There is this girl i really like. There is a point where she

>>36771680
Lmao you are a sad existence

>>36771680
Women can't just wait around for men to see them.
It really sucks for some women who feel that asking out a guy is wrong.
She has to market herself to many men until she finally gets someone to make a move.
If you know they're sleeping together then don't bother, she's a slut, but if she is simply flirting then make a move.

>>36771727
>On r9k
>Calling others sad

You've insulted yourself more than me desu

>>36771680
pretty beta and insecure message

just look for someone else, don't burn any bridges now though.

>>36771747
She's still a virgin, and i want to take it. I flirt with her on call and chat, but we never get the time to meet up

>>36771680
I'm going to give you advice I sadly would never dare follow:

Ask her out for coffee. Preferably in person.

If she says yes, great. Flirt with her during the coffee (yeah I have no idea how to do this either) and try to go for a second thing. Escalate the physical (again, I'm too much of a supergroup for this).

If she says no, or says "I'm busy" without proposing a different time, she's not into you.

Girls will never, ever make a move. You have to do all the work if you like her.

oh jeez
dude, please do yourself a favor and forget all about her. I'd strongly suggest you abandon all contact you have with her, delete all her pics you got saved etc

You did nothing wrong, don't feel bad. Just cut your losses and move on, I urge you.
I know you probably won't (I know I would not) but let me tell you: There is 0 chance of anything happening with her. Absolutely zero.

Once again, forget her. I'm doing this for you, anon

>how do u want ur body senpai
Just skip my leg day up

>>36771799
do this OP
This is the only way to find out anyway

>>36771778
you never even met up
KEK

what makes you think you even had a chance?
you never even met. if you want her the first thing you need to do is get her out.

>>36771799
>>36771801
We went to a movie once where we were holding hands and she put her head on my shoulders. I kissed her on the cheek, at the end of the night. Should've gone for the kiss. Anyway we're both busy and haven't had another chance to meet up. It's tough to forget all that.

>>36771757
Not him but you're still the saddest in this thread.

>>36771839
Read, this extremely original comment of mine
>>36771842

>>36771799
>supergroup

It should say sperg. Phoneposter btfo.

Fuck, I really wish I could do this with a girl at work, we've been talking a few times over coffee in the break room and she's really great, but it's been 4 months and her coworker talked just last week about fixing her up with some dude.

You gotta move fast, like Sonic. Plus it'll be better for your mental health.

Stop it nigger

>>36771842
ok so just consider it a nice experience and a success up to that point and leave it at that.

I'm honestly not trying to make you feel bad, I'm trying to save you from a huge deal of a heartbreak. I've been through this too many times and trust me, this shit can break you.

Keep in mind you did nothing wrong, you did not fail. REMEMBER THAT!
Find some new girl you like, ask her out for a movie and do the same shit you did with her, and then try to take it one step further.

I'm asking you anon, don't make the same mistakes I did

>>36771906
Makes sense, thanks man. It's fucking tough getting over a chick you really like.
But i guess I'll live.
Has anyone read models? And do you think it would help a guy in my situation.

I hate seeing guys who look worse then me get pussy. I'm slowly turning into the supreme gentleman and i fucking hate it.

How do I get really fucking manly?

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>>36771949
I wish someone had given me the advice I just gave you 10 years ago.
I know it hurts but, again, you are not a failure. Don't you fucking dare to forget that! You did not do anything wrong.

Here are two more general recommendations:
> 1) spend as many time you can with females (except for her)
Go to movies and do shit with girls, even (expecially) with girls you have absolutely 0 interest in. Talk to them, if you feel comfortable enough, be open about everything. But as soon as you do that, consider her out of the picture for good in terms of dating

> 2) spend as much time as you can with guys who are good with women
It's a well known fact that Cad is secretly a robot's best friend, you can learn from him. Just don't let your feeling of inferiority get in the way.

Good luck, anon
I hope you do better than me

>>36771680
she's taking a fine specimen of BBC, just admit white boi

>>36771778
Everyone wants to take but no one wants to give.
You better marry her, not everyone wants to just give up their virginity without any commitment.
Otherwise you're just an emotional user.

Should've made fun of him skipping leg day instead.

>>36772154
Yes because girls care about legs.
Lmao go back to /fit/ and stare at Scooby's body.

>>36772151
I really like her, but i wouldn't ever marry a girl who is used goods. Not would i feel good about fucking and chucking. Sadly I'm not that type of guy. Unfortunately that's the type of guys girls want nowadays, especially when they are young

>>36771680
Her feet are ugly
Drop her

>>36772219
>lifting to impress girls
>doing anything to impress girls

>>36772762
>Being a neet autistic virgin
Never said i lifted for girls, i said girls don't care about legs. Doesn't mean i don't train my legs.
Kys retard

>>36772538
Y-yes because they are in sand

>>36771747
>Make move on girl

OMG DON'T TALK TO ME CREEP

>>36771778
>She's still a virgin

What kind of virgin?

>>36772219
The whole point of what the other guy is saying is to not let her become used goods. If you want to take her virginity, you should marry her.

>>36772981
Like an actual virgin, she's made out with guys, and done top half stuff.

>>36773044
>Anyway we're both busy and haven't had another chance to meet up.
She's had time to get BLACKED though

>>36772813
I mean you said how girls don't care about leg muscles and I just pointed out how girls opinion shouldn't matter when it comes to lifting, most attention you get for being buff is by dudes anyways

>>36771680
You do not need to show your insecurity by saying anything about this pic. You know better Anon

>>36773044
>Made out with guys

Sluuuuuuuut

>>36771680
Why can't I stop staring at his bulge

>>36773170
I know, what to do? It's like a norm nowadays. I'm happy to find a virgin at least. I have a 16 year old sister who's much worse.

>>36773133
No, you said point out how weak his legs are, to which I said, girls don't care about legs, to which you replied with
>lifting to impress girls
Which somehow implied I lift to impress girls, which is not true.

I agree about getting attention from men.

>>36771680
what you should do op is when talking to her and kinda bring it up, example of a proper way of doing it:
>so that one guy in that one photo, he seems pretty chill maybe we could all meet up some time add do something.
*then keep her talking about him and look for signs if she likes him or just a friend {pro tip: dont actually meet up, keep cancelling on last second or cancel once with a big excuse like your mom needs help with legal issues so you dont think youll have time for it anymore}*
example of WHAT NOT TO DO:
>so... that guy... is he your bf?

>>36771680
OP here.
Guys fuck it. Saw her snapchat. I really shouldn't have, but she was enjoying with friends. Whereas she tells me she's busy with exams. I guess she was flaking on me, but she was the one who set up the dates, because she wanted to meet me.

Anyways, I should just say I'm over her, but that would be lying to myself and you guys, but I'm definitely going to get over her. Thank you everyone who helped me out.
Time for some self improvement.

The fact that you are even asking means there was no hope to begin with

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>>36771680

No, it does not signal all hope is lost.
However, it does signal the beginning of competition. In the modern world, women have most of the power and want multiple men to proposition them. Women enjoy curating many options.

Today, every man is a "cuck" and must fight other men directly or indirectly to win a female's attention. There is no such thing as a dignified man who dates. Women live a power fantasy and get off thinking about all the men who are competing for them. If you want this woman, you need to approach her strongly, directly, and without hesitation. You must show her that you have a decisive mind and that you choose her before any other female, and that you will destroy any man who gets in your way. You must approach with the knowledge that she has many options, but also with the confidence that you are the best option among many. You must prove that you are the best option.

If you do not like this cuck-game then drop out of dating right now. I did, and I am happier for it. Playing the game involves stupid childish shit like stoking small flames of jealousy, posting instagram pics to exaggerate your lifestyle every weekend, and creating emotional roller coasters for the female by withholding affection (i.e. not texting back) and etc. You must also accept the fact that the female will have sex with a few of her options just to test the water before settling on you. If you confront her about it, you will be dumped.

If this is the life you want to live then proceed, and if not then drop out. But whatever you do, know without doubt that these are your only 2 options. You cannot live the fantasy life you see in movies with a sweet romance free of jealousy and games. That is not the life women plan for you, and women control all of the resources in the modern dating world.

t. Big Daddy with dating experience from all over the U.S.

>>36773695
Did you read this very original comment of mine? I appreciate your effort but alas
>>36773371

I really don't understand why she'd set up a date and then flake, but now I don't care

>>36773772

>I really don't understand why she'd set up a date and then flake, but now I don't care

LMAO women are the biggest flakes ever, you have no idea.

the rule of thumb is that if it's some sort of promise or agreement, expect a woman to not follow through with it. even something as small as a lunch date, it's a god damn miracle for them to actually show.

>>36773772
I wrote this as general advice to shape your mindset to what it needs to be.

I didn't have hope for this specific situation.
If you want success in the future, you must approach all women as if they have 15 options, because that is inveritably true, and you must prove that you are the best among them.

It is a totally imbalanced equation and it is not fair in the slightest, but that is the game you must play if you want a girlfriend. If you don't like all the work you'll have to do for a simple average girlfriend then drop out now like I did. I am too dignified to subject myself to that crap.

>>36773872
[follow up]

also if you want to know what I do instead, I just hire escorts. It curtails all of the bullshit and gives you control again. Sadly, this is the only way that men can have power when seeking women.

>>36773837
Unless you're a Chad, and she can't wait to suck your dick