fuck off.
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>>36814150
>You know what it means you deliberately obtuse cunt
No you fucking retard I have no idea what does "put yourself out there more" or "go be social" means. It's not specific at all and is literally as good as "just b urself".
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>>36813845
Jesus H. Fuckstick holy shit, why didn't I think if that? All I have to do is think myself into growing another 6 inches, grow facial hair that doesn't look like rotten pubes, align my chi to fix my fuck-ugly face, find the potion to heal my fucked up joints and become a coordinated athlete, walk into the nearest company and start earning 6 figures... and maybe I'll be able to pay someone a compliment them threatening to call the cops.

It's so easy! Thanks Chad, you've fixed my life!
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>>36814170
>GO BE SOCIAL YOU FUCKING IDIOT. MAKE FRIENDS AND TALK TO PEOPLE

Says nothing about putting yourself out there or being social. Retard lmao you're unhelpable
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>>36814199
At least you have dubs, kiddo.
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>>36813574
>>36813602
>>36813614
Tinder used to be great. I had over 400 matches and got laid several times
Ever since tinder introduced boosts, that all changed. Unless you're in the top 20% or so of attractive guys, girls won't see your profile at all unless you pay
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>>36814105
Go where the girl go and start talking to her Jesus christ
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>>36814199
Hi Stanley, enjoying the weekend?
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>>36814218
You dumb shit you responded to me without quoting so I couldn't tell which one of the retards I was responding to you were. One of them said something about putting myself out there.

"go be social" means literally fucking nothing. Might as well get the fuck off this board if you don't want to help.

>>36814240
Uhh... So let's say it's a beach. Or a restaurant. Am I supposed to just approach her and say hi? Because I did that a number of times and it failed.
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>>36813286
Normans are always saying just talk to someone like a stranger but ive never seen in my life strangers in a store talking or girls being hit on.. The only time i ever got attentiin from girls when one time i ate shrooms and went to kmart for some reason girks were starring me down and the cash register girl like got all energetic and lit up talking to me .. What did the mushrooms do ?
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>>36814283
Not the guy you're screeching at, but here's how you get a GF:
1) Make friends
2) Meet women through your friends
3) Ask those women out

You're not going to get anywhere asking out randos on the street. Other guys might, but you won't.
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>>36812861
neighbourhood, school, work
or anywhere outside really
it's difficult when you are neet
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>>36814307
They changed your energy so you were more open and happy, and people unconsciously responded to that.

One of the main reasons robots and autists have trouble meeting people is because they LOOK unhappy - they seem sad, negative or have this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reduced_affect_display
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>>36814324
>1) Make friends
How?

>2) Meet women through your friends
Can't. My friends don't seem to know any women really and all out gatherings are basically sausage parties. Not that I have many friends anyway.
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>>36813062
>tfw having the same mentality.
>tfw it feels disgusting expressing myself socially.
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>>36814379
Not surprising. Robots are fucking downers. I went from wanting to help people to wanting all these cunts who want their hand held and a full guide written to die. Pro tip: if you need a complete guide on how to socialise and not be a sperg you're fucked anyway. Work on being normal

>>36814416
Look at this faggot stuck in a loop of excuses. Exactly what I'm talking about. Get new friends retard it's not hard use your head
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>>36814379
>One of the main reasons robots and autists have trouble meeting people is because they LOOK unhappy - they seem sad, negative or have this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reduced_affect_display
Shit you may be right. Not the guy you were talking to but how can I actually appear happier? I feel like this is impossible to me because life just kicks my ass all the fucking time to the point where I just can't delude myself into being happy.
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>>36813877
lol wuhut
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>>36813179
>bars are filled with like 50 year old men where i live definitely not a place for young people
i constantly see ~20 chicks in bars, you must be really unlucky or live in a shit place
>also club is probably filled with niggers and chads , i definitely wont get along well in there
most chicks want Chad so it's logical they will flock there
>also wtf is a "party" how do you just magically get invited to them?
friends, and friend's friends
>see what i mean youre not making any sense
you are just delusional man

i sometimes see cute girls when i go to library
they tend to be really nice and if you read you already got topic to talk about
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>>36814455
My friends didn't invite me to parties.
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>>36814416
>How?
Talk to people at your job or school; interact with friends of the friends you already have

>Can't. My friends don't seem to know any women really and all out gatherings are basically sausage parties. Not that I have many friends anyway.
Get better ones
If you made friends already you shouldn't have to ask 'how to make friends' like a retard
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>>36814442
>Look at this faggot stuck in a loop of excuses. Exactly what I'm talking about. Get new friends retard it's not hard use your head
But you're not telling me how am I supposed to do that, anon. How can I do that if my life consists only of 9-5 job 5 days a week + shitload of uni studying?

>>36814479
>Talk to people at your job or school; interact with friends of the friends you already have
Did that. I think I made friends at work but no the type that would invite me anywhere really. They don't seem to hang out together either really. As for uni - except for some few friends I have there already it's burned. People had me for an autist from day 1 for some reason...

>If you made friends already you shouldn't have to ask 'how to make friends' like a retard
Yeah but that happened naturally at Uni really. Outside of that, how am I supposed to find any friends?
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>>36814473
i hate to break it to you then
it's possible that they are your friends while you are not theirs
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>>36814524
As other dude said; if you already have friends you know how to get more. Stop asking dumb questions
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>>36814379
Its werid as fuck when your high on drugs you notice how people react different or even girls start to be attracted to you .. Its werid like your in the twilight zone . Really goes to show you how normies and women really have no self awarness and are just sheeple.
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>>36814659
Yeah man it's everyone else's fault you're unlikeable
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>>36814659
But as robots some of us know what is going on we just dont have the power to use things to our advantage
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>>36814673
Its not that you retarded faggot its just werid how drugs change how people act around me i became aware of it and quut drugs since i cant be happy on drugs anymore since i found this out . Its some kind of metaphysical shit . I didnt change but my mind did and people were acting different around me . What my eyes just looked different so people liked me more?
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>>36814745
>can't figure out that when high he stops being an insufferable cunt
I thought it was pretty simple
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