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I'm the 'guy who hasn't masturbated for over a year'.
If you're bored of masturbating, then trying to quit will show you just how addicted you are. I hated being controlled by a genetic imperative so easily. The disconnect between horny mental state and 'post fap' mental state was a physical shock to me. I hated that deeply, how I was blatantly shown how little control I had other my own thought processes.
Another was emotional stability reasons- I was an infrequent masturbator anyway- once every 2-5 days (There's a reason why but it's a tangent), and I'd noticed that on the masturbation day I'd be different. I'd be angrier, easily saddened or enraged.
This I hated because again it was lack of control over myself.
There were two other reasons:
Sleep deprival, where night-time arousal was causing me to awaken over and over again during the night and preventing me from sleeping. Giving me a lose-lose situation since knocking one out would raise my heart rate and wake me up anyway.
Another was random daytime arousal. IT felt like I'd be spending most of each day in heat, like some kind of animal. It felt like a constant strain. A constant strain of desire that I detested.
http://issoutv.com/view.php?v=58fa16b448016
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Every time I felt tempted to masturbate again I reminded myself of these core reasons and the desire could be suppressed.
Now this isn't perfect, I still have a sex drive, but I no longer feel as if it's eating away at me any more. I feel a lot more in control of my thoughts and actions.
There's no doubt a placebo factor in my personal beliefs here, but it's clear to me that it can't account for everything.
The overall point here being that you should formulate and harden key reasons that matter to you and write them down somewhere. Then you can look them up to remind your arousal-addled brain as to why you were doing this in the first place.
Your brain actively deletes and ignores memories to get you to engage in sexual activity, when you're forming your judgement call and making a decision, so having this hard and written down and unalterable by your brain manipulating you to get its endorphin fix helps.
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>>36515026
You're pretty hot. I'm gonna fap one last time to you.
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>>36515026
Salut frere, je suppose que t'es de jv avec le lien de issoutv.
J'ai tente le nofap depuis la nouvelle annee et j'arrete pas d'echouer au bout de 2-4 jours, ca fait 4 mois que ca dure j'en peux plus. T'aurais pas des conseils a donner? J'essaye le moins d'aller sur des sites nsfw (jv, 4chan, porn, etc), j'ai meme mis un bloqueur de site sur mon navi, mais rien ne marche pour l'instant, je desactive toujours quand la pulsion devient trop grande.
Comment t'as procede pour faire un an sans mastu?
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>>36515318
Quitter internet. Aucune autre solution.
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>>36515026
>I hated being controlled by a genetic imperative
m'lord
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>>36515318
Le jeune sec aussi. C'est violent mais efficace.
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>>36515394
rhey je suis en vacances jusqu'a septembre, sans potes pour sortir
>>36515410
je commence un jeune (je mange que le soir mais je bois toute la journee quand meme), en quoi c'est reellement efficace? le cerveau se concentre sur le manque de nourriture plus que sur la sexualite? je pense qu'avec l'habitude ca va pas marcher
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>>36515318
Sqlut dude, je suis pas OP mais j'ai la vie nofap de 9 moins maintenant. Pour moi, comme je suis horny je ferme un joint ou deux et je suis contente. Pardons pour le francais mal, je viens de Thailande.
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>>36515026
So what amazing things have you done with your life since you stopped fapping OP
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>>36515318
1 an sans se toucher c'est un trop grand defi, essaie plutot de te debarrasser de la porn apres tu penseras a enlever la masturbation. Le meilleur truc pour arreter jcrois c'est de se tenir occupe et si t'habites avec quelqu'un de garder tes portes ouvertes etc quand t'es sur l'ordi. Jsuis pas OP mais moi ca fait quasiment un an que j'essaie d'arreter et que jpeux durer 1 mois et plus des fois. Ya toujours 1-2 journees ou je retombe dans la porn mais j'en fait une sale overdose et ca me degoute tellement que j'ai pas le choix d'arreter pour au moins une semaine apres. Jcrois que c'est a cause que j'ejacule pas assez et mes impulsions deviennent juste trop fortes. Jtrouve ca plus facile quand jsuis deprime, me toucher et checker la porn c'est le dernier de mes soucis.
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honnetement, se tenir ici c'est pas une bonne idee. Les thumbnails a eux seuls peuvent te trigger le gout de fap.
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>>36515437
Tu fais comme jemis ?
>>36515480
http://issoutv.com/view.php?v=58eca66e067f0
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I've tried no fap several times. Never really managed to do it. I lasted for a month once. I've had 7-10 day streaks too but I always relapsed. Problem is that I'm really bored, I am a NEET and I masturbate out of boredom. If you really want to quit fapping you need a fulfilling life which I do not have.
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>>36515026
Nofap is nothing besides placebo effect. Fapping or nofapping, if the affects are so drastic to your body/brain there's something fucking wrong with you
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I want to stop masturbating too, or at least do it on occasion. Not for the same reasons as you but it's just starting to make me feel guilty. I don't think mastutbation is morally wrong and I'm only vaguely religious, it's just that I'm a grown fucking man and I still haven't felt a vagina but I'm addicted to cucking myself by watching a guy fuck a woman I want to fuck and using my hand to cum. It's disgusting. I think about how much time I've wasted doing this shit. I could've spent that time cultivating skills. I could've spent that time collecting experiences and friends. I could've been learning how to talk to women and attract them. But I'm sitting around jacking off.
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>>36515567
L'autre encule qui spam, des trav est toujours ici ?
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>>36515026
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>>36515200
Wait a minute so you tag teamed Jayden James OP?
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>>36516322
No. Read
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>>36515026
>I'm the 'guy who hasn't masturbated for over a year'."
So fucking what?
I haven't in 20.
The idea that everyone jerks it is ridiculous. Did you know in a massive survey in 1943 they found out that 25% of grown men didn't know what masturbation was?
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>>36516501
>I haven't in 20.
You never ?
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>>36516501
>Did you know in a massive survey in 1943 they found out that 25% of grown men didn't know what masturbation was?
In 1943 nearly every man was able to have a wife to. Feminism changed all of that.
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>>36516591
Why would I?
It is like stoners that ask
>"Man, like, you've never, like, smoked some weed? Maaaaaan, how is that possible?"
Simple - look at the losers that smoke weed.
Look at the people where their day revolves around rubbing one out. See a lot of popular, successful guys in that group?
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>>36516729
70% of all men get married NOW and another 15% have long-term live-in GFs.
The number of women who call themselves feminists has been dropping for decades.
Stop falling for memes
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>>36516841
Nice try kike shill. Way to expose yourself.
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>>36515026
No fucking way I could go a yr. I go a week and my dreams just make me cum anyhow
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>>36515617
> there's something fucking wrong with you
Where do you think you are
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Yeah pretty much all men watch porn and masturbate. Yet some men aren't affected negatively by this. Those that are affected are simply weak and failed to adapt to their suroundings. Survival of the fittest.
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>>36516889
This is the first result from google, loser
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr049.pdf
In 2010 78% of men had been married at least once by age 40.
The kikes want you single so you don't make White kids, moron
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