Worried about my first time

I think what you should be worried is not being able to cum. That's the issue most people have the first time because pussy feels different
Otherwise you shouldn't be too worried, you're a lucky man, you're both virgins

Find a Muslim bull to step in for you if you can't handle it.

>>36550313
>she claims to be a feminist etc etc etc
>hates all the 'stupid immigrants'

>>36549807
I had very similar issues, in fact I wasn't able to get it up the only chance I had to bang my highschool girlfriend, partly because her scary ass Eastern European father was stomping around downstairs at the time but I digress. The main point is that I was worried about it and it happened, which made me more worried the next time, so I was in a worse position than you and I fixed it.

I found the thing that was most helpful was just having the girl face away from me with her bare ass in the air. It's a very hot position to look at and it takes some pressure off not having her look at you and see you messing with the condom or looking at if you have a boner or not.

>>36549807
>don't know whether I should just buy viagra, or what. I have this sinking feeling that I am going to be so nervous I won't be able to maintain an erection.
That's a good plan just have it in case of the worst scenario.
>I am unbelievably worried about not being able to get it up when the time comes.
Relax and do doggystyle as >>36550875
suggests. Start from making out, fingering her pussy and having vaginal penetration. If you cum too fast, return to fingering and after 10-15 minutes, go into her again.

I have recently gotten a pseudo gf and she is black. I've had sec with 2 girls before and ever had a problem cumming except I am very bad at being on top so the girl always ends up riding me. Haven't fucked this girl yet but she's blown me and jerked me off. I get a hardon very easily but I just can't cum from that. First time she blew me I didn't finish, then a few days later she tried a handjob for like half an hour and gave up. That happened once before with another girl but I came after a long time. The second time this new girl blew me I couldn't cum so I just told her to be very consistent and repetitive with her hand motions while sucking the head. Worked like a charm. When I jerk off I just do the same motion over and over again and it's easy. Focus on that and you'll be fine OP

>>36551007
>I get a hardon very easily but I just can't cum from that
Too much of masturbation from porn?

>>36551046
Beats me. I think because the Jews mutilated me. Also girls don't really know their way around a dick. Although desu I don't even really enjoy the physical side of it; even sex. Idk why but always the thought of what I am doing is hotter than actually doing it. Think something's wrong with my brain

>>36551083
dude you are fucked

>says this and has never had sex

I don't really watch porn, and if I do its amateur, the dirtier and shittly filmed the better.

I idealize loving sex. I don't find the concept of a prostitute attractive.

>>36551163
Tbh when the girl really likes me I get turned off. I prefer girls that I like more than they like me. This new is kind of different though. She def likes me more but I'm moving soon so idk. I have an opportunity to "cheat" with a girl who is less attractive than her and way older, thinking about doing it but idk. I really care about this girl and don't want to hurt her. But i gotta be free. Anyway yeah one time I hooked up with this girl and then next day she spent all day with me and basically told me she'd be my slave and she loved me and I just totally bailed. I was so bored making out with her. I get bored fast usually. Even physical stuff idc about. Not bored with this new one but very worried and full of dread for some reason

>this will never happen to you

What is the point in even continuing t b h

>>36551307
I thought the exact same. There is this app called 'vent', you can meet really fucking autistic girls on there. You make short 'vents' and people interact with different emotions. Just follow everyone that interacts and message them.

>>36549807
why would you come to r9k for advice about sex?