If she rejected me once, should I keep trying?

By and large, there is very very little chance of going from friend zoned to bf. It's essentially impossible, but really nothing is impossible, so to answer you: if you keep trying you will just look desperate, making it even less possible.

Here's an analogy: if you did your very best to...let's say break a wooden board with your hand, but you just hurt your hand, do you think that if you just kept on trying that it would change anything?
In answer, it would change something: your hand would get hurt more and more.

You don't need to make one person your focus, less so when they're not interested in you. Work on yourself, but not for her, do it for yourself.

You dumbass why would she become your girlfriend when she could get an Alpha while youre orbiting her so you could be the one she complains about her bf to.

Here's a hint, look for a perfect 10 girl, create a relationship with her, perhaps friends or not, don't matter, go on an unassuming date and make sure you tell the girl you like about how amazing this girl is and how glad you have her to talk to about it.... seek to make her jealous and rethink your value... the more women in your life who are taking up your time keeping you away from her, will make your company seem more valuable.... Build up your value you pathetic betabot.

>>36681953
There's nothing ambiguous about it. She doesn't want a relationship with you and never will. Don't pretend to be friends with girls just because you think it will get you into a relationship later. It won't.

>>36682127

Should I really have expected any other response from /r9k/?

>>36682113

I don't feel like I need to work on myself. It's either people like me for who I am or fuck them; I'm not changing for anyone. I will however work on whatever pleases me such as body figure and my acne.

>>36682334
For people to "like you as you are," what you are needs to be something good.

Move on. Think of it as a test, if she wants you afterr you cut her off completely, there is a chance. Don't stick around so she can keep you in the friendzone.

>>36682370

I am a good person. I'm average looking, a good listener, lots of friends, and my awkwardness is a source of humor within my friendships.

The only negative I can currently think of though is that I'm a 19/yo NEET.

>>36682334
>Should I really have expected any other response

That guy gave you really good advice. If you don't recognize that now, you will when you're older. Trust me.

>>36682469
i dont hate women but they really are wired to only value men that society deems as valuable. being NEET puts you at a negative value. you are a drain on society, you would be a drain on her. subconsciously she evaluates all of this and deems your genetic material as undesirable and therefore will have no romantic or sexual response to you.
the only way to stay NEET and have women is to appear physically strong or aesthetically pleasing in some way, appealing to the most basic, and strongest instincts. if you look strong, her little woman brain will think that any offspring she produces will be strong, healthy and have a good survival rate. Even still society will try to convince her that you are not worth her reproductive potential. her friends will ask her why you dont have a job. her parents will do the same, often in front of you.
so you have 3 options, get a job (this is the worst option)
become a weightlifting NEET (only possible if your parents are wealthy enough to support your dietary needs)
or stay NEET, change nothing, live like you are now until you're 30 years old trying to order helium tanks off amazon.

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>>36682334

I figured it out your problem, unfortunately she's become the projection of your internal ideal, a role she is bound to fail...

This is unhealthy and unfair to you both... she wants a friend but has an obsessive, you have a friend but want a lover. Your goals don't mesh. You are each using one another to fulfill your own selfish desires...

>>36681953
If you still want to be friends no.
If you really want to be with her, yes, but you will
have to live with the consequences instead of backing down again