who /can'tpissinpublic/ here? I can do it in an empty bathroom but as soon as someone else is there I can't go no matter how much I need to pee. Makes me angry, I didn't have this problem a year ago.
I'm not quite that bad. I can't use urinals but if I go into a stall I'm OK.
Me to bro, been this way for a while
It can really effect social situations
It's even extremely difficult to go in a private bathroom if people are outside or there's any pressure
Depends if I have to go really bad, I'm okay but otherwise it can be hard if its super busy.
Pooping is same, unless I really gotta go...fuck dat. I never pooped in school for a reason.
Pissing is fine, preferably with a one urinal buffer zone. Pooping, on the other hand, is strictly in case of emergency only. Public toilets are disgusting, I don't care what kind of prevention techniques you employ.
>>36714629
>>36714635
I can go if there's a stall open since I can always close myself in. I rarely poop but if I do sometimes I hover over the bowl if I really don't want to touch the seat.
Another bathroom question, do you guys wipe sitting down or standing up? I always stand since I don't want my penis or hands to touch the bowl or water.
>>36714565
I cant even pee in the stall if someone else is in another stall.
>>36714700
>oh god is he thinking about me
>hes thinking when im gonna start peeing
>why isnt there a stream already
>he sees my feet pointing towards the bowl
>oh god what a weirdo
>>36714693
Sitting. I'm a grower, so there's no risk of dipping my dick in the water.
>>36714565
Just focus on pissing, and ignore all surrounding. The one stall buffer is always a good thing, but if you can't just stare directly down, and don't move your head, at all.
>>36714565
I keep meaning to make a thread about this but I forget
I can't piss in a urinal unless the bathroom is completely empty, I can only piss in a stall if people are around
>>36714565
I can piss in a urinal just fine but only in the short ones because I'm a manlet and I'm afraid of my dick touching the urinal if I use the higher ones
>>36714565
Me. It's fucking hell. I've been meaning to do some exposure therapy but it costs too much. I suppose I can just find a pee buddy online but that's a bit out of my comfort zone.
>>36715300
>I suppose I can just find a pee buddy online
>I suppose I can just find a pee buddy
>I suppose I can just find a pee buddy
>I can just find a pee buddy
>pee buddy
>pee buddy
Anon it's your father here, I think we need to have a talk
That's why I love these speakers in public bathrooms. They should be made a world standard.
https://youtu.be/fYJuDsISNtA
>>36715323
Don't bully me I have a serious disability.
>>36714565
>I didn't have this problem a year ago.
FUCKING THIS
I didn't have this problem before I read about other people having this problem.
>>36714880
My exact thought process. It's terrible
>>36714565
I think its because your defence instincts kick in when you're trying to pee/poo, you're more valnurable when doing your business
/can't shit in public/ here
>>36714565
if you can't piss in public you aren't at capacity. congrats on filling your bladder quota. it's a valuable skill
>>36714629
>Depends if I have to go really bad
But they'll leak.
Urinals are so gross.
exact opposite for me
as soon as i realize i am in an situation where I cant go to the toilet whenever i want, i get nerveous as fuck and have to piss
>in the subway
>in exams
>in every part of my life
>>36714565
I've had this problem since I was 15. It comes on and off throughout the last 5 years. I even got it checked then and the doctor said it's just anxiety.
This problem came back recently and the way I piss is I check if anyone is there.
>If there is I pretend to wash my hands while pushing my bladder to be at the piss stage.
That should buy enough time for them to leave. If it's multiple opponents (normies)
>I will then really push my bladder and when it starts to leak a bit I would go.
If it doesn't work I would get out come back 10 minutes later.
Me, I can't use urinals at all. In stall I can go pretty easily when I just focus what I am doing.
>>36714565
I usually just tell myself I HAVE to pee when I stop counting and mentally count down from five. Unfortunately its effectiveness is inverse to the number of people per sq m in the bathroom.
Any other techniques you use to battle public toilet anxiety?
>>36716113
This. Pee in public no problem, but going into a stall and taking a shit is nightmare tier. I feel extremely vulnerable, like any moment someone's gonna burst in or throw something over the top and there's nothing I can do
>>36714565
I can, but it takes me a while. For some weird reason i have to think about somebody encouraging me, usually my dad. Try it, it might help.
>>36714565
op, do you know about the breath-hold technique? it's the only way i've been able to defeat pee anxiety
I can't pee with anxiety either. It's all in the muscles. You have to relax them.
I never shit or use urinals when somebody else is in the room. When I was in high school, I wouldn't drop a deuce until I got home.
>>36714565
Thought I was the only one. I'm sort of happy I'm not alone.
>>36715300
> I suppose I can just find a pee buddy online
Is that even a thing?
I am pee shy too, could stand there with my dick out and nothing will come out. Also feel very uncontrollable shitting in a stall if other people in the bathroom, particularly hate hearing people fart and grunt