Have any of you asked out a girl, how did it go?

>>36795550
I never asked any out I'm married now but all the girls asked me out lol

Protip: don't ask girls out online. ALWAYS do it in person. The worst memories of my life came from commiting this mistake

first date I had to kinda push for it and eventually she agreed and it was nice

then I asked again and she said "I only see you as a friend" and I ahvent really spoken to her since

>>36795550
What, in your mind, is the risk?

>>36795550
It's worth it. Do it you faggot, but make sure you're not creepy to improve your chances.

Hint: shy does not equal creepy

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>>36795550
Never asked and here I am, a 27 year old virgin.
Not even mad.

>>36795681
It's a grill I've known since 6th grade, but i havent talked to her in a while

Hey, would you like to do something fun after class?

Ehm no thx, Id rather not...

>>36795550

I got laid last night on a first date, worked out good enough.

About seven years ago I asked a girl out. A colleague. I was 23 or so.

She was fucking beautiful, man. You have no idea.

>"Hey, wanna go out for a drink some time?"
>"Oh, my bf wouldn't appreciate that, haha"
>>a bf which has not been mentioned in any way whatsoever in the four weeks that I've been talking to her on almost a daily basis
>"Ah, okay"

Felt really proud when I did it. Fucking asked a girl, ah yeah!

Then I took the elevator to another floor (at work, remember) and the moment I stepped out again I felt instantly defeated.

such is life

Me and a friend of mine back in high school, unknowingly, asked out the same girl on the same day. She rejected both of us. I got really upset about it for some reason and started sending her shit on Facebook about how she must think she's so popular and cool.

We're all still close friends even now. She mentioned it once when we were drunk and I hated myself for atleast a month

>>36795550
some good, most bad.
anyway, guy in pic related has excellent excellent taste in beer

>>36795550
I don't even know how to ask a girl out. Like, where should I suggest we go? I don't know any places because I'm autistic I can't even drive. What do people usually do for dates?

>>36795945
cafes are pretty safe, any place where you can sit down and talk with her is good

I asked a fugly girl out. She responded positively, but it took a while for her to get back to me. In the mean time, I scored a bf. So I turned her down.

>>36795550
I just did yesterday out to a movie she said yes i then say theres a theater near my house she responds with oh i forgot im going to concert my freind invited me to i dont know the band. Fucking bitches man

>>36795785
Pro-tip: There was no bf.

The only time that I asked a girl out, she screenshoted it sent me a paragraph exposing me for all of my insecurities sent it to everyone and got bullied for the rest of ha because of it.
>feels god man

I asked out three girls in the span of 7 years.

Not well. I simply don't know more girls I could ask out. And I can't get to know any more girls because there are no girls in my social circle. At least no single girls.

Also, I am fat and schizphrenic.

>>36795550
>23
>average looking
>never had the guts asking a girl out on a date

fuck me for being born a coward

>>36795627
What if your only contact with them is through the internet?

Like, you don't have the same friends and what not

>>36795681
>Hint: shy does not equal creepy

For a girl, shy does not equal creepy.

For a guy, shy equals creepy.

>>36796468
thats fucked up what a cunt

>>36796468
Why the fuck would you A: write an autstic paragraph about your insecurities. B: ask out one of those types of women out and C: think it would be a good idea

Okay I know I'm going to out myself as a normalfag. I started browsing here when I was 16 and still thought I was gonna grow up to be a complete robot.

The only time I've made any success with girls, they made the first move. Every time I have asked a girl out they just wanted to be my friend. But on four separate occasions girls have asked me if I wanted to be their boyfriend when I was just trying to be friendly, and two of them were decently attractive.

>>36796468
Don't get me wrong i feel for you but i am a bit disappointed. >>36796746 is me

>>36796758
The last time a woman asked me was in fucking 2008. Hasn't happened since.

>>36796620
this. I have seen girls who are more socially retarded than me that get chads. And usually the guy has to make the moves so when you are a shy beta you are fucked.

>>36796803
That's nearly a decade ago anon

>>36796864
That makes me even more pathetic. I even rejected her because back then I thought I could do better.

>>36796911
How old were you? At the time of that specific incident?

I'm gonna ask my crush out tomorrow, wish me good luck boys. I'm probably gonna regret it, but my stomach's killing me I just want it to be over with.

>>36796963
I was 17 I think. I could be wrong about the year, though

>>36796758
>they made the first move
Do you mean they were strangers but they approached you first or you were friends and they showed indications of wanting more than friendship?

>>36796970
Good luck, just remember that a no is better than not knowing unless you spill your spaghetti and confess or do something irrational like that.

>>36795627
i tried that, it felt like a worse rejection

>>36796980
You're still young bruh not for long though. You can improve yourself and earn a gf yet

>>36797214
I don't want a gf.

I just feel like a failure because I am not like normal people

>>36796970
Post results on 4Chozzle?
>>36796588
Don't worry roasties only want Chad

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>>36795550
>be me, 14 year old actual autist with long hair and action man glasses
>qt3.14 russian grill is one of the very few females that pay attention to me in school
>always touching me, wrestling me, chasing me etc.
>various people begin telling me she likes me despite me knowing she likes someone else
>skype with her once and I jerk off in my kitchen to her moaning spray cum all over the floor and tell her
>she responds with "I am rubbing my leg a lot"
>sends me pic of her lifting her shirt up
>my autism kicks in and for some reason I sperg out and completely deny that's her
>she keeps telling me that's her
>I get angry, hang up the skype call
>for some reason decide now is the time to ask her out and believe the normies lies
>wait an hour for a response
>she rejects me and I sit there with my face in my pillow for an hour
>what the fuck else did I expect
>come into school after the weekend, find out she is now dating my best friend
>normie who kept telling me she liked me and wanted to go out with me pities me and shows his "sympathy"
>this makes me even more angry
>I have since never asked a girl out again

Later on in the year I sperg out and "accidentally" kick the normie who gave me the most advice in the balls, honestly he probably would of beaten me up if others didnt hold him back and account my actions to my immense autism.

>>36795550
Two times, two different girls. It hurts. Is it worth the risk? I would have said yes it is worth the risk but I am not so sure anymore. It hurts, takes months to dull down the pain, never forget, and it gets awkward either if you cut communication with them or choose to continue.

My advice, if you have connections to her through friends or family then I wouldn't recommend it.

>>36795550
yes, twice.

1st
>be 17
>this girl I know since we were kids
>I ask her out
>she hits me with her handbag

2nd this one destroyed my life

>be me 22
>every Friday me and my friends go out, (5males)
>one get a gf and starts taking her with us
>one after another starts getting gf's
>soon it was me my 5 male friends and 5 females
>this new girls starts to go out with us
>all my friends tell me to ask her out because >we were the only single ones
>one day I get the courage
>get her alone for a moment
>and ask her out
>she gives me this loud
>ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME!
>next friday she didn't go out with us nether did one of the couples
>every friday less and less of my friends were going out
>one day they just stopped going out
>turns out they are going out just not taking me because I humiliated their friend by asking her out
>none of my friends gf's like me
>say I'm a bad influence on them
>this was 15 years ago

so yeah no

>>36797437
Damn what a bitch.

Organ

>>36795550

one try, one fail

but I mean she had a bf already

A bunch of them, nothing happened. Just polite rejections and ghosting.
Some did ask me out, though. In the process of asking girls out some caught interest on their own and a lot of good (and eventually sad) things happened.

>>36797437

wow fuck that's horrible. Are you a wizard still?

origami

I actually ended up with a gf without ever going out on a date with her. Here's now it happened.

> Me: a senior in HS. Pathetic KHV virgin.
> First day of band practice, we get assigned positions for field marching.
> I get assigned to stand next to a freshman girl because we both play saxophone.
> She's shy, quiet, mousy, plain, short, thin.
> We hardly talk at all for the first couple of weeks.
> Finally, we have our first football halftime performance.
> Afterward, I see her head over to bleachers to watch the 2nd half of the game.
> She sits by herself on bleachers.
> I realize this is the first opportunity of my lifetime, so I decide to grab the brass ring.
> I go up and sit next to her and banter about how the performance went.
> I ask her the usual boring stuff about her classes and teachers.
> Skip forward one week, the next game.
> We do exactly the same thing -- sit and watch the 2nd half together.
> This becomes our usual thing after every game.
> Skip forward a few weeks to the homecoming game.
> I suggest we take a walk over by the baseball diamond where it's quiet.
> She agrees. We go walking.
> My hidden inner alpha emerges and I say: "I like hanging with you, this is cool".
> She says: "yeah, this feels nice".
> She says: "I'm getting cold."
> As a joke, I extend my arms and laugh: "We can huddle to preserve body heat".
> She likes that idea and hugs me. betterthanexpected.jpg
> I say: Let's head back to the band room.
> We hold hands along the way. My mind is reeling.
> We go to the dark hallway outside of the band room.
> I look in her eyes. We kiss for the first time.
> We start hanging out a lot more after that. No formal dating, just hanging.
> About 2 months later, we're kissing in the same hallway again.
> My inner alpha emerges again and I say:
> "Being with you makes me feel better than anything I've ever experienced."
> "When I look at you, I see the future -- a future where we could be together."
> She starts crying.

>>36797757
yes, lvl 7 wizard, will be lvl 8 in September

>>36797839
(continued)
> She starts crying.
> But I notice that she also has a big smile while she's crying.
> At that moment I realize that I'm in love.
> Spend the rest of my senior year in bliss.
> During college, I drive back every weekend to be with her.
> We secretly talk about getting married some day.
> We keep it a secret for about 2 years...
> ... then we spring the secret on everyone just after she gradates HS.
> Skip forward another 2 years later.
> Just found out last week we'll be having our first kid in November.

>>36797859
Please stop it's not fun to read you're shitting up the thread

>>36797839
Fucking hidden

>>36797437
Women like these need to be raped until they regret being born into this world.
Simple rejection is one thing but acting like such a spoiled whore about it should be punishable with torture.

>>36797859
Wtf do you want here then you faggot, humble bragging?
You will have a kid and are still so insecure that you have to piss down on social pariahs on a mongolian basket weaving forum? Fucking sad.

>>36798014
No not Women like those
Just Women

>>36797859
Yo anon I honestly congratulate you. Well done getting out of this swamp. I wish you, your qt, and future kid the best. Keep praying for us robots still stuck here.

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I did coke in a bathroom at a party with a girl I've known for a few years. She had to pee so I told her to just pee in front of me then we did coke off the toilet and then I asked if she was single and we made out for a little while people pounded on the door. Rest of the night was kind of weird and I was definitely really amped up trying to get her home with me. She eventually gave me a ride home and I apologized for coming on too strong and jokingly blamed the drugs (still coked out of my mind at this point). I told her I enjoyed it and asked her if she wanted to do it again. She said yes and we swapped numbers. I texted her a few days later and pic related is all I got. Shit sucks

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>>36795550
True story

I was 15. Got the number of a girl that I liked years before (ie when I was 10). Talk to her a lot. Pretty fucking great, she seems into me.

Decide to ask her out...through facebook...in a group chat

Of course, randomly saying 'do you wanna go out?' is pretty confusing so no one knew what was going on.

In our private conversation, she messages me saying 'was that to me?'

Then the autism kicks in, go back to the group chat and say 'YOU KNOW IT IS YOU. ANSWER THE QUESTION, BITCH'


The worst part is not that she agreed (because that shows pretty shitty moral character), but that she turned out to be a huge fucking cunt in every way.

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>>36797859
>tfw I'm 22 now and almost out of college
>fall head over heels for a qt 2 years younger than me
>part of this is probably because I view her as my last chance at having a sweet, young adult college romance like this
>tfw she's already experiencing this with someone else
>tfw I'll never be with her
>tfw I'll probably spend years wondering if I could've had something like this with her had we met under different circumstances
Good on you for managing to find someone like that though, anon.

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>>36795770

HOW

teach me your ways my lad.

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>>36795550
>go to a reddit meetup
>see 6-7/10
>buy her a few drinks
>when i mean I few I mean 150$ worth of drinks split between us
>get her drunk she hugs me
>try to get in a strip club with them
>bouncer can smell the stench of rum from a mile away
>let's everyone in
>"hahaha I guess I'll see you guys later"
>crash in the middle of the street
>wakeup cold lonely and freezing
>go home
>call Emma on her phone
>"Hey so I'm anon from yesterday and I was wondering if..."
>"I'm actually kinda busy right now can I talk later"
>ok.ini
>I get the message and never call again
>I learned a valuable lesson that day
>Never buy drinks for women
>Never ask anyone out

Couldn't say i've never actually ASKED someone. I've only ever been asked or done that weird dance where we're just doing all the things couples do and its just assumed or been forced to choose.

There are other things in life beside women
REEEEEEEEEE
you fucking normie filth ruin everything can you just FUCK OFF

There are no girls here, they dont want us and we don't want them


leave us alone

>>36799991
>no girls here
I like to think i exist.

>>36800027
Who said that?

Is there a ghost in here?

>>36795550
I got the only 2 girls numbers i asked for in the last year, one was about a 5 or 6 and the other was like a 2 though, had sex with the better one and just kissed and didn't ever reply to the 2, i'm a fatass in process of losing weight and am too scared to try for hotter woman

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>>36796405
Oh. Ok. So I will be feeling things today. Alright. I'm not even that guy but ok

>>36795550
Govt. mandated gf WHeN

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>>36795550
I've never asked out a girl, but I've had a few that "thought" I was asking them out.

It was kinda cringeworthy. At work, I will ask people for their #'s to create a work order, and sometimes when I ask it quick, the girl will misunderstand and smile. I always catch it late so I can never capitalize.

>>36800027
>I like to think i exist.
all fembots are required to register publicly as practice girlfriends. If you cannot satisfy this requirement, then please leave.

>>36801267
Please see.
>>36800477
Originalanigiro

>>36801485
that is the problem with women, they have one bad experience and apply that experience to all men they ever meet for the rest of time.

>>36802903
I can't help that i'm now aware of dangers i was previously oblivious to. The main issue is i just have issues actively filtering possibly dangerous behavior and what is just social ineptness because i'm not all that socially capable eiter.

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No, but I was close. Back in HS I got enough courage to talk to a girl finally. Legs shaking, stuttering, and everything. I somehow managed to do well, and we at least got to know each other.

I was planning on talking to her more the next day, but my friend ruined it. He has a class with her, and supposedly he was telling her how much of a loser I was. How I was a weeb, never want to leave the house, etc.
The next day I went to talk to her, she gave me the cold shoulder. My other friend told me what happened, and I felt horrible. I yelled at my friend about it, but just ended up forgiving him.
Me and him were friends for too long for me to break it up over a girl I probably had no chance with anyway.

Haven't talked to a girl since then. Mostly because (which is funny that my friend was right after all) I'm a neet and stay at home all day. So it's been like 5 years since then.

>>36795550
>I'm wondering if it's worth the risk

Let me tell you my rejections first and then I'll answer that

Girl 1
>Be friend-zoned by qt 6/10 girl
>Always beta orbited so much, she got annoyed by me and treated me like shit
>Want to leave her, but a part of me still wanted to stay with her
>Decided to just tell her my feelings
Sigh, it's even more beta than that
I wrote a long as love note and read it to her
>"I'll think about it"
>the next week, she rejected me by text
>We've stopped hanging out a week later

Girl 2
>Go to her house
>She opens the door
>Asked out 9/10 qt acquaintance
>"WWhhhhyyyy?"
>Start to stammer and got confused
>"Ugh. I'll think about it"
>"What that does that mean?"
>"I'll think about it. Bye."
>Go home
>Later on, search up "I'll think about it"
>"No."
>Week later she says "Can we still be friends?"
>Now, we don't even like each other

girl 3
>At work
>qt Asian chick started talking to me
>We had a conversation and some laughs
>"Hey, do you wanna hang out after work"
>"Um. I'll think about it"
>"Okay I'll see ya."
>I didn't see her again"

cont

>>36804290
girl 4
>on the bus
>girl on the bus
>Recognize her from work and she talked to me once
>decided to balls up and talk to her
>we had a good conversation
>Our stop was coming
>"Hey, text me sometime"
>"Oh, but I'm not sure you have my number"
>"Okay, let me give it to you."
>"Oh it's okay, when we see each other, I'll give it to you"
>See her again
>She ignores me/tried hard not to maintain eye contact
>Notthisshitagain.gif
>Since she lives close, I have to suffer awkward run-ins with each other

Girl 5
>Notice another girl from work on the bus
>ballsed up and talked to her
>had a good conversation
>Her stop is coming
>"Oh hey, can I get your number?"
>"Eh, it's kinda late right now. Maybe another time"
>I know it's another rejection
>"Yeah, sure another time"
>She leaves, I grunted on the way home

Girl 6
>One last free ticket to amusement park
>decided to use it to finally ask out my oneitis that works there
>Go there
>She's there
>Ask if I can talk to her in private for a short moment
>Few minutes later she comes out
>I try to have a convo with her first
>"Yeah, um, but anon, what did you want to talk to me about"
>Think to myself "Dammit, I gotta come out with it now"
>"I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime. With me?"
>"Wait as in hang out?"
>Legeorgecostanzaface.jpg
>Nnnooo, I mean I wanna take you out"
>She blushes
>"Wow" "I don't know" "Uh, I'm seeing someone right now..."
>Didn't get me that upset/ had a feeling she was
>"But we can hang out, okay?"
>I think she's lying. Either way, I wouldn't really want to hang out with her again anyways
>"Sure"
>We hugged
>Said goodbye
>Went home miserable/tired
>Went to sleep for hours

>>36796468
If I were you, I'd be grateful to have dodged a bullet. She'd know so much more about you if you guys had dated.

>>36804335
Girl 7
>New work place
>Break time
>See qt girl sitting alone
>Ballsed up and sit next to her to talk
>try to make conversation and ask her about herself
>Mostly short replies and she didn't bother to reciprocate conversation
>she kept texting her cell
>asked if she wanted to grab something to eat
>"No, I just ate."
>Said okay, then I left

Girl 8

>Been seeing girl for a few months
>Really feel like she'll be the one for me
>Lowered my standards (fat, taller than me, but cute in a way) but might as well
>always talked/flirted with her at night through the phone
>one day she asked if I only wanted her for sex
>"WTF?"
>Got mad at her and told her no
>Decided to to see her in person again and ask her out this time
>I finally explained myself, told her I actually liked her and wanted to go out
>she said no, but she did considered it before

This one time she asked me out for St. Valentines day, but I wasn't even sure if I should make a move or not. I had to ask if I could hold her hand and she said no. It was just a friend date or something. After that, we didn't talk much.

>>36796970
Dude rape her lol

Well, on May 16th, I'm gonna ask out a girl for the first time in my life. So there's that.

She'll probably say no. But I can't complain if I don't try.

>>36804406
>>36795550
>I'm wondering if it's worth the risk.

Despite embarrassment and the feeling like you're unworthy, yes it's worth it. However, I've stopped trying to pursue women, but as I grew, I also gain learning experiences about women. I don't still don't know how to properly ask one out, but I do know things that I SHOULDN'T do like I've done in the past. Here's the thing: You have to believe in yourself. Believe that no matter what the consequences are, you must talk to her in person and ask her out.

Keep. Your. Spaghetti. Together.

>>36804406
>>36804335
>>36804290
you remind me of a kid I knew in college.

He would always talk to me about asking girls out. He was a tall lanky dweeb with no self-awareness. I didn't have the heart to tell him he was his own worst enemy.

>>36804639
>He was a tall lanky dweeb with no self-awareness. I didn't have the heart to tell him he was his own worst enemy.

You should had probably tell him. But in a less rude, blunt way. Not getting laid in college is a huge bummer

>>36797839
Fuck you dude... no one told me it was okay to hit on 14yr olds as a senior I probably could have made it
>>36799159
I know this feel to well

>>36795550
work up to it. have it be a girl you know is into it. be like are you blah blah later? would you be interested in hanging out or something? either she will respond enthusiastically or kind of get nervous and equivocate, you will know right away

>>36795602
Die die die norman scum

>>36795550
Considering the reward is having to continue talking to a woman I doubt its worth the risk

Once. I said I went to the movies, she said there qas a long time she didnt went to the movies and wanted to go, then I asked her out and she said yes.

As you can see, I only asked her out when she pretty much told me to.

i tried a few times, one time when i was in college. i was a little pissed off since she said no. another girl said no, i don't go out with virgins. it was kind of a shot in the heart. another time i was going to ask a girl out but i got cockblocked. her mom even told me not to ask her out. i'm a chad outside but inside a robot.

Yes, once. I was rejected.

I've asked out about 10 or so, all said no

>>36805101
>i don't go out with virgin

What the fuck is wrong with girls? A virgin girl is man's dream but girls think you're disgusting if you're a man and virgin.

>>36795550
the thing is to be flirty about it, not submissive

>>36795731
Find excuses to socially interact with her more first, like public events. Otherwise it will be super creepy.

>>36805498
Cause you don't have any sexual experience so you're gonna be a disappointment. Nothing worse than some guy who doesn't know how to use his hands or thinks just jackhammering it to the finish line in 30 seconds is how sex works.

They wont say yes if you dont ask.

>>36795550

>asking a girl "out"

Do socially inept people actually do this? Real life is not a fucking anime where you confess feelings at someone, for fucks sake. That shit is for Junior High, where you learn how to fucking coordinate your behavior socially.

Normal fucking people meet at a bar or a party, hook up, and then continue seeing each other. It's not anything "planned", that's why "how we met" stories are so fun. Like, jesus christ, if there's actually a person in your life who is a candidate for you to "ask out", then fucking stop and don't do that shit, it's not how any of this works.

>>36795550
>asked out plenty of girls, the lower my standards dropped the more rude they were in rejecting me
But I'm a repulsive fuck, maybe you lads stand a better chance. Good luck.

>>36805498

>a virgin girl is man's dream

Negative, that's a fucking mouthbreather's dream because he lacks social awareness. No normal man wants some fucking idiot awkwardly teething his dick and taking three months to finally be broken in enough to enjoy sex rather than complaining and ending it prematurely every time because it's uncomfortable. Virgins are always frustrating to deal with, and only a total fucking loser would idolize virgins because they're insecure and believe the only way they could stand out to a girl is to literally be the only person who ever fucked them. How pathetic is that? Grow a spine.

>>36805771
This. Beinf a virgin of any gender is bad. Its worse than dancing with someone bad at dancing fucking it all up its dancing with someone who's never danced so you have to TEACH them how to dance and all the while they're wanting to stop or being really awkward and you're just trying to enjoy yourself but you can't because they're holding you back.

i gave a girl of box of choclates and my number once
she texted me saying she had a boyfreind, recently found out she doesnt have a boyfreind

>>36805877
why the fuck would you do that retard

>>36805877
>>36795785
>>36797633

Why do guys fall for this meme? There is usually no bf. Girls like to
a) reject you lightly with this if you are butt ugly or retarded or
b) challenge you to see how alpha you are

EVERY decent girl has some guy she considers her """boyfriend""".

I had a girl show me pictures of a cute guy and tell me he was her boyfriend and we hooked up that same night.

It's not uncommon. I've had girls tell me around the start of the conversation that they have boyfriends blah blah. It's about not giving a fuck and going on. Unless I know the girl/guy personally (from work etc.) I couldn't give less of a fuck about hooking up with some dude's girlfriend, it's her choice to fuck me after all.

My friend talks to me all the time about her boyfriend's sexual inadequacies, and sometimes I have half a mind to make a move on her, but I really do enjoy talking to her more than I imagine sex with her (as she describes it) would be.

What all this has made me realise is that women are generally a pack of lousy, scummy bitches. It's made me somewhat bitter towards them.

inb4 get out normie

>>36795550
No. Originally, no. Very original

>>36795550
my body count is 25. I'm 20 years old. I'm also 5'9. Ask me some questions faggots.