How do people deal with insecurities?

They drink and do drugs

Try not to think about them

>>36496317
But they just creep up on ya

>>36496271
Stay inside all day.

Hate yourself but act like you don't. Never show your true powerlevel to anyone.

I'd like to know this as well, please.

Compare yourself to others and develop a superiority complex, tho every now and then you have mental breakdowns due to low-key self hatred. :)

Pretty sure mine are manifesting as fetishes so I'm having to constantly try and boost my confidence or I'm afraid I'll fall down so deep I'll never come back

I've always been insecure about my meekness, weight issues, and below average penis. All of these probably help fuel my porn addiction which recently escalated dramatically after I discovered sissy hypno porn and gave me slight gender dysphoria which added to my distress and insecurity. Now if I'm good and confident I feel like a real manly man, but when I'm really distressed or insecure I end up fapping several times. Sometimes still to emasculating sissy porn, but not always.
Should I kill myself? (Serious question)

im trying to hide them with humor
works about 60% of the time
but if they dont think your funny it just adds to the problem
>>36498127
if you can be happy as a gay no stay alive

>>36498185
I can't.
I only wanna dominate a woman

>>36498519
Or gentle femdom I'm ok with that too

>>36498519
im not really sure if im up to date on sexuality but arent sissys gay men?
oh well why do you want to kill yourself over a fetish?
if your life is alright there is no reason to

>>36498546
Wait nvm guess I like girls false alarm

>>36498658
I think some sissies are but a good bit are also actually femdom fetishists that get off specifically on gender reversal.

>>36498748
oh i see thanks for explaining

>>36496271
They lie to themselves, anon.

Or they make fools of themselves.

Or they look deeper.

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>>36496271
There are two simple rules that I have developed, regarding an object or occurrence of insecurity:
1. Did it affect others negatively?
2. Did I have any control over it?

Test yourself every time you feel insecure with these.

>be me getting mail
>two turbonormie Stacies walk by
>"That looks awful, why is he wearing a plaid flannel with striped pants?"
>laughinggirls.jpg

Forget them. Doesn't even phase me. I may have control over how I dress, but did I affect anyone negatively? No. No reason for insecurity. If anything, they're laughable and vain.

>be me at swim meet
>my friend is being a klutz and we knock hot chocolate onto a girl's bag
>it was our collective fault, but he likes her, so I take the full blame
>"Oh my God, it's gonna be stained. Be more careful, anon!"
>I apologize and grab napkins to wipe it up

>Did I affect someone negatively?
Somewhat.
>Did I have any control over it?
Well, it's not like I have future vision, so I couldn't have known that me holding my hand up to him running towards me would've ended in hot chocolate on her bag, so no. I still felt bad for messing up, but I eventually fixed it, said sorry, and felt complete closure.

Meanwhile, my friend was all worried, nervous, and insecure over the girl he was afraid of angering. Really shows how adopting certain principles can change one's mindset, then change one's actions.

And that, my friends, is how to be based. Ask me more questions if you have any.

>>36496271
Just dont give a fuck about it mayne.
I might be bad at doing alot of things and so on, but i simply do not care about it. I say yeah i suck and then carry on my way