Psychological Issues #42

>inb4 Nick calls everyone's parents abusive narcs

>>36497393

There's a lot of that, to various degrees. If it fits the shoe...

Quiet evening.

>>36497915

It's ok Nick I'm here <3

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>>36498299

Ethan?

Ravioli

>>36498351
That wasn't me but crazy timing because I just got here

How are you doing?

>>36498351

No I am the master of hacking, destroyer of the worlds.
I never forgive and forget and sh.it

I am anonymous!

Hello nick,
was waiting for you.

So a classmate sent me a text asking if I'm free tomorrow at lunch,
I'm free but I don't want to go,
even if I'm sure enough I could have a good time.

he sent it hours ago and I still have to reply.

>>36498408
You aren't shit compared to the 400lb hacker 4chan.

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>>36498400

My telepathy is at work, again.

Not doing too well myself, you?

>>36498408

Do I know you, you mysterious anon?

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>>36498431
>I'm free but I don't want to go,
>even if I'm sure enough I could have a good time.

Reply now, say you're coming and are looking forward to it.

Trust me on this. Don't wait one more minute. Just do it.

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Ethan, I'm in Facet's chatroom, in case.

>>36498444
I'm alright, just got home from a busy dinner service. It's Sunday so it was roast after roast after roast. Have to deal less with that coworker now that the nice is sticking up for me, which is nice. Wish my boyfriends shifts weren't basically the opposite to mine most of the time because I keep getting home right after he's left and I get bored without him

>>36498467
but I already had lunch with a classmate some days ago, that's enough for a month

>>36498514
In case of what? Is anybody else in there?

>>36498514
>You essentially said this to me
>>36498600
Feel free to use the room as you see fit.

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>>36498553
>Have to deal less with that coworker now that the nice is sticking up for me, which is nice.

Good. Glad to see some of my previsions actually happened. In my opinion, this will only continue and he may eventually cease altogether. I also think this guy has a serious problem of his own and his behaviour is a way to vent; it remains absolutely unacceptable, but it's important for you to know that you aren't at fault and it's most likely not even personal.

>I get bored without him

I-I... I understand.

>>36498558

No. It wasn't even the same classmate, was it? See your friends once a week if you can. More if you want and they want.

>>36498600

Nope, just me and Chinese cartoons that are muted.

>>36498631

Damn, you are right. Lots of weird things going on with my current obsession with this goddam film.

I rewatched their last interview, I think it was, and I actually cried. I relate way too much.

Proposed thread theme:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L3wKzyIN1yk

>>36498708
What was it that touched you about the exchange?

>>36498708
he was there too, also
>friends

I don't consider IRL people friends

I return , realized that we are all alone in this world and it was naive to desire help.

The only one who can help me is me.

>>36498644
Even though he's not as bad in the kitchen or when he's around me and the other one any more, if he's alone with me it's the worst, he starts saying violent things and I'm honestly scared of him, I try to leave before him on days like this because I don't want to bump into him in the dark

Why so you like to think of yourself as a being capable of helping? Do you believe the problems of others to be so miniscule to the point where a response within the two thousand character limit of 4chan could possibly better their lives? People are not as simple as your introductory psychology class taught you

saikorojikuru

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>>36498751

I don't like that song because it sounds like what a cheater would say, and having been one, and not having said that, I can't enjoy the song, even though the lyrics may have nothing to do with adultery.

I realise I do a lot of "splitting" like that, and it annoys me. I've cast out entire languages from my life because of that. It's disturbing.

>>36498751
>What was it that touched you about the exchange?

Fuck, even typing about this brings me to tears. Unstable Nickster is unstable. Basically, the idea of being a child (kid Clarice) with nothing, and being sensitive to the fate and suffering of others (lambs), and trying to save them, but being too weak to carry even just one of them.

It's like I have nothing left to do with my life.

Was waiting for an occasion to use this image. Though I do believe Clarice isn't able to carry a lamb away.

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>>36498760
>I don't consider IRL people friends

You should. Please. Offline people may seem to be from a different planet, but they're not, neither are you.

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>>36498795

I'm here to help you. You are not alone. It may be tempting to think one's problems so big that nothing can help, but be brave, and be patient.

>>36498873
Doiu imidesu ka?

>>36498804
>he starts saying violent things and I'm honestly scared of him

Warn him that you may contact the police if he continues. Just one quick sentence. Once he's warned, he has no excuses left.

I really don't like this guy.

>>36498960
I can't bring myself to do it

Captcha: close close
it knows

>>36498885
Self-pardoning and self-forgiveness are closely associated. In fact I had hoped, in part, to remind you that you have your limitations, and you need to remember that to err is indeed human - though I was not specifically referring to the same incident as you. More your general self-contempt. I'd never considered it in terms of adultery but I can understand why you would frame it that way. Perhaps it implies that that is something for which you can't easily forgive yourself. You want to continue to punish yourself for it.

You're correct. Parts of me have entertained drawing your attention to that fact in the past, but their view - and your own now - is too limited. It was necessary that Clarice not save the lamb she bore. The failure haunted her but it also drove her to do something so much greater. Her pain drove her on and she overcame something far more terrible.

>>36499026
I've said it before, but he just says even if I do he'll just jump me. If I just don't annoy him he'll hopefully stop eventually

how do you intend to help

>>36498848
>Why so you like to think of yourself as a being capable of helping?

No: I know I am capable of helping. Not only because I've done it for over 40 threads now, but because I did it before, and I do it as part of my job as well, and amongst my friends, and relationships. I wouldn't be here if I had nothing to deliver.

>Do you believe the problems of others to be so miniscule to the point where a response within the two thousand character limit of 4chan could possibly better their lives?

Loaded question; believing that words can help does not mean that the problems in question are minuscule. Far from that. If you've ever heard "I love you," you know what I mean. Besides, I'm here for the long run and some of the people here have been coming for over a month now.

>People are not as simple as your introductory psychology class taught you

You assume too much, young padawan. People are very complex, but even complexity has patterns. None of that changes the fact that listening to people and caring for them does actually help.

>>36498988
I shall entertain the idea, but in the end it is I must change.

>>36499039
>I can't bring myself to do it

Force yourself to it, you will not regret it. Think of this way: not responding, or saying no will hurt the person who asked you. You don't want them hurt, and you don't want to isolate yourself.

>>36499097
>something for which you can't easily forgive yourself. You want to continue to punish yourself for it.

If I think about it, I don't seek forgiveness for it, because I don't know how to deserve it. I don't think it's possible to be forgiven for something like this. My Loved One told me she forgave me, and I knew she didn't mean it; not that she was lying, she believed she did, and wanted to, but I knew she couldn't, not then, possibly never. I argued the point for a bit and I was right, I had not been forgiven, but that was OK.

I am not, however, punishing myself for it. I'm not sure I have any self-contempt.

>>36499127
>if I do he'll just jump me.

Then he's going to prison. I doubt he means it.

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Is it ok to crave for pain?

I cannot feel anything besides it anymore, no anger, no sorrow, just an empty void.
I sometimes poke at my skin with a knife just to get the sensation, and when its gone i crave it more.
Is something deeply wrong with me?

>>36499139

There are many ways, it depends on what kind of help you need.

>>36499185
Yes, but you don't have to do it alone.

>>36499378

Haven't we figured out last time that you had Borderliney traits?

I'm not sure. Something is deeply wrong with you, but don't feel guilty about it, you're only reacting to something.

When's the last time you felt something?

>>36499370
I hope he doesn't because he keeps saying it. I don't even understand the problem he has with me. I've never done anything to him

I've lost weight, improved my diet, exercise a lot more (cardio and muscle exercises), I socialise, I had a job. For a while I even had a girlfriend. However, no matter what I do, I still feel miserable and melancholy most of the time. Nothing changes this. No amount of female attention or self-improvement changes any aspect of my personality. Arguably, I have gotten worse and more mentally unhinged lately.

Is it possible that maybe I am just completely fucked in the head? I have been this way as long as I can remember.

>>36499451

He probably can't stand that you're a kind person. Maybe he wish he could be this nice, maybe he's jealous that others like you, and not him. I've also wondered if he isn't a repressed homosexual.

>>36499452

Do you feel like there's a hole you can't fill no matter what you do?

>>36499149
>I know I am capable of helping
no you do not, it is impossible to speak in certainties, particularly in the field of psychology, stints of success do not guarantee future sucess
>words can help
I never said words could not help, I merely made note of the simple fact that the assumption that a 4chan post could better a life, is an assumption that that life lacked any real problems
>young padawan
I am the one who is not knowledgeable in psychology despite you completely lacking the understanding that it would be impossible to note the complexities of people within as short a passage as a 4chan post.

I suppose it is unjust of me to take a critical eye to your attempt to help the people of r9k, but I cannot see a world in which someone who understands how complex people are would believe themselves able to help through advice as short as yours. Perhaps you should look into who the threads are really for. Why do you name yourself if not to have these desperate people think of you as their savior?

>>36499412
I think two days ago, i were driving when some brilliant woman driver almost smashed into me, i had to go over the sidewalk to avoid impact, i was boiling.
Nothing else besides that.

>>36499498
No, honestly. There's no "hole", there's just kind of nothing. Nothing really seems worth it, because every joy I feel will be incredibly temporary compared to the suffering I have to induce in other living things in order to feel it. Coupled with that, there's basically no future where I live (not the Falklands), so the effort seems wasted too.

>>36499381
I see. well I appreciate the notion.

As to what I need to do, I am not sure. Read up on BPD and the other thing. Make a plan for certain moods, try and break bad habits.

Unsure as to if seeing a theripst would be of any benefit or a waste of time.

>>36499238
nahh, I don't think I will

>>36499498
> I've also wondered if he isn't a repressed homosexual.

Why do you think that

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>>36499501
>no you do not, it is impossible to speak in certainties,

Look, you can check any of all the threads in the archive: listening to people helps people. Don't listen to me, listen to them.

>the assumption that a 4chan post could better a life, is an assumption that that life lacked any real problems

You're making some logical twists that are uncalled for.

>you completely lacking the understanding that it would be impossible to note the complexities of people within as short a passage as a 4chan post.

More logical twists. Communication can last for weeks and weeks, it doesn't have to be a single post.

>who understands how complex people are would believe themselves able to help through advice as short as yours.

The advice isn't short, and my help isn't just advice. There are very simple ways to help quickly and efficiently, such as in name the problems people may have, since they often don't know that there's a word for what they suffer from, and that they're not alone, and that it's part of this or that condition, which associated types of therapy, and etc.

>Perhaps you should look into who the threads are really for.

They're for everyone involved. Myself not excluded.

>Why do you name yourself if not to have these desperate people think of you as their savior?

Main reason is so people know who is talking to them, and so I can be judged on my past record. I am held accountable because I have a name. You can check the archives and see whether you think what I do is useful or not, helpful or not. That's the main reason why I use a name, so I can be identified.

>these desperate people think of you as their savior?

I'd love nothing better than to be as efficient as that. People generally know why I do what I do.

>>36499522

Any normal emotions beyond anger? Even if you have to go back a long way.

>>36499542

Has it always been this way?

>>36499543

Do see a therapist, and make sure to like them. If not, change.

>>36499590

C'mon, do it!

>>36499651

If he is and he's jealous of you, this could be a motive for him.

>>36499707
Yeah, since I was a little kid. When I was around 7-8 years old, my parents got so concerned with my fucked up apathy and inability to give a shit about anything that they carted me around to a few professionals. I remember always being this way, and it just gets worse with every passing year.

>>36499730

Any abusive behaviour on your parents' part?

And I mean the whole definition:


http://www.blueknot.org.au/Resources/General-Information/Types-of-child-abuse

>>36499720
>If he is and he's jealous of you, this could be a motive for him

I understand the jealousy part, but I don't understand how him being gay could make him act like he is

>>36499756

If he were gay, he could be:

1. jealous of you being gay and OK with it
2. a tsundere

Being gay isn't what makes him behave this way. I'm entertaining the idea that his motives may have to do with that.

>>36499740
We moved a few times during important developmental stages of my life, resulting in a lack of "permanency" to any situation or relationship in my mind. I view nearly everything as realistically or cynically temporary, I think. Didn't even cry when my girlfriend broke up with me because she stopped loving me, I just kind of accepted it as an inevitability.

My parents didn't abuse me, but if they did, it was purely unintentional. The closest thing they have done to "abuse" is threaten me with being kicked out of the house if I didn't find a job, which is pretty normal and based in frustration as opposed to malice or fault.

>>36499707
Hail from England, the NHS free mental health service has my doubts. I have heard that they only deal with vanilla stuff like depression.

What would I even say to them....

If any Engcucks lurk I would appreciate some advice.

>>36499720
I'm pretty sure I won't,
also it's midnight, a bit late for that

>>36499332
I've done far worse, and I don't feel guilt for what I have done. That doesn't mean I don't live in fear of discovery, but those two things are not the same. Beyond a certain point it seems pointless to agonise over it. I've never understood why people consider it so significant, but that's me.

>>36499798
>jealous of you being gay

I don't think he even knows I am though

>>36497393
Frank here from the other day. I think it fits pretty well for my dad.

>>36499801
>I view nearly everything as realistically or cynically temporary

This may have deeper roots than just moving around. When infants are traumatised early, you may have a problem with "object constancy", when babies learn that a hidden object still exists; for some people, in adulthood, this becomes utter panic when their significant other is gone for a few days, or even less.

Do you parents have any mental issues of their own?

>>36499810
I have some fairly elaborate problems, and have found that NHS care is very helpful. That said, they do keep cutting funding. The therapists do their best in spite of, not because of, the funding bodies I'm afraid to say. Nevertheless, there are some talented therapists out there.

>>36499707
I don't think I've ever been truly happy since I've got into uni, that was about 2-3 years ago, thing only went downhill faster from There.

I could remember senior year highschool,
Got into a group of friends, we'd go to the main building's roof and drink/ smoke, life was simpler back then, not a worry in the world.

>>36499876
My mother has on-off depression, father is basically normal as can be. I don't panic when things go away or anything, I just totally accept is a natural part of life. Nothing lasts forever. Change is constant, so don't get too attached. Part of me thinks it's just how I am, mentally. According to some experts I spoke to when I was younger (between 7 and 12), I had "exceptional intelligence" as a child. Nowadays I am pretty average in intellect, but having a really high sense of self-awareness as a kid probably fucked me up to some degree.

>>36499810

Try anyway, it won't cost you a thing, and you may be surprised.

>>36499819

Tomorrow, then.

>>36499829

I don't care to be found it, I'd admitted it freely to a few people and will do it again. If it was a crime, being punished wouldn't faze me. What matters to me is the harm I've done.

Whether it's pointless or not doesn't matter, it's how I feel. I do believe, however, that being in touch with how you feel has very practical results. An idea you should focus on, if I may say.

>>36499836

OK. Maybe he's one of those people who help their own stress by taking it out on others, others who let them. Does he treat anyone else the way he treats you?

>>36499866

Hello Frank. Most abusive parents are Narc parents, when it comes to voluntary abuse. It has a special flavour that you can't mistake.

>>36499950
Easier said than done. It should be completely natural to be in tune with your own feelings, but somehow that isn't the case for me.

>>36499992
Not anybody at my work, no

>>36499882
My thanks for your input Facet.

Perhaps I shall give it a try.

That being said, could you part some wisdom, are you 100% honest to them about your problems?

How do you know who to trust, do I tell the first person I meet?

I feel that telling someone in person will be difficult for me, would not be sure I could straight away. Even then not sure how.

>>36499658
>listening to people helps people
generality that is largely untrue, your continual nature of speaking in certainties is only revealing your lack of experience
>logical twists
I am unsure as to what you mean by this, I do not know if you mean fallacy, but in the event that you do, why is it fallacious to state that if someone was to have their problems vanish over the course of a relatively short conversation, their problems were likely not large to begin?
>the advice isn't short
I should not have used a relative term here, by short I mean less than 12 months, as quelling problems as serious as those found on 4chan should take no less
>myself not excluded
it is honorable that you recognize your selfishness here, but not nearly to the extent that it seems to be apparent within your posts.You have chosen to respond to me instead of help the people here, if your help is so necessary, why have you chosen to defend your honor instead of help these people? Do you know how little your impact is, but refuse to admit it?
>accountable
where did you go to school for psych? When did you finish your degree?
>people generally know why I do what I do
I don't mean to shine a light upon you for others, but rather for yourself. Have you considered that you only try to help others out of the realization you cannot help yourself?

>>36499929
>My mother has on-off depression,

How did that translate in your childhood?

Did you have to console her?

Your exceptional childhood intelligence may have been hypermaturity, usually developed against hardships children don't normally have to face.

>>36500020
I am. As far as I can see, there's nothing that they can do with the information so I'm completely transparent. I do sometimes say things to get a rise out of them though, I have to admit. It gives me a special thrill when I see the little tell that lets me know their attempts to stay neutral have failed.

>>36500007

Well, Bond, you probably think there's no logical reason to feel feels.

>>36500013

I suspect he knows you're nice and kind and won't give him any trouble for bullying you. He sees you as an easy target.

>>36500062
>It gives me a special thrill when I see the little tell that lets me know their attempts to stay neutral have failed.
Could you share us some examples?

>>36500052
I didn't find out she had depression until long after I was like this, probably in my mid-teens, so it had no effect on my childhood. Never had to console her or anything.

>>36497331
I can't do it anymore man, the daily suffering, I'm just so fucking tired...
I take it day-by-day, but when I look back I can't recall a happy memory, it's just been shuffling through it trying to make it to tomorrow.
I think I'm losing my grip, I can't stop crying, I don't know who to turn too or what to do.
I'm fatigued, the whole world is full of strangers going their own way and I feel like I don't belong in it anymore.

>>36500062
I see, I find your viewpoint refreshing and shall strive to fill your footsteps.

I don't think there is an awser to this, but... How do I open up to someone?

When you wear a mask for so long you forget what your face looks like.

>>36500078
That's probably likely. Thank god I don't have to come in tomorrow

>>36500030
>generality that is largely untrue,

That is true, that's why people come.

>your continual nature of speaking in certainties is only revealing your lack of experience

Certainties do exist and it's good to know them. If I eat, I will shit. Guaranteed. Your lack of shitting reveals your lack of certainties.

Yes, I meant logical fallacies. You twist things a certain way as to make it sound logical, but it's largely non-sequiturs. Your conclusions don't actually follow from your premises.

>I should not have used a relative term here, by short I mean less than 12 months, as quelling problems as serious as those found on 4chan should take no less

Have you someone failed to notice that I've advised hundreds of people to seek therapy and have continuously explained why doing so would be a good idea? There are people in this thread who saught therapy because I advised them too. Are you too obtuse to see this?

>it is honorable that you recognize your selfishness here,

I'm doing no such thing. Having an interest in helping others doesn't make it selfish, by definition. Selfishness is when you do things for yourself at the expense of others, which I don't.

>You have chosen to respond to me instead of help the people here, if your help is so necessary, why have you chosen to defend your honor instead of help these people?

You're a special kind of vicious, but the answer is clear to me: people who come here to take pot shots at me usually need help too, but won't admit it until they identify me as strong enough, or qualified enough, to help them. It's a special kind of ego that does that, but I've seen it before, and I have no reason to give up on you before trying. I'm not defending my honor, however, I'm responding to you because you speak to me, which I believe to be the most basic form of respect.

cont.

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>>36500030
>Do you know how little your impact is, but refuse to admit it?

I am certainly more aware of my impact than you are. It's not as little as you seem to think, but either way, any helpful contribution I can make is worth it. I am not concerned with results beyond proving that it's not utterly useless.

>where did you go to school for psych? When did you finish your degree?

If you think a degree makes a good therapist, you have little experience with therapists. Besides, you wouldn't believe any answer I'd give you, so let's not be foolish here.

>Have you considered that you only try to help others out of the realization you cannot help yourself?

Is this the first time you come here? You probably have and are trying to pass this off as a discovery of yours.

>>36500112
>I didn't find out

No memories of your mother crying, or being helpless?

>>36500159

Damn, anon, stay calm and keep posting. And get a name.

I must go to bed very soon, unfortunately.

Others will be here to talk, for you.

>>36500194
Just keep talking. Keep saying things, perhaps starting with those you find hardest and you will unburden yourself. In fact, you will find that the obvious ones don't have nearly as much weight to you yourself than the more hidden things that you have yet to acknowledge.

>>36500108
The only thing that comes to mind is that another woman in therapy he is very close to. She is quite a bit older. So I made a point of dropping that it was no wonder she was so desperate to seek companionship having long-since passed the wall. I also made sure to ask whether she was aware that her behaviour is what ensured that predatory men kept using her daughter, and that they were far less culpable than she was.

In instances such as these, the therapist's eyes widen for just a moment. It's not something he's aware that he does, and I wouldn't like to tell him because then he would steal that satisfaction from me.

>>36500283
>Is this the first time you come here? You probably have and are trying to pass this off as a discovery of yours.

*You probable have (come to threads before)

Otherwise this sentence makes no sense.

I can't help myself because there isn't much I can do, indeed. Helping others has, for a long time, provided me with some momentary peace of mind, but that is fading.

>>36500326
Nope. My mother's depression had no real effect on me at all. I think my misery is my own doing entirely.

>>36500373
>the therapist's eyes widen for just a moment. It's not something he's aware that he does

As did mine, but I'm pretty sure he's aware that he's giving you the OH MY FUCK eyes.

NICK
i'M GOING TO SAY YES

>>36500400

You have no way of knowing how things were when you were a baby, and serious damage can be done at that stage already.

Regardless, trying to make yourself responsible for it all, when it virtually never works that way, is not a wise idea. For one, it'll make you feel even worse, for two, it won't force you to find the actual source.

If you think it's your fault, you can stop looking for a cause, but since it's not the right one, you won't find this version to be of any help. The truth will set you free, not parading as some kind of tough motherfucker who owns up to his mistakes, because that won't help.

A lot of people try to do this, but it generally does nothing but postpone problems.

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>>36500373
>In instances such as these, the therapist's eyes widen for just a moment. It's not something he's aware that he does, and I wouldn't like to tell him because then he would steal that satisfaction from me.
I can see why you wouldn't.

>>36500424

Excellent!

Proud of you. :)

Good going, you won't regret it. Let me know how it goes next time.

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I must sleep, I work tomorrow.

Good night everyone.

>>36500474
If there is an actual source outside of my own head, I doubt I'll be able to find it at all. This is kind of just who I am, and no amount of changing my lifestyle has made it better.

>>36500518
Hey Nick see you around tomorrow

Good night sweet prince.


Originali origami

>>36500207
>your lack of shitting reveals your lack of certainties
false equivalency, the human mind is not nearly as simple as digestion, I don't understand why you thought making this analogy would make me think that you understand how complex it is
>are you too obtuse to see this?
no, but I do not understand the purpose of the thread if the extent of your help is telling people to talk to a professional
>I'm doing no such thing
it's a real pity that I called you honorable for doing so then. Do you not understand the pain you may be bringing to the people you attempt to help, but ill advise? Surely you accept that you must be wrong about this stuff some amount of the time, right? How much suffering must come from the times you are wrong, and is it worth it for the amount you are right? If you help 99% of the people in the thread by directing them to therapists or psychologists, but give a false hope to 1%, which upon their realization that the hope is false, end their lives, is it really worth it?
>you're a special kind of vicious
I am vicious because I genuinely want to help the people who are in pain, but recognize that I am unable to do so? Once again you show your lack of insight into humanity with your assumption that I am only here to "take pot shots" at you. I want to help these people, but I am afraid you will advise some number of them incorrectly which may lead to serious problems for these people.

>>36500373
Interesting. I shall give it a try. I thank you for your insight Facet.

Is it wise to release to the first person I come into contact with, I believe according to their site you meet with someone first who will decide what treatment you get. How do I assure that I get CBT, which is what I believe is the treatment I desire?

>>36500585
You're quite welcome. In such cases, you must read around the treatment and see that your behaviour matches those for which it is normally recommended. This doesn't mean lying: only moderating what you say to include what is useful and omit what is unnecessary to produce the desired outcome.

>>36500406
I'd be disappointed if I wasn't getting under his skin now and again. Not too disappointed, but it is a diversion if I'm feeling down. The thought of him straining to mask his feelings is a lot of fun. Parts of me find him very irritating.

Good night anyway. I hope that everything goes well tomorrow.

>>36497331
>16
>virgin
Girls seem to not been interested in me

>>36500580
>I want to help these people

Then why don't you do it?

Also, I don't see the "risk". No one has ever been given false hope in any thread I've been to. Give an example.

>>36500283
>Is this the first time you come here? You probably have and are trying to pass this off as a discovery of yours.
no, first and last time. This isn't a 'discovery' I did not say absolutely that this is the reasoning for your creating the thread, I merely thought it may be helpful for you to answer this question for yourself.
I'm not going to respond to any more posts, as I feel it would be immoral to obstruct your attempt at aiding any further, just please focus on sending these people to professionals instead of believing yourself as being capable of fixing them

>>36500819
first thing
underage b&

second
where do you think you are

>>36500761
I have much to learn from you.

I shall observe intently.

i haven't been happy basically ever. i have had depression for 17 years, i'm 26. it's obviously never getting better

best way to an hero? preferably includes these elements
>looks like an accident (to not hurt my mom)
>as little pain for me
>little mess
>implicates no one else
>easily obtained materials if needed

thank you.

>>36501145
I'm here every day, so feel free.

>>36501381

bempus

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>>36497331
ITS NICK MY HUSBANDO HERE TO RESCUE US ALL

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>>36502680
You're husbando isn't here tonight. Perhaps I and my cat can help you

>>36502824
Why does your cat have no nose?

Wow thread is dead today.

rip , you shall be fondly remembered

how do i overcome my side effects?

i'm on risperidone and i get involuntary movements in my face and neck.

>>36505148
time for new meds

>>36505442
is abilify better for schizophrenia?