>on Grindr being a degenerate
>looking for qt traps
>one that seems fairly qt
>kinda funny/smart
>24
>talk for a few days
>he drops the bomb that he is a virgin at 24
>immidiately second guess everyone I previously knew about him
>all of the things I discounted as a bit odd or cute now seem like deal breakers
>while the pics look good, someone would have smashed by now if the reality lined up
>pic related was me gtfoing the situation
What the fuck, is this how stacy feels?
I didn't ask for this shit.
Robots, as failed normie who has posted here since nu-/r9k/ was resurrected, I feel some of your pain. Not all of it, but enough to know you are desperately looking for companionship, and you would want a wholesome companionship where people tell the truth.
If you are over 17, don't ever tell anyone you are a virgin.
>>36501175
bump, orignalaiotrumperino
>>36501175
Since he's a trap he was probably too insecure to actively seek out hookups until then.
You're a disgusting normie for abandoning him over that. No better than the shallow cretins you love to shame on here.
>>36501703
Are you kidding?
Trap and gays in general get more sex than anyone else. It's literally on tap most of the time.
>>36501175
wait why wouldn't you want your trap to be a virgin?
>>36501175
virgin trap has purity
>>36501175
>all of the things I discounted as a bit odd or cute now seem like deal breakers
Can you give some examples?
>>36501897
>likes colour pink a little too much
>#barbie in Instagram photos
>less than 15 likes on a traps Instagram photos
>strange angles in face pics
>>36501996
How did you find any of that tolerable in any way before knowing he is a virgin is beyond me.
Also judging someone based on likes on instagram, kill yourself
>>36502052
Strange angles seems to be a thing in the community, they all like doing it. Even when they are attractive.
The pink, who knows, everyone has a favorite colour, a lot of traps seems to wear black constantly.
>publicly available platform where people openly attention seek
If they look for attention and no one gives it to them, is this not a red flag? Having no Instagram wouldn't bother me.
>>36502132
Wouldnt you say that those traps that wear exclusively black like the color black a bit too much?
If theyre not successful at getting people to "like" their image i dont think thats their short coming.
Its like a person trying to roll a rock up a hill, simply because hes failing doesnt mean he is bad at everything and so on. Simply means he cannot push that rock up the hill
>>36502219
I do find it a worry, as I often think they are unhappy/insecure and it turns out to be true.
>appearance is a large part of attractiveness
>appearance is disliked by a large portion of a community
When someone links their Instagram in their Grindr profile it's a red flag, when that Instagram is shit and looks like a failed attentionseeking attempt by a 13 year old, how can it not be the biggest red flag since the USSR fell?
>>36501175
Wait, why didn't you want to fug the trap again? You had fresh butt lined up for you.
>>36502916
Disliked by a large portion of the community, fails to get attiention
But it somehow captured your attention enough to talk to them for a few days. So why does it matter?
Beauty is subjective.
>>36503051
Because that many people can't all be wrong.
>>36503968
There is no right or wrong in subjective things