I just realized after 20 years that me being molested as a kid

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2017-05-01 12:16:39 Post No. 36680260
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Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:16:39 Post No. 36680260 [Report]

I just realized after 20 years that me being molested as a kid by a teacher at school fucked up my life. Nobody knows it happened to me, I've never sought help from mental health services.

Turning 30 soon and I'm still a shut-in NEET because of it, dropped out of high-school, never held a job, don't drive, never been able to make friends for 20+ years, never been able to get a GF since can't even fathom sexual stuff.

Parents keep telling me I need to go see a psychologist because there's obviously something wrong with me. I think I'm ready to go now, I've accepted the fact I literally cannot function in society because of this shit.

What can I expect a psychologist to help with? Should I just tell them from the start? I've self-diagnosed myself with severe depression, anxiety and AvPD.

Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:19:17 Post No.36680331
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Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:19:17 Post No.36680331 [Report]

>>36680260
sometimes it's nice just to have an unbiased ear listen. Yes, tell them from the start anything and everything you want to say. They will guide you in conversation, so don't stress about it too much. This is an important first step

Proud of you, anon.

Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:22:15 Post No.36680407
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Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:22:15 Post No.36680407 [Report]

>>36680260
>What can I expect a psychologist to help with?
Unfortunately, psychologists are just like everyone else, some of them are useless and some of them have firm and stupid beliefs that are covering up their own problems.

You should definitely tell them straight away. If it's something you think you might chicken out on, just literally tell them straight away and say that you were worried you'd never tell them otherwise. They'll get it.

Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:23:37 Post No.36680437
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Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:23:37 Post No.36680437 [Report]

>>36680260
Woah woah woah was it a girl teacher?

Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:28:27 Post No.36680573
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Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:28:27 Post No.36680573 [Report]

>>36680260

Sounds like you need to get some compo. Find the best Jew lawyer you can

Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:28:47 Post No.36680581
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Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:28:47 Post No.36680581 [Report]

Obviously need the full story to assist.

Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:36:25 Post No.36680756
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Anonymous 2017-05-01 12:36:25 Post No.36680756 [Report]

>>36680331
>>36680407

Ok thanks.

Going to a local GP tomorrow for the first time in 10+ years tomorrow get referred to a psychologist.

>>36680573
I don't want anyone to know this happened to me, the damage is done, I don't want to become anymore of a meme to my family. I don't care about material things, money or anything, I have no interest in anything.

Anonymous 2017-05-01 01:10:10 Post No.36681495
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Anonymous 2017-05-01 01:10:10 Post No.36681495 [Report]

Tell us the story, it could be.. uhh .. therapeutic.

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