why didnt you just date the shy girl anon

>>36684747
She has standards

>>36684747
I thought she would hate me

>>36684747
Because the shy girl is not going to make any moves on you and if you're shy yourself then you're not going to do anything so then you're at a standoff, you idiot.

Because there was no shy girl.

>>36684747
When I was still in school around girls I just jerked off and played videogames because girls weren't interesting to me.

I lie, there was one I liked but she wasn't into me. She was confused. Very big and strong. Kept trying to get rid of me.

99% of women still don't interest me to this day.

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>>36684772
And even when one person makes a move the other just runs away and it's forgotten within a week

>>36684763
this.
I started dating one of the shiest girls ever and then she told me she had already rejected 3 guys before me because she just didn't like them.
I could not believe my ears

>>36684747
I did, several times. They have issues man, worse issues than me.

>>36684747
I tried.
It was painfully obvious to everyone else how infatuated I was.
I did a lot of stupid shit.
After she rejected me I got called a stalker for the rest of the year.
Couple years later she apologizes for how she acted, and if that wasn't baffling enough for me, says she would've gone to prom with me if I asked.
I stopped trying to understand people.

I am the shy girl

I am a shy boy.

There was no "shy girl"

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Because I was shy. They also sometimes either already have boyfriends or are not interested. In our delusions, we think they're cute animu girls who get overlooked and need someone to open up to, but we're always competing with other men. Other shy girls are probably ghosts and just as elusive.

Moral: Don't be a shy male.

>>36684747
They're pains in the ass, and uninteresting at their core, much like shy guys. Give me some tomboy or genki bitch any day of the week

>ask out shy girl who i would consider a 5/10 in most peoples eyes
>im not good enough for her
shy girls arent insanely desperate like us sorry to say

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>Date a shy girl
>Turns out to be an uninteresting girl with a low-sex drive and still possessing a huge crush on her ex
Why can't they be like our sweet waifus

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>>36685701
>talks about uninteresting
>thinks in weeb terms
I'm sure you'll find your Haruhi Suzumiya one day, Kyon.

I tried and it ended inconclusively

>>36685815
>Loyal to a fault
>Non lewd to a fault
How is that not pure

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I asked out a shy girl last year. She was probably like a 7, she said no.

Now she's dating a popular black guy and she's gotten 10x hotter. feelsbadman

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>>36685852
Haruhi doesn't exist in real life.
Oh, how I wish she did.

>>36684747
She decided Chad was a better partner, even if he dumped her. Can't even trust the shy, nerdy girl. They all should die.

>>36686124
>Loyal to a fault
To her ex lmao

my oneitis had a chubby friend who i think liked me but i was not into thicc at the time. the girl i originally liked isn't even qt anymore, don't know how the thicc friend looks right now, but probably not that good

we were friends and i was too afraid of ruining our friendship if she rejected me

>>36686433
Even if ur waifu doesnt love you, you still love her dude

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Where do I getta de sauce?

>>36684747
I was too alcoholic at the time, and besides she smoked weed which I fucking hate despite trying to make it work for me about 100 times.

I want the shy girl more than anything, but my area only has obnoxious Stacies who yell and swear.

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How was I supposed to guess which shy girls had a crush on me? Im not a 4chanteller

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>>36684747
WHERE
H
E
R
E

do you find them for fucks sake

>I did

sex was the bomb

>>36684747
why the hell do women always color in their fucking nails?? I just never understand that.

>>36687463
because other girls color their nails

Because she wants Chad, too.

>Extremely shy myself
>Shy girl in class
>Try to talk to them
>They pretend they don't hear me
>Try again
>Still pretend, looking straight forward making no movements
>Try a few other times over the next few months
>Same reaction every time
I know she heard and it hurt

>>36688690
I tried that once and knew it was futile afterwards

thinking of high school brings nothing but pain

I did. Lasted 5 years. Now all i have left is a personality disorder and suicidal depression.

>>36684747
How does one properly approach a shy girl? I'm thinking about starting to sit next to one but I'm not sure if that would be too direct and scare her off.

>>36684747
>tfw you were the only person she bothered talking to and she still wasn't interested in going out with you

>>36684747
That picture fUcking enrages me. I have cute bangs and I sit in a chair and play my PS3 all day while drinking hard liquor and i always have my bottles everywhere. This bitch is doing it like it's a fucking style, forcing the apathetic look to loOk so "a e S t h e t I c " and dead inside to be le originalio

The "shy girl" already has a bf. They're never really single for long.

The "nerd girl" is a massive whore. I saw her (17) tongue fucking a Mexican (32) at the park while sitting on his lap in broad daylight.

Because I'm an idiot. She even showed interest, and I ignored her.

>>36688835
Yeah but the girl in the picture is actually cute.

>>36688835
She's also cosplaying and a female (female), can you say the same of yourself?

>>36684747
I actually recognise this girl because of the fucking orbiters on this board

>>36688835
This so fucking bad. Those bottles aren't even open.

>>36684747
But the shy quiet girl I'm friends with fucks chads though

>>36684775
This.
Never met a shy girl.

>>36684763
first post, etc.

>>36684904
Shy girls are insecure guys go to.

They are just as surrounded by guys as chads. Except it's mentally ill and creepy guys

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I did and she blew me off and turned out to be a fucking whore.

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>see shy qt in class
>chase after her
>get rejected
>bro takes pity on me
>is like bro she's a ho
>ask for proof
>see vid of her getting gangbanged
>this is her everyday life outside of class
>mfw

Shy girls are usually below 5/10 and aren't interesting at all, if that wasn't enough they don't respect their gender role and have the lowest sex drive.

>>36684747

a fragile loving shy girl is just a fantasy propagated through forms of entertainment and other media

i have not met such a creature, infact all women who have hated me so far in life fit the profile of a real shy girl and they talk shit about you behind your back and secretly wish you would get run the fuck over by a trolley

it is because of this that i cannot co-exist with a shy girl as a romantic partner if they are unwilling to accept certain criticisms, or have some sort of neurotic OCD where they will enter fits of rage over disorganization because i leave my shit and my guns everywhere. It is just not worth the effort to try and be genuine with someone and have a certain level of sincerity when i am just going to be met with a defense mechanism to avoid communicating feelings of real human emotion in the form of a meme or some other inappropriate sarcasm or irony. It's really shitty.

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nobody dated me when I was in highschool except this one chad asshole who decided I wasn't worth the slow pace and railed my friend.

I only ever got to hold his hand. Why are chads so cruel to shy grills?

I'm not even unattractive.

>>36690253
Because you didn't put out. Should've let him dicked you.

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>>36690274
But what about muh saving myself for marriage?

I'm 26. KV.

I tried hard.

>>36684747
I did, it turned out when I gave her some self-confidence she wanted to become a Stacy all along

>>36690318
You fell for a meme. Virginity doesn't mean anything, and those who actually cares that you've been dicked by a few guys are severely mentally ill. That's why you find that sort of mentality on /r9k/ so often.

Go taste a penis. It'll be good for you. Assuming you're still attractive.

>>36688800
Persistence is key. Remain relaxed and positive, continue talking to her until she starts to open up. Any approach is fine as long as it's clear that you are genuinely interested in her. When guys asked me out too quickly, or in public places, I always turned them down because I felt that they wouldn't like my real personality. A shy girl will feel really lucky if you flirt with her, but only once you've gotten to know her.

>>36690344
I'm on r9k I have severe social anxiety. It's why I'm shygirl.png

And yeah I guess I'm still attractive but the guys I'm attracted to is so meme-tier "Oh god why" nobody will ever believe I'm being real with them about liking them.

>>36690404
What kind of guys? Are you a fuccboi chaser?

>>36690253
>>36690318
He wanted to get his dick yet. Since he felt blueballed by you, he went for other options. Gotta face the fact the most of the world isn't interested in "saving it" and won't be considerate toward you if they feel they don't have to. It's a shame, but it's true.

>>36685852
>tomboy
>weeb
The term has been in the western vocabulary for centuries.

>>36690477
He used genki as well. He was thinking in terms of anime characters.

>>36690419
Pudgy guys who aren't too attractive. I'm at least a 7 though. Gotta be taller than me which isn't a high bar I'm only 5'7.

>>36690428
I was being a little sarcastic. But I do wanna save myself for a serious relationship at least. Just never had one.

>>36690498
Of couse.
But you used plural, when there was only a single one.

>>36690514
>Pudgy guys who aren't too attractive.

So pretty much any cyborg who goes to /r9k/?

>taller than 5'7
Oh nevermind most /r9k/ wouldn't qualify anyway.

Where are you from, virginbot?

>>36690528
I said he was thinking in weeb terms, not just using one. Which is why I joked about Haruhi and he wants a girl like that, like many of us want girls like those in 2d.

>>36684747
I didn't really like her, personalitywise

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Why the fuck are you retards talking to this dumb roastie cunt ITT

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>>36690546
Somewhat I just think guys like that are really cute. I'm crushing on an online friend who's like a 4 at best. But to me he's really super cute.

I'm from the US.

Because the shy girl I was crushing on had a boyfriend 4 years her senior that she was having sex with regularly in high school.

>>36690658
Are you okay with younger guys? I'm tall and a bit pudgy, but I'm 25. Post contact!

>>36686577
I feel your feel and it made me feel a feel

>>36690514
>But I do wanna save myself for a serious relationship at least. Just never had one.
In theory, you should have a better chance since you're an adult and not dealing with horny teens anymore. But you are an oddity like the rest of us and many people aren't going to be considerate of that.

I hope you get what you want without having to compromise too much. We need more success stories.

>>36690350
Actually sounds like sound advice. I'll try to keep a slow, but persistent approach. I probably should've started earlier in the term but oh well. Thanks anon.

>>36690689
Younger guys are okay. Uhh. I'm a bit scared on the contact info though.

>>36690771
CRIPPLING social anxiety, I should correct myself from earlier.

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>>36684747
I approached a shy girl who liked Anime & Games, nerd like me.

Months later She was fucked by my (former) best friend (not anymore).

Then She quickly became a slut and started fucking other guys.

I still a nerd virgin, but I have fewer friends now.

>>36690350
Clearly you have to overcome your own shyness and feelings of inadequacy. That's some work, ma'am, but it must be done.

I met a female robot on here, we met last year and she stayed at my place for a month.

We are basically the same person.

Find you are self a shy qt, anons.

>>36690826
>Uhh. I'm a bit scared on the contact info though.
I can leave a throwaway if that's easier for you, if you don't want your own contact info public.

I'm experienced talking to people with social anxiety. I'm not looking for any strings or hookups here, just someone to talk to.

>>36688793
Same here, only it lasted 14 years. She ruined my life basically. And now she isn't shy anymore.

>>36690826
>CRIPPLING social anxiety
Well shit. Good luck still.

>>36691032
yep, shy girls are parasites who want to suck any confidence you have and keep it for themselves so they can leave you with zero while they've climbed the social ladder

>>36684747
>I tried talking to a shygirl but most of the time she would just give me short answer and get embarrassed and say nothing and kept to her phone. eventually decided it wasn't worth it

>would occasionally jerk of to her legs and feet because she would wear skirts and open toed sandles

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>>36690890
sorry... thank though

>>36691046
I'm just gonna keep hoping online crush boy finally gets that I got a thing for him. He's joked about flying me out to him before but yeeaah I'm sure you can guess my response.

>>36684747
My school was so small that there was only one high functioning shy girl and she was a lesbian.

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>>36691128
>sorry... thank though
Oh, okay.

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>>36691163
i-it's not you though! uhh please don't feel bad

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>>36691214
It's okay. Don't worry, anon.

>>36691226
f-fine but I'm not good at conversations

>lonely femanon posts, gives criteria for being her bf
>guys meet criteria, ask for contact info
>femanon doesn't give

Every time.

>>36691612
She gave, but deleted the post.

Still haven't accepted though. Maybe her anxiety to got her, or she went to sleep

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>>36691612
>>36691681
I posted it but they took too long and I got nervous and deleted. Sorry. The social anxiety is real

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>>36691733
I didn't mean to take long, I sent an e-mail first and waited for a reply. But then I realize you probably posted a skype profile, not an e-mail.

I feel very stupid.

>>36684775
THIS

shy girls are not exists anymore

>>36691759
Really? I never got an email. Might wanna try again maybe? Nothing is in my spam and I typed the email correct.

>>36691825
Oh, what a mystery.

I sent from a teknik.io e-mail before. Trying again from a gmail now.

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I tried
I'm more shy than the shy girl

>>36690771
>>We need more success stories.

There are success stories though. The problem is anyone who succeeds, instantly doesn't belong here from that moment on and are deemed normies and either leave or stay to get shunned.

>>36689527
would they pull the lever to kill you with a trolley or watch you die with 4 other orbiters?

>>36684747
Because shy girls are the mostly sluttier than any Stacy you ever knew...

>>36684747
because they only want Chad too
even if you somehow manage to get with her, unless she's ugly as fuck and Chad doesn't want her she'll throw the pussy at Chad at the slightest opportunity
at this point she'll be either cheating on you, straight up leaving you for Chad or even cucking you while you watch if you're beta enough to stay with her because you still want Chad's leftovers

they're all the same, don't fall into their trap

>>36684747
Because shy girls are mostly sluttier than any Stacy you ever knew...

>>36692077
Naturally, they are banned from /r9k/.

>>36684747
She rejected me because she was to busy obessed with some more attractive guy. who would rarely talk to her and boast about ignoring her.

she tried getting in contact a few years later after she got pumped and dumped
"oh anon you were so right , I should have listen to you, he mentally messed me up"

>>36684747
Because the shy girl preferred to be Chad's onahole number 54873 than date the shy boy.

>>36684747
Cause she never liked me

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>>36684747

It doesn't matter what 'type' of girl you get with. In the end, they'll all drain your life away. Men are nothing but a prop in their movies that are their lives

It's because they also wanted the Thundercocks

>>36684747
Because I'm unsure how to approach anybody, regardless of social confidence

>>36693418
>the mgtow actually believes this

>>36685615
>>36685624
>>36685667
wut is gon on here

>>36684747
Half rejected me, half I cheated on and dumped.

Because I wanted to hurt her.
She was so small and timid.
I just wanted to squeeze her, to make her cry.

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>ITT normies who doesn't understand social anxiety.

You don't just """date""" the shy girl. If anyone of you actually understood social anxiety, you would realise you don't talk to people at all. Even if you try, you will fail cause you will never be able to take it one step further. Youre all fucking normies.

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>>36684747
They're still normies, anonomono.

>>36690514
>been fatass before
>there are girls who would have liked that me
Bravo avocado, the bait is good but sadly I'm already getting towards thin mode.

because she already had a bf

>>36684747
>wagekek
>shy qt manic pixie dream girl gets hired
>fembot-tier autist
>10/10 sense of humor, redpilled on certain things
>wears all Goodwill everything, has good taste in indie music
>tells me literally "i dont have any friends, i like to be alone"
>adds me on social media; i discover she has a shitload of followers and likes on what little content she posts
>develops minor crush on me, pretends to care about my interest and hobbies
>asks me out
>always had an excuse for why she didn't want to hang out
>randomly quits job out of nowhere, ghosts me
>only hangs out with niggers now, has the cliche niggerfied white girl look (gained weight, huge hoop earrings, overdone nails, etc.)

Dodged a bullet there, right?

>>36689042
I did. I talked to her but she almost didn't speak to me. I think she thought I was very boring.

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>>36684747
The mask traumatized me. I realized we had nothing in common beyond our equal dislike for the human race. She was also a lesbian and wanted to cook me for dinner.

>>36689527
>a fragile loving shy girl is just a fantasy propagated through forms of entertainment and other media
if only your argument was focused more on this part

>>36684747
I tried. She friendzoned me.

>>36690514
>5'7
Suicide you should commit.

>>36691612
There are two possible conclusions to this:

>1. Femanons are afraid of giving contact info to a community full of weirdos, sociopaths and worst of all: ugly men.

>2. Most "femanons" are guys pretending to be girls only to get attention.

>>36684747
any "shy" girl in my experience is just a low key stacy whore

>>36684747
I tried talking to different shy girls. The outcasts, the furries, anyone who was a female and wasn't a Stacy (I can't stand Stacy). I befriended some, though quickly they all crashed and burned. One accused me of masturbating to her voice because I was breathing heavily. One got upset when I broke all communication due to realizing I was a terrible friend, then when I regretted it didn't want me around. One was drunk when I talked to them, then regretted talking to me and avoided all communication. Regardless of female, I am a toxic individual. Even if I got into a relationship, I would seek to hurt her so she could find someone better.

I've known plenty of shy girls. They're picky, probably moreso than the Stacies.

>>36684747

I'm not sure why I didn't when I was in middle school, but in high school I realized I wasn't into girls enough to date them.

>>36688690

A shy girl basically did that to me, where she was in your position. Though she was two years younger, so we weren't classmates. She failed because I was a tranny.

>>36696626
This fucking this.
>seemingly smart, shy, decent girl
>slowly find out she's been passed around by guys like a blunt on 4/20.